Lovefraud could have written about Drew Peterson at any time since he was declared a suspect in disappearance of his fourth wife, Stacy Peterson, who vanished on Oct. 28, 2007.
Drew Peterson, who at the time was a sergeant in the Bolingbrook, Illinois police department, didn’t seem to be at all concerned about his wife’s whereabouts, claiming that she probably left him for another man. He cheerfully talked to the media, despite sordid allegations about his past.
After Stacy disappeared, Peterson became a suspect in the death of his third wife, Kathleen Savio, who was found dead in a bathtub. While they were married, police were called to the home they shared 18 times for domestic disturbance calls. She was going after his pension as part of their contentious divorce when she died.
Peterson’s second wife, Vicki Connolly, alleged a history of abuse during her 10-year marriage to him.
So why am I writing about Drew Peterson now? Because recent events in the saga seem to reveal the role that he relishes the most: Puppeteer.
Engagement and interview
On December 17, 2008, news broke that, even though Peterson was a suspect in the disappearance of his fourth wife and the murder of his third, he was engaged again. The news was confirmed by Peterson’s lawyer, Joel Brodsky, and publicist, Glenn Selig.
Publicist? Why does a murder suspect need a publicist?
Well, probably to arrange interviews on national television. Peterson was interviewed by ABC’s Martin Bashir about his most recent engagement to Christina Raines, a 24-year-old unmarried mother of two. The interview ran on January 29, 2009 on Nightline, and on January 30, 2009 on Good Morning America.
If you want to see a grandiose, self-entitled, remorseless psychopath in action, watch how Peterson talks on the video.
- He acknowledges that the friends and family of his young fiancé are right to be concerned.
- He described his five years as an undercover cop as “working a con,” which was a lot of fun.
- He admits being unfaithful to all his wives. “The big joke was that you had to lie to your girlfriend to go home and see your wife,” he said.
- He described his reaction when he found his third wife dead in a bathtub: “It was kind of emotional. But what can you do? Life goes on.”
- About getting involved with Christina Raines, Peterson said, “I don’t say I tricked her, but I sure romanced her real good.”
- He admitted enjoying the early stages of romance, getting married, then losing interest in the relationship and looking elsewhere. He wants the excitement. “Why should I live without it?” he asks.
Both Peterson’s lawyer and publicist termed the portrayal of the former cop, now a suspect, as accurate.
Engagement a “stunt”
Good Morning America reported the latest twist in the story on Saturday, January 31. Because of the interview, Peterson’s fiancé, Christina Raines, had broken off the engagement. Peterson told the reporter, Martin Bashir, that “she called him a liar, packed her bags and left.”
Last week, the story got even more bizarre. On Monday, February 2, Christina Raines and her father, Ernie Raines, went on The Early Show. Although Christina dated Peterson and moved in with him for several weeks, she said it was never really an engagement—it was a stunt. “He told me that his lawyer had wanted him to be in the media and wanted to propose to someone at a restaurant,” Christina said.
Then, on Friday, February 6, Christina Raines testified before the grand jury that is investigating the disappearance of Peterson’s fourth wife and the death of his third.
Puppeteer Peterson
My guess is that Drew Peterson doesn’t really care what happens to him—if he gets indicted for murder, if he is found guilty, if he goes to prison. Right now, he’s having a great time as Puppeteer Peterson, pulling the strings and watching everyone else dance.
He convinces a naïve and vulnerable girl to date him, and watches her father go ballistic, calling the state police, who can do nothing. He’s spotted at a dance club with a woman who is not his new fiancé and it’s reported as news. He decides to do an interview, the reporter brags about an “exclusive,” and he sees himself on prime time TV and the morning talk shows.
Who cares about the future? Who cares about the truth? Right now, Drew Peterson is probably living his dream, manipulating people in front of a live national audience.
Still wanting for this man to get his…..
The family who was the wife that die in the “bath tub” wants to take him to civil court for wrongful death. I for one hope they will get their day in court….
Not once did I see any type of remorse from this “ex cop” whenever I saw him in TV which is something this ex cop loves… THE SPOTLIGHTS!
What a loser!!!
Again is there something here in the water in Illinois? We have way too many s/p living here for my taste…
“It was kind of emotional. But what can you do? Life goes on.”
CREEPY!
In September, my N said, “I don’t understand why you’re still upset, it was a year ago!” – cool as a cucumber, and genuinely not getting it.
Now, it had been almost a year since he assaulted me, but he had broken the NC order and sucked me back in with all sorts of promises of “us”, spent four months wangling his way out of charges/court, and a month later, in May, I found out about the other women. We had only been apart for three or four months.
We talked about it again on Christmas eve. He was angry that I had spoken with one of the sisters, and wanted me to “explain” why it was any concern of mine.
“You tell me” he sneered, “You’re the CSI girl! When were we together last”
Technically, it was 14 December”
“Oh! That’s when I was charged?!”
“No, that’s when we were last “together”. I spent the night.”
(I decided a long time ago to take a literal approach with him. It kept things a tad less confusing).
Interesting.
In his mind we were done the night of the assault. Anything afterward was just what he had to do to get his butt out of it. I clearly remember him saying, “I’ll do or say whatever I have to to get out of this”, but he also said “I’m going to sue the police for harassment; they’re keeping us apart!”. I chalked it all up to booze talk (silly me).
He figures that because he was lying the whole time; it wasn’t real. It doesn’t matter to him that he was pretending to be in a monogamous relationship with me. In fact, it appears he’s forgotten it entirely.
“…Life goes on”
Indeed!
Wow, Drew Peterson sounds like my S. I am finding it difficult to move on. I am afraid of all men. When they talk to me I run. My S has changed me.
I am not completely over it because I still want to see him suffer and be unhappy.
We have a child together, of which he has never seen and could care less about. He has many women and they are just so willing to take care of his broke ass.
I have tried to let it go but because of the trauma he caused I am still hurting and single 1 year later. I know I am smart, beautiful and would be a catch for any man but I want to avoid S’s in my life.
The scariest part to me was near the end of the interview where he reveals his sense of entitlement. He is “entitled” to have a woman trying to please him. He is “entitled” to look elsewhere if she fails to please him.
Nothing about what he does for a woman. There is no responsibility on his part. His role seems limited to the “con” of getting her to date/marry him. Then it is entirely her responsibility to do what he wants.
The other frightening thing about this guy (which also reminds me of my ex) is the smugly cool demeanor. You can just sense that he relishes the idea of getting other people riled up about anything and everything while he sits back and acts as cool as a cucumber, smugly feeling superior to other people that have normal emotions.
http://www.suntimes.com/news/peterson/1255166,CST-NWS-boling02.article
Today I started thinking about Drew Peterson’s family. Who were they? What were they like? How did they feel about Drew Peterson. His father Al Morphey was angry and defensive. No real surprise there. Then I stumbled on news of his step-brother, Thomas Morphey. The day Stacy Peterson disappeared, he helped Drew move a heavy blue drum from his home. The day after, he attemped suicide for the first time in his life.
What happened to Thomas Morphey? Eventually we’ll hear his story. I suspect we’re going to get affirmation of what we all have learned: stay away from sociopaths.
why are the actions of this man reported as news? Why is he even allowed on the morning talk shows?
We need to educate the people about s/n/p so that they are NOT treated like celebrities but like the con artist/puppeteer/sociopaths that they are.
nottakingitanymore: Not only does he feel entitled, he even blames it on his wives; that they didn’t keep his interest.
He also said he liked “belonging” to someone.
So, he likes the rush of the new girl, he likes to belong to someone, he likes getting/being married, but it’s all their fault for not keeping him interested (I don’t remember his exact words), therefore he’s entitled to screw around…ad nauseum.
99% of the s’s walk. There are so many uneducated people in the “legal” system, they’ll probably do the “oh, he had a hard childhood,” or some such nonsense, & give him a slap on the wrist.
sstiles54,
I don’t think it is merely lack of education. I’m beginning to think that the reason so many of them walk is because there are so many of them in the legal system. I almost think that a person has to be a S in order to be a lawyer.
How can a person justify trying to keep a murderer/abuser/child molester out of prison? In order to be a lawyer, you have to have a strange set of moral values or somehow compartmentalize them in order to defend a criminal like that.
And remember, most of the judges started out as lawyers. The lawyers and judges seem to have their own warped system of what is right and what is not. It isn’t based on what is fair or just; it is based on what is “legal”, what a person can get away with, where the loopholes are, what evidence can be suppressed, how things can be twisted, what deals can be made….
In my case, I think the odds are better than even that either my lawyer, the judge, or both did something unethical such as taking a bribe or a favor to throw the case. Mere incompetence could not explain it.
I have no faith in the legal system in this country. Very sad, because in other ways I am proud to be an American and I think this country has much to offer. But we are going down the path of so many corrupt systems where it’s not what’s right, but who you know or who you’ve paid off that counts. Maybe that is because there are so many S’s in positions of power.