“Suddenly, everything made sense, I was not crazy, I had been dealing with a psychopath!” explained a woman this week as she told the story of how she discovered “psychopathy” and Dr. Hare’s diagnostic symptoms. With this discovery, she learned that a personality disorder is behind the behavior of people who manipulate and harm others without guilt or remorse. Prior to learning about psychopathy, the woman said she held the view that all people were basically good and needed the same things. Understanding psychopathy/sociopathy gave her the ability to make sense of a world where a small fraction of individuals do a tremendous amount of harm- AND YET THESE INDIVIDUALS ON THE SURFACE SEEM PERFECTLY NORMAL.
As we discussed the kidnapping of Jaycee Lee Dugard, that same woman questioned whether Phillip Garrido (the kidnapper) is “a psychopath.” She tended to think that Garrido, “Is not a psychopath” and that schizophrenia or some delusional disorder was behind Garrido’s monstrous behavior. According to my friend, “a psychopath” is not mentally ill, is in contact with reality, and yet perpetrates evil anyway. For her the appearance of sanity is an essential characteristic of a psychopath/sociopath.
This week I want to discuss Garrido, and Brian David Mitchell (Elizabeth’s Smart’s kidnapper). These two men are strikingly similar. But first I have to tell you about my own moment of awakening with regard to psychopathy. Just like my friend’s moment, my moment made sense of the world, however it came after years of experience with antisocial people and after years of reading about the disorder. In my moment I realized that psychopathy explains evil.
Yes, I said psychopathy explains evil. This statement is true even though people who are not “psychopaths” do plenty of evil. Because psychopathy explains evil, its importance extends far beyond enabling us to identify the most recidivist criminals, or those who we should avoid going on dates with.
How did it come to pass that psychopathy explains evil? My friend is correct in that originally psychopathy (more than 100 years ago) was called “moral insanity.” It was conceived of as a disorder where people who have an intact mind repeatedly violate the rights of others. Then, Dr. Hervey Cleckley intensively studied the case histories of those he believed to be “psychopaths.” From his experience with many cases Dr. Cleckley developed a list of traits he believed could be used to identify those with the disorder.
Dr. Robert Hare took those traits and used them, along with other personality disorder criteria to develop the PCL-R which is now the best way to “diagnose psychopathy.” Forensic professionals have administered the PCL-R to thousands of offenders and to people with substance abuse issues. From these studies we know that “psychopathy” is actually not a category it is a continuum. In fact the PCL-R scores of offenders are all markedly elevated above those of general population samples (like college students). There is no absolute cut-off score that identifies “true psychopaths.” Instead, for every point increase in score the risk of doing evil increases. The PCL-R is a very good measure of an individual’s risk to offend against others and society.
Psychopathy, as currently measured by the PCL-R is then a trait that is present in everyone to a greater or lesser degree. This trait cuts across diagnostic categories. Think of it like you would intelligence as measured by IQ tests. Everybody has an IQ but it is only when the scores are very high or very low that they come to define or categorize a person. Psychopaths are the equivalent of geniuses who score so high and are so different from average that this difference becomes a defining quality.
Scientists use a cut score of 25-30 on the PCL-R to identify and study “psychopaths.” When studying psychopaths scientists exclude from their studies people who also have other obvious defining qualities like mental retardation and delusions/hallucinations. By looking at the “pure” top end of the distribution they can study those who are most prone to doing evil and try to determine the brain disorder that underlies doing evil. People at the top end are more likely to be measurably different from other people.
Since the psychopaths researchers study are free from other disorders, any brain findings can be attributed to psychopathy. In such studies, several brain abnormalities have been found and linked to the behavior of psychopaths. The brain regions found to be abnormal in psychopaths are those regions demonstrated to be responsible for moral loving conduct in all of us. Abnormalities are also seen in those regions where aggressive impulses originate.
Again, using the analogy of intelligence, if we study what makes geniuses smart we learn something about what makes the average person smart. When we study what is wrong with psychopaths we learn something about what causes all of us to express and act on aggressive impulses.
In broader studies, scientists have discovered that the people who score over 25 on the PCL-R are a diverse group. While they share the symptoms of psychopathy, they may differ in important ways including the presence of other psychiatric disorders and mental retardation. Some psychopaths are also mentally ill above and beyond the psychopathy. Some experience delusions, particularly grandiose delusions and some hallucinate. There are many people who have delusions and hallucinations and yet do not harm others because psychotic disorders usually do not impair the moral brain, and the content of their delusions or hallucinations does not produce aggression.
Both psychotic and non-psychotic psychopaths experience increased impulses to harm others and they lack the moral brain mechanisms to restrain these impulses. That gets me to Garrido and Mitchell. Both men have grandiose delusions and have impaired contact with reality. However, both were organized enough to plan and carry out kidnapping and sexual assault. (This is actually evidence for psychopathy since psychopathy has been linked to sexual assault and sexual perversion in many studies.)
Both Garrido and Mitchell are also psychopathic enough so that the cries and suffering of their victims and their victim’s families meant nothing. Both remain self absorbed and have failed to show any real remorse for their actions. In fact, Garrido said in one of his news interviews that we would all come to see his story as “heart warming.” It makes intuitive sense that if a psychopath were to develop delusions, they would be of a grandiose nature since grandiosity is part of the disorder. The psychosis just exaggerates what is already there. Similarly when psychopaths hallucinate, they hear voices that tell them how wonderful and special they are. Of course G-d and angels talk to them!
In summary, I believe Garrido and Mitchell are both highly psychopathic. They both have disorders in multiple brain systems, including those important in reality orientation and those involved in the generation and inhibition of aggressive sexual impulses. One of my supervisors called such individuals schizopaths (combined schizophrenia and psychopathy). Schizopaths are the most dangerous individuals in our society because they have no restraint over the impulses generated by the psychotic process.
On this blog, we have talked about the need for laws to protect society from psychopaths. In my opinion, it makes sense to start with schizopaths. Offenders identified with both psychotic and psychopathic tendencies should be considered a special group. After even one serious offense, these individuals should be kept incarcerated or hospitalized to protect the public. One strike you’re out is justified because of the chronic nature of combined psychopathy and psychosis.
Next week, the female accomplices of Garrido and Mitchell.
As I’ve mentioned ad nauseum, I’m stuck in a cycle where I can’t stop thinking about the P and how he came to be this way.
So I looked up the Beatitudes and googled their meanings. I’ve found a few sites with explanations. What is extraordinary is that they are the EXTREME POLAR OPPOSITE of everything the P’s think.
http://robertwells.tripod.com/Beatitudes.html
above is one link to the explanations
It is the same thing to say that the P’s are our example of how not to be and the beatitudes are our example of how to be.
I am so sad when I think that I had 25 years to reach out to the P and give him some guidance as to how to be, but I didn’t even know that he needed it. I’m not saying it would have helped, but I AM saying that I, as God’s child, should have been aware of a soul that needed saving. Instead, I just sat back and went along for the ride, unaware or unwilling to judge.
Hummingbird and all, if you happen to be Christian, when you are getting the “word out”, add the beatitudes to your speeches. It really serves as a good – counterpoint? – when explaining the evil of narcissism. The Beatitudes are hard to understand and harder to achieve, but once you understand them, you see how they contradict everything that the P’s stand for.
Skylar, I can see that you are a Christian, so you will understand my question. I often wonder how God views the Psychopath…I believe that with God anything is possible, that is why before I really knew what was “wrong” with my x, I thought addiction, sex abuse as a child, many things that I felt SORRY for him for. I prayed constantly FOR him that God would help him change.
Now that I understand the genetics, the biology, the hopelessness, I’m beginning to wonder if the S/P’s of this world are merely some of those whose names are simply not written in THE BOOK OF LIFE. Perhaps God knew from before their birth that Satan would invade their very core…that their choice would be that of evil. This is something I’ve had a hard time understanding… Any thoughts?
skylar:
Believe me, don’t beat yourself up over that one. My PX hub got plenty of Christianity. I am a believer and he claimed to be. Little story: he abandoned me the very day I moved my church membership to a local church here in his hometown [he moved us here]. He stayed gone for three months -wanted to return and work it out/after therapy for him and some meds for him- we tried …. then one Sunday he suddenly ran forward and joined this church. Afterwards people came up to hug/welcome him…including a young girl that I found out- he had more than likely been involved with…he had come forward and joined the church because her parents were members and I had unwittingly sat us down behind them…..*small world, ya know. Believe me: they know what they are doing. Sadly, you would have more than likely given him another mirror or mask to wear. I know we should witness…I am not saying that. I am saying that even if we don’t:
God has no problem getting the saving Word out to the whosoever wills’….[those that will accept/believe in Him.
And I totally agree with you: P’s are evil. ….. “Nothing new under the sun”…Ecclesiastes 1:9
hummingbird06:
Is is my personal opinion that [speaking of those that have reached the age of accountability-which I believe may be older than we sometimes think] you have made a very good point. From my belief there comes a time when a person can cross a line with God- and the offer of Salvation is no longer available.
*I apologize by jumping in here: But your story of how you prayed for your husband and your sorrow for him was the same as mine.
These types of questions get us thinking into the theology of predestination/election/free will of man. I am so very glad to see your and skylar’s post because this is what I believe to be involved in P’s too. Thanks.
Twice Betrayed:
I hear ya…….(:}) One day she might have a hard time leaving her castle due to the great fortress she built around her…..forgetting where she lay down the traps…..then she might see the light…and ask for your help…..
TB,
If you read the Bible, you will know that nobody was more disgusting than Saint Paul before his conversion. He did NOTHING ALL DAY BUT KILL CHRISTIANS! He was on his way into town to round up some more when he heard God say, “Saul, why do you persecute me?” The rest is history.
No one is beyond redemption. But as to Hummingbirds excellent question, remember that we are all born narcissists. IMHO, I think that may be what the Bible means by the stain of original sin. We are all born selfish parasites that must be groomed into having a conscience. Predators groom victims one small step at a time and I think compassion and empathy is also imprinted in our brains by the choices that we make, one step at a time.. Sometimes it is just the choice to think/indulge in certain thoughts.
There are 2 periods in life when children get huge growth spurts: infancy and adolescence. It might be that those are the only chances we get to imprint empathy or it might not be.
But as to why God allowed their miserable existance? That is what I’m trying to figure out. Why did he make cats? From a mouse’s perspective it is a cruel joke, right? Maybe we just don’t have the right perspective. My life seems like a cruel joke to me. Before I found out why my life was so miserable…I was so blind that I didn’t even blame the P for my misery, seriously, I could not see that it was him. To me, it all seemed like God was laughing at me. I raged at God and then I told Him, “Fine, laugh all you want, I’ll just laugh with you. HAHA, that was a good one.” Seriously, I said that to God. After much prayer, now, I’m barely on speaking terms with Him.
Anyway, my above post was not about my P so much as it was about my missed opportunity. On the other hand, I also know that stockholm syndrome is an innate survival strategy. Perhaps the only way I could have survived is by doing exactly what I did, which was nothing.
Skylar, God made cats for you and me ane Hummingbird. You have five, Hummingbird has Rebound and I have Pinky-doodle!
You are talking about the food chain. Even cats have to eat. We eat cows and chickens. That’s life. It doesn’t make you a P or me a P or Pinky-doodle a P. Why are they here? Did God intend for them to be here? Was it a fluke? Did God make a mistake? Maybe it was God’s experiment> Everything is relative. Who says that God even exists?
I like to think he does, but then again, common sense tells me it’s not very likely. I still believe in kindness and goodness, I still have faith that, in the long run, we will prevail. I don’t know where those beliefs come from, but I know I believe in love. And I think that that is what the Christ believed in, also. Isn’t it possible that he is a symbol of somthing we as human beings aren’t even capable of understanding? Bless you.
Skylar,
Twice Betrayed is right… don’t ever feel guilty or bad for not “saving” your P. By adulthood, or even adolescence, I firmly believe, that the unforgivable sin has been committed. Your P had rejected the very existence of a God who is clearly all around him…it wouldn’t have mattered WHAT you did or said at that point…
It tears me up inside to think that this man I loved so much is beyond hope, but that is what I think I’m facing…from a theological point it doesn’t have a happy ending…it makes us question why does God allow them? Why did God allow them in our lives?
We may not find these answers until we see the Lord Himself, but, we MUST trust that God knows best…Maybe all the times I was praying “God, please help him…please change him…please show him your goodness”…maybe I wasn’t listening to the answer because He may have been saying back “I’m helping YOU…changing YOU…showing YOU”….. he is lost and will not be given any more chances.
The thought of my original post was that possibly they are doomed from birth? It goes back to the very difficult to understand predestination vs choice vs an allknowing God aware of what that choice would have been…makes one’s head hurt!
I will pray for you tonight and all my LF friends, that we find peace in our decisions and in our hearts…XXOO
Holy Cats Batman!! I have FOUR actually….and then there’s the one that’s away at college…
Hi Kim,
that’s a good perspective, but it isn’t the mouse’s perspective!
To him, Pinky-Doodle is just another word for “he whose name must never be spoken” LOL.
When I first figured out what was going on with my P, I was so shocked. The first analogy that came to mind was that of a cow that suddenly realizes why old Farmer P has been feeding it and milking it and petting it for all these years.
Cow just thought he was a real good guy, but now realizes that he only saw Cow as a steak! I was that cow! My head was spinning with that realization. P felt nothing about having me slaughtered, he was just going to enjoy the meal.
You read “Violence and the Sacred” and I’ve read parts of it, It does attempt to reconcile these questions but I don’t really have a great understanding of it. In part, it seems to say that evil exist as part of the duality of all existence. Like night divides the day, evil serves to define good.
Also it seems to say that because human beings learn by copying what we see, we learn to desire what we see others desire. This leads to envy and violence.
If envy is the root of narcissism, it seems the key would be to model better desires to our children. We could show that we desire to love more than to be loved. And sharing more than having. Never show any selfishness because that will be modeled. But DON’T FORGET TO MODEL BOUNDARIES, because no one did that for me and I don’t have any. 🙁