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Instead of protecting children, abusing them

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October 30, 2011 //  by Donna Andersen//  59 Comments

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Lovefraud readers have forwarded a rash of sordid stories about adults in positions of trust over children who turned out to be molesters and child porn addicts. They should all be prosecuted, along with those who covered up their actions.

Records show Boy Scouts failed to report abuser, on USAToday.com.

Stacy Schuler, Ex-Ohio teacher, convicted of having sex with 5 students, on HuffingtonPost.com.

How child-porn case led to Hershey School, on Philly.com.

Roman Catholic church’s paedophile investigator jailed for possessing thousands of child porn images, on DailyMail.co.uk.

And then there is a child  beater and a serial killer:

Judge so furious at abusive mother who left her baby severely disabled he has to take break from court so he does not ‘jail her through anger,’ on Dailymail.co.uk.

Is this the worst UK child killer? Robert Black is cnvicted of murder of a fourth schoolgirl ”¦ and linked to 13 other unsolved deaths, on DailyMail.co.uk.

Finally there’s Dog the Bounty Hunter, taking action. Maybe we need more bounty hunters.

Dog the Bounty Hunter gains custody of grandson on YouTube.com.

Duane ‘Dog’ the Bounty Hunter awarded temporary custody of grandson after chilling alleged abuse tape released, on FoxNews.com.

‘I am going to hurt them’: What Dog the Bounty Hunter’s son-in-law threatens to neighbours in new recording as son beating row escalates, on DailyMail.co.uk.

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  1. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    October 30, 2011 at 9:52 pm

    i vote bullet. castration doesn’t completely disarm them.
    edited to add: and castration doesn’t take care of the women.

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  2. MoonDancer

    October 30, 2011 at 10:00 pm

    well if the infection doesnt cure em get the bullets out

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  3. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    October 30, 2011 at 10:01 pm

    aw sweetie, if were only about their dicks….

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  4. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    October 30, 2011 at 10:44 pm

    the only way they could be rendered harmless is to cut their legs off so that they could never move toward someone vulnerable, remove their arms so that they could never touch…cut theri tongues so that they could never manipulate and shame, burn their eyes with pokers so that they could never see.

    and interestingly enough….this is the very fate i wish for the spath.

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  5. Ox Drover

    October 30, 2011 at 10:57 pm

    One and Hens, I think (for what it is worth) that “porn” (and like the judge said “you can’t describe it but you know it when you see it”) DOES pervert, and perverts do gravitate toward porn.

    It is I think the difference between “artsy nudes” and Hustler magazine…one is beautiful and one is dirty and crude.

    In OUR western society “pedophiles” are legally designated as “perverted,” but in other societies what we call “pedophilia” is normative behavior. I personally believe that sexual activity with young children is WRONG because it is harmful both physically and emotionally to those children….just as circumcision of young girls and genital mutilation is both harmful and wrong because it is harmful, but other cultures believe it is “right.”

    As you guys know, I have a special hatred for pedophiles who groom and use young children for their sexual gratification and I think they should all be locked up forever….but you can also add to that list of people I’d like to see locked away forever any kind of rapist or sexual sadist.

    As long as there is a market for it (people willing to pay for it) there will always be those that use children to produce kiddie porn, but I do hope that there is a continual press for prosecution of the perverts who make it.

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  6. skylar

    October 31, 2011 at 1:46 am

    Oxy,
    in response to your comment about my cynicism: well, ok maybe a little…LOL!

    Sure it’s entirely possible that the child was beaten and the recording is real. But then it’s also entirely possible that it’s not.

    Let me relate what the spath did along those lines. I’ll try to be brief.

    When we first met, we lived in a little basement apartment. There was this really gross, weird girl who lived upstairs. She had green fingernails and was a hoarder with crap crammed into her apartment to where you could only walk along “paths”. She was clearly disturbed. She also had a thing for my spath. No doubt he targeted her because she was easy. I think he was trying to triangulate her with me. LOL! I DON’T triangulate at all. I just don’t care about rivalries. I don’t get jealous and I don’t envy, so that didn’t work out for him. So then he tried something new, just for fun.

    The girl, Arden, would come to our apartment around 10PM and just want to hang out. It was a studio, so she sat by the bed talking, while I lay there trying to sleep. YEAH IT WAS BIZARRE. But I was a kid and just put up with it. Anyway, one day spath said, “Arden hangs around our door just listening to see what we’re doing. Lets make her think that we’re having a fight and I’m beating you. She’ll call the cops and then we’ll tell them that she’s crazy.” Stupid me, I agreed. I hammed it up, “ouch! ouch! don’t hit me!!!” And it all went down exactly as the spath predicted.

    So you see a pattern with my spath: he likes to involve the cops, he likes a woman to call them, and he likes to make people think the woman is crazy. typical spath.

    Truth is stranger than fiction because…. WHO DOES THAT?
    a spath.

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  7. Ox Drover

    October 31, 2011 at 1:06 pm

    Yea, Sky, I know that they do lots of “crazy” things that don’t make sense to us….and people who make their living on “sensational” “reality” TV do even crazier things….if that’s possible! LOL

    That’s kind of like “professional wrestling”—what FAKERS! I remember hearing arguments from some of the men in my family and community arguing over whether “wrestling” was REAL OR NOT!!!!

    That was back when there was only black and white TV and my uncle had the only TV in the community and dozens of folks would come to his house to sit in the dark and watch wrestling on B&W TV. I was maybe 5, so that was probably close to 60 years ago.

    I absolutely can not STAND to watch wrestling, or boxing, or the “reality” TV shows….not even as “theater” knowing it is all faked for the camera. Back when I worked for my sperm donor doing the “wild life photography” which was MOSTLY FAKED as well I realized that you don’t just come upon a bear and a cougar fighting in the wild BY ACCIDENT with a couple of 16 mm film cameras. LOL If he wanted a picture of a bear and a cougar fighting we mostly had a caged bear and a caged cougar and we put them together where they would fight, filmed what would happen and THEN write the “story”—-when we were in Africa we would actually catch the animals or use captive animals along with pictures (long shots) of wild animals and then cut the film together to make an “adventure” story. Of course this was in the days when cameras were large, very expensive, etc. and there wasn’t much on television so his films were easier to sell than they would be today. Plus, sperm donor didn’t care how many animals were killed or injured in the filming.

    One time I told a guy who loved my sperm donor’s films HOW THEY WERE ACTUALLY MADE and he actually CRIED. LOL That man was so disillusioned with the “high adventure” my sperm donor portrayed when it was mostly faked films. We did actually have a lot of “HIGH ADVENTURE” but it wasn’t what was portrayed on the films. LOL

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  8. skylar

    October 31, 2011 at 1:16 pm

    Oxy,
    that is such a sick thing to do to animals. But it is classic spath to put 2 creatures together and antagonize them into tearing each other apart – just for entertainment. They’ll do it to humans or animals. Cockfights, dogfights and bear/cougar fights. It’s classic.

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  9. Ox Drover

    October 31, 2011 at 1:23 pm

    Yep, Sky, you are very right. The exotic animal business is extremely hard on the animals, and a large number of them do not survive capture. Especially in the past when zoos were just places with cages where wild animals were housed for people could stare at them….when a rare animal died from poor care, it was just replaced with another one. Zoos are BETTER now, but still not all that great in my opinion. Individuals keeping exotics as “pets” is absolutely stupid and should be banned in my opinion, especially monkeys and apes, and large cats, etc.

    Yep the old deal of “let’s you and him fight” and manipulating others to fight for their entertainment is very typical of psychopaths.

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  10. MiLo

    October 31, 2011 at 1:25 pm

    Oxy ~ Speaking of reality tv – I’d love to have your take on your neighbors, the Duggards, you know, this is my WONDERFUL husband Jim Bob !!!!!! I could just puke.

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