This week a reader asked about a disorder called ODD and its relationship to sociopathy. ODD or oppositional defiant disorder is a childhood disorder. According to the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatrists:
In children with Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), there is an ongoing pattern of uncooperative, defiant, and hostile behavior toward authority figures that seriously interferes with the youngster’s day to day functioning. Symptoms of ODD may include:
• Frequent temper tantrums
• Excessive arguing with adults
• Often questioning rules
• Active defiance and refusal to comply with adult requests and rules
• Deliberate attempts to annoy or upset people
• Blaming others for his or her mistakes or misbehavior
• Often being touchy or easily annoyed by others
• Frequent anger and resentment
• Mean and hateful talking when upset
• Spiteful attitude and revenge seeking
I interpret these symptoms as evidence for excessive social dominance motives combined with problems with ability to love in a child/teen. Social dominance motives cause these children to dislike authority and to attempt to control others (both children and adults) by annoying and upsetting them (teasing too). Recent studies have shown that hormones connected to social dominance motives may play a role in ODD (higher androgens and lower cortisol)*.
A major developmental task for humans is to learn to love. That learning begins immediately at birth. A very elegant series of studies by Patricia Hawley Ph.D. and others has demonstrated that Social Dominance motives begin later, in the toddler years.
During childhood the social motives for love and power have to integrate and balance each other. A loving peaceful family life is central to this integration. Also the power motive must be shaped. This shaping of the power motive has two aspects to it. First children learn the best prosocial ways to enjoy power. They learn to restrain their aggressive and sadistic impulses. In children with ODD and CD (the precursors to antisocial personality in adulthood) this learning doesn’t happen.
Children also learn to channel some of their power motives in to achievement motivation. Disinterest for achievement and disinterest in school are linked to antisocial behavior in children and teens because absent achievement dominance motives lack appropriate channels for expression.
ODD is often connected to CD (conduct disorder) and ADHD, but may also occur without these other disorders. Many studies have examined the extent to which ODD is genetic and environmentally determined. Both genes and environment interact to cause ODD.
In a paper that is now 11 years old Distinct Contributions of Conduct and Oppositional Defiant Symptoms to Adult Antisocial Behavior : Evidence From an Adoption Study Douglas R. Langbehn, MD, PhD and colleagues presented their study of 197 adopted children a quarter of whom had a biologic parent with sociopathy. They concluded:
It seems plausible that a genetically transmitted liability to sociopathy might manifest earlier in life as the personality-like symptoms of ODD rather than the behaviorally oriented criteria for conduct disorder. After all, it is difficult to conceive of a gene for stealing cars. On the other hand, genetic influences on temperament leading to typical ODD features do not seem so far-fetched.
They also stated that independent of the antisocial behavior seen in CD, the behavior that manifests as ODD is an independent risk factor for adult sociopathy:
STUDIES SUCH as that by Loeber et al, which found that severe childhood conduct disorder is often preceded by ODD, suggest the hypothesis that ODD may only be a risk factor for sociopathy if it is a predecessor to a conduct syndrome. This idea is not supported by our data, because the ODD component was found to be an independent risk factor. Furthermore, examination of the joint distribution of estimated component scores in males (not shown) demonstrated that many adoptees had elevations in the ODD component only.
It is important for parents to realize that not every child with ODD or even CD becomes an adult sociopath. Parenting can make a difference for a substantial percentage of children. Even the most loving and devoted parents should get professional help with their ODD/CD kids.
Professional help is needed because these kids are so hard on parents and the development of parental resentment and negativity is linked to a bad prognosis for these kids (though the chicken and egg here have not been determined). Parents should be realistic, protect themselves and yet try to stay hopeful and positive. They should be loving and yet set firm limits. They should also spend lots of quality time with their kids and supervise them closely. These are exceedingly difficult tasks to accomplish!
You might be wondering why I haven’t commented on the proposed DSM V revision of antisocial personality. Since we want everyone to give us their unbiased, independent reactions, I am not going to comment until we close the survey. Please complete the survey so we can send the strongest possible message to the DSM committee. These criteria will be very important in legal procedings and in public education.
* I have posted the summaries of articles about Antisocial Disorders, ASPD, ODD and CD on a new web site My Psychology Professor*. This web site is intended to help students of psychology find articles and write term papers. I hope it will also be a source for people who want detailed information about topics in psychology. There is also a complete collection of papers about social dominance on this site.
maybe the malt ball diamond.
Who….the dead wife? OR the booby shot last date?
Hey….as we have all learned…..ANYTHING is possible……he could be trolling for the 3rd wheel for the one at home!
Who knows…….but I ain’t no 3rdwheel…..so it must have been dissappointing!
haha, conflated my booby shots – the dead (?) wife.
Gosh EB, that was an EYE-OPENER LOL and Hey, it will give you something to LAUGH ABOUT FOR DECADES!!!! My guy didn’t show up as DISHONEST and IRRESPONSIBLE till after the third date when he called me wanting to take an illegal joy ride in my airplane without insurance or following FAA regulations about annual inspections (not cheap either one) so what was the advantage to ME? LOL After I said NO I never heard from him again.
One Step—a legal thing you can carry is OVEN CLEANER SPRAY, it is pure lye (a very caustic substance, the opposite of an acid, but just as caustic) It is cheap, legal and ALMOST LETHAL, it is my defense weapon of choice when I am not allowed to carry a gun, which thank goodness I am allowed to here in US. The oven cleaner sprays a nice wide pattern and if you get it ANYWHERE on their face, they IMMEDIATELY are in INTENSE PAIN (more than mace or pepper spray) and if they open their eyes, or even if they do, they will be bliinded, maybe forever if they don’t find water.
Then you get on the witness stand when they sue you, and you say “Oh, yer honor, I was just so frightened when that poor young man grabbed me, ya da ya da, I just used the first thing that came to hand. I’m so sorry he is blind for life.”
Hee hee hee hee
Narcissism is not in DSM 5 as proposed currently. If you feel you were involved with an “N” you can complete the survey. You might say this under the affection question where you have a chance to tell us about your experience
Feedback, suggestions?
i didn’t sleep much last night, between coughing and being up late after i was mugged.
i am finding that my lower legs are freezing. figure this is some sort of somatic response, possibly flight frozen.
hot bath socks long johns not working. walking might, but I am really trying to get some sleep as i am just wasted. any ideas on how to process this???
best
one step
onestep: it might be too soon to process this. When I’ve had traumatic events happen (similar to being mugged) I can’t really sleep either but this may work for the moment:
If you have a TV, watch some light stuff. Try and laugh.
Read a book…that may help you sleep. Same with music…something relaxing and rythmic.
Get in bed and pile the blankets on, tons of them.
Call a friend and tell them what happened. In detail. Get it out of you…
Deep breathing?
Sorry this happened—really sucks. Sleep~~~~
CAmom – midlife sent me a link for some delta wave music. very lovely.
am doing all of the above in a half assed way. 😉
except the tons of blankets – that i do all the time, because i have to keep windows open.
i got to sleep fine last night, but i am coughing so much that i woke after only a few hours, and i need sleep, not well enough to be without.
i am trying to figure how to deal with the cold i feel. i think maybe some magnesium might help. a massage would be great, but funnily enough there is no one at my door to do this. I think my body is still in the crisis state. all the heat going into the centre of my body. hands are freezing, too. mmm, maybe some niacin too.
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one step
One Step,
I am so sorry you are going through this especially right when your health is bad at the moment as well. That certainly complicates it.
I think it is VERY important as was suggested that you talk about it. You were personally violated. And you need to feel validated about that.
I hate taking cold medications because they make me sleepy but maybe this is something that would be good in your case if they make you sleepy? Or try the PM types?
You do need some rest….And if the hot bath isn’t helping, then you need to do whatever you can think of to relax.
Mindless T.V (comedy sitcom reruns in the middle of the night) is what I watched after my encounter with the broken window episode. I just finally would doze off after many sleepless hours in the wee hours of the morning.
One-step, You say you are coughing a lot…you might be running a fever. I always feel like I’m chilled to the bone when I have one…Asperine, tylynol, aleve, ibuprofin, any of these will bring down a fever.
I hope you feel better and are able to sleep tonight. I’m sorry you were mugged. That must have been terrifying.