Lovefraud could have written about Drew Peterson at any time since he was declared a suspect in disappearance of his fourth wife, Stacy Peterson, who vanished on Oct. 28, 2007.
Drew Peterson, who at the time was a sergeant in the Bolingbrook, Illinois police department, didn’t seem to be at all concerned about his wife’s whereabouts, claiming that she probably left him for another man. He cheerfully talked to the media, despite sordid allegations about his past.
After Stacy disappeared, Peterson became a suspect in the death of his third wife, Kathleen Savio, who was found dead in a bathtub. While they were married, police were called to the home they shared 18 times for domestic disturbance calls. She was going after his pension as part of their contentious divorce when she died.
Peterson’s second wife, Vicki Connolly, alleged a history of abuse during her 10-year marriage to him.
So why am I writing about Drew Peterson now? Because recent events in the saga seem to reveal the role that he relishes the most: Puppeteer.
Engagement and interview
On December 17, 2008, news broke that, even though Peterson was a suspect in the disappearance of his fourth wife and the murder of his third, he was engaged again. The news was confirmed by Peterson’s lawyer, Joel Brodsky, and publicist, Glenn Selig.
Publicist? Why does a murder suspect need a publicist?
Well, probably to arrange interviews on national television. Peterson was interviewed by ABC’s Martin Bashir about his most recent engagement to Christina Raines, a 24-year-old unmarried mother of two. The interview ran on January 29, 2009 on Nightline, and on January 30, 2009 on Good Morning America.
If you want to see a grandiose, self-entitled, remorseless psychopath in action, watch how Peterson talks on the video.
- He acknowledges that the friends and family of his young fiancé are right to be concerned.
- He described his five years as an undercover cop as “working a con,” which was a lot of fun.
- He admits being unfaithful to all his wives. “The big joke was that you had to lie to your girlfriend to go home and see your wife,” he said.
- He described his reaction when he found his third wife dead in a bathtub: “It was kind of emotional. But what can you do? Life goes on.”
- About getting involved with Christina Raines, Peterson said, “I don’t say I tricked her, but I sure romanced her real good.”
- He admitted enjoying the early stages of romance, getting married, then losing interest in the relationship and looking elsewhere. He wants the excitement. “Why should I live without it?” he asks.
Both Peterson’s lawyer and publicist termed the portrayal of the former cop, now a suspect, as accurate.
Engagement a “stunt”
Good Morning America reported the latest twist in the story on Saturday, January 31. Because of the interview, Peterson’s fiancé, Christina Raines, had broken off the engagement. Peterson told the reporter, Martin Bashir, that “she called him a liar, packed her bags and left.”
Last week, the story got even more bizarre. On Monday, February 2, Christina Raines and her father, Ernie Raines, went on The Early Show. Although Christina dated Peterson and moved in with him for several weeks, she said it was never really an engagement—it was a stunt. “He told me that his lawyer had wanted him to be in the media and wanted to propose to someone at a restaurant,” Christina said.
Then, on Friday, February 6, Christina Raines testified before the grand jury that is investigating the disappearance of Peterson’s fourth wife and the death of his third.
Puppeteer Peterson
My guess is that Drew Peterson doesn’t really care what happens to him—if he gets indicted for murder, if he is found guilty, if he goes to prison. Right now, he’s having a great time as Puppeteer Peterson, pulling the strings and watching everyone else dance.
He convinces a naïve and vulnerable girl to date him, and watches her father go ballistic, calling the state police, who can do nothing. He’s spotted at a dance club with a woman who is not his new fiancé and it’s reported as news. He decides to do an interview, the reporter brags about an “exclusive,” and he sees himself on prime time TV and the morning talk shows.
Who cares about the future? Who cares about the truth? Right now, Drew Peterson is probably living his dream, manipulating people in front of a live national audience.
What took so long for the arrest to come?
I hope if I ever “drown” in a dry bathtub, someone will do a full investigation. too.
It is chilling the occupations that these sociopaths choose for themselves: doctor, nurse, police officer, YIKES!
All this time I kept hoping that they will find something on him. It must have been so horrible for Savio’s family watching him go about freely up until now.
Every time I see his face on tv, it’s just absultly chilling, his dead eyes, his smugness. Grrrhhh, I guess it brings up many memories of my own. I think I feel so strongly about this is because those of us who had to deal with all the crazy making, eel like actions of the sociopaths really the only ones have to deal with the day to day realities of these monsters. Outsiders suspect, yet rather not believe it until the s guilt is solid proven. While family members watch the s helpless.
It makes me want to send a letter to the parents of the s’s new wife, warning them. I will probably not do that, but still the wish is there.
I hope Drew Peterson never be free again.
Greenfern:
Bail is set at $20 million. He’s not going anywhere.
I guess his lawyers are trying to reduce it to $10 million, which means that he would have to cough up $1million, but you are right he probably will stay where he is. He is not particularly wealthy and I doubt anyone will vouch for him.
I am sort of fascinated by the whole ordeal, it ‘s like a car-wreck unfolding in front of me.
It’s good to see that some of these extreme cases will have to face the law. I guess maybe Peterson was not as smart as he though. As one of his ex wives refers to him “a legend in his own head” LOL!
Did you see the footage of him being taken to court this a.m.?
He was laughing and joking and all full-of-himself, just like my ex! CREEPY!!
I agree it is fascinating to watch a psychopath completely unravel.
Same sort of church…different pew… but that young Medschool student (the Craigslist Killer)….I lost a few hours sleep that night…imagining being his fiancee. FIANCEE…engaged to be married just shy of 3 months away…planning her wedding…what she imagined to be the happiest day of her life…and while driving on the highway with her fiancee…they are pulled over by police..not for a traffic violation but to question her future husband about the murder of one woman and the robbery and abuse of another woman and potentially many others… The man she lives with , sleeps with, loves.
I hope she finds LF!!!
What took the arrest so long was a cover up by his fellow police officers. This is old news. To believe that the police force are not full of narcissists and psychopaths is naive….well, at least in Australia. I would LOVE to think that over there you have the real honest policeman. But here its been proven over and over again, all our police, judges and DA’s can be bought. Especially on the Gold Coast.
This video from Youtube is a clear example of Drew Peterson being a sociopath:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ItwjPb23HIg
His nonchalance about it all is staggering.
Thanks for the link..
Yes, in the interview as long as Drew Peterson was in control he was willing to talk with the newsperson. But as the interview became no longer under his control Drew Peterson walks away for this interview. Drew Peterson had to maintain control of the interview and was also uncompromising and unwilling to discuss anything he thought wasn’t agree on before the interview even when the interviewer told him he (interviewer) never agree on not discussing event(s) about his missing wife Stacy. We all know how it’s important to a s/p to be in control at all times.
Reviewing reports (videos/news reports).
Drew Peterson stated that both wife’s came from abusive family life. This statement would be consisted that would have made them able to become involved with a dysfunctional relationship with Drew Peterson. We at lovefraud understand how that many of us too are from dysfunctional and abusive upbringing. So this tells me two things, one. That Drew Peterson would have been attracted to this type of persons (from dysfunctional and abusive family) and two that they would have allow this type of abuse from him because of their past abusive history. They (victims?) would have allow abuse in their relationship more so then those from a healthy abusive free family.
Also Drew Peterson himself had shift blame away from himself and then onto both his past wife’s. How Stacy was on anti-depression due to losing her sister due to cancer. Also how Drew Peterson stated that his ex wife Kathleen have a relationship of one-up man-ship. This would be a constance “power struggle” between the two. It might have allow a “physical fight” that got out of control leaving Kathleen dead. It’s also been reported how Drew Peterson had many times in the past violated her wishes for Drew not to enter into her home due to “stealing”.
Drew Peterson has also stated more then once that many of the relationship problems with both of his past wife’s was due to “menstrual cycles”. Again to shift of blame away from him unto the wife’s due to “female problems”. In short he didn’t kill them, it was PMS. This person is a joke a liar and a good bet a killer.
Here is a email from Stacy Peterson to a friend on October 17th 2007, one week before she went missing:
“I AM FINDING THAT THE RELATIONSHIP I AM IN IS CONTROLLING, MANIPULATIVE AND SOMEWHAT ABUSIVE…IF YOU COULD KEEP ME IN YOUR PAYERS, I COULD USE SOME WISDOM, PROTECTION, AND STRENGTH”
For us here at lovefraud these are key (red flags) words:
Controlling
Manipulative
Abusive…
Peterson denies this was written by Stacy Peterson and is a “fraud email”.
Sorry folks, but something is really wrong with this picture concerning Drew Peterson.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jh9wnVxaBX4
Here is another link with Dr. Phil concerning Drew Peterson
http://www.drphil.com/shows/show/992/