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Con man kidnaps daughter from supervised visitation

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August 1, 2008 //  by Liane Leedom, M.D.//  30 Comments

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It is already Friday and the daughter of Sandra L. Boss has been missing since Sunday when she was abducted from supervised visitation by her father a con artist. On behalf of other victims of love fraud, I want to tell Sandra that we are praying for her and her daughter. We also understand how an intelligent, loving, successful person can be duped.

Sandra L. Boss asks for return of daughter

Last night Sandra appeared before the cameras to ask that her former husband return the child, age 7. To see the video visit ABC News. She gave the following message: “Clark, although many things have changed, you will always be Reigh’s father and I will always be Reigh’s mother,We both love her dearly and have only her best interests and well-being in our hearts. I ask you now, please, please bring ‘Snooks’ back. There has to be a better way for us to solve our differences than this way. Reigh, honey, I love you and miss you so much. Remember you’re always a princess,”

Who was this woman who married and had a child with a con artist?

According to ABC News Sandra Boss, “is a senior partner in the London office of McKinsey & Company. She has done consultant work for New York Sen. Charles Schumer and New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg, and has ties to the Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York and the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston.” According to the New York Post, Sandra met her husband when he dated her identical twin sister. Apparently a friend said, “There was nothing to suspect, really. He said he was a Rockefeller and he always seemed to have money,” said the friend. “Her parents loved him.”

Who is this con man father?

According to ABC News and America’s Most Wanted, Sandra’s ex-husband and Reigh’s father is a con man with no social security number or driver’s license. He used the alias Clark Rockefeller and claimed to be a member of the Rockefeller family. He also used other aliases. Police in Boston have said Rockefeller, who is believed to be 48, has used several aliases with variations on the names James, Frederick, Mills and Clark, as well as Rockefeller. Police are actively searching for prior school records.

According to ABC news, “Investigators also are unclear about Rockefeller’s education history, the official said, despite reports that he commonly told acquaintances he attended Yale and Harvard. Some people have told authorities that Rockefeller said that his parents died in a car crash when he was young; others were told he was homeschooled as a kid.”

People apparently continue to be fooled. One neighbor who knew Rockefeller is quoted as saying, “He had a lot to offer as a person,”

The divorce

Boss and “Rockefeller” divorced last year. All the documents were sealed so we don’t know if Boss was ordered to support “Rockefeller.” Several news agencies allege a custody battle. We know that he was granted only supervised visitation.

The kidnapping

The kidnapping was planned with malice and forethought. “Rockefeller” conned a livery driver into believing he was picking up the daughter from a gay lover who would resist. So when the male social worker tried to retrieve the girl, the livery driver sped off. Another unwitting accomplice was paid $500 to drive the kidnapper and the kidnapped girl from Boston to New York.

The public is confused- and so is Sandra

To give you the full story here I read a number of articles on this story. There is a commentary today in the Boston Herald by Peter Gelzinis, Amid hoopla little girl remains missing. In it he accuses Sandra of being “self-absorbed” and equates her to the con artist! He also points out that Sandra told authorities she did not believe “Rockefeller” would harm the little girl. Police issued the Amber alert though when they gained information that led them to believe otherwise.

One person commenting on the story wrote, “I’m confused if this guy is a fraud, why do they keep saying he kidnapped his daughter. They aren’t related right? This story is confusing me. It’s his daughter? THEN WTF ARE YOU BLABBING ABOUT HIS SECRET BS IDENTITY!!??!?! Stop it and find some real information. “Ohhhh i’m abcnews, here’s a bunch of fake information this guy tells everyone. Wooooh” Find this kidnapped girl.”

Lovefraud’s Mission

It is our job here at Lovefraud.com to end the confusion and ignorance. Thankfully, I found out about this story from an ABC reporter who contacted me through Donna. The reporter asked me if I had a message for Sandra. I’ll print it here then perhaps you who also understand will add yours.

Sandra, although you might have loved this man he appears to be a psychopathic con artist. You have to put your love aside and think with your head about what that means. He is dangerous! You also have to ignore family members and the public who say “A child needs her father.” The child does not need a psychopathic con artist in her life at all. I pray that the child will be found unharmed. I am sorry that the family courts failed you. Remember the judicial system has also failed others including Dr. Amy Castillo. We have to get the courts to recognize the plight of victims of love fraud and the children that result from these acts of psychological rape.

ADDENDUM

Aug 2 The Boston Herald reports that Boss paid “Rockefeller” over 1 million dollars in the divorce settlement. He was denied custody and placed on supervised visitation when he refused to reveal his identitiy. I wonder if anyone related to Boss really understood the nature of this man.

abc News story quoting Donna, myself and Trish.

Saturday, “Rockefeller” was captured in Baltimore, MD. The girl was found unharmed and reunited with her mother. To read about the capure on CNN

Tuesday, 8/5/08 GMA reported this AM that “Rockefeller” may be tied to a CA murder. Stay tuned. As we found out regarding Fred Brito there is no such thing as a benevolent con artist!

Aug 7 The evidence linking Rockefeller to the disappearance of a California couple is quite compelling see the Boston Globe today

Today a family who hosted a German High school student says they are 100% certain that Rockefeller is Christian Karl Gerhartsreiter who came to them from Bavaria at age 17. The family of Christian in Germany has also identified him. One of the aliases used by Gerhartsreiter links him definitively to the missing/dead CA couple. Reports of Christian personality indicate he had psychopathic traits going back to at least age 17. see Baltimore sun Story

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  1. TrishNJ

    August 5, 2008 at 2:47 pm

    I agree that we have to send our letters to our local senators. I am sending mine today to NJ senator Jeff VanDrew. I have been in coorespondence with his assistant for a couple of months now (since I have been dealing with this violation of probation with the S). I told him at the end of my court hearings I would sit down and formulate a letter describing legislation that is need for change. Included in that list which in my case was about reforming plea arrangements, restitution arrangements, psychological evaluations for the criminal and other important issues. I encluded the lovefraud and ABC downloads and have asked for reform of psychological evalutions in the family courts. I talked about the Amy Castillio story. I firmly asked that if an evaluation comes back with Narcissist/sociopath/psychopath that the parent has supervised visits at all times no exceptions. And loss of custody/visitation with threats or severe behavior. Believe me I thought about “What is the point of supervised visits, really” with a N/P/S. The only reason I enclude it is our civil rights as Americans. To satisfy the numnuts out there that will fight for the civil rights of an N/S/P. Quite frankly, I am a victim and I know better! Our local to Federal Gov’t needs to know the seriousness of these individuals and that they cannot be rehabiltated! We have to start now sending our certified letters. I am considering organizing a NJ group on meetup.com. It will happen real soon and I hope others of you can do the same in your state. My group will discuss legislation change for victims of crime (murder, rape, robbery, fraud, and other) There is alot of reform needed and our legislator are not fully aware….let’s make a difference now!

    After I send my letter this week I will let you know what comes of it. I am doing the research on how to hold successful meetings right now…because I want this to work. Any suggestions would be warmly welcomed.

    ((hugs))

    Trish

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  2. Ox Drover

    August 5, 2008 at 3:51 pm

    Dear Trish, I got a link that might be of interest to you

    http://www.distinctioninfamilycourts.com

    and ivatcenters.org

    The first one is a national list for “grades” for various judges, court officers etc in “family court” situations by county in states. You might be able to contribute to that.

    The IVAT is a national associatioon that has a yearly conference for professionals on family violence etc. They have an upcoming conference for a week in september in San Diego. I’d sure love to be able to go to that. Not in the budget this year though as my friend out there that I could have stayed with has passed away.

    Apparently some progress is being made with this situation. Good luck.

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  3. James

    August 5, 2008 at 10:43 pm

    Great news!!!!

    They got him!!!!

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  4. Ox Drover

    August 5, 2008 at 11:12 pm

    NEWS FLASH: Night line tonight says that “Rockefeller” is linked by fingerprints to a 1985 double murder of some wealthy people in california…at the time the murder happened the man whose fiingerprints were taken for a drivers license in california used a German passport.

    Also, the photograph of the guy from california taken in 1985 looks almost identical to “Rockefeller”

    Isn’t this a TWIST? Will be interesting to see what pans out of this one.

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  5. Liane Leedom, M.D.

    August 7, 2008 at 8:54 pm

    See http://www.boston.com/news/local/articles/2008/08/07/in_a_cold_case_chilling_details/?page=full

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  6. Liane Leedom, M.D.

    August 9, 2008 at 10:52 am

    Check back because I am updating this story under the ADDENDUM section every few days as more info comes in.

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  7. Ox Drover

    August 9, 2008 at 11:33 am

    Excuse my ignorance but where is the “ADDENDUM Section?”

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  8. alohatraveler

    August 9, 2008 at 4:00 pm

    The addendum section is added onto the bottom of this article.
    :o)

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  9. newworld view

    August 9, 2008 at 4:55 pm

    well it just keeps getting better….has anyone read about the formenr north carolina lady that went west and became miss wyoming….she disappeared for reasons youll read…..she has now surfaced as the women in all the photos who had her pit bull vloned for 53,000.00 in i think south korea…..these people cant get enough of themselves eh…….read her story, its close to the rockefeller debacle….and i love all the threats they throw out…..10,000,000.00lawsuit against the ap….just how “DUMB” read that out of touch with reality can one get….like john edwards being so arrogant he doesnt think hell get caught…..if it werent causing so much harm to so many, itd almost be funny……take a look at the names she used

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  10. newworld view

    August 9, 2008 at 4:59 pm

    aloha…the newspaper article??…i dont seem to have an addendum area either…or that is just my “adumdum ” lack of computer literacy tks for any help
    and if anyone hasnt seen the lady yet type in cloned dog story gives new life to old sex-slave case or try bernann/ joyce mckinney

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