“Suddenly, everything made sense, I was not crazy, I had been dealing with a psychopath!” explained a woman this week as she told the story of how she discovered “psychopathy” and Dr. Hare’s diagnostic symptoms. With this discovery, she learned that a personality disorder is behind the behavior of people who manipulate and harm others without guilt or remorse. Prior to learning about psychopathy, the woman said she held the view that all people were basically good and needed the same things. Understanding psychopathy/sociopathy gave her the ability to make sense of a world where a small fraction of individuals do a tremendous amount of harm- AND YET THESE INDIVIDUALS ON THE SURFACE SEEM PERFECTLY NORMAL.
As we discussed the kidnapping of Jaycee Lee Dugard, that same woman questioned whether Phillip Garrido (the kidnapper) is “a psychopath.” She tended to think that Garrido, “Is not a psychopath” and that schizophrenia or some delusional disorder was behind Garrido’s monstrous behavior. According to my friend, “a psychopath” is not mentally ill, is in contact with reality, and yet perpetrates evil anyway. For her the appearance of sanity is an essential characteristic of a psychopath/sociopath.
This week I want to discuss Garrido, and Brian David Mitchell (Elizabeth’s Smart’s kidnapper). These two men are strikingly similar. But first I have to tell you about my own moment of awakening with regard to psychopathy. Just like my friend’s moment, my moment made sense of the world, however it came after years of experience with antisocial people and after years of reading about the disorder. In my moment I realized that psychopathy explains evil.
Yes, I said psychopathy explains evil. This statement is true even though people who are not “psychopaths” do plenty of evil. Because psychopathy explains evil, its importance extends far beyond enabling us to identify the most recidivist criminals, or those who we should avoid going on dates with.
How did it come to pass that psychopathy explains evil? My friend is correct in that originally psychopathy (more than 100 years ago) was called “moral insanity.” It was conceived of as a disorder where people who have an intact mind repeatedly violate the rights of others. Then, Dr. Hervey Cleckley intensively studied the case histories of those he believed to be “psychopaths.” From his experience with many cases Dr. Cleckley developed a list of traits he believed could be used to identify those with the disorder.
Dr. Robert Hare took those traits and used them, along with other personality disorder criteria to develop the PCL-R which is now the best way to “diagnose psychopathy.” Forensic professionals have administered the PCL-R to thousands of offenders and to people with substance abuse issues. From these studies we know that “psychopathy” is actually not a category it is a continuum. In fact the PCL-R scores of offenders are all markedly elevated above those of general population samples (like college students). There is no absolute cut-off score that identifies “true psychopaths.” Instead, for every point increase in score the risk of doing evil increases. The PCL-R is a very good measure of an individual’s risk to offend against others and society.
Psychopathy, as currently measured by the PCL-R is then a trait that is present in everyone to a greater or lesser degree. This trait cuts across diagnostic categories. Think of it like you would intelligence as measured by IQ tests. Everybody has an IQ but it is only when the scores are very high or very low that they come to define or categorize a person. Psychopaths are the equivalent of geniuses who score so high and are so different from average that this difference becomes a defining quality.
Scientists use a cut score of 25-30 on the PCL-R to identify and study “psychopaths.” When studying psychopaths scientists exclude from their studies people who also have other obvious defining qualities like mental retardation and delusions/hallucinations. By looking at the “pure” top end of the distribution they can study those who are most prone to doing evil and try to determine the brain disorder that underlies doing evil. People at the top end are more likely to be measurably different from other people.
Since the psychopaths researchers study are free from other disorders, any brain findings can be attributed to psychopathy. In such studies, several brain abnormalities have been found and linked to the behavior of psychopaths. The brain regions found to be abnormal in psychopaths are those regions demonstrated to be responsible for moral loving conduct in all of us. Abnormalities are also seen in those regions where aggressive impulses originate.
Again, using the analogy of intelligence, if we study what makes geniuses smart we learn something about what makes the average person smart. When we study what is wrong with psychopaths we learn something about what causes all of us to express and act on aggressive impulses.
In broader studies, scientists have discovered that the people who score over 25 on the PCL-R are a diverse group. While they share the symptoms of psychopathy, they may differ in important ways including the presence of other psychiatric disorders and mental retardation. Some psychopaths are also mentally ill above and beyond the psychopathy. Some experience delusions, particularly grandiose delusions and some hallucinate. There are many people who have delusions and hallucinations and yet do not harm others because psychotic disorders usually do not impair the moral brain, and the content of their delusions or hallucinations does not produce aggression.
Both psychotic and non-psychotic psychopaths experience increased impulses to harm others and they lack the moral brain mechanisms to restrain these impulses. That gets me to Garrido and Mitchell. Both men have grandiose delusions and have impaired contact with reality. However, both were organized enough to plan and carry out kidnapping and sexual assault. (This is actually evidence for psychopathy since psychopathy has been linked to sexual assault and sexual perversion in many studies.)
Both Garrido and Mitchell are also psychopathic enough so that the cries and suffering of their victims and their victim’s families meant nothing. Both remain self absorbed and have failed to show any real remorse for their actions. In fact, Garrido said in one of his news interviews that we would all come to see his story as “heart warming.” It makes intuitive sense that if a psychopath were to develop delusions, they would be of a grandiose nature since grandiosity is part of the disorder. The psychosis just exaggerates what is already there. Similarly when psychopaths hallucinate, they hear voices that tell them how wonderful and special they are. Of course G-d and angels talk to them!
In summary, I believe Garrido and Mitchell are both highly psychopathic. They both have disorders in multiple brain systems, including those important in reality orientation and those involved in the generation and inhibition of aggressive sexual impulses. One of my supervisors called such individuals schizopaths (combined schizophrenia and psychopathy). Schizopaths are the most dangerous individuals in our society because they have no restraint over the impulses generated by the psychotic process.
On this blog, we have talked about the need for laws to protect society from psychopaths. In my opinion, it makes sense to start with schizopaths. Offenders identified with both psychotic and psychopathic tendencies should be considered a special group. After even one serious offense, these individuals should be kept incarcerated or hospitalized to protect the public. One strike you’re out is justified because of the chronic nature of combined psychopathy and psychosis.
Next week, the female accomplices of Garrido and Mitchell.
hummingbird,
my birthday is a few days after Christmas and I stopped getting a happy bday several years ago. But this year, I’m going to send YOU a happy birthday – just remind me! LOL.
🙂
Hummingbird06
Hi, I wrote you a comment above but I think you missed it….
Skylar, LOL about the lying bit. I switched my attorney, because he too told me that everyone lies when I presented him with various signs and “discrepancies” my X is so full of. It is true though that we all “bend the truth” to some extent. Most of the time it is absolutely harmless, like answering a question “How are you?” with “I am fine”, instead of “I am trying to get over the betrayal of a life time and it makes me feel helpless to know that there are more victims and more evil doers out there; therefore, I am in fear for my well being and that of my children, and also facing severe financial burdens, not to mention the fact that I am constipated”, etc. We also lie when a colleague asks if we like the shoes she just purchased. Depending on that relationship, we may not want to say: “I think they are totally not worth the price you paid for them and the color does not match your outfit”. These are lies, if you will, but not of the deception kind. Manipulative and deceptive, my X left me with more questions than answers, and I would rather never get the “true” answers because of what I had learned through LF.
So THAT’S what I’ve been doing wrong when people ask me “how are you?”
Today I visited a ‘friend’ who is also a Dr.
She said….OMG, you look wonderful, look at you!…….and immediately followed it with……see what getting laid does for you!
I think the S told her last year I had a boyfriend…..and she asked me how that is going……
I just went along with it…….Oh, yes…….wonderful…..Ha, ha…..
In this relationship…..I wasn’t interested in ‘correcting’ her or getting into it…..if she wanted to believe or get into my (make believe) personal life…..then…..so be it….
I knew it came from the S and it will go right back to the S. So whatever they want to play with……
I have been celebate since the ex and have averaged 1 ONE date a year……that would equal 3 dates total! If that somehow translates into a boyfriend and getting laid……well….wish me luck!
So yes, ‘I AM FINE” with a smile……I wasn’t going to get into my bowel movements too!
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I have to tell you…..I have been in my ‘evil’ crack myself up mode all day today.
S has been ducking service…..and I got a gift this week of his location. Exact location…State, city, address.
He will be BLOWN away when I have the process server show up with his documents!
He will be so pissed that i once again found him……
And all he needs to do is give me one measly signiture. Thats it!
So now……I need to go back to court, file the docs, serve him……and he has to come back to this state (far away), risk an arrest due to the warrant, appear in court on something he was ordered to sign back in may.
Where is the logic here? Not giving him credit for having logic…..but…….when is it time for him to move along……and comply and get on with his life? He hasn’t be successful at any step of this ‘game’ process……and I know that is not what they always look for……but he has looked like an ass each step…..a HUGE ASS….doesn’t that count for something?
I always said…..you can run, but you can’t hide!
Oxy: I do understand what you are saying. I think their motive is always to destroy us…and as many people as possible along the way.
Erin,
congrats! It’s nice to know one of us is victorious over the S.
I’m imagining you poking him with your electric cow prod, making him jump!
I understand what you mean about illness and the S. They know that stress causes illness and that’s why they gaslight, have affairs, lie etc…
My aunt died of cancer. Her husband was always having affairs right under her nose. Everyone who knew them, also knew and it was humiliating to her. She was a very proper, moral and upright person. But she had too much pride to leave him so she died instead. I often thought of her in my own illnesses. Though I was unaware of the true evil in my P, I knew he was not good for my health.
Skylar,
One of my good friends commenting on her P before she left after 30 years of his baloney:
“I could sit in this chair (pointing to an easy chair in the living room) and die, and he wouldn’t know it until he needed me to “do” his bidding….”
Vision, Skylar and JAH,
Yes, I saw the posts…and thank-you for taking the time to respond…it really means a lot, seriously…you have no idea…or maybe you do. I will never forget the night I overdosed…I felt so alone,depressed, used, taken advantage of, unloved, and most of all INSIGNIFICANT. It wasn’t that I felt my family didn’t love me, but my S/P did such a job on my self esteem, and I was so so hurt…hurt so much that I couldn’t believe another human being could so callously react like he did to the whole thing. That is what made me feel so “small”…like I didn’t matter…because to him…I didn’t.
I was supposed to get a phone call that night from a “prospective” new date interest from one of the dating sites who had been trying to woo me for a while. He had been telling me all along “this guy is messing with you” etc…but of course I ALWAYS defended my S…always made excuses for him. Well, that phone call never even came…my best friend was unreachable that evening…and I was too embarrassed to admit to my family all the things this “wonderful” guy had done to hurt me…so I sat alone for a long time, thinking about the best solution.
As I’ve posted a few times before, God saved me that weekend. I know I am still here for a purpose…I should be ecstatic with joy that I’m alive and stop feeling sorry for myself. I can tell myself these things over and over, but I can’t seem to control the EMOTION…the tears. It is getting better, and I can’t expect it to happen overnight…I’m just so afraid that it may never leave…that I will always be haunted by him.
What you have posted makes so much sense, and sometimes other opinions will add a different outlook or viewpoint that you hadn’t thought of, so every little bit helps. And most importantly…you make me feel like someone really CARES how I’m dealing with this.
Unfortunately…a cloudy, gloomy day in the NorthEast…yuck
Has anyone heard from Tilly??