Evil exists. If you need proof, just look at the horrific case of little Charleeni Ferreira.
Charleeni, age 10, of Philadelphia, Pa., died on October 21, 2009. Her father, Domingo Ferreira, 53, and stepmother Margarita Garabito, 43, were charged with murder and endangering the welfare of a child.
So how bad was the abuse? The police called it “torture.”
Charleeni actually died from an infection that resulted from broken ribs that were not treated. She had a host of new and old injuries, including a fractured pelvis and a 7-inch gash on her head that had been stuffed with gauze and covered with a hair weave.
For more details, read Signs of Charleeni’s “torture” were hidden, in the Philadelphia Inquirer.
What makes this case so appalling is that a school nurse reported suspected child abuse. In the three years before her death, Charleeni was seen by numerous doctors, a psychiatrist and a therapist. The Philadelphia Department of Human Services (DHS) provided services to the family for five months.
Now, the DHS commissioner is trying to figure out what went wrong.
Bamboozled
Here’s what I think happened: One or both of the parents were sociopaths, and they bamboozled the child welfare workers.
The parents denied any abuse—workers described them as “hurt” by the allegations—but agreed to intervention anyway. After a period of supervision, child welfare workers closed the case. They also recommended that Charleeni’s parents contact a legal aid agency if the school nurse continued to complain about child abuse.
Charleeni herself was also terrorized and manipulated. She told a doctor at St. Christopher’s Hospital for Children that her family treated her “like a princess.” Welts on her hand occurred when she accidentally stabbed herself with a pencil in the dark. She and her parents always had explanations for her injuries, although they didn’t always match.
Perpetrators
Police apparently believe that the stepmother, Margarita Garabito, was the main perpetrator. But the father, Domingo Ferreira, didn’t stop her. In fact, he showed no remorse and fell asleep in the police interview room. Then, Ferreira hung himself in his jail cell.
This, of course, is convenient for the stepmother. Her court-appointed attorney terms the suicide “an admission of guilt.”
See Charleeni’s death blamed on her dead father, in the Philadelphia Inquirer.
I don’t know who initiated the child abuse. Women can be abusive sociopaths. They can also be accomplices, under the control of male sociopaths.
Evil exists
So what’s the lesson here?
Evil exists, but it can be concealed by seemingly plausible explanations.
Evil exists, but it can be disguised by expressions of concern.
Evil exists, but victims can be too terrorized to speak of it.
People who are in a position to see signs of child abuse—doctors, teachers, social workers—need to understand that evil does not want to be discovered, so they must pay close attention to any small clues.
Wits:
Does size 11 do the trick?
Ya’ll need to stop projecting Julia Robers off on me…..I’ll NEVER live up to that!!!!
🙂
Matt,
I am wishing/hoping for you that your dream job is just around the corner…..
Michigan in number one in the nation for unemployment. It has been that way even before the recent hard hit.
I have several friends that are on their second stint of unemployment. There are no jobs here. For every one that does become available 100s of people apply (even the crappy jobs)
I need a job myself.
I am paralized with fear of this because I haven’t even seen a job listing that I could apply for. I am so unequiped.
I freaked out about being jobless at a particularly low point in the relationship – I was carrying this attitude with me – this fear to interviews and was getting nowhere. I went to see a therapist who did something called EFT – the type she did was called TFT – thought field therapy. You can google thought field or emotional freedom technique. It is like a tapping on meridian lines while you hold a bad memory or somthing you are really struggling with.
I felt lighter after the session and wasn’t so freaked out about job hunting. I had a job within two weeks after that so it really helped me. I think the greatest part of job hunting is our attitude on approaching it. You ladies all have loads of skills – you have lived with psychopaths – that alone should earn everyone a degree but at least qualifies you to put on your cv …
“Excellent skills for establishing and maintaining relationships with key stakeholders, including negotiation and arbitration skills for problem solving when challenges arise.”
I fell into my current career after having no skills and no quals and going for over two hundred jobs and getting knocked back for each and every one. I went for relief teaching in a preschool (childcare centre) and from there got hired fulltime and trained and all the rest of it. It is worth checking into – you don’t always have to be fully trained.
You have loads of skills and abilities – ass kickin, apple sauce making, bear ass whuppin 🙂 Just start thinking about them all! I remember how bad I felt so I am standing in empathy with you …
The EFT removes the fear which is really the biggest barrier – it worked for me 🙂
Got out and went to some therapy myself—a drive to town and hitting all the junk shops! Had a great time and picked up the cat at the vet—she is now a house cat due to my son C’s psychopathic cats persecuting her and running her off! So she is home and fixed and inside safely and can look out the window and laugh at their sorry arses while they are out in the cold because they claw furniture and do other bad things. So sometimes the humble cat does win in the end, and the Ps get what they deserve—NC and going to live in the barn instead of in a nice warm house where they clawed the furniture and all lthe other nasty things they did and persecuting my poor little tiny baby cat! That’ll show’em! I didn’t think animals could be psychopathic but I think these two nasty cats are Ps. They sure act like it! LOL
She’s having a nice bowl of goat milk now that she’s home!
Erin:
I still like Julia Roberts for you, she has that good-natured maniac thing going for her, could possibly wear size 11 shoes too, you don’t know!?! Gotta run, will
check in later…would be nice to have some of Oxy’s apple pie or sauce to go…will pass on the goat’s milk, though maybe yours doesn’t taste goaty…
Good natured maniac…….Perfect description of me!!!!!
Very Insperational, This should be the Love Fraud Motto!
http://www.personalgrowthcourses.net/video/what_matters_w_mitchell
See this kind of story scares me. I am now grateful that my ex doesn’t care about our daughter. I had to take her to the ER Monday night because of a 103 fever. I called him, even though he didn’t call to get her over the weekend, at 8 to tell him we were on our way to the ER. I left a message. 2 hours later I put it in writing via text….still no answer.
I just wanted documentation. So I had to take off work on Tuesday. My daughter had the flu. My mom watched her on Wednesday. She was better on Thursday and went to daycare. Today she was ill again and I had to take a half day and take her back to the doctor. She now has an ear infection.
He called me Tuesday at 6:00 a.m. to ask how she was and that was it!!! I haven’t heard from him since. I refuse to call him back. How can he only call once to check on his daughter? Just being sarcastic. When I discovered he was cheating and I looked at the phone records he was calling his mistress whore back to back 10 or 20 times straight in a manner of minutes and yet he can only call his sick child once.
I hate him! I don’t trust him, his mistress or her kids. So I am glad he is with his current victim.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gNmPybFK2_o&feature=topvideos
More on the Charlenni case:
A story in the Philadelphia Inquirer seems to indicate that the little girl’s stepmother was the perpetrator of the abuse, and her father didn’t know about it.
The father, Domingo Ferreira, had another daughter, Glenny, who is now an adult and says she was never abused. According to the Inquirer:
“Glenny talked to him (her father) shortly after he and Garabito were arrested. She said he had told her, “I didn’t know I lived with a monster.”
Read the article:
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/homepage/69498042.html