Evil exists. If you need proof, just look at the horrific case of little Charleeni Ferreira.
Charleeni, age 10, of Philadelphia, Pa., died on October 21, 2009. Her father, Domingo Ferreira, 53, and stepmother Margarita Garabito, 43, were charged with murder and endangering the welfare of a child.
So how bad was the abuse? The police called it “torture.”
Charleeni actually died from an infection that resulted from broken ribs that were not treated. She had a host of new and old injuries, including a fractured pelvis and a 7-inch gash on her head that had been stuffed with gauze and covered with a hair weave.
For more details, read Signs of Charleeni’s “torture” were hidden, in the Philadelphia Inquirer.
What makes this case so appalling is that a school nurse reported suspected child abuse. In the three years before her death, Charleeni was seen by numerous doctors, a psychiatrist and a therapist. The Philadelphia Department of Human Services (DHS) provided services to the family for five months.
Now, the DHS commissioner is trying to figure out what went wrong.
Bamboozled
Here’s what I think happened: One or both of the parents were sociopaths, and they bamboozled the child welfare workers.
The parents denied any abuse—workers described them as “hurt” by the allegations—but agreed to intervention anyway. After a period of supervision, child welfare workers closed the case. They also recommended that Charleeni’s parents contact a legal aid agency if the school nurse continued to complain about child abuse.
Charleeni herself was also terrorized and manipulated. She told a doctor at St. Christopher’s Hospital for Children that her family treated her “like a princess.” Welts on her hand occurred when she accidentally stabbed herself with a pencil in the dark. She and her parents always had explanations for her injuries, although they didn’t always match.
Perpetrators
Police apparently believe that the stepmother, Margarita Garabito, was the main perpetrator. But the father, Domingo Ferreira, didn’t stop her. In fact, he showed no remorse and fell asleep in the police interview room. Then, Ferreira hung himself in his jail cell.
This, of course, is convenient for the stepmother. Her court-appointed attorney terms the suicide “an admission of guilt.”
See Charleeni’s death blamed on her dead father, in the Philadelphia Inquirer.
I don’t know who initiated the child abuse. Women can be abusive sociopaths. They can also be accomplices, under the control of male sociopaths.
Evil exists
So what’s the lesson here?
Evil exists, but it can be concealed by seemingly plausible explanations.
Evil exists, but it can be disguised by expressions of concern.
Evil exists, but victims can be too terrorized to speak of it.
People who are in a position to see signs of child abuse—doctors, teachers, social workers—need to understand that evil does not want to be discovered, so they must pay close attention to any small clues.
witsend:
I’m impressed that the cop has gone so far out on a limb for you. And I think you’ve got the right approach — if your son won’t take advantage of the counselor’s services, then you should. Time to put the oxygen mask on yourself first.
I was out in Michigan this weekend and thought of you. Strange weather with it being 70 degrees on Saturday and cold as hell on Sunday. Did have a good time.
Witsend:
I am praying for you and your son.
If the police man thinks it would be good for your son to talk to her, then she must have some expertise in this area.
Hopefully, she does.
Please let us know how it goes.
Matt,
What part of Michigan did you visit?
Our weather is very weird! I live in the part of Mi where we get lots of lake effect weather, snow, rain etc. Almost directly accross the lake from Chicago.
We could have 12 inches of snow and the next town a hop, skip, and a jump away, they get a dusting of snow!
The cop has made it a point to let me know he has gone beyond the call of duty…..But thats ok. Because he has.
And this place I called for counseling is not in the phone book and so I would have never known of its existance unless he gave me this information 🙂
Thanks Rosa and Persphone 7….
Today I am feeling hopeful. It feels wonderful!
Witsend:
I think thats great……if he want’s it…he’ll take it….but I say….YOU go for it for yourself! I am really happy doors are opening for YOU! I’m really proud of you for not giving up…..continue to hold that breath of yours….ya know!
All it may take is ONE person, at the right time to get through….maybe…..just maybe!
Guys…..no bears, no paydirt……YET!
BUT….just got a call from my new bestie….didn’t answer-no message, because I’m not ready for him yet…..gotta collect a few other items and make sure the spot lights are charged up!!!!
You all crack me up…..I laughed out in the yard last night…..I wish I ‘knew’ all of you…..funny how we get this visual of people and god forbid what yours are of me!!!!
Wits:
My oldest made a comment the other night about if something happened he would call XX officer….but he called him by name Joe….I said, who’s joe? He said you know Officer Joe Cool……
Apparantly on one visit he gave my son his cell number to call him directly. I never knew this.
It was uplifting to my son to have a direct link to an officer if he needed it.
He has spent a bit of time chatting with this officer over the weeks and I like this!
He has said he tells him the same things I do, but it makes more sense coming from him…….
However, whoever…..as long as they ‘get it’.
ErinBrock,
Ya know when we think of you we think of Julia Roberts!
You got some big shoes to fill girl….
Erin,
good to see you’re still around and not bear dinner!
Witsend,
that’s great that u have a plan to see this person. google their name and see if they have a website or something on the internet about them. Maybe you can find out if they treat PD’s ahead of time and maybe just get a feel for who they are and what they do.
witsend:
I was in Bloomfield Hills. Low key weekend. Went to the Henry Ford Museum.
Am sitting here fuming today — bad enough I got screwed out of my dream job by my ex boss who let her lover know about the position. Now the employer had opened a new position and offered it to the person they had rejected because they were all set to run with me last time. I’m beginning to feel like I can’t win for the losing. On the brighter side, a friend whose life seems to move in synch with mine just got hired after 53 weeks out of work. So, I’m hoping her good luck rubs off on me.
Matt:
Keep in mind……IT WASN”T MEANT TO BE! Just look at the kind of crappy underhanded shit this firm has already pulled….and you want to work there?
It’s around the corner for you…..keep moving in the direction you are and you know it will work out!!!!
There IS a reason for this……