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Critiquing “The Wisdom of Psychopaths,” by Kevin Dutton, Ph.D.

Kevin Dutton’s “The Wisdom of Psychopaths” is a strange, ultimately disconcerting book. Dutton is erudite and obviously fascinated with his subject—psychopaths. He references some cutting edge research and had access to many heavy hitters in the field of  psychopathy experts.

Yet in the end, I find his book very troubling. His thesis is basically what the book’s subversive title suggests—that psychopaths have qualities of “wisdom.” That is,  psychopaths, he asserts, have certain admirable, enviable and distinguishing qualities in greater volumes than non-psychopaths, qualities the non-psychopath could benefit from in greater quantity so long as (unlike psychopaths) the non-psychopath can regulate and express these “psychopathic qualities” appropriately, in the appropriate contexts.

Dutton seems to be suggesting that psychopaths (or many of them) are, by virtue of possessing these “psychopathic qualities,” in some respects advanced in their psychological, temperamental and even spiritual evolution.  Audaciously, he draws analogies between psychopaths and the most evolved monks and Buddhist masters.

Dutton finally specifies what he regards as enviable, advantageous psychopathic qualities, the only caveat being that they should be expressed in good, balanced measure. They are ruthlessness, charm, focus, mental toughness, fearlessness, mindfulness, and the propensity to action/decisiveness.

When he describes psychopaths as being endowed with high levels of “mindfulness,” he is referring to what he alleges is their capacity to be present in the moment of whatever they are endeavoring. He asserts that psychopaths possess a distinct capacity to tune-out all sorts of inconvenient distractions such as depression, anxiety, fear, guilt, and anticipated remorse to achieve their ends with unique focus.

Even if this is the case, what Dutton fails spectacularly to appreciate, it seems to me, is the extent to which psychopaths deploy this alleged quality, and several of the other qualities he gushes over, in the service of exploiting, not enhancing, others. This is what, in essence, makes them psychopathic.

The psychopath is, at bottom, an exploitive, transgressive personality, a remorseless violator of others’ rights, boundaries and dignity. If you are not this, then you are not a psychopath.

But Dutton seems to be arguing that the key to being optimally adapted to our world is to master the capacity to be what he calls a “method psychopath,” meaning to develop and channel all the psychopathic qualities necessary to succeed in the particular contexts requiring them.

He then confuses, continually, the examples he gives of  “method psychopaths” by basically referring to them as “psychopaths.” But they are not necessarily psychopaths at all—many of the men he describes may merely be endowed with certain of the “psychopathic qualities” he outlines, and deploy them in the service of performing jobs that require, for instance, fearlessness (or the successful suppression of fear), perhaps ruthlessness, certainly unblinking, sustained concentration under duress, and possibly a suspension of guilt.

He may be right that psychopaths are better suited for these jobs than non-psychopaths, but this doesn’t implicate all those who do these jobs well or even brilliantly as psychopaths. Yet this implication permeates the book, corrupting its discourse.

Dutton describes a brain surgeon who describes his work with chilling detachment and compartmentalization; thereby, on this apparent basis alone, he dubs him a psychopath. He describes men in the British Special Forces who undertake daring, violent work from which most of us would cringe or break, yet these men embrace their work with a rare coolness, and, apparently by virtue of their capacity to handle the intense risks and stresses involved in their missions without reflecting signs of disabling anxiety, agitation or guilt, Dutton  regards them as “functional” or “method” psychopaths.

But a glaring question is left unexamined: Are these same men, in their personal lives, the cold, calculating clinicians, surgeons, rescuers or assassins that their jobs require them to be? (And incidentally, none of them are committing crimes: the surgeon is saving lives as, arguably, are the warriors he profusely admires.)

If the answer to the above question is “no,” as may be the case, then these men are not psychopaths. They are non-psychopaths with nerves of steel. But this basic question isn’t even addressed, superficially.

Dutton references research suggesting that psychopaths might be more likely to act heroically than non-psychopaths in certain dangerous situations. But even if this is the case, so what? So what if, in the event your house is burning down and there are two individuals on the street watching, the psychopath might be more inclined to run in and pull you out of the inferno than the non-psychopath? That may be true, and we can imagine reasons this might be the case.

But again, he’s not a psychopath unless he’s exploiting others audaciously and shamelessly in his life. Otherwise, he’s just a hero with nerves of steel. And if he is a psychopath, then his fearlessness, or lust for risk, in instances like these, confers a small benefit to humanity, which we will take without undo gratefulness given the incalculable suffering he imposes on humanity in the greater arena of life.

Dutton cites research suggesting psychopaths can feel empathy, maybe even more empathy than non-psychopaths. But the very concept of empathy is confusing and, to my mind, muddles the issue of psychopathy. What psychopaths really lack is “compassion” for their victims. Forget about empathy and how we define it. They lack compassion–real, true compassion. Compassion should be the benchmark measure here, not empathy. (My next article on Lovefraud will address “compassion” as the far more telling, missing deficit in sociopaths than “empathy.”)

And “victim” needs to be stressed in a book where it is woefully, incredibly under-stressed in Dutton’s need to virtually idealize psychopaths. Psychopath=Victims (that is my formula!). Psychopaths victimize people unconscionably. Psychopaths are victimizing, exploitive personalities. If you are dealing with an individual who is not remorselessly exploitive, you are not dealing with a true psychopath (or sociopath).

And Dutton pays scant attention to qualities like emotional shallowness and deep loyalty. The psychopath is a disturbingly shallow, disloyal individual. This surely doesn’t equate with spiritual advancement, yet Dutton absurdly seeks to find commonalities between Tibetan monks and psychopaths. He aims to recast psychopaths as misunderstood rebels, perhaps overly adapted to the exigencies of modern society.

Dutton writes, “”¦the problem with psychopaths isn’t that they’re too chock-full of evil. Ironically, it’s precisely the opposite: they have too much of a good thing”¦The car is to die for. It’s just too fast for the road.” (p. 186).

This gives you the flavor of the need Dutton has throughout his book to reframe psychopathy as a virtually enviable condition that is “too much of a good thing.”  The chasmic inattention given, as noted above, to the immeasurable suffering psychopaths inflict on their victims is itself almost glib and callous.

One senses that Dutton is just a bit too enamored of the psychopath and too desperate to rehabilitate the psychopath’s well-earned reputation as an exploitative, emotional cipher to do real justice to his subject.

Which is to say that psychopaths, in the end, really have no wisdom to impart to us. As entertaining as his book is, neither, I’m afraid, does Dutton.



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Louise, there is a whole boatload of truth about human predators and their body-language. The infamous “Predatory Stare?” Well, it’s real – if you compare the intensity of a hunting cheetah that has focused upon a potential prey, you can see the exact same thing in the gaze of a predatory human being. The exspath would put his eyes on me, but they were not “engaging” with me on an emotional level. It’s one of the eeriest of all spath body cues, and that’s WHY I am dead-set opposed to ANY online dating or technological communications.

Brightest blessings!

Truthspeak:

That predatory stare is real. I never saw it before him. That is an awesome comparison with the cheetah…so true!!!

Me, too, Truthspeak. I will not ever do online dating. I never have and never will. They can be anything they want behind that computer screen and then you meet them and they are monsters. I have heard way too many horror stories. I don’t need anymore drama. A girlfriend of mine suggested maybe I try it to meet someone and I said no way and then she said she didn’t mean online dating…she meant a matchmaker. Whatever that means. I think she meant where you pay to get matched with someone. Nope. To me, that is still going techy to meet someone. If I can’t meet someone on my own out in the world, I’m not going to do it. Not that it means that is a guarantee that they will be “OK,” but at least I can “see” them…haha. Geez. God, if I ever see that predatory stare again I will run so fast it won’t even be funny. Both of his kids have the stare, too. Can you believe it? How sad is that???

Louise, LOL!!!!!! “Matchmakers” have been around since mankind scrawled images of mammoths on cave walls. At one time, romantic marriages weren’t so important as a “good match.” And, a renowned matchmaker would research family history, work/business practices, ideals, religious convictions, and every other aspect of a person’s life and make suggestions on a suitable mate that would ENHANCE the person’s aspirations and qualities.

Today, human qualities and attributes are no longer determined by wisdom or observations. Today, these “qualities” are determined by short surveys that are computer analyzed. No background checks are performed. No months-long observations are made. No body language and personal history is explored. It’s VERY dangerous, today.

Personally, I’d rather stick knitting needles in my eyes than trust ANY online dating service!

Brightest blessings

Truthspeak:

It is laughable, isn’t it? 🙂

There are still cultures and parts of the world were marriages are made by family arrangements, and in some cases, mostly in the middle east, women are given as “payment” for debts etc. It is SICK but tat is the way women are considered as chattel (possessions)

Romantic marriage selection is less than perfect as 50% are divorced and many more are “stable” but unhappy, and 75% of 2nd marriages end in divorce, and again many of the ones that stay married in that second marriage are unhappy.

I was fortunate that my marriage of nearly 20 years to my husband that I had been friends with for many years prior to our marriage was a good one. My first one, filled with mental illness on the part of my husband, and the abuse of his psychopathic father was a night mare.

I would love to have a good relationship, but at this point in my life I am not sure it is very likely, maybe I am more likely to win the lotto.

OxD, I don’t believe that I will ever experience a good or healthy romantic relationship. I’m WAY too messed up to trust anyone, ever again.

My interest in sex is ZIP because my system of beliefs tells me that ALL men entertain porn and unrealistic expectations. My level of trust is BELOW zip – trusting means risking, and I’m nowhere near a point where I would trust another man to tell me the correct time, much less that what he’s asserting is truthful.

It’s not that I’m a man-hater. I’m a damage-hater, and I’ve got WAY too much work on myself to do before I ever trust myself, much less someone else.

Brightest blessings

Thruthspeak – Louise:

The stare and various other external manifestations of sociopath is very real and very interesting. As I have said before, it was because of the x-spath staring at me that I went up and introduced myself to him — more on that later.

They also tend to have a monotone vocal style — technically called lack of vocal affect. X-xpath had that too.

The facial manifestation is particularly interesting because at least in men, facial roundness correlates with high testosterone, or a least womb testosterone, which is a known factor in sociopathy.

BBE, I dunno about the physical manifestations of spathy, but I remember speaking to the exspath about something that was very important to me, at the time. I was making a strenuous attempt to explain WHY whatever it was was so important, and how I felt that he wasn’t acknowledging how I was feeling.

His eyes were locked with mine, but there wasn’t one iota of emotional engagement to be seen or felt. It was like looking into the eyes of a dead fish, and I wondered EVEN THEN (about 6 years ago) if he was doing the predatory stare! The lights were on, but nobody was behind the windows.

And, I’ve seen that “stare” on many, many occasions by many, many people. This is not to say that the blank stare is precludes that everyone’s a sociopath. But, it speaks to me about whether a person is paying attention, or not. If they’re paying attention, there’s some kind of feedback, whether it’s “positive” or “negative.” With spaths, there is NO feedback.

Brightest blessings

BBE:

The one I knew didn’t have a monotone vocal style. Actually it was quite the opposite as far as that goes. But that’s about the only thing he didn’t exhibit. He has a round face before it morphs into his pointy chin face.

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