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“You should leave now. If you don’t, I will ruin your life.”

The following unfolded after she witnessed the first “slip of the mask.”  She questioned what had just happened, since at the time, she did not understand.  However, she quickly learned that she was not allowed to have thoughts or ask questions.  Doing so constituted “interrogation” or the “the third degree.”  He became angrier and angrier, blaming her for the mood shifts she observed.

Confused, she noted that they had not seen or spoken to each other in days and asked what she did to cause such upset.  The exchange was out of control, and like nothing she had ever seen before.  Things were wrong and she wanted out.  She pulled her luggage from the apartment’s outside storage closet, with the intent to backtrack the 1500 miles she had just moved to be with him.  What came next is uncommon, unless, of course, we are dealing with disorder.

The cold reality in disguise   

The angry words took a pitiful turn.  In a sad tone, he advised, “You should leave now.  If you don’t, I will ruin your life.”  Although now years in the past, she remembers the words as if they were spoken yesterday.

Why don’t we heed their warnings?  Although psychopaths or individuals with a number of psychopathic features utter few truths, when they do, we often fail to hear what is really being said.  They frequently tell us of their intentions, but in ways we just don’t understand.

He went on to tell her that her life with him would be miserable.  He cried as he told her that things would never be as she wanted, and as long as they were involved, she would have nothing.  He told her that there was no predicting just how bad it could get.  He then professed his love for her, and told her that he didn’t want to hurt her in the ways he suspected he might.  He told her to go and never think of him again.  She should find a “nice guy.”

Confused, she suggested they work on making their lives together great.  She asked how he could know that things would not ever be good.  No explanation.  He simply responded by saying that he was sorry for dragging her into “such a mess.”  Then, as abruptly as the “crying” began, it stopped.  Looking into her eyes, he coldly told her “this” was not something he could control, but rather, something that would just “happen.”  Now, seeming happier, he smirked, and said, “…but I would like it if you’d stay.”

Of course he would like it.  And of course she stayed.  She ignored the instincts responsible for her churning gut, which were telling her to run and never look back.

What she heard

Although she had trouble rectifying the conflicts between the words and actions, she heard a “wounded” person speaking.  She heard the words of a person who didn’t believe in himself or the potential of the universe.  She heard the words of someone kind and gentle, who had been beaten by life.  In spite of several years of work, he was making very little money and having trouble breaking into his industry.

He had a “depressed” ex wife, who ran up thousands of dollars of credit card debt in his name and became pregnant in an effort to either trap him or “save” the relationship.  He couldn’t be sure which.

She heard that he was sad and did not feel worthy of real love or the good that real love could bring.  He could not seem to find it anyway.  She heard guilt for involving her, the love he knew was real, since he worried about his future lack of success possibly bringing her down with him.

She heard wrong.

What she thought

She thought that with a little hard work and a lot of love, everything would be fine.  But she did not realize that the conversation she thought was happening, was not happening at all.  Had she known then what she knows now, she would have understood things – heard the words and thought the thoughts – very differently.

What he meant

In the exchange described above, he was telling her about himself.  He was letting her know that he was not the kind or gentle person she initially thought.  His actions and behaviors were not influenced by the stresses of emotional burden, as his words suggested.  Nothing he did indicated true sadness either.  He was strangely content.

He did not seem bothered by the fact that he could not provide.  In fact, he seemed un-phased.  So much so, that rectifying the finances became her burden.  When she questioned this, he alternated between asserting that it was all just too much for him to handle and that he was used to “having nothing,” so it didn’t bother him.  However, she noticed he made sure his wants and needs were met, even if those around him suffered.  She began to suspect that the credit concerns were not created by an ex or anyone other than himself.  The future would eventually become history and prove her correct.

He also knew what his previous relationships had been like.  Although the specifics varied from person to person, with the individual actions and personalities playing roles in how things ultimately unfolded, none were successful.  Some lost more and were treated worse than others, which may be why he was unable to predict how bad it could get.

He mentioned love and caring

When they speak of love, it is often nothing more than a means to manipulate.  However, there may be some they actually do care about.  But they do so very differently from the rest of us and it is always self serving and potentially dangerous.  What they feel is superficial and may whimsically change.

While they tend not to be terribly insightful, they do have some level of awareness of what is occurring.  While they generally don’t see themselves as wrong, if and when they do, they simply don’t care.  They may have fleeting notions that the results of their actions may harm others.  Yet, they carry on unconcerned.

So, his warning may have been sincere, but he did not want to lose his plaything badly enough to really save her.  He enticed her to stay.

Why do they really tell?

If he did not truly want her to go, why did he divulge the truth?  These pitiful tender moments may simply be part of the process, further drawing us closer or more committed.  They may also be fishing expeditions to test our reactions and the measure the potential “supply” they can extract from us.  It is also quite possible that they are just plain fun.  Are they teasing us?  I suspect it may be a rush for them to know that they are, more or less, detailing our demise, while we remain completely clueless, and feeling sorry for them in the process.

That’s powerful.

Familiar?     

I don’t think this story is uncommon.  While we cannot blame ourselves for our inexperience in the past, we can learn to listen differently in the future.  This extends to all types of disordered interactions as well.  Who, in their right mind, would have taken the exchange detailed above to mean anything more than it appeared?  Few.  Those with personality disorders rely on this, regardless of who we are to them.    

Who would suspect anyone of discussing demise and love or friendship concurrently?  It happens.  When it does, it is a recipe for confusion and disaster.  So, let’s practice listening.  We cannot change them, but we can change ourselves.  With that, we can overcome.


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OpalRose

Linda – my story exactly – how I got hooked by the spath husband. Finances became my responsibility and all the while he was immune to any reality that did not make him the center of all attention. My marriage even led to my being deprived of necessities while he went out and bought new motorcycles, etc. But we all know how that goes.

Thank you for writing about this and for helping me and all of us see that we could not have known the reality behind the mask until the mask slipped so many times that we finally ran out of excuses for the “real” thing underneath.

I really appreciate the lucid way many here write about disordered people. I makes learning actually accessible to me in ways that I cannot seem to find elsewhere. Thank you !!

slimone

Oh man Linda! This is just a perfect description of how these types use the ‘truth’ to play their cat and mouse games with us.

Using the ‘truth’ in strategic places serves so many purposes for them: making them look vulnerable, honest, willing to self-examine.

When I look back on my last entanglement I can recall several times when he told me exactly what I was in for. And, like you, I didn’t take his words at face value, and instead evaluated them according to my own psychology and values.

The person I knew used this later to remind me that he NEVER was dishonest or misleading, that I knew exactly what I was getting into, and therefore it was more or less my fault that I was left with lots of pain and confusion.

He prided himself on his ‘honesty’, and willingness to always ‘speak the truth’. And, in fact, he has a kind of spiritual cult following where he tells all kinds of painful truths to people, and they take it. Because out of the other side of his mouth he offers them the ‘secrets’ to fixing their personal flaws.

Well, it is quite a game.

Thank-you for this laser sharp article.

Slim

Linda – Thank you so much for this magnificent article. I’m sure many Lovefraud readers have experienced what you describe. No, we are not the crazy ones. There is a problem, and it is them.

Linda,
Thank you for this article!It is a reminder of how “abnormal” these conversations are;just how confusing they can be to someone who is uneducated about sociopaths and their mind games!These mind games are superb examples of what causes cognitive dissonance!

Stargazer

Ironically, I see my former self in this article – not as a sociopath, but as someone so wounded I really wasn’t capable of loving another person. I’d sometimes warn the men I got close to. It made them all the more determined to “help” me. In doing so, I often dragged them down. There are a few who carried a torch for me long after I broke up with them. Looking back, though I was never a sociopath, I was not fit to date. Many of the men I was involved with when I was younger were much healthier than I was. I had no idea how wounded I was or how unconscious I was. I didn’t realize that I wanted someone to save me but I also pushed away anyone’s attempt to do this anyway. I was diagnosed on two occasions as a borderline personality. And it fit.

I also remember a man that I fell very hard for in 1998, with whom I lived for 3 years. We had a rocky on-again off-again relationship that ended with his cheating on me and discarding me in sociopathic fashion. Looking back, I recall him telling me at the beginning that he was very sociopathic in some ways. I didn’t understand what that meant. And together with my lack of understanding of myself, I had completely set myself up for a discard.

The bottom line, and what I gather from this article, is that when someone tells you who/what they are, believe them.

fightforwhatsright

Linda:

I LOVE the way you have written this article. Is is detached…yet it draws one in as you walk us through the cunning and baffling words and behaviors of a sociopath as well as walking us through our misguided “hearing” and “seeing” because our own belief systems.

Even when they tell us directly and show us directly, one can still only hear and see what one believes one wants to see and hear.

I have had so many illusions of people. Some illusions mean I am seeing something more or less than is being shown. But, some illusions being shown to me, can be dangerous if I disregard them.

This extremely well written article is another reminder I needed.

learnedmylesson

I ve written about my s/path ex gf before and she also gave me a couple truths early on.Unfortunately I ignored them or interpreted them to mean I could get her to be what I wanted her to be—normal.
She told me she was diagnosed bi polar.I said fine.
After months of trying to have her feel about me as I did her(love)….she said there was a wall that she could not break through.She wanted to love me but could not do it.I could tell something was missing but thought with time—I could melt her lack of reciprocity.She warned me but then said maybe I could keep trying and she could break through to love me.
It never happened.She TOLD me she loved me—but I never FELT it.
Stayed with her helping her in many ways.Never understood her until I left her a year ago yesterday and started hearing about sociopathy.Did research and found out a lot.She has 18 of the .20 qualities on the Hare list.The girl is a mess— believe me.For 3 years we were together and it was chaos.Lies,fake illnesses,crisis after fake crisis.Cheating was normal.I had to investigate everything she said.Finally I gave up.Her last scam was too much.As I said goodbye she accused me of cheating,stalking but then finally said I should have figured out all her lies a lot earlier but was too stupid.Amazing.She still calls me when she gets picked up by the cops to bail her out—but I never answer the phone….I m not THAT stupid…lol.

fightforwhatsright

learned: Thank you for sharing your story. This is a great place to read and make sure you know what you are dealing with in the future. I have been helped a lot by reading about Donna Anderson’s Red Flags so I can avoid those toxic people in the future. Your experience of being called the things a sociopath is doing herself is not uncommon. When they are about to lose someone they have come to rely on, they will try everything from sweet talk to blackmail. Hope you will keep reading and sharing. There is a lot of help and encouragement here.

mally

Unbelievable sheer hell with my ex. Definately educate yourself. Mine was very covert and my story is long…he has done it all and now i have ptsd. I know i have to go on. Man does he ever fool people…im the nut case now to all of them.

lost everything

Mally he is not fooling people, he is a spath and doing what comes naturally to him. People choose to accept his words without trying to see if they are true. Many spaths are so glib and silver tongued, that people in the real world see no reason to doubt them.

Majority of people, at least to some extent, judge others and their actions, by their own set of values. A reason spaths are so successful is that real people would never dream that a person could or would fabricate the stories they do.

One thing we can never control is who the spaths talk to, contact, and what they say. Nor can we control the reaction of the third parties.

In my case that was the most devastating thing the latespath did and the reaction of the third party was something that no one, no one at all, could have ever anticipated.

onmyown

He told me that he knew he would hurt me but he didn’t want it. He said he didn’t want a relationship, then proceeded to behave as though we were engaged in a normal relationship. Every time I tried to leave, to emotionally disengage, he sucked me back in with pity ploys. The contradictory behaviors and statements kept me confused and off balance for so long. There was no way to even have a reasonable discussion to try to figure out just *what* was going on because he spoke in a kind of code that only he could understand.

Now I take off at the first signs of contradictions. I don’t stick around to try to figure a man out. Normal people just aren’t that complicated.

blueskies

Onmyown – your description rings so true with my experience. The man I believe to be a Psychopath, that I had a ‘relationship’ with, behaved in a very similar way.

He said that he discarded people ‘like toilet paper’. Such an odd and shocking remark early on in our ‘friendship’! – I decided for myself that it was some sort of weird joke. No.

The contradictions in their behaviours and professions of love, of friendship or love for their children or family are so extreme and so loud and so alien… the ‘word salad’…that you can hardly hear or comprehend them.

It creates a ‘fog’ and a ‘fuzz’ in your mind – my remedy: to attempt to project something more comforting to me over the top.

Love your last remark.x

kmillercats

The one I was with told me early on , ” I can be an a–hole”. He also compared himself to a jerk on occasion. I guess I should have asked him what his definition of an a–hole and jerk was. Again, I used my value system thinking everyone can occasionally be an a–hole or jerk sometimes. I had no idea. I do now. I don’t think he would have told me he was a liar, manipulator, user, con man though. I think the very successful ones figure out not to be overly “attentive”. They know they might scare targets away. I also have to wonder how many of them read sites like this to get pointers. I think the one I was with does. He actually smirked about “the bonding thing being just like glue”.

moonwave

The same thing happened to me when I was about to move cross country to be with him, in his city. He told me “There’s no predicting just how bad things could get. I’m warning you.” He also told me early on that he was an a-hole. Do these people have a book of lines that they all read from? For being so intriguing, they’re not terribly original.

I would have done the same thing the woman in this story did. There had been so much love bombing. But he also told me, in that same conversation, that he was a drug addict and that I would “stalk and chase him with a butcher knife.” A little too much for me. I thought, ‘Obviously, this dude doesn’t want me in his life, even if he’s not crazy.” At the same time, he told me to wait for him until he “returned to his old cool self” (he had at least six selves;). I bolted for the third time, but I tried to reconcile multiple times because there was that much emotional intimacy (or so it seemed of course). Emotional and sentimental people have a hard time cutting off their feelings and not dipping into nostalgia–of course memories are a lie half the time and even then there was probably a thread of fear underlying the emotions we all felt, we just numbed it out.

One thing I did learn from all of this is that love is not pity, and when pity starts creeping into love, I know it’s time to bolt. Compassion, yes, empathy, yes, but not pity.

Kay

This story I can kind of relate with. I love my husband and I believe he loves me. But before we got married, and things were finally getting more serious, I felt he was distance with me. Which hurt me because when someone you love starts being distant, you feel they are probably wanting to end the relationship. But I had met his kids and things were going great. He finally admitted and even said to me, “I’m so in love with you, I can’t let you get tangled in the mess I am in”. He had told me many times how evil (well he used the word crazy) his ex wife was. But this time he told me, if you stay with me she will destroy your life and never stop trying to destroy our marriage. At this time I was kind of in disbelief of what he was saying because I have heard so many me say “my ex wife is crazy” and personally it annoyed me. Because why so they all say that. (Even if they woman isn’t crazy). I Am all about empowering women so when a man says his ex is crazy I usually think “stupid typical man”. But he was not just saying it like a stupid typical man. HIS EX WIFE REALLY IS CRAZY. He just didnt know she was sociopathic. He said she was bi polar.
Maybe I should of listened to him. Because since being with him 5 years and married almost 4. My life has been stressful and I have never experienced chaos, craziness, and seen the unthinkable been a target of this woman has caused me so much stress. I wouldn’t say she has destroyed my life. I can say she has made it hard majority of the time. But I have learned from doing research and educating myself that I was not dealing with a bi polar person but I was dealing with someone who had no remorse for the pain she caused her own mother and father and sister, I saw the way she only used the children to make my husband feel guilty, and how she came across to everyone that did not ” really ” know her as this kind, caring loving mother And good person. But her actions spoke loudly, I saw her taking credit for the things I would do for the children, like she never bought her son shoes, he always had torn up shoes. And considering my husband pays $3500 a month to her in child support, there was no excuse. So I felt bad for him, bought him new shoes that seemed to make her angry.. Why? I don’t know but she told her mother, she just bought him new shoes and had no money and needed $100. When I BOUGHT THE SHOES! I know buying shoes is a silly thing to argue about. But it wasnt to me, considering she was telling anyone who would listen how I treated her children as if I didnt want them there, and I was evil step mom. When I was always accepting of the kids and care for them. Yes I keep my distance NOW, after almost 5 years of being bad mouthed to the kids, I realized I had to distance myself just recently because everything is so unstable with the relationship I have with them.
I still to this day tho, treat them good, care for them and make sure they are ok. I have just had to step back and let my husband do the things I was doing for them because the more I did the more I was bullied by ex wife. And I realized my husband seemed to be relieved I was having to deal with her cruelness and he was no longer the target of her mean and spiteful acts. It was best for me to let him deal with her. Since distancing myself from the situation tho, he refuses to talk to her. Kids both have phones, as they are getting old 12 and 14 (both have birthdays coming up so (13 and 15 years old ). My husband is strong believer on the no contact rule. I think it’s ok since they are older. And the 14 year old is more responsible and mature than her mother. Communicating with the ex wife, my husband said is useless and pointless. Because when he tries she just seems to go ballistic, like I think she thinks “he is talking me again, this is my chance I get back my control over him”. Because he will text her a good time to get the kids and she doesn’t respond back with a simple time, she responds with a novel long text about all her problems and how she needs this and that, and how he is a lousy dad, but she says everything but answer the question he ask. After so much of this, he realized if he text his daughter, “what time do I need to come get you guys”. The 14 year old gives a time and has her stuff ready and her brothers and is ready to go when we pick up from usually a friends or family members house. It make his ex wife SO ANGRY that he texted his daughter and not her, saying “you do not need to go thru the children to make plans and blah blah Etc…” But he has tried to co parent with her, it has never worked. She refuses to answer a simple question until he agrees to do what she wants, and he is not going to do that anymore.

Ok I realize I am rambling a little. My initial point of responding to this was the post caught my attention of how the abuser said “if you don’t leave, I will destroy you”. My husband is not an abuser, but he warned me that he felt if I stayed his ex would do anything she could to destroy my life. And she has tried but I would say she has not. She has spread horrible disgusting rumors about me to anyone from my child’s school teacher, to my husbands co workers, to our friends and all over the Internet. It use to bother and upset me. I just have to remember anyone who believes her lies does NOT matter and the people who matter don’t believe her and don’t mind.

lifeisgood2013

This post triggered a memory of the “warning” my spath gave me when he said in a hard to describe but almost angry tone when we were discussing agreeing to a committed relationship with one another. The warning was something to the effect of “is this what YOU really want?”….and of course once I said yes, the tone changed completely because he knew he had me and in his twisted mind, he probably thought he had given me sufficient warning. If only I had understood what he REALLY meant!

Barb

One day my brother’s ex-wife invited our family to their house for his birthday celebration. I had left high school far, far behind me. If reminded of it I became sick. Well, my brother’s neighbor at the time was a woman from my high school class. She cornered me and mentioned a sociopath (female) that I hung around with since 4th grade and who ‘led me down the garden path’. In a typical “blame the victim” fashion this woman brought up the spath. It was accusatory. She knew someone who had observed my student teaching experience (and my spath had found a way to ‘best’ me by pursuing education and running a foreign exchange program…Japan). This spath found out I had gone into education and was a student teacher in the town where we had all lived and graduated from high school. SO…

This neighbor woman who cornered me knew the ‘someone’ who had observed my student teaching … and also knew the spath. So this ‘neighbor woman…’ her name is Susan…implied, without right-out saying it, that the spath was doing really, really well and had an exchange program. Then she asked me what I did (obviously a comparison question). I just said that I was happy and moved around a lot. Then she implied that I was a great friend of the spath…so the obvious gap in the conversation was, “So why don’t you hang with her now?” With the obvious conclusion: you must be threatened and jealous of her.

The spath had ‘followed’ me again…stealing my identity and going far past my accomplishments. The stupid thing about it is that I had no clue what the spath had done with her life and did not care. I pursued education at the time because that is what I wanted to do. So who was Susan to subtly accuse me? I should have asked her if she still hung around with the same friend she had in high school from 30 years ago…and if not, why?

I cannot believe that the spath, who used to live in Japan, still kept tabs on me and stole the show from me…in a big way. I had even forgotten about her. And I did not want “a big show”…just a job in education.

Of course, Susan was/is ignorant of what had actually occurred but the spath did not fool everybody. In fact, the spath grew up three houses down from a great friend of mine (Betty). Betty invited me to northern Maine to visit her relatives and she and I talked about the spath. She understood what had happened to me and even said, “I just thought you were great friends…I wanted you to get away from her and she used you horribly. That last year of high school was the worst year of your life.”

carriesguns

wow. Linda, that is the most detailed and accurate and deeply perceptive description of the source of “cognitive dissonance” i have ever read.

fightforwhatsright

One of the things Oprah used to say on her show is: When people tell you who they are, BELIEVE them. I wish I would have listened.

I’m a Gay Male, and the exact thing happened to me.
Early on he said to me “I don’t think you can handle me…” and a Big red Flag went up in my head. I started Paying Attention to what was going on and not what was being said.
Couple weeks later he did something that really hurt me and another Red flag went up. A few weeks later another Red Flag went up. But I was smart. I Ran. He woke up one morning and I was gone. Lock, Stock, and Barrel. Three Red Flags and you’re OUT!
And Yes it Hurt me more than it would ever hurt him.

It’s the only way to deal with Spath’s, or is that not to deal with them?

Cheers,
BuBu

fightforwhatsright

Run, BuBu, run! Thank you for sharing that we can all run early and fast.

Tea Light

….if we know what red flags are, and are in good enough shape emotionally and mentally to take self protecting measures when we recognise those red flags then, yes, it is possible to minimise future involvement with the dangerously disordered. But for many if not most here, it may be a life’s work in progress to stay safe. These people can present as functional and ” normal” to such an extent that even seasoned psychiatric professionals can be fooled. And sadly, it takes time to evaluate whether someone is seriously personality disordered. And the more time we spend around them, the greater the chance of their manipulations taking effect on us. The best any of us can do is remain cautious and watchful when forming new relationships, and to know our own vulnerabilities. Because those vulnerabilities will be clear as day to a sociopath who Will play them for what they can get. Knowing our weak spots and recognizing that we are capable of being fooled is an important step in minimising the risk of it happening.

cannh

Amen, Tea Light. That is absolutely correct!

fightforwhatsright

I am in shock right now and had to come here to post to my new friends. As some may know, the spath was brought home from the hospital two days ago. He has been bugging me yesterday and today about picking up library books he had ordered. He had plenty left from last time when I told him to put a hold on his books until he had two left because I wasn’t going to the library every three days.

This morning, I had a nightmare and he had called me telling me about something and sounding like he had no agenda…even though I know he always does. We all know that voice on the machine that is “just calling” for a small reason and sounds so very normal. I called him back, told him all about my nightmare (which he hates) and then told him I had to go. He didn’t get a word in. A few hours later, he called me and asked me if I could please go get his books at the library. I told him I would today, but I was only going to the library every four to six weeks, so he if he needed to put a hold on. I knew I was not going to go again for a month no matter what he did this time. It IS, after all, part of my “paycheck” so to speak.

I went to pick up his books and there was a red book I noticed. Usually, I just throw them in his bag and take them to him. The red book was called “The Wisdom of Psychopaths: What Saints, Spies, and Serial Killers Can Teach Us About Success.” Yes. Unless I am misunderstanding this book, there is a handbook to make them believe they are superior! I kept it. I am now reading it.

So far, the author states that his father was a psychopath who ripped off everyone he could. Now, he is talking about serial killers and interviewing psychologists who study them. He interviewed Robert Hare of the famous Psycho Hare scale. Hare is telling him about research he did that proved that psychopaths can tell who will be the best “target” by watching us WALK! The gait of our walk lets a psychopath know we would be an easy victim to target! I am only a few pages in. I decided if he was going to order a handbook, I am reading it first. He may not get it as long as he can’t get to a library himself. I am beginning to hope that is never. I am beginning to see that doing his grocery shopping with him on a walker is far better than having him walking to the library or buying his own things.

I doubt he will ever see the book unless the author discusses a lot more about how hideous he is than what a SUCCESS he is. The man lives in 350 sq ft I own and pays my entire mortgage for rent. He lost his nursing license by drinking and stealing drugs on the job. He is the very definition of a loser who had everything handed to him if he didn’t take it first!

I will let you know any other “tidbits” about how easily these sub-humans can know who and how to pick us out. And then I will probably return the book without his ever reading it. I put the sticker off the book in his book bag before I put it on his dresser. He will know I have it and when he asks about it, I feel like saying, “I wanted to read the book because it talks about old men on walkers living in a garage who have no one but me to make sure they get food. It was very helpful!” What would you do?

Thanks.

fight,
Oh my! To think that our body language can make us targets! I’m looking forward to you sharing all the tidbits you get out of that book!

If He asks you about the book,you don’t want to say anything that will make him mad!After all,you don’t need the stress;the headache!
However,you could just tell him that the book aroused your curiosity,and since it would take time for him to read the other books,you wanted to read this one while he’s reading the others.
Anyway,that’s what I would do.

Tea Light

Fightsie, this is pretty alarming, did The Lodger seem at all embarassed that you know he loaned a book on this subject? Did he volunteer an explaination? It does seem like a ‘tell’ given what you’ve told us about him he sounds highly sociopathic and they do often make clear they are such as we saw in Linda’s article this week. I know he’s mobility impaired but it does worry me. I’d ask him straight up why he wanted to read that book, and say well I’,m uncomfortable with you reading it or other books on psychopathy so I won’t bring them to you.

Tea,
Good points! Many of us had no idea what a sociopath is or the LIE that was our life~~~or the harm caused mentally,emotionally,and sometimes physically! By the time we came to our senses,we had a REAL FIGHT on our hands,BREAKING FREE FROM THE SPELL,and finding a new life and finding ourselves again!

fightforwhatsright

Hi Blossom and Lightsie: Thank you for the support. I dove right into the book. It is interesting, but I’m not sure if the author is for, or against, sociopaths so far. He admits that his father was one so there would be more of chance that he is also one. The author is from the UK and he does discuss a lot of research.

So far, one thing I found interesting because it pertains to our discussions about sociopaths being DEVOLVED, but telling us they are evolved. He said that studies show that Sociopaths do not blink as often as normal people! He said they seem to use their “lizard brain” (amygdala) more than normal people. He also said that their ability to go without blinking for long periods of time would be why people talk about how long they will stare at others. I would say this would include those longing stares in the beginning and piercing stares of hatred a few weeks later. He indicated that since reptiles do not need to blink as much as humans, THAT could even be why they don’t blink as often.

I don’t like the title of the book at all because spaths are all losers in the human domain and I don’t like them thinking they can find a book that calls their spath lizard brains a “success.”

The spath called me about an hour after I dropped off his book bag and said that a book was missing, but it was listed as “checked out” on the receipt. I said, “Oh! I forgot to tell you. I thought it looked interesting and I’m reading it.” He said, “Oh, yeah. Feel free to borrow any book I check out. I have plenty here to read.” I said, “OK.” That was it. I have one eye that has a lot of problems because of lasik surgery gone wrong so he knows it takes me a long time to read a book. I have to read one day and then rest my eyes for a couple of days. He also knows I am reading another book that is 900 pages long. So, I plan to keep it six weeks which is as long as he can keep it without paying fines.

So far, it’s not a handbook of any sort. It’s just information an some research stats. I will let you know if I believe it is worth victims reading when I finish it….oh about 10 weeks from now! LOL.

I calmed down and read about 65 pages. The author seems to be trying to attract sociopaths AND their victims….larger market. I would only get it from the library. I don’t want to encourage him to write another tome about how successful spaths are! Their misplaced grandiosity will just take it and run wherever they want with it.

fightforwhatsright

The Lodger brought up the book in an “off the cuff” way later saying “I thought you left it there.” Hmmmm. Why would he think that? I said, “No. I figured if you were going to get a handbook to make you think you’re a successful psychopath, I needed to read it first. You’re all the same and I know more about you than you’ll ever know about me.” He said, “Sociopaths don’t need handbooks.” !!!!!! I said, “Well, then you shouldn’t be worried about it.” He then acted like there was no conversation about it and changed the subject. I laughed inside. I know him. I doubt he will even want to read the book now!

I have read a little more of the book and I am going to try to stop calling him “foster monkey” even though it makes me laugh. Apparently monkeys are better and acting human than the average sociopath according to the studies.

One interesting thing. They did research with the hypothesis that a psychopath could not recognize things like empathy, hurt feelings, etc. What they found is that sociopaths actually can recognize those things BETTER than the rest of us. They can see them in our eyes, our faces, our body language…sometimes before we are even cognitive of them. They are constantly scanning people for the “look” of these human feelings and reactions. However, they only know the “definition” of them and how to con people feeling/showing them. They don’t feel them. They then use the definition of what they are seeing in us as their design for how to get what they want from us individually based upon those readings and understanding of the definitions.

Another thing they are studying right now? Sociopaths don’t do human subconscious things we do like yawning when we see or hear someone else yawning! They said that, so far, when they do studies, people who are known to be psychopaths do not yawn after someone else does. They said that even chimpanzees and dogs will often yawn if they see a human yawn…just like normal people like us have that strange reflex of yawning when we see someone else yawn. But, psychopaths don’t do that. So, even little social cues like that that we all know about, or laugh and wonder about, when it happens in a group of people, psychopaths naturally DON’T do it without even consciously knowing that are not doing it.

Wow! That could be a new red flag when meeting someone! Yawn and then watch to see if they yawn! 🙂

fightforwhatsright

I tested The Lodger on the yawning. He has needed my help more since getting out of the hospital. I yawned several times on phone calls today. Nothing. I walked out front and he was smoking. I yawned a few more times. No yawn. Someone can’t be consciously stifling a yawn! I have never even heard of these studies and this book was just written last year. Spaths are too lazy to look up studies about themselves if they even recognize that is what they are. But, the guy writes that they don’t yawn after someone else does the way we subconsciously do and my spath is proving it to be true around me. This book could be so helpful to US.

I didn’t read any of it today. I plan to take my time and try not to let him read it. He usually gets very bored with non-fiction. I doubt he will even read it if he asks for it again. At this point, I think it would be interesting to run the blink and yawn test as well as any others in the book, let him read it, and then see if he mimics those cues the rest of us do without thinking once he has read it. The Lodger Experiment.

I am glad others here are remembering and experimenting as they can. We need as many clues and cues as we can get about these people. I do think the author may be a narcissist at the very least and may even be questioning researchers around the world about sociopaths to see if they recognize that he might have some or all of the traits. I’m not sure yet.

fightforwhatsright

Yes. First Date: We blink and yawn a lot and watch to see what they do. LOL. If we yawn and they don’t and get mad because they take our yawns as boredom, we will have gone out with a sociopath narcissist!

cherith10

Quickly browsing the site and came upon the “social cues” of the sociopath which you posted, FFWR. It occurred to me that “not blinking often” was what I had initially interpreted as intensity in my s-path husband. He is very intelligent, 14 years older than myself, and he would bare down upon me with this guru-like focus. I was intimidated and mesmerized. When I first brought him home, before we married, I remember that my father asked somewhat irritably, “Why does he LOOK at you that way?” I was actually a bit embarrassed by the behavior. It seemed like some socially awkward way of expressing unwavering devotion. This quirk was just one of many cues. I think “the predatory stare” may be a combination of a neurological quirk, theatrics, and an attempt to mimic social connection.
I happened to cross paths with him this morning and watched to see how often he blinks. Sure enough. He doesn’t blink much.

As an aside, he also never dreams. You shared a nightmare with your lodger, FFWR, but I’ll bet he doesn’t personally experience nightmares.

fightforwhatsright

Hi Cherith,

The author seems to wonder if they do not blink as much because they are run by their amygdala, AKA: the lizard brain, that is our ancient brain with no impulse control, runs with addictions, and we would not really be human if that was the only part of the brain we had stayed with as evolving. He says they really are reptiles. He also compares the worst ones to Cobras listing the biological reactions they have similar to a snake! He says that cobras stay calm and their anxiety levels go down before they strike. Basically, as I have been reading this book, he compares sociopaths to reptiles with the ability to act like full human beings. And, NO!, my spath rarely dreams at all. Last night, after I had nabbed this book from his library order, I went over to see if he needed anything as he just got back from surgery recently. I had cookies in the oven, so just planned to pop in and see if I needed to come back and help him with anything. HE began to tell me about a nightmare he had supposedly just had. I know he was lying. He didn’t have a nightmare. I DID. He tells me about remembering bits and pieces of dreams about three times a year. They usually seem to be about the Navy. With my newfound education from Lovefraud articles and sharing here, I immediately thought, “You are making this up.” Luckily, I remembered my cookies and had to run out the door just as he started his “dream” story. What are the chances that he happened to have one of his few dreams the very day I had an unusually bad nightmare? I’ll bet no reptile dreams!

I plan to continue reading this book and reporting anything here that can be helpful to help everyone to recognize some of the subtle body language of the sociopath cobra. It sounds like your father recognized it right away.

Hmmm,interesting! I’m glad you brought this up Cherith! Please keep us updated fight! I remember at times spath telling me he had dreams or nightmares.Sometimes he would say he “heard” a word and ask me if it was a real word or not.Sometimes it was;sometimes not.

hgg522

So…When I found out my ex s/p was cheating, extensively, called me a pig and a parasite (which is probably what he had been called at one time or another)…I told him I was leaving and that I was not going to live like that, nor my children (and that was after he pushed me down the stairs from behind in front of my kids). He told me if I leave him, he would take my kids. I told him “my kids are my life”. He told me, “I’m going to ruin your life!” Scary, because he has spent the last 10 years giving it his best shot. The court system is corrupt and an ideal avenue for the s/p to manipulate and facilitate legal abuse…which my children and I have suffered, EXTENSIVELY! However, nothing he has tried, schemed, plotted, planned…NOTHING has worked. I guarantee he had expended 10 x the energy trying to “Get Me” or sabotage my parenting to take me back to court, hold me in contempt, bribe GAL’s and court appointed evaluators…He has spent thousands of $$$…”God before you, who can be against you”. My kids are wise, overcomers, smart, beautiful, strong, prayerful, and refuse to spend time with their “abuser”. I have been through Hell with this maniac and his wife and her whole family…showing up to court, hoping to see me fall…It has not happened…will not happen…knowledge is power. Knowing what an S/P is and knowing that they are so damned predictable is the best defense ever. The GAL that was court appointed, “drank the Kool-Aid” and told me on our first meeting “we’re all sociopaths…we all lie” (she had met with my ex s/p on 3 separate occasions prior to meeting me once…I have doubted, repented, doubted more, believed, praised, loved, exhausted myself…But the main thing…I kept moving forward! Keep moving forward and eventually all of this shiznit will be behind us…To God be the glory for ever and ever. Amen and Amen…Peace, Love and Hugs…

4Light2shine

Hi everybody. My pseudo wife is back. It’s usually too much work to be able to share posts while she is here, but I seldom go a day without catching up with articles and comments. As a bonus this week, I just found out her mother will be staying in town locally this week so we will no doubt have some lovely performances. Oh the depths of delusion there just boggle the mind. Anyway I wanted to jump in with you on this subject.
Body Language. While we were dating my spath shared many of her strategies and techniques. Asserting dominance and subconsciously manipulating – in her real estate business she explained that when clients would come in she would begin to establish control immediately by the way she would direct them to where they would sit. Staging. She has many times explained how the peripheral surroundings have ensured or swayed even a C L sale for some inexpensive piece of furniture or whatever. When they walked in they weren’t expecting it. They kept commenting on how the shiny the floor was. The presentation affects the perceived value of the item being sold. She is highly aware of every aspect relating to this and uses many variations of theses techniques effectively. Personal Presentation. With a small residential house cleaning business she had for a bit, she explained that during the first meeting she would never show up in casual dress or dress like she was going to while doing the cleaning work. No, she dressed up very high end and presented herself as a sophisticated, superior alternative to the frumpy average cleaning lady. She was sure this kept her pricing higher than the average. Dreams. She says if she sleeps on her back she always has nightmares. Otherwise she says she can never remember dreaming, or almost never. Btw she falls asleep almost instantly when she is ready, but sleeps very lightly as her hearing is almost superhuman. More on sleep, her naps, she Must have them in the afternoon, falls asleep immediately and awakens completely refreshed almost exactly 20 mins later. Like a robot charging its batteries. Eyes. On the blinking, now that you mention it, I’d say that’s pretty accurate. She has very intense, expressive eyes and most definitely uses them in many ways to assert dominance, to seduce both sexually and otherwise. She is particularly fascinated with her eyes and loves to draw attention to them in conversations with others about their unique color and shape because of her ethnicity blend. I forgot until just now, but she did liken them to a lions before, and they are similar. While she wears no makeup on her face itself, her skin is practically flawless ( sickening I know, but true ) she outlines her eyes heavily, drawing attention to them. I remember too hearing I think it was Jack Nicholson explaining how not blinking during pivotal scenes brought more power to the performance. As many of you have already stated spaths know and do these things instinctively, and when they have fairly perfected their craft, be glad you are able to see them at least finally, now.

cherith10

Very interesting, 4light2shine.
One strange little thing that happened at my wedding annoyed me, but I just brushed it off. Now years later, I realize that “a social cue” was given, but I just brushed it off. When the pastor said, “I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride”, my new husband kissed me hard and held the kiss and held the kiss and held the kiss. The congregation started to laugh. They must have thought, “Look how much he loves her!” Meanwhile, I was feeling pressed, forced, uncomfortable. Finally I pushed him away, laughing a little. I knew he was showing off. But I accepted the behavior and moved on. Years later, I realize that, as the bride, I was part of the stage set and that this was theatrical. It wasn’t an expression of passion. That saddens me because I’m not sure how much insight he really has. I feel sorry for him. I know that is a dangerous thing, to be sorry for an s-path. But I don’t think he really knows what he is suppose to feel or how to express it.

fightforwhatsright

The “kiss of death” for your well being! I think spaths get a lot of what they do and say from movies.

cherith10

One last comment because this article struck home — thank you, Linda Almas. I write it as testimony to the fact that a sociopath will sometimes give a warning. Before I ever married my husband, he said to me (two times), “You don’t want me. I’ll never make you happy. I’m irresponsible.” We were in college at the time. He was (by his own account) the Director of Student Counseling and he was heading for graduate school. I didn’t believe him. He also told me that he had nothing to offer me. I was so infatuated that I told him “I would live with you even if we had to live in a tent.” When you are 22 years old, you don’t realize what this means. I didn’t know what terrible financial condition he was in. After the wedding, I moved half way across the country to live with him. I arrived to a mailbox stuffed with overdrafts for a trip he had taken to Europe and Israel. He owed a number of people money. He had even put our wedding rings on a credit card — which I eventually paid for through my work as a nurse. When the time came for us to move to an apartment, he admitted that he couldn’t pass a credit check. I persevered with him. It seemed that he was a complicated person with many other likeable qualities. He managed to complete graduate school although he was the first person, probably in the history of that college, to find a way around writing a thesis. His professors allowed him to take one additional course instead. He appears very credible, full of potential, intense, charming, and likeable.

Once as newly-weds, he curled toward me in bed and whispered, “I knew you’d be an easy person to fool”.

It’s difficult, even now, to admit that I was consciously manipulated. There are so many questions I’d like to ask him. But it is impossible to get a straight answer. He is able to rationalize his actions and lies about even little things.

Having said all of this, I need to accept responsibility for my part in this relationship. I need to move on, forgive myself … even forgive him. And I must have hope that my life isn’t “ruined”.

fightforwhatsright

Cherith:

Another interesting “cue” you’ve mentioned. Whispering. It’s just creepy and it is a powerful tool to control. My spath brother in law has used whispering all of the time. He used to murmur and whisper things into this kids ears and it was creepy. He also used to whisper to my sister while she was asleep…I believe a form of brainwashing. One time, when she was considering leaving him and he knew, she told us that “they” had awakened and heard someone whisper “Don’t leave me.” She was the one who woke up and I am certain he was already wide awake. He convinced her they had a ghost! We all knew he had whispered it and she wasn’t supposed to wake up and hear it. She is still with him and she and their kids are completely brainwashed by him.

Mine doesn’t whisper. But, I have had to sleep in separate bedrooms since husband number one. So, he might be capable of that kind of thing. He does a lot of verbal stuff designed to manipulate.

I remember at our wedding rehearsal,my soon- to- be husband was cracking jokes,as I was beginning to get nervous,realizing that in less than 24 hrs I’d be married.

But at the wedding ceremony,it was totally reversed!He looked like he was walking to the firing squad,while I felt happy and content.
When it came time to kiss the bride,he just stood there and let me do the kissing!In fact,my hat & short veil fell off my head,and the audience laughed!That wasn’t theatrics;it just happened as I was relaxed!

atozmom

While reading these comments, I just remembered my ex had told me once that he should not be in a relationship, that he should just be by himself. After saying that he asked me to get him paper and a pen, I did, he then wrote something like I bob sign over all my parental rights of my daughter to my wife, because my wife doesn’t believe I am a good dad. He then handed the paper to me but didn’t bother to sign it. After that I thought I might be be rid of him. No he sat outside my house in his tow truck calling my house, he called me almost 40 times in about 2 hours. I would not pick up the phone and then I finally picked up, he was still sitting in front of my house, when I answered he said goodbye and asked me to tell our infant daughter that he loved her. He then told me that he had just taken all of his heart medication and all of his blood pressure medication. I said oh okay, I ‘m calling the police to let them know and hung up. As I hung up he started up his truck and drove away. Sadly he never took all of those medications. That was 8 years ago and he is still tormenting us, I was able to cut it down by getting a restraining order for 6 years but he would violate it and got away with it numerous times. I just want to thank everybody for letting me read all comments and seeing that I am not alone. Thanks kathy

Dave

wow that’s eerie, my wife also could fall asleep instantly yet slept extremely light. and ususally anything romantic she said to me would come in the form of a whisper with a seductive look.

I guess I missed my warnings, several months in she sat me down and said she had some things to tell me. She told me about her messed up childhood and horrible relationship with her parents and both her step parents, she told me that had her committed somewhere at 13 for a suicide attempt, she told me she had been in the military and went awol, but that she turned herself in and was discharged (that was a lie as 2 months later she got caught in the car with me and arrested then said “thanks a lot david”)

3 years ago during a breakup I went to her house trying to talk things out, she told me in the garage she didn’t know why I kept fighting for this, and that I was an attractive man and I could find another girl to make me happy that I could make happy to which I told her I want no other woman but you, why cant you understand that? Once in the house we kissed a few times, then I had to leave, on the way out she grabbed me and flung me around to face her and passionately kissed me for bout 30 secs then told me she loved me, I wound up moving back in the next week and the process started over again, she loves me, says we cant be apart, this feels so right, only to go cold again and say im a pathetic loser, I don’t do enough, she never wanted me back, and to get out.

she is doing it right now as we are split up again 7 weeks now. She never wants to talk about things or apologize when she does something I feel is over the boarders of a relationship, we just do silent treatment then days later she will hop in the shower with me like it never happened and we have sex, that didn’t bother me the first few years, but later on it did as I realized it was only putting a bandaid on a gunshot wound.

Stargazer

The spath I was involved with almost 6 years ago (wow, how time flies) gave himself away with one auspicious tell. When I was first getting to know him, he was kind and generous – the “guy next door”. He made his “ex” wife out to be a real witch, and the army was putting him through hell testing his alleged head injury before they gave him a medical discharge with lifelong pension. He seemed to be a decent man just going through a hard time. An ex Iraqi vet, I thought him to be a true hero. “You’re a good man,” I said to him, after knowing him only a short time. “No, I’m really not,” was his only reply. This turned out to be one of the few truthful things he ever said to me.

For those who don’t know the story, I found out in the following few months that he was lying about his divorce and faking a head injury to con the army. It was a very involved and intricate plot where he was faking a limp, slurred speech, and a facial tic around the army people. With me, he was totally normal. (Why do they always fake a limp? Ted Bundy faked a limp, too. It seems to be right out of the play book for how to be a sociopath.)

mcmjuly

Wow Stargazer, my ex spath used to say the same thing. I would say, you are a good man, and he would always reply with, “no, I’m not.” I used to think he was just being humble….the similarities in their behavior is spooky!!!

Stargazer

I think they all follow the same playbook – Sociopathy 101. When I first came on here and started reading, I was amazed at how many of them fake a limp. It shocked me to find this out. I mean, would you ever expect someone you know to fabricate an entire medical condition with facial tics and a limp? And to keep it up for 2 years? He should have gone into acting instead of the army. The ease with which they lie is just astounding to me.

oopsie

Im so glad i read this article. I never could make sense of the comment my spath made to me on the first night we were together in the house that he asked me to move into with him. He said, “Things are going to get bad now.” I didn’t understand it but i assumed that he was referring to the damage his ex wife had caused him ( as he always claimed). I just let the comment pass. Now i know he was telling the truth! Before that house we lived in a place he rented. When his ex went to the west coast and left the house they spent their married years in, we moved to that house.. thinking it would save a huge amount of money it should have made him happier bit it seemed, in fact, to unleash all sorts of horrible behavior. There were scattered clues but i was in denial as i really wanted a loving compassionate relationship. Moving there seemed to triger or put the approval on his full blown disturbed personality to act manipulative, grandios, controlling, and outrageous in every respect. I took me another 6 months to start seeking help online and making sense of it all. Thank the powers that be for this site. It helped to put the marbles back in my head. What did people in these sort of situations do without the internet? It must have been extremely difficult to understand what was happening to you especially since the spaths likes to control all those around you and how they relate to you! So, thank you!

lifeisgood2013

Oh boy did this post trigger a memory recall! My ex-spath once said to me close to the end of our relationshit that he was probably the cause of the horrible sleep disorder I had suffered from for years (for which I was heavily medicated on benzos). I heard it but it didn’t mean anything to me or perhaps I didn’t want it to mean anything. That second part is tough to get past….

I know I am jumping into the middle of this thread, but I just wanted to say that I do not think they tell us these ominous truths because they care and want to give us a warning so we will leave and help ourselves. I think they do it so that later they can justify their actions by claiming that we were told and stayed anyways, thus giving our consent. They make a mockery of their victims, who they laugh in the face of (blatantly or covertly) because they think we are inferior beings who couldn’t save ourselves, even with the direct warning from them.

Stargazer

Panther, I think they say these things because sometimes by default, they just inadvertently tell the truth.

I agree they accidentally spill their own beans, but my ex explained to me in vivid detail too often how he rationalized abuse. He basically described what I am saying above, which is that any woman who cannot see it = stupid, therefore deserves it cause stupid people are unworthy of respect, and if he helps her out by telling her, then she = stupider and giving consent.

Obviously I didn’t realize consciously (although subconsciously yes) that I was that woman at that moment in time. I wanted to believe I was the token exception. Yeah, right.

Dave

I just remembered something else mine said to me just last year.

Somehow we were on the topic of alpha and beta males, im sure you all know what both are.

She made a statement to me something along the lines of that she had always wanted a beta male but never could find one to satisfy her sexually.

WTF???

In other words you want a man that will take crap from anybody, give you money, do what you say, and hes good in bed.

My lord the signs are all around, how in the hell were we all so blind?

Dave

off topic,

Anybody here know about taxes? My wife and I are not legally married just call each other that cause were together for 10 years.

Last year she took my exemption for myself without telling me which I found was illegal as I had made too much money, but I know she has claimed me as dependant at least 2 other times when I wasn’t working and staying home with the kids, and from what ive read that is illegal too as it states you can only claim children or relatives.

She also committed welfare fraud to get free insurance for our kids, by claiming I lived there but was not making money when I was because I worked for her business and she could have afforded getting medical coverage through her day job.

What should I do? I have contemplated reporting this, I fear it may make things worse or it may be a good thing as I not only may get the kids, but would possibly make her face consequences of her actions so she may not defraud the state anymore or lie on her taxes.

Help please.

Dave – you might want to talk to an accountant.

edge of sanity

Hi Dave, You may want to contact the IRS Investigations. Everything you tell them is held in strict confidence. The other half will never know it is you. You may want to log into their site-IRS investigations and get some knowledge of what they handle.
Cover your a–! You can also turn her into the State for fraud, and also this is confidential.

Chinchilla

We don’t listen to their warnings because they are not warnings, just strokings to their own vanity. A warning to go back issued in tears to someone who has just travelled 1000 miles to be there and invested their whole deceived heart in a new life is a bit like when divas in films say “Go on without me, just leave me here to die alone”, after which the hero obviously picks them up anyway and they live happily ever after. That “warning” is only a vanity piece, so that one day the psycho will be boasting, to themselves if no one else, how much so and so loved them, and how utterly they destroyed their lives and spirit. That’s all.
Because all there is to psychopaths is vanity.

Stargazer

I think in some superficial glib sense, they know they are bad people, probably because they’ve been told. And they know they are not like others. I doubt they care. I do think that some percentage of the time when they’re talking they hit on a truthful statement, just due to the simple laws of probability.

atozmom

Wow, I can ‘t believe I missed the comments about the limp. My ex spath has a limp, and I think hes up to 18 stints now. He has also told the Judge in family court that I have personally caused him to have 3 heart attacks and a series of mini strokes as well as several individual strokes. If only.

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