Last night Larry King Live of CNN hosted a discussion about whether criminals can be rehabilitated. I think it will be re-aired this weekend so try to watch. One of the guests drew a distinction between “learned” criminal behavior and psychopathy. She stated she believed that criminals who have learned to be that way can unlearn but psychopaths cannot be rehabilitated. I know many of you also hold this belief so I would like to tell you why I strongly disagree.
First I will tell you my position:
ALL criminality stems from an interaction between a person and a situation. A person is a product of his/her genetics and experiences. So in a sense what makes up personality (the “person”) is learned for everyone including the psychopathic. We are preprogrammed by our genetics to learn certain things better than others.
In terms of situational variables solid research has demonstrated that antisocial associates, poor work and educational performance, substance abuse, poor family ties and poor recreational achievement are all associated with criminality. These variables operate independently from personality variables and are important for even the most psychopathic individuals.
The more psychopathic a person is, the more deeply ingrained is the lifestyle of parasitism and predation BUT even those with lower levels of psychopathy can be very resistant to change and very dangerous to society. The definition of response to treatment depends on what you are looking for. If a person cheats 8 people a week, then goes into a program and cheats 1 person a week, that is a change. Everyone has a different definition of “rehabilitation”.
Coincidentally, I just read a great book, Persons in Context: Building a science of the individual. It is a tribute to Walter Mischel, Ph.D. one of the great thinkers of modern psychology. In his chapter “Intelligence as a Person-Situation Interaction”, Robert Sternberg lists five fallacies of thinking. He says, “There is another dimension to person-situation interaction: the extent to which particular situations elicit ‘stupid’ thinking in intelligent people.” All of his 5 fallacies occur in the context of perceived power or dominance. They are:
- The unrealistic optimism fallacy. This occurs when one believes that one is so smart and so powerful that it is pointless to worry about the outcome of what one does.
- The egocentrism fallacy. This occurs when one comes to think that one’s own interests are the only ones that are important.
- The Omniscience Fallacy. This occurs when people think they know more than they do.
- The Omnipotence Fallacy. This results from the power one wield or believes one wields.
- The invulnerability Fallacy. This derives for the illusion of complete protection.
Dr. Sternberg is one of many scientists who have discovered that the experience of power changes the mind/brain. Some people are more prone than others to these effects of power. Since psychopathic individuals seek out power constantly like a heroin addict seeking a fix, they are never free from all of the above fallacies of thinking. Life is a situation of constant power or perceived power.
In the absence of a loving nature all power pursuit becomes antisocial. Now power pursuit and attainment can also stomp out a person’s loving nature, if it was ever present in the first place.
To rehab the psychopathic we have to strip them of any power and teach them to love and care for others. To my knowledge there is no program that has yet succeeded in doing this even for those “sociopaths” who score at the lower end of the psychopathy scale.
I am a 20 year old female who has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder linked to moderate sociopathic tendencies. as of right now the only “treatment” I am taking is 10 mg of Lexapro daily to alleviate some symptoms. I am currently in a relationship with a 19 year old male who is also sociopathic. he is more severe than me in that respect but does not exhibit most of the BPD traits. he has admitted that he wants help, as do I. all of the articles I find while searching the internet merely contain advice on identifying, thwarting, and avoiding sociopaths. however we are people too, and I find it hard to believe that there is no actual hope as far as treatment or therapy goes. I cannot see myself living like this forever, and I’d really like to be able to be honest and cater to peoples’ feelings and needs more-I just do not have the capacity to do so on my own. we both have the drive to seek help, but have no idea how to go about doing so. any advice is appreciated.
Sarahhann,
I suggest that you continue to seek treatment with your therapist and take whatever kind of medication you are Rx’d. Yu also might contact some of the people researching BPD and/or Sociopathic disorders and see if they would like to study you.
As far as I have been able to tell you are probably UNIQUE, as I’ve never heard of a person who was a diagnosed psychopath/sociopath who actually thought there was anything wrong with them or that they needed or wanted help. So if you truly are sociopathic and actually want help or think you need it, then you might either be not truly sociopathic, or you are totally unique and should contribute to medical science by being carefully studied so that possibly others could be treated or helped as well.
I have worked with (before my retirement) people with BPD, and sometimes with therapy and medication they can live somewhat improved lives (over what they would have had without therapy or medication) but still pretty chaotic compared to most people as their relationships tend to not be long lasting or healthy.
If you are in a relationship with a person who is diagnosed sociopathic and whose symptoms are more severe than yours I would advise you both to separate from each other (for both your sakes) and for you each to avoid “relationships” of a romantic nature for several years until you have seen some improvement in your symptoms so that you are not contributing to your life in a negative way by having chaotic and bad romantic relationships in addition to your other problems.
I would also suggest that you go to school, and get some kind of education, as well as job training so that you are able to get insurance to pay for therapy and medications, and that you learn to have professional and social interactions in such a way that you can earn a living and gradually learn to not be parasitic yourself, or toxic to others.
Good luck to you. I’ve got to go work in my green house now and take care of my potted plants.
After being in the Tulane emergency room twice, it’s official—I have a concussion and post concussion syndrome!
OMG Wini—I can’t believe someone didn’t know who Bowie is! That is hilarious and now you have that song stuck in my head and I will be singing it all night!
Not sure what I am missing here, Erin72, did me pounding you on the head with the cyber cast iron skillet give you a concussion? LOL
Actually, I didn’t figure your skull was that fragile!~ Heck, I’ve pounded Poor Henry’s until he has to wear a cap cause it is so flat on top! ((((Hugs)))) ROTFLMAO
Oxy-LOL–I was starting a case in my cath lab and I ducked under the monitors to check the patient’s pulse ox. I moved the monitors so I wouldn’t hit my head on them. I had to grab the transducer off the floor to plug it into the manifold and the monitors got moved cuz the doc couldn’t see well enough. I stood up quickly and smashed my head. It really rang my bell and after I few hours I was disoriented. They did a CT scan and it was negative so they sent me home. Today I went back to work and was disoriented all day. My brain was jumbled and foggy and my memory was poor. I couldn’t focus or multitask. I did the monitoring and charting because I didn’t feel safe giving narcotics. I had to go back to ER and get examined again. I have to stay home until Tuesday and be cleared by Neurology before returning. I can’t take call this weekend or tonight. Minimal driving. Can’t work out or shoot my gun!
sarahhan – contact Dr. Liane Leedom on this site, and Dr. Robert Hare – you will find his info online easily.
Good luck.
erin72 – well poo! are you allowed to sleep?
i hope you feel lots better soon. take it easy.
best,
one step
onestep–Yes, I can sleep. I am very sleepy. My friend/old boss is a police captain and she is going to call me tonight to check in. My family doesn’t live here so she is the one I can depend on if I need something. If I have problems, she can send the right people to bust in my apartment and take me to the hospital. I do get to be off until Tuesday so all my house cleaning/organization will be done.
Being confused feels weird. I can’t even read my book because it’s so hard to concentrate–it’s like I have severe ADD.
erin – or brain fog from fibro or enviromental illness…i so know that feeling. can you watch movies or is that a strain? you can listen to music though!
take it easy with the bending over and reaching. and NO getting on chairs!
glad you have someone to check in on you.
I hope you work place is covering all your expenses. did the not so smart person who moved the monitor recognize what they did?