“Suddenly, everything made sense, I was not crazy, I had been dealing with a psychopath!” explained a woman this week as she told the story of how she discovered “psychopathy” and Dr. Hare’s diagnostic symptoms. With this discovery, she learned that a personality disorder is behind the behavior of people who manipulate and harm others without guilt or remorse. Prior to learning about psychopathy, the woman said she held the view that all people were basically good and needed the same things. Understanding psychopathy/sociopathy gave her the ability to make sense of a world where a small fraction of individuals do a tremendous amount of harm- AND YET THESE INDIVIDUALS ON THE SURFACE SEEM PERFECTLY NORMAL.
As we discussed the kidnapping of Jaycee Lee Dugard, that same woman questioned whether Phillip Garrido (the kidnapper) is “a psychopath.” She tended to think that Garrido, “Is not a psychopath” and that schizophrenia or some delusional disorder was behind Garrido’s monstrous behavior. According to my friend, “a psychopath” is not mentally ill, is in contact with reality, and yet perpetrates evil anyway. For her the appearance of sanity is an essential characteristic of a psychopath/sociopath.
This week I want to discuss Garrido, and Brian David Mitchell (Elizabeth’s Smart’s kidnapper). These two men are strikingly similar. But first I have to tell you about my own moment of awakening with regard to psychopathy. Just like my friend’s moment, my moment made sense of the world, however it came after years of experience with antisocial people and after years of reading about the disorder. In my moment I realized that psychopathy explains evil.
Yes, I said psychopathy explains evil. This statement is true even though people who are not “psychopaths” do plenty of evil. Because psychopathy explains evil, its importance extends far beyond enabling us to identify the most recidivist criminals, or those who we should avoid going on dates with.
How did it come to pass that psychopathy explains evil? My friend is correct in that originally psychopathy (more than 100 years ago) was called “moral insanity.” It was conceived of as a disorder where people who have an intact mind repeatedly violate the rights of others. Then, Dr. Hervey Cleckley intensively studied the case histories of those he believed to be “psychopaths.” From his experience with many cases Dr. Cleckley developed a list of traits he believed could be used to identify those with the disorder.
Dr. Robert Hare took those traits and used them, along with other personality disorder criteria to develop the PCL-R which is now the best way to “diagnose psychopathy.” Forensic professionals have administered the PCL-R to thousands of offenders and to people with substance abuse issues. From these studies we know that “psychopathy” is actually not a category it is a continuum. In fact the PCL-R scores of offenders are all markedly elevated above those of general population samples (like college students). There is no absolute cut-off score that identifies “true psychopaths.” Instead, for every point increase in score the risk of doing evil increases. The PCL-R is a very good measure of an individual’s risk to offend against others and society.
Psychopathy, as currently measured by the PCL-R is then a trait that is present in everyone to a greater or lesser degree. This trait cuts across diagnostic categories. Think of it like you would intelligence as measured by IQ tests. Everybody has an IQ but it is only when the scores are very high or very low that they come to define or categorize a person. Psychopaths are the equivalent of geniuses who score so high and are so different from average that this difference becomes a defining quality.
Scientists use a cut score of 25-30 on the PCL-R to identify and study “psychopaths.” When studying psychopaths scientists exclude from their studies people who also have other obvious defining qualities like mental retardation and delusions/hallucinations. By looking at the “pure” top end of the distribution they can study those who are most prone to doing evil and try to determine the brain disorder that underlies doing evil. People at the top end are more likely to be measurably different from other people.
Since the psychopaths researchers study are free from other disorders, any brain findings can be attributed to psychopathy. In such studies, several brain abnormalities have been found and linked to the behavior of psychopaths. The brain regions found to be abnormal in psychopaths are those regions demonstrated to be responsible for moral loving conduct in all of us. Abnormalities are also seen in those regions where aggressive impulses originate.
Again, using the analogy of intelligence, if we study what makes geniuses smart we learn something about what makes the average person smart. When we study what is wrong with psychopaths we learn something about what causes all of us to express and act on aggressive impulses.
In broader studies, scientists have discovered that the people who score over 25 on the PCL-R are a diverse group. While they share the symptoms of psychopathy, they may differ in important ways including the presence of other psychiatric disorders and mental retardation. Some psychopaths are also mentally ill above and beyond the psychopathy. Some experience delusions, particularly grandiose delusions and some hallucinate. There are many people who have delusions and hallucinations and yet do not harm others because psychotic disorders usually do not impair the moral brain, and the content of their delusions or hallucinations does not produce aggression.
Both psychotic and non-psychotic psychopaths experience increased impulses to harm others and they lack the moral brain mechanisms to restrain these impulses. That gets me to Garrido and Mitchell. Both men have grandiose delusions and have impaired contact with reality. However, both were organized enough to plan and carry out kidnapping and sexual assault. (This is actually evidence for psychopathy since psychopathy has been linked to sexual assault and sexual perversion in many studies.)
Both Garrido and Mitchell are also psychopathic enough so that the cries and suffering of their victims and their victim’s families meant nothing. Both remain self absorbed and have failed to show any real remorse for their actions. In fact, Garrido said in one of his news interviews that we would all come to see his story as “heart warming.” It makes intuitive sense that if a psychopath were to develop delusions, they would be of a grandiose nature since grandiosity is part of the disorder. The psychosis just exaggerates what is already there. Similarly when psychopaths hallucinate, they hear voices that tell them how wonderful and special they are. Of course G-d and angels talk to them!
In summary, I believe Garrido and Mitchell are both highly psychopathic. They both have disorders in multiple brain systems, including those important in reality orientation and those involved in the generation and inhibition of aggressive sexual impulses. One of my supervisors called such individuals schizopaths (combined schizophrenia and psychopathy). Schizopaths are the most dangerous individuals in our society because they have no restraint over the impulses generated by the psychotic process.
On this blog, we have talked about the need for laws to protect society from psychopaths. In my opinion, it makes sense to start with schizopaths. Offenders identified with both psychotic and psychopathic tendencies should be considered a special group. After even one serious offense, these individuals should be kept incarcerated or hospitalized to protect the public. One strike you’re out is justified because of the chronic nature of combined psychopathy and psychosis.
Next week, the female accomplices of Garrido and Mitchell.
skylar: sounds to me like you are describing Satan……..the great imitator.
“We wanted to live in the fantasy world that the P created, so we saw and ignored the truth.”
Well, some of us fell in love with the illusion the P presented=the false self. And by the time we began
to see the real person we were way in over our heads-emotionally, financially, and possibly had children to protect and provide for. We continued to mature and we did see the truth….but possibly not the whole of it till we were gone. So, the roles of the P and us changed….we became the ‘mother’ or parent to the P. Once we got into a position to leave, we did. For me this was the case.
True TB,
we were presented a false self by the P, that’s what they all do. The devil never presents himself as he really is or everyone would run and he wouldn’t get a chance to snare us.
But that false-self mask would slip and I would find an excuse for it. When he came in at 4AM, when the passenger doors to his car didn’t unlock from the inside, when the window was broken and he said it was a crazy girl he was trying to help…well there were many more examples in 25 years and each came with a gut feeling which I ignored because it was too horrible to believe. It was too hard to believe the bad and yes, I was over my head invested emotionally, financially and with 5 cats.
But when I finally saw the big picture – after I left – I realized that all of that investment WAS A SET UP. They set you up so you won’t be able to leave. Even slandering me to the neighbors was a set up so that when he finally came after me, I would have no where to run.
Recently, I have read that P’s will create greatlarge financial debts JUST TO KEEP THEIR PARTNER CONTROLLED. I’ve said it before, it’s like they all went to the same P-university!
skylar: you nailed it…..
skylar: if you or anyone else is interested, J. Vernon McGee with be teaching this Sunday on Satan. The title of the teaching is: Angels With Dirty Faces and the website is ttb.org
Dear Twice,
The story of Eve and Satan in the story of the “Garden of Eden” to me is (whether someone believes it literally or not) such a great analogy of the psychopath. I can’t remember the exact name of it now (CRS) but I did an article on it several months ago.
Actually, if you read the story, you can see that Satan didn’t “get anythign” out of it except he saw Eve lose her “happy home” and her innocense.
Psychopaths don’t have to have a “motive” that WE can understand like the motive for stealing is to get something without working for it, to get it “free.” We can SEE that motive, but the psychopath will work just for other’s downfall, even if he doesn’t DIRECTLY gain anything else, just to see someone else suffer.
Frequently on LF victims ask “what did he gain by it?” or people we try to tell our stories to can’t “see a motive” so they don’t believe someone did what they did–“there was no motive” — oh, YES, there WAS a motive, but not one that would make us or any normal person want to do something purely evil, but psychopaths have different motives than we do. they are “tempted” by different things than others are.
A drug addict is “tempted” by drugs, I am not tempted by drugs, so I have some difficulty really understanding how they are tempted, but I can get the “idea”–but the “temptations” of the psychopaath are so DIFFERENT than temptations for others, it is very difficult to get your mind around why they would enjoy just hurting others.
PURE EVIL is all I can say. It doesn’t have to make “sense” in terms of “normal” because it is NOT “normal.” it is not rational.
But after a time, I finally got to where I could just say, “it does’t seem rational, but it IS what it IS.” Acceptance.
Oxy,
yes, you are right. My xP would actually pay to have me suffer. He didn’t want to gain anything except the pleasure of seeing me suffer. Please get out your skillet and “bonk” me because I’ve been missing him all day.
You know, when someone says “I never lie”….it is a good sign that at LEAST they struggle or have struggled with being honest. Because a person who is honest doesn’t even think to ever make a point about it.
The p said to me often “I’m really not interested in hurting my special people”.
HA! that is what gives him the greatest pleasure in life!
The weekend he sexually assaulted me, doing something he knew I didn’t want done, when I had no physical power to stop him, he later told me was “the most fun weekend I’ve had in years.”
Guess why.
Oxy,
What made it so hard for me to accept that my S/P was actually a SOCIOPATH, is because he WASN’T really ever mean to me. In retrospect, I would think that he probably did do certain things just to be nasty and see me hurt, but at the time I couldn’t imagine it being intentional…I still have trouble with it. In fact while you’re bonking Skyler, I’m right in line behind her waiting for the old skillet to knock some sense in to me…as I too missed mine today, and I feel bad that he is moving in with the new gf.
How can we possibly think that attention from a PSYCHOPATH is better than no attention at all? I KNOW it’s not real…for me OR her…but it’s like karaoke love…for a few precious minutes you’re the center of attention…the star…you get to have that magical feeling for just a little while before it’s back to reality….back to his leaving you with questions of what more do I have to do to get this man to love me? He should ADORE me…we had a nice time…it was fun…what am I doing wrong…why is he still on all those dating sites.
How to please him used to be on my mind 24/7….now from the minute I wake up, until I slumber, I think about how to get over him. It’s all consuming…every day…I can’t get him out of my head and it’s driving me crazy…although I could advise anyone else going through the same thing that time will heal, focus on such and such…blah blah blah.
You know he forgot my birthday 3 years in a row…yep…all 3 years we knew each other. It’s a few days before Christmas so it’s not like it’s all that difficult to remember. I didn’t want anything…just a Happy Birthday…maybe a card…just REMEMBER ME. And I will guarantee you that this December, I will be checking my email all day long…just to see…just to see if now that we’re not together, he’ll send that B’day wish just to toy with me, and if he does it will actually make me feel better than being forgotten once again. How stupid is that…
JAH,
That is so sick. I wish I could physically assault him for you. I would definitely have the most fun I’VE had in years.
I have a problem with your first paragraph because I really rarely lie. My xP would rage if I ever dared to say that he lied. I would have to take it back, even though the truth is he NEVER MOVED HIS LIPS WITHOUT LYING.
My P-neighbor, on the other hand, said, “Skylar, Everybody lies!” in response to my wondering why someone else in the neighborhood would lie for no reason. I could not believe my ears. I just wandered away in a daze.
I guess I’m an innocent babe in the woods because I avoid lying and really have a hard time NOT telling the truth. IT’S SOOO MUCH EASIER TO TELL THE TRUTH! You don’t have to think up a story, you don’t have to remember it, and you don’t have to worry that someone will find out you lied. Can it be any easier? I’m starting to think that my problem is just that I’m LAZY! Too lazy to be evil. LOL. It’s not that I can’t lie or never have, I think I’m actually good at being deceptive if/when I want to be. Just don’t want to make the effort. It rarely seems worth it.
I lied all the time when my P asked me to, but after awhile it became easier to avoid his friends so I wouldn’t have to lie to them and then I got rid of my friends so I wouldn’t have to lie to them either. I was supposed to lie about his job (none), where we live, my last name/his last name, and a host of other things just in case someone ever tried to find him to get revenge for some imagined injuries – injuries, which of course didn’t happen but you know how irrational people can be!
That’s why I disagree with your paragraph. Not that I never lie, just that I find it so tiring. Please let me know if I’m the only one that thinks lying is too much work. I really need to know if I’m that unusual because I don’t want to be and I will start lying more if anyone should convince me that it’s better.