“Suddenly, everything made sense, I was not crazy, I had been dealing with a psychopath!” explained a woman this week as she told the story of how she discovered “psychopathy” and Dr. Hare’s diagnostic symptoms. With this discovery, she learned that a personality disorder is behind the behavior of people who manipulate and harm others without guilt or remorse. Prior to learning about psychopathy, the woman said she held the view that all people were basically good and needed the same things. Understanding psychopathy/sociopathy gave her the ability to make sense of a world where a small fraction of individuals do a tremendous amount of harm- AND YET THESE INDIVIDUALS ON THE SURFACE SEEM PERFECTLY NORMAL.
As we discussed the kidnapping of Jaycee Lee Dugard, that same woman questioned whether Phillip Garrido (the kidnapper) is “a psychopath.” She tended to think that Garrido, “Is not a psychopath” and that schizophrenia or some delusional disorder was behind Garrido’s monstrous behavior. According to my friend, “a psychopath” is not mentally ill, is in contact with reality, and yet perpetrates evil anyway. For her the appearance of sanity is an essential characteristic of a psychopath/sociopath.
This week I want to discuss Garrido, and Brian David Mitchell (Elizabeth’s Smart’s kidnapper). These two men are strikingly similar. But first I have to tell you about my own moment of awakening with regard to psychopathy. Just like my friend’s moment, my moment made sense of the world, however it came after years of experience with antisocial people and after years of reading about the disorder. In my moment I realized that psychopathy explains evil.
Yes, I said psychopathy explains evil. This statement is true even though people who are not “psychopaths” do plenty of evil. Because psychopathy explains evil, its importance extends far beyond enabling us to identify the most recidivist criminals, or those who we should avoid going on dates with.
How did it come to pass that psychopathy explains evil? My friend is correct in that originally psychopathy (more than 100 years ago) was called “moral insanity.” It was conceived of as a disorder where people who have an intact mind repeatedly violate the rights of others. Then, Dr. Hervey Cleckley intensively studied the case histories of those he believed to be “psychopaths.” From his experience with many cases Dr. Cleckley developed a list of traits he believed could be used to identify those with the disorder.
Dr. Robert Hare took those traits and used them, along with other personality disorder criteria to develop the PCL-R which is now the best way to “diagnose psychopathy.” Forensic professionals have administered the PCL-R to thousands of offenders and to people with substance abuse issues. From these studies we know that “psychopathy” is actually not a category it is a continuum. In fact the PCL-R scores of offenders are all markedly elevated above those of general population samples (like college students). There is no absolute cut-off score that identifies “true psychopaths.” Instead, for every point increase in score the risk of doing evil increases. The PCL-R is a very good measure of an individual’s risk to offend against others and society.
Psychopathy, as currently measured by the PCL-R is then a trait that is present in everyone to a greater or lesser degree. This trait cuts across diagnostic categories. Think of it like you would intelligence as measured by IQ tests. Everybody has an IQ but it is only when the scores are very high or very low that they come to define or categorize a person. Psychopaths are the equivalent of geniuses who score so high and are so different from average that this difference becomes a defining quality.
Scientists use a cut score of 25-30 on the PCL-R to identify and study “psychopaths.” When studying psychopaths scientists exclude from their studies people who also have other obvious defining qualities like mental retardation and delusions/hallucinations. By looking at the “pure” top end of the distribution they can study those who are most prone to doing evil and try to determine the brain disorder that underlies doing evil. People at the top end are more likely to be measurably different from other people.
Since the psychopaths researchers study are free from other disorders, any brain findings can be attributed to psychopathy. In such studies, several brain abnormalities have been found and linked to the behavior of psychopaths. The brain regions found to be abnormal in psychopaths are those regions demonstrated to be responsible for moral loving conduct in all of us. Abnormalities are also seen in those regions where aggressive impulses originate.
Again, using the analogy of intelligence, if we study what makes geniuses smart we learn something about what makes the average person smart. When we study what is wrong with psychopaths we learn something about what causes all of us to express and act on aggressive impulses.
In broader studies, scientists have discovered that the people who score over 25 on the PCL-R are a diverse group. While they share the symptoms of psychopathy, they may differ in important ways including the presence of other psychiatric disorders and mental retardation. Some psychopaths are also mentally ill above and beyond the psychopathy. Some experience delusions, particularly grandiose delusions and some hallucinate. There are many people who have delusions and hallucinations and yet do not harm others because psychotic disorders usually do not impair the moral brain, and the content of their delusions or hallucinations does not produce aggression.
Both psychotic and non-psychotic psychopaths experience increased impulses to harm others and they lack the moral brain mechanisms to restrain these impulses. That gets me to Garrido and Mitchell. Both men have grandiose delusions and have impaired contact with reality. However, both were organized enough to plan and carry out kidnapping and sexual assault. (This is actually evidence for psychopathy since psychopathy has been linked to sexual assault and sexual perversion in many studies.)
Both Garrido and Mitchell are also psychopathic enough so that the cries and suffering of their victims and their victim’s families meant nothing. Both remain self absorbed and have failed to show any real remorse for their actions. In fact, Garrido said in one of his news interviews that we would all come to see his story as “heart warming.” It makes intuitive sense that if a psychopath were to develop delusions, they would be of a grandiose nature since grandiosity is part of the disorder. The psychosis just exaggerates what is already there. Similarly when psychopaths hallucinate, they hear voices that tell them how wonderful and special they are. Of course G-d and angels talk to them!
In summary, I believe Garrido and Mitchell are both highly psychopathic. They both have disorders in multiple brain systems, including those important in reality orientation and those involved in the generation and inhibition of aggressive sexual impulses. One of my supervisors called such individuals schizopaths (combined schizophrenia and psychopathy). Schizopaths are the most dangerous individuals in our society because they have no restraint over the impulses generated by the psychotic process.
On this blog, we have talked about the need for laws to protect society from psychopaths. In my opinion, it makes sense to start with schizopaths. Offenders identified with both psychotic and psychopathic tendencies should be considered a special group. After even one serious offense, these individuals should be kept incarcerated or hospitalized to protect the public. One strike you’re out is justified because of the chronic nature of combined psychopathy and psychosis.
Next week, the female accomplices of Garrido and Mitchell.
Good one, Kim, you will have to be the fashion editor.
here’s something interesting. When I met the P he wore a sheepskin jacket, no shirt just the wooly sheepskin in the middle of winter. Could there have been a bigger red flag?
That was when you should have cried wolf.
RE the “feelings” of psychopaths, as noted above…I always assumed that when I had heard my xP told others he never felt the”passion” with me…it was just another lie…just an excuse, an explanation for why we weren’t dating anymore. He wouldn’t have to say I broke up with him because of his lying and cheating, he just said he wasn’t going to “settle”. Well, maybe he was right…I just didn’t “do it” for him…in his own way…he knew what “love”felt like, and he wasn’t feeling it with me no matter how hard he tried.
I guess he did have some kind of “magical” chemistry with the new gf other than the supply source. I guess maybe it was partly me…and now I feel worse…
Hummingbird, IT WASN’T YOU! He is in the honeymoon stage with her, and we know where that goes…devalue and disgard. Soon she’ll know it, too. Everything he’s put you through He’ll put her through. Trust me on that.
I had prepared myself to hear that my XP had a ne gf, still whenit happened I couldn’t help but feel a little blue about it. I consoled myself with the thought that it wouldn’t last long (not that I wished her any unhappiness, I just didn’t wish him any.) Well it was only a matter of months that I heard He had slept with her daughter, and the daughter told her (yeah, I have to wonder what’s going on with the daughter, too) But you get my point. They are entirely selfish, and he may be getting his supply for the time being, she’ll probably get tired of all that soon enough, and then he’ll have to tell everybody he just wasn’t feeling it. You’re the one who ought to be saying you’re not going to settle! Here’s one of Oxy’s (((HUGS)))
Hummingbird!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What are you thinking???!!!!
Be GLAD he is someone else’s problem now, NOT yours.
And let’s say he is PERFECTLY normal, which we know he is not. But if he were….if he doesn’t love you, then good riddance! You deserve a guy who is totally into you and committed to you. If he isn’t, who wants him anyway?!
Put yourself on the pedestal, not the guy!
If they don’t get how awesome you are, forget them!
Besides, he was NOT normal. He is a bad guy and you are LUCKY that he picked up that YOU are not going to settle for crappy treatment. That is almost always the only reason they leave….either that, or they found a richer sucker,etc.
Well, I shouldn’t say sucker. A richer potential victim.
Hummingbird,
Listen to all the wise words here…..and stop taking a shred of blame for not being able to rev his engine.
I heard about SO many women, and why the spathole broke it off. Let’s see: her lips were too skinny, she had one breast that was a LOT smaller, her butt was flat, she was too sweet and would ‘perform’, she ‘broke our polyamory’ agreements and went off with someone I didn’t approve of, she is just too much my ‘best friend’ and I couldn’t get into it, she was such a cranky bitch expecting me to find a job….when I don’t ‘do’ regular work…I am an artist, she wanted me to make a commitment, even though she is married….ON and ON and ON.
As Steve said, it is not us that is insatiable, it is them. This is a good time for some black and white thinking.
KEEP REPEATING: I did not make this happen. It is him, not me.
Hummingbird, I disagree with the other comments, OF COURSE IT WAS YOU, YOU WERE TOO SMART. He needs dumb. He needs a victim, you weren’t a proper victim.
In order to punish you for not being a proper victim, he decided to give you a slimey emotion: the emotion of shame and rejection. This was PLANNED. Nothing we say to you is going to override that emotion of not being “chosen” by the evil one. That is his intent. He slimed you with it and you caught the slime. All your logic and mine will not remove that slime. I have slime too and it doesn’t wash off.
From what I’ve read, they “project” their own shame and envy on others and we “catch” it. It’s almost a magic trick, They UNDERSTAND shame, they FEEL shame, they KNOW shame, they are INTIMATE with shame and they OWN shame so intensely. It is possibly from being rejected by their own first love, mom or dad. Their shame is so intolerable that they suppress it and behave shamelessly. They also want others to feel what they have felt and will go to any lengths to make it happen. Even as far as to marry the next woman in order to SHAME you, to make you think it was because you weren’t good enough.
So yes, it was all about you. He is so obsessed with you, with hurting you, that he will sacrifice anything to spread his slimey shame on to you.
Read, “Why is it always about you?” You will understand completely.
hummingbird and blogger,
both of your links are very informative, thank you so much, I saved them to my favorites.
Hummingbird:
“I guess he did have some kind of “magical” chemistry with the new gf other than the supply source. I guess maybe it was partly me”and now I feel worse””
Naw, that’s some of the P’s BS. I’ve watched my PX hub spin this same old yarn over and over….and he would be sleeping with this person- unknown to me. Remember; it’s always to keep you feeling like you failed. Don’t accept this type of emotional projection. Don’t let these evil people take your self esteem and twist/break it. That’s the game anyway. Take your energy and use it to set a firm ground on who YOU are and what YOU believe and once you set a firm foundation on YOUR personality what people like this say…..goes in one ear and out the other. I’ve been called everything and accused of everything by both of PX hubs. It almost killed me at one time. But, not any more….I know/see this game and I see it for what it is….smoke and mirrors. And what these people say has no reflection on my life and who I am. I choose to not accept the spin/lies. Once you do that….the lies loses their power over you. And you can very honestly say: Frankly, my dear, I don’t give a damn.
Also: I want to point out who these P’s think they ‘love’….and it’s someone who can ‘jerk their chain’ the way they jerk other people’s. A film to see that points this out: Intolerable Cruelty with George Clooney and Catherine Zeta-Jones. See this film and watch it closely and you will understand what makes these people ‘tick’.