Kevin Dutton, Ph.D., is a fabulous writer. Unfortunately, in his new book, The Wisdom of Psychopaths—What saints, spies, and serial killers can teach us about success, he uses his prodigious skill with words to promote a fundamentally flawed thesis.
What is the thesis? That psychopathy, “in small doses,” is good for us. Here’s what Dutton writes in the preface of the book:
Psychopathy can also be good for us, at least in moderation. Like anxiety, depression, and quite a few other psychological disorders, it can at times be adaptive. Psychopaths, as we shall discover, have a variety of attributes—personal magnetism and a genius for disguise being just the starter pack—which, once you know how to harness them and keep them in check, often confer considerable advantages not just in the workplace, but in everyday life. Psychopathy is like sunlight. Overexposure can hasten one’s demise in grotesque, carcinogenic fashion. But regulated exposure at controlled and optimal levels can have a significant positive impact on well-being and quality of life.
In the pages that follow we’ll examine these attributes in detail, and learn how incorporating them into our own psychological skill set can dramatically transform our lives. Of course, it’s in no way my intention to glamorize the actions of psychopaths—certainly not the actions of dysfunctional psychopaths, anyway. That would be like glamorizing a cognitive melanoma: the malignant machinations of cancer of the personality. But there’s evidence to suggest that psychopathy, in small doses at least, is personality with a tan—and it can have surprising benefits.
Kevin Dutton has a Ph.D. in psychology. He’s a research psychologist and an honorary affiliated member of the Calleva Research Centre for Evolution and Human Sciences at the University of Oxford, England. In writing The Wisdom of Psychopaths, he interviewed all of the top experts in the field of psychopathy. Then he cherry-picked the information to present an incomplete and lopsided view of psychopathy, emphasizing the “positives” and ignoring the negatives, such as the fact that psychopaths live their lives by exploiting people.
Persuasive writing style
How did he do this? Dutton used tried-and-true techniques of magazine journalists and direct mail copywriters (both of which I am).
The difference between writing for magazines and writing for newspapers is that while news articles are supposed to be objective, magazine articles are unabashedly subjective. (By the way, there is no such thing as objective journalism, even in the newspaper business. Simply selecting which facts to include in a story is subjective. Complete objectivity is impossible.)
The purpose of a magazine article is to convince the reader of the author’s point of view. When I studied magazine journalism at Syracuse University, I was taught to not give equal weight to opposing viewpoints. I was taught to acknowledge opposing viewpoints, then present an argument to prove they were wrong.
For example, Dutton wrote above that he didn’t want to “glamorize the actions of psychopaths,” but then he goes ahead and says psychopathy can have benefits. He spends the rest of his book glamorizing psychopaths, and creating an illusion that psychopaths can be “harnessed” and “kept in check.”
The most dangerous thing Dutton does is employ a direct mail copywriting technique called verisimilitude, which is defined as “the appearance or semblance of truth.” (The comedian Stephen Colbert calls this “truthiness.”) For example, on page 11 Dutton writes:
Psychopaths are fearless, confident, charismatic, ruthless, and focused. Yet contrary to popular belief, they are not necessarily violent. And if that sounds good, well, it is.
The way Dutton describes psychopaths is technically true. But he neglects to mention the most salient characteristics of a psychopath, at least according to Lovefraud’s research: Deceitfulness and manipulation. He also doesn’t include traits like exploitative, irresponsible, aggressive and reckless.
So what would happen if he told the whole truth? Well, here it is:
Psychopaths are fearless, confident, charismatic, ruthless, focused, deceitful, manipulative, exploitative, irresponsible, aggressive and reckless. Yet contrary to popular belief, they are not necessarily violent. And if that sounds good, well, it is.
What do you think? If Dutton wrote the above paragraph on page 11 of the book, would you believe any of the rest of it?
Twisted research
He quotes a multitude of experts and research studies in support of his points, giving the impression that these experts and studies prove what he advocates. Which, in a way, they do. The problem is that Dutton tells only half of the story, uses the experts to support the half that he is telling, and totally ignores the rest of the story.
For example, on page 61, Dutton talks about the work of Scott Lilienfeld, who developed the Psychopathic Personality Inventory, a comprehensive questionnaire designed to work with both criminal and non-criminal psychopaths. Dutton quotes Lilienfeld as saying, “We reasoned that psychopathy was on a spectrum.” Then Dutton writes:
Lilienfeld’s notion of psychopathy being on a spectrum makes a good deal of sense. If psychopathy is conceptualized as an extension of normal personality, then it follows logically that psychopathy itself must be scalar, and that more or less of it in any given context might confer considerable advantages. Such a premise is not without precedent in the annals of mental dysfunction (if, indeed, psychopathy is dysfunctional, given its benefits under certain conditions).
So Dutton quotes Lilienfeld, and then transitions into the statement that more or less psychopathy “might confer considerable advantages.” I wonder if Dutton studied elementary logic, because one statement has nothing to do with the other.
On page 121, Dutton describes a conversation with James Blair, in which he asks, “Does it pay to be a psychopath?” Here’s what comes next:
Blair was cautious. It’s a dangerous road to go down. “It’s true that if bad things are happening the individual with psychopathy might be less worried about it,” he told me. “However, it’s not so clear that their decision making in such situations would be particularly good, though. Moreover, by not analyzing levels of threat appropriately, they might walk into danger, rather than away from it.”
In other words, if we could somehow defrost the reasoning a bit, take some of the chill out of the logic, then yes, psychopathic traits may well confer advantages. Otherwise, forget it.
I did not interpret Blair’s quote to at all signify that “it pays to be a psychopath.” But Dutton brazenly twisted Blair’s words around to suit his own argument.
Cavalier statements
This book is filled with cavalier statements that ignore the essential truth of psychopaths: They are lying, manipulating exploiters who cause considerable damage to almost everyone around them. For example, on page 106 Dutton writes:
Ironically, the rule-bending, risk-taking, thrill-seeking individuals who were responsible for tipping the world economy over the edge are precisely the same personalities who will come to fore in the wreckage.
Hello? Yes, research has indicated that the recent world financial collapse was likely caused by psychopaths. Dutton doesn’t consider this to be a problem?
Then there’s page 163:
Was psychopathy a “medicine for modern times”? Could taking it in moderation, twiddling those dials a little to the right on our respective psychopath mixing decks—at certain times, in certain specific contexts—actually be good for us?
And page 192:
Not all psychopaths are saints. And not all saints are psychopaths. But there’s evidence to suggest that deep within the corridors of the brain, psychopathy and sainthood share secret neural office space. And that some psychopathic attributes—stoicism, the ability to regulate emotion, to live in the moment, to enter altered states of awareness, to be heroic, fearless, yes, even empathic—are also inherently spiritual in nature, and not only improve one’s own well-being, but also that of others.
Regulate emotion? Has Dutton ever witnessed a psychopath flying into a rage? And by the way, this last quote was in the section of the book entitled “Saint Paul—the patron saint of psychopaths.”
Deja vu
I was married to a psychopath. My ex-husband, James Montgomery, personified the traits that Dutton extols: fearless, confident, charismatic, ruthless, and focused. He also personified the traits that Dutton ignored: deceitful, manipulative, exploitative, irresponsible, aggressive and reckless.
As I was reading The Wisdom of Psychopaths, I felt a disturbing sense of deja vu that mounted with each page. About a third of the way through the book, I realized why I was uncomfortable: Kevin Dutton’s writing was very similar that of my ex-husband.
Montgomery was exceptionally proud of his skill with words. Verbally and in writing, he could paint shimmering pictures with his words, glistening images of our lifelong happiness, his future entrepreneurial success, or whatever he was selling at the moment. Sometimes I’d be aware that Montgomery’s statements seemed a bit off, but I was distracted by his vivid descriptions or elegant turns of phrase. Or, there was enough truth in his words that I couldn’t say he was lying. Or, he had neglected to convey full and complete information, which I didn’t discover until much later.
Unlike when I was dealing with my ex-husband, I am able to reread, annotate, and analyze Dutton’s words. I find them to be full of holes, mischaracterizations, distortion and omission. This book is a disservice to society.
I feel sorry for anyone who reads The Wisdom of Psychopaths without a prior understanding of the disorder. Because of Dutton’s flashy writing and extensive references to scientific research, the uninformed reader might actually believe what he says.
Hi Donna,great article!!I saw an interview with him on dutch TV recently,it annoyed me very much,it was exactly how you described him in your article.As if it is something to be proud of,I guess that’s what they temselves believe.I
left my N/P 16 months ago,after 28 years,still in the healing-proces,and the interview made me feel very uncomfortable,couldn’t believe it.They indeed ( try to )destroy everything and everybody around them,been there-done that,and I wonder why they left out the most important info about Psychopaths,therefore I will not recommend the book,unless someone is very well informed about Psychopathy.I think this is disinfo,and not to be believed.It is hard enough that lots of people around us don’t have a clue,most don’t even believe us,or don’t want to know.
Thanks for all the great articles(especially all the comments are a great help too!),your blog is a blessing to all of us,a great help in the healing-proces.
Donna, thank you for the “headsup” on this book – I don’t intend to read it.
What I find in the language being used, today, is that there is a host of excuses and “reasons” that sociopathy is “acceptable” in that most CEO’s and major financial hitters are probably spaths – and, it’s excusable for these people to engage in the things that they do because they run “successful” corporations. Now, this examination doesn’t go on to include the run-of-the-mill sociopaths that the majority of our LoveFraud community have experienced. Joyce’s types of experiences with her son, Patrick, aren’t even on the radar of this work, apparently.
The only thing that I would find even remotely plausible about sociopathy having ANY virtue in existing is that my experiences with sociopaths have deconstructed my whole self, on every level, and left me bare and raw so that I must choose to RE-construct myself, in every way, to be a hard and no-nonsense woman to avoid being exploited, ever again.
Perhaps, Dutton is a sociopath, himself, and feels some vital need to explain why it’s such a service to mankind for him to be so. I don’t know. But, such blatantly FALSE information is truly a disservice to society!
Brightest blessings
I tend to agree that Dutton sounds like a spath himself,who is trying to ‘get the glory’ while sounding very glib on the subject….and yet from your article,Donna,it sounds like he’s trying to ‘stay on the fence’ and not offend anyone….afterall,he wants to sell his book!The flags are flying!
I bought the book and read a few pages of it but not all of it….actually I can see that some professions would benefit from a person high in P traits—like a military dictator, or a mafia don, a prison guard, or prison warden, or in some cases a brain surgeon, but that doesn’t mean the person is a good person or that they would have good relationships with people around them. It only means that they can make decisions based entirely on what their desires are and not what the decision would do to other people, or how it would hurt others.
In fact right this minute I am reading a book on American history of Teddy Roosevelt and how he MANIPULATED the press and the secret deals he made with the Japanese that eventually lead to WWII, there is NO doubt in my mind after reading the truth of his administration and about his and other racially biased “white males” (and there are plenty of quotes and facts in this book to back up the claims) whether it is the murder of men women and children at Wounded Knee or pushing the survivors of the native Americans into “reservations” as “wards” of the “white males” who were the only ones smart enough to control the government. I have no doubt that Teddy Roosevelt was most likely high in P traits in order to do what he did, illegally, and legally, or that Taft, who was his buddy in much of this political use of force in Asia was also high in P traits…they could not have done what they did without being to some extent lacking in empathy. Maybe it was “cultural” in that they had been trained to look down on dark skinned people as inferior, but whatever the reason they did not see anyone except white males as “worthy.”
I have always distrusted politicians and the more history I read the more I distrust them, and I think that they must have high P traits in order to get where they are—the high number of governors and senators and presidents who have been shown to be “high in P traits” I think bears my thesis some validity.
I think I will pass on reading the rest of the book.
Think I’ll skip this one. I’ve already heard all the grandiose reasons these types have to offer for themselves. I don’t need to read a book about it, I lived it.
My take on this is that there are lots of N’s who think they are psychopaths. Because they are selfish and lack empathy, they imagine themselves as better than everyone else –like my spathy sister who said “It’s okay to be evil.” But these N’s are NOT pure psychopaths, because they care about some things, wealth, status, certain objects and certain people whom they view as possessions. They have attachments.
A true psychopath doesn’t care about anything and has no attachments. He may, during a game, strive to attain things, but he doesn’t care about anything, not even himself. For a true psychopath, life and existence is completely meaningless. His “focus on the game” is because he is desperately looking for something to keep him from disappearing. He only exists when the game is afoot. He could win a million dollars and burn it in the next game. It’s only play money after all.
I think Duttons is an N and he doesn’t get P’s at all.
There’s currently a major assessment of the research ‘outputs’ of universities being carried out in the uk by the government and there has been even more intense pressure than usual for academics to get publication deals because this is kex to securing government funding. A book like this was probably cynically pitched by the author to a publisher who could see it as a kind of “sexy” motivational book for a non academic audience. His head of department’s happy, so’ll he be with his royalty cheques. Shame on him.
Clearly the author doesn’t understand his subject matter. Maybe if he lived with a spath (oh, and also worked with them), he’d get a better understanding of what these creatures are like. They are everywhere, wreaking havoc in people’s lives. Everyone that I’ve talked to who has an understanding of these people has been burned by them in some way.
Bluejay,
wouldn’t it be great if we had a “spath on a leash”? Sort of like Dexter from the TV show. Except this spath doesn’t kill, he just goes to live with people who don’t believe us.
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Dibs on the patent/trademark for spath on a leash!
And I know just the spath too. She also goes by the name, “Houseguest from hell”.
I have not read this book. I don’t expect to. But I picked up a book a couple months ago, “Split Second Persuasion: The Ancient Art and New Science of Changing Minds”.
I think if a person wants to call it a trigger or pushing my buttons, I can admit to being predictable with some subjects. Talk about pedophiles and I get sick. The books by Robert Greene affect me too. I tried to read them, to get insight into what was done to me and I couldn’t. I felt overwhelmed with grief.
I felt that way with Kevin Dutton’s previous book. I picked it up at the library, expecting to find insight on how to understand the buying process of clients, how to capture their sale by with certain words or info, and compete in a new way. Instead, another book that made me sick. It was about sliming people, a word for word, sentence by sentence how to manipulate, not how to communicate. Not about how you have 3-5 seconds to capture the imagination of a perspective buyer and show then that my product is a better solution than any they’d find elsewhere.
What a slimeball. It was not an exercise in logic. It morphed into a lovefest. The book ended by gushing about the benefits of being a psychopath. SO NO surprise he took that theme and wrote a whole book on it. I had the thought that he was justifying HIS existence.
EWWW. Since I am adverse to trainwrecks, tragedy, and trauma, I am betting this is NOT entertainment, this is pornography. Tell me I’m wrong, that it’s not like his previous book, and I will read it.