Kevin Dutton’s “The Wisdom of Psychopaths” is a strange, ultimately disconcerting book. Dutton is erudite and obviously fascinated with his subject—psychopaths. He references some cutting edge research and had access to many heavy hitters in the field of psychopathy experts.
Yet in the end, I find his book very troubling. His thesis is basically what the book’s subversive title suggests—that psychopaths have qualities of “wisdom.” That is, psychopaths, he asserts, have certain admirable, enviable and distinguishing qualities in greater volumes than non-psychopaths, qualities the non-psychopath could benefit from in greater quantity so long as (unlike psychopaths) the non-psychopath can regulate and express these “psychopathic qualities” appropriately, in the appropriate contexts.
Dutton seems to be suggesting that psychopaths (or many of them) are, by virtue of possessing these “psychopathic qualities,” in some respects advanced in their psychological, temperamental and even spiritual evolution. Audaciously, he draws analogies between psychopaths and the most evolved monks and Buddhist masters.
Dutton finally specifies what he regards as enviable, advantageous psychopathic qualities, the only caveat being that they should be expressed in good, balanced measure. They are ruthlessness, charm, focus, mental toughness, fearlessness, mindfulness, and the propensity to action/decisiveness.
When he describes psychopaths as being endowed with high levels of “mindfulness,” he is referring to what he alleges is their capacity to be present in the moment of whatever they are endeavoring. He asserts that psychopaths possess a distinct capacity to tune-out all sorts of inconvenient distractions such as depression, anxiety, fear, guilt, and anticipated remorse to achieve their ends with unique focus.
Even if this is the case, what Dutton fails spectacularly to appreciate, it seems to me, is the extent to which psychopaths deploy this alleged quality, and several of the other qualities he gushes over, in the service of exploiting, not enhancing, others. This is what, in essence, makes them psychopathic.
The psychopath is, at bottom, an exploitive, transgressive personality, a remorseless violator of others’ rights, boundaries and dignity. If you are not this, then you are not a psychopath.
But Dutton seems to be arguing that the key to being optimally adapted to our world is to master the capacity to be what he calls a “method psychopath,” meaning to develop and channel all the psychopathic qualities necessary to succeed in the particular contexts requiring them.
He then confuses, continually, the examples he gives of “method psychopaths” by basically referring to them as “psychopaths.” But they are not necessarily psychopaths at all—many of the men he describes may merely be endowed with certain of the “psychopathic qualities” he outlines, and deploy them in the service of performing jobs that require, for instance, fearlessness (or the successful suppression of fear), perhaps ruthlessness, certainly unblinking, sustained concentration under duress, and possibly a suspension of guilt.
He may be right that psychopaths are better suited for these jobs than non-psychopaths, but this doesn’t implicate all those who do these jobs well or even brilliantly as psychopaths. Yet this implication permeates the book, corrupting its discourse.
Dutton describes a brain surgeon who describes his work with chilling detachment and compartmentalization; thereby, on this apparent basis alone, he dubs him a psychopath. He describes men in the British Special Forces who undertake daring, violent work from which most of us would cringe or break, yet these men embrace their work with a rare coolness, and, apparently by virtue of their capacity to handle the intense risks and stresses involved in their missions without reflecting signs of disabling anxiety, agitation or guilt, Dutton regards them as “functional” or “method” psychopaths.
But a glaring question is left unexamined: Are these same men, in their personal lives, the cold, calculating clinicians, surgeons, rescuers or assassins that their jobs require them to be? (And incidentally, none of them are committing crimes: the surgeon is saving lives as, arguably, are the warriors he profusely admires.)
If the answer to the above question is “no,” as may be the case, then these men are not psychopaths. They are non-psychopaths with nerves of steel. But this basic question isn’t even addressed, superficially.
Dutton references research suggesting that psychopaths might be more likely to act heroically than non-psychopaths in certain dangerous situations. But even if this is the case, so what? So what if, in the event your house is burning down and there are two individuals on the street watching, the psychopath might be more inclined to run in and pull you out of the inferno than the non-psychopath? That may be true, and we can imagine reasons this might be the case.
But again, he’s not a psychopath unless he’s exploiting others audaciously and shamelessly in his life. Otherwise, he’s just a hero with nerves of steel. And if he is a psychopath, then his fearlessness, or lust for risk, in instances like these, confers a small benefit to humanity, which we will take without undo gratefulness given the incalculable suffering he imposes on humanity in the greater arena of life.
Dutton cites research suggesting psychopaths can feel empathy, maybe even more empathy than non-psychopaths. But the very concept of empathy is confusing and, to my mind, muddles the issue of psychopathy. What psychopaths really lack is “compassion” for their victims. Forget about empathy and how we define it. They lack compassion–real, true compassion. Compassion should be the benchmark measure here, not empathy. (My next article on Lovefraud will address “compassion” as the far more telling, missing deficit in sociopaths than “empathy.”)
And “victim” needs to be stressed in a book where it is woefully, incredibly under-stressed in Dutton’s need to virtually idealize psychopaths. Psychopath=Victims (that is my formula!). Psychopaths victimize people unconscionably. Psychopaths are victimizing, exploitive personalities. If you are dealing with an individual who is not remorselessly exploitive, you are not dealing with a true psychopath (or sociopath).
And Dutton pays scant attention to qualities like emotional shallowness and deep loyalty. The psychopath is a disturbingly shallow, disloyal individual. This surely doesn’t equate with spiritual advancement, yet Dutton absurdly seeks to find commonalities between Tibetan monks and psychopaths. He aims to recast psychopaths as misunderstood rebels, perhaps overly adapted to the exigencies of modern society.
Dutton writes, “”¦the problem with psychopaths isn’t that they’re too chock-full of evil. Ironically, it’s precisely the opposite: they have too much of a good thing”¦The car is to die for. It’s just too fast for the road.” (p. 186).
This gives you the flavor of the need Dutton has throughout his book to reframe psychopathy as a virtually enviable condition that is “too much of a good thing.” The chasmic inattention given, as noted above, to the immeasurable suffering psychopaths inflict on their victims is itself almost glib and callous.
One senses that Dutton is just a bit too enamored of the psychopath and too desperate to rehabilitate the psychopath’s well-earned reputation as an exploitative, emotional cipher to do real justice to his subject.
Which is to say that psychopaths, in the end, really have no wisdom to impart to us. As entertaining as his book is, neither, I’m afraid, does Dutton.
Hi Kim,
yep, that’s why I won’t pay full price to read it. Just like I won’t pay for “All In. The education of what’s his name.”
The answer to psychopathy is to not play the game.
The “wisdom” of the psychopath……RONFLMAO…snort. Guffaw….coffee through my nose. OGL. Wisdom, yet. Really? Wisdom?
How ’bout this: The spiritual experience of psychopathy?
Or, “How my psychopathy helped me to understand the true meaning of life.” Looking at psychopathy as a blessing, or how I can make the most of my psychopathy….
Or to really extend a metephor….for those of us who are in our fifties, or older….remember Brooke Sheild’s, Don’t hate me because I’m……psychopathic. Well.
When I first started researching psychopathy, I came across an article online, (and I can’t cite it. I’m sorry.) About soldiers in combat. Psychopaths were the most aggressive infantrymen; they were fearless when it came time to rush in and KILL the enemy. But, they were piss poor at reconisance…ie, they wouldn’t rush in, to save a comrad….the empaths did that. Just saying.
Steve, thank you for this review article. I won’t choose to read Dutton’s book simply because it’s one more attempt to “excuse” ppath behaviors as admirable qualities, and they simply are not.
Sure, exposure to ppaths and spaths have their intrinsic value in the lessons that I’ve needed to learn about myself, but I would have preferred to never have the need to learn about this condition in the first place.
For whatever reason, ppaths have always existed and will continue to exist as part of the “human condition.” In times past when human beings lived in much smaller populations (tribal groups, etc.), if a ppath went over the edge of the groups mores, they were dealt with quickly and either kept in check or dispatched, entirely. Today, there are laws in place that prevent indiscriminate lynching, and rightly so. Our culture has become too huge for vigilante actions, and anarchy would result if such laws weren’t in place. But, what the current laws fail to accomplish is to “send a message” that bad behaivors are intolerable.
I don’t know what the answer to this would be. Removing predators of all types from society would seem to be the answer, but the general public would have to pay to keep these predators safe and secure from society.
I’ve typed it many times, but I seriously feel that placing people convicted of repetetive predatory behaviors should be placed on an island, far away from society. Drop them all off with a bag full of seeds, some livestock, and let them sort it out between themselves on this island. It’s meant as a tongue-in-cheek scenario, but it seriously seems to be the only way to put the public out of harm’s way, as much as can be. Of course, it would be impossible to herd them all together in one fell swoop because ppathy and spathy are simply aspects of the “human condition” and can never be eradicated.
All I know is that it seems that there are FAR more ppaths within contemporary society than the experts estimate. I don’t know whether this is because of technological advances that have allowed a greater access to information, or what, but it seems that there are literally dozens of reports of spath behaviors, on a daily basis.
Again, thanks for the review!
Brightest blessings
Kim Frederick…..LMAO!!!! Wisom? uh……..(snaps fingers) whatever…..
I haven’t seen Kevin Dutton’s book, but I see from other sources that he believes his own father is (or was) a psychopath. He cannot escape suspicion of being biased is certain ways.
Apropos of nothing in particular, I also noticed that one of his chapters is titled “Carpe Noctem.” I had to smile at that phrase! It sounds like the motto of a vampire.
“Yes, the problem is that society has adapted to the existence of spaths by becoming more like them, by admiring them, by putting them on pedestals. So now they seem like someone to aspire to be like, when in fact, spaths are an example of how not to be.”
Well said, Skylar. Yes.
And many thanks to Steve for this review! As if there wasn’t enough misinformation out there…
Thank you for the warning, I will not be buying his book.
Nothing good can come from a psychopath. A psychopathic lawyer will pervert the law. A psychopathic politician will usurp power over the people. A psychopathic brain surgeon will perform atrocious “studies” on innocent animals and would do so on people if they could get away with it.
No one ever said they were all stupid, they are simply all evil.
“A clever person solves a problem. A wise person avoids it.”
”• Albert Einstein
I am however reading Psychopathic Altruism because of the seeming oxymoron of a title. But that is because I believe what Ayn Rand taught about altruism: that good is done out of love and concern and is therefore ultimately selfish and that altruism is self sacrifice and behooves no one. Altruism is why we were psychopath bait in the first place.
“What is the moral code of altruism? The basic principle of altruism is that man has no right to exist for his own sake, that service to others is the only justification of his existence, and that self-sacrifice is his highest moral duty, virtue and value.
“Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice—which means; self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction—which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.”
http://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/altruism.html