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How does ODD relate to sociopathy?

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February 13, 2010 //  by Liane Leedom, M.D.//  99 Comments

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This week a reader asked about a disorder called ODD and its relationship to sociopathy. ODD or oppositional defiant disorder is a childhood disorder. According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatrists:

In children with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), there is an ongoing pattern of uncooperative, defiant, and hostile behavior toward authority figures that seriously interferes with the youngster’s day to day functioning. Symptoms of ODD may include:

• Frequent temper tantrums
• Excessive arguing with adults
• Often questioning rules
• Active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
• Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
• Blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
• Often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
• Frequent anger and resentment
• Mean and hateful talking when upset
• Spiteful attitude and revenge seeking

I interpret these symptoms as evidence for excessive social dominance motives combined with problems with ability to love in a child/teen. Social dominance motives cause these children to dislike authority and to attempt to control others (both children and adults) by annoying and upsetting them (teasing too). Recent studies have shown that hormones connected to social dominance motives may play a role in ODD (higher androgens and lower cortisol)*.

A major developmental task for humans is to learn to love. That learning begins immediately at birth. A very elegant series of studies by Patricia Hawley Ph.D. and others has demonstrated that Social Dominance motives begin later, in the toddler years.

During childhood the social motives for love and power have to integrate and balance each other. A loving peaceful family life is central to this integration. Also the power motive must be shaped. This shaping of the power motive has two aspects to it. First children learn the best prosocial ways to enjoy power. They learn to restrain their aggressive and sadistic impulses. In children with ODD and CD (the precursors to antisocial personality in adulthood) this learning doesn’t happen.

Children also learn to channel some of their power motives in to achievement motivation. Disinterest for achievement and disinterest in school are linked to antisocial behavior in children and teens because absent achievement dominance motives lack appropriate channels for expression.

ODD is often connected to CD (conduct disorder) and ADHD, but may also occur without these other disorders. Many studies have examined the extent to which ODD is genetic and environmentally determined. Both genes and environment interact to cause ODD.

In a paper that is now 11 years old Distinct Contributions of Conduct and Oppositional Defiant Symptoms to Adult Antisocial Behavior : Evidence From an Adoption Study Douglas R. Langbehn, MD, PhD and colleagues presented their study of 197 adopted children a quarter of whom had a biologic parent with sociopathy. They concluded:

It seems plausible that a genetically transmitted liability to sociopathy might manifest earlier in life as the personality-like symptoms of ODD rather than the behaviorally oriented criteria for conduct disorder. After all, it is difficult to conceive of a gene for stealing cars. On the other hand, genetic influences on temperament leading to typical ODD features do not seem so far-fetched.

They also stated that independent of the antisocial behavior seen in CD, the behavior that manifests as ODD is an independent risk factor for adult sociopathy:

STUDIES SUCH as that by Loeber et al, which found that severe childhood conduct disorder is often preceded by ODD, suggest the hypothesis that ODD may only be a risk factor for sociopathy if it is a predecessor to a conduct syndrome. This idea is not supported by our data, because the ODD component was found to be an independent risk factor. Furthermore, examination of the joint distribution of estimated component scores in males (not shown) demonstrated that many adoptees had elevations in the ODD component only.

It is important for parents to realize that not every child with ODD or even CD becomes an adult sociopath. Parenting can make a difference for a substantial percentage of children. Even the most loving and devoted parents should get professional help with their ODD/CD kids.

Professional help is needed because these kids are so hard on parents and the development of parental resentment and negativity is linked to a bad prognosis for these kids (though the chicken and egg here have not been determined). Parents should be realistic, protect themselves and yet try to stay hopeful and positive. They should be loving and yet set firm limits. They should also spend lots of quality time with their kids and supervise them closely. These are exceedingly difficult tasks to accomplish!

You might be wondering why I haven’t commented on the proposed DSM V revision of antisocial personality. Since we want everyone to give us their unbiased, independent reactions, I am not going to comment until we close the survey. Please complete the survey so we can send the strongest possible message to the DSM committee. These criteria will be very important in legal procedings and in public education.

Link to survey

* I have posted the summaries of articles about Antisocial Disorders, ASPD, ODD and CD on a new web site My Psychology Professor*. This web site is intended to help students of psychology find articles and write term papers. I hope it will also be a source for people who want detailed information about topics in psychology. There is also a complete collection of papers about social dominance on this site.

Category: For parents of sociopaths, Scientific research, Sociopaths and family

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  1. hens

    February 14, 2010 at 12:29 am

    hi miss erin so where are we all going?

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  2. ErinBrock

    February 14, 2010 at 12:55 am

    Hens:
    I’ve invited you all to accompany me on my ‘first’ date tomorrow night…..with armed, federal marshall man.

    I have requested we all put on our bouncy hair…..were going local…..to a hotel on the lake…..very lodgy…..so not formal…..leave the ballgowns in the closet!
    I need to go prep….figure out something other than sweats that fit…..i KNOW i got some kick ass shoes……but I guess I can’t go necked with my shoes…..
    Maybe just jeans and a little get up huh…..

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  3. hens

    February 14, 2010 at 1:21 am

    Erin – Have fun. But I think I am jealous – so I better not tag along…

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  4. pollyannanomore

    February 14, 2010 at 1:44 am

    Erin – have a wonderful time … and don’t worry about ‘shutting the farck up’ – any man worthy of you will be fine with whatever comes out of your mouth – if he has a problem – well your LF friends have your back – we’ll just give him a severe talking to 🙂

    Go wearing something you are comfy in – not sweats obviously lol but something you can move in and feel nice in 🙂

    Have a wonderful time and be home by midnight!

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  5. ErinBrock

    February 14, 2010 at 2:20 am

    Hennnnnnnnnssssss.
    Don’t hate the ‘playa’. 🙂
    Ya know……if it wasn’tfor you all…..I’d certainly not be in any position to be asked out….I don’t think anyone would even ask for a woman, walking around life with an oozy on her backs…..shooting at anyone who get’s close….. phone number…..
    Ya’ll have helped me put that gun down and open up myself for fun.
    Now it’s up to me to fine tune the teqnique.

    Midlife:
    Who’s home…….
    🙂

    Okay….i’ll put the sweats away.

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  6. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    February 14, 2010 at 8:13 am

    EB, you said: ‘I don’t think anyone would even ask for a woman, walking around life with an oozy on her backs”..shooting at anyone who get’s close”.. phone number’

    …um, except maybe a weapon’s expert. 😉

    i would suspect you won’t scare this guy one bit. have SO much fun!

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  7. Rosa

    February 14, 2010 at 3:14 pm

    OK, Erin.
    Countdown time to the big date tonight, right?
    Got the bouncy hair, makeup, shoes, ensemble? Good.

    Keep the conversation light & airy.
    Let him reveal details about himself first.

    You know the red flags to watch for.

    I’ll say a small prayer that this guy does not kiss like a crocodile.

    Now, get out there and get your man!!

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  8. ErinBrock

    February 14, 2010 at 4:09 pm

    Rosa….
    The bouncy hair will come AFTER my bacon and pancakes!
    🙂
    MEEE FIRST RIGHT!
    🙂

    And NO CROCODILES!!!! Maybe not even a kiss ……
    I am a COMPLETE virgin….these days…..NOTHING….not even a hand holding since the S…..eeeesssshhh!
    I may be the one that is the crocodile kisser….yikes…..
    I think I’ll start with a cordial hug…..

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  9. ErinBrock

    February 14, 2010 at 4:11 pm

    Onestep:
    I think I’m gonna leave the oozy in the car tonight…..
    I’m gonna try to ‘play nice’.
    Don’t want to turn him on too soon huh…

    Your post cracked me up….
    I hope your feeling better today sweetie!

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  10. hens

    February 14, 2010 at 8:12 pm

    I hope Erin’s date with Marshall Dillon is going well. I had a nice VD day after all. I went to a Movie with my girlfriend, we saw Dear John, a good sappy love story were everybody get’s hurt in the end. Then we went to a nice resturant and drank perfect margarittas and talked non-stop..and we went dutch. As far as the ex S goes – I hope he got a VD today.

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