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LETTER TO LOVEFRAUD: He kept saying God brought us together

Editor’s note: A Lovefraud reader whom we’ll call “Linette” sent the following email. This article refers to spiritual concepts. Please read Lovefraud’s statement on Spiritual Recovery.

I had been out of a different type of abusive marriage for about a year when a friend of mine sent me an ad from one of those local singles sites that she thought I should look at. I was at work and not busy at the time so I went over to the link “just for fun.”

At the top of the list of “ads” in big bold letters was the title, “JESUS IS LORD.” “How bold!” I thought, “to be able to not be ashamed of Jesus!” In my mind I thought it was not a good idea to meet a man online, but well, I kept thinking about that post. What if I wrote him back and it could be a “friend” online to talk to about my Spiritual faith (which means more to me than anything). We talked back and forth on email several times after that and then he asked me to call him. What harm would it do I thought?

So I did and he was SO happy, OVERJOYED to hear from me! He had been praying for so long for someone like me, he said! He told me the horrible story of his wife leaving him 5 notes, one for him and 4 for the kids and moving to another state. He realized he hadn’t been perfect and he must have done something he didn’t know about, he said! After all, a man should be the “priest of his house” and he had failed to keep his marriage together. You get the idea anyway now, SO much hurt he had been through.

Love letters

Then the letters started coming, beautiful love letters like I had never seen before! We met and he had arranged to have flowers on our table on the first date! He said boldly, “I hate to interrupt but I just have to tell you how BEAUTIFUL you are!”

At first I was sort of suspicious that he came on so strong and backed off, even called off our plans to meet again, but I had bought him a birthday present and he came by to get it on the way to meet someone else he had made friends with online. He looked SO good when he came to the door and his voice sounded golden when he talked. He LOVED the present he said and would cherish it always.

Taking my chance

What was I doing? I wondered if I was “missing my chance” with this man! After all, all he had done was be wonderful, a little controlling after sending me “Linette’s calendar” complete with the next month filled up, but how romantic that was, I thought! How nice that he already KNOWS he wants to be with me, that he can’t resist me.

So, we dated a couple more times. He brought me flowers almost daily to work and took me out constantly, writing love letters that would put the most famous poet to shame. He even showed me a letter he had written called, “My prayer for a bride.” How sweet, it matched me almost perfectly! He told me of all the “signs” that God had given him to let him know “I was the ‘ONE'” and kept marveling at how blessed he was to find me! We danced every night in my apartment as I rested my head on his shoulder and fell in love. I could never meet a more wonderful man I thought.

The ring

So VERY soon, only 3 weeks after we met, he arranged a picnic in the park for my birthday and took out a beautiful ring for a present. It was my birthstone and very pretty. He said when I saw the ring box, “You didn’t think that was an engagement ring did you?” I felt foolish and said, “Oh no of course not.” Several minutes later he pulled out another box and it WAS an engagement ring.

I was SHOCKED. He said he couldn’t live without me, that we could wait as long as I wanted and he would understand if I said no, but was praying that I would say yes. On Valentine’s Day he took me to the most romantic place I had ever been to and I said, “Yes.”

I thought I LOVED this man. He kept saying how God brought us together and SHOWERED me with attention and affection, everything a woman wants to hear. We waited about 4 more months as he kept hurrying me to go ahead and do it so we could be together all the time. We got married on top of a mountain, a Bible park 2 hours away. My church that he had started attending brought a whole van load full of people, and it was a storybook wedding and honeymoon.

He didn’t have enough money to pay for the honeymoon he said but he would soon and he wanted it to be “special.” I spent the money I had gotten from my ex to buy our house since he promised he would pay it back in NO TIME. He said he made very good money, just had a run of bad luck from his divorce paying off all of HER credit cards. He took the debt because he wanted “out of it,” he said. Embarrassed, I spent almost $3,000 (almost all I had) on our honeymoon when I had planned on paying my bills off with it.

Okay, fast forward, honeymoon was FULL of promises of many more times like this, the whole rest of our life would be a “honeymoon.” I was the angel God had sent to earth to be with him, he said.

Honeymoon is over

SHORTLY after the honeymoon I found out he was pretty much impotent and also in bankruptcy. He swore it was “nothing” and that he would do whatever he could to fix it. Oh yeah, it got better. He had my income now as well and was able to buy MORE motorcycles and even a small airplane because he had plenty of time now that I took care of EVERYTHING inside and outside of the house. He wanted me to ride the motorcycle with him but I had had a bad wreck on one when he was trying to teach me. I now even look back and wonder if he was hoping something WOULD happen to me. He wouldn’t have cared, that’s for sure. I soon found that he cared nothing about ANYONE including his own 4 children.

But every time I would get upset at something he said or did and cried, he would end up apologizing. OH how he loved me and we just needed to let “God anoint our marriage and repair it.” It was always my fault, of course. He lied many times and took out loans that I knew nothing about.

Separate vacations

We soon started traveling separately on vacations because he needed that “time on the motorcycle to spend with God.” He would plan several trips a year by himself for weeks to get “out on the road with God.” I was afraid to ride now, and he put me down for it. He said he had thought I had liked motorcycles when I met him and it was my fault we didn’t take vacations together.

Much more that I could go into but this is how I “woke up.” My mother passed away one year, actually a little over a year ago. I had been spending a lot of time at the nursing home with her for the past few months, with my husband NEVER at my side. I would get home and he would be watching TV, had always gotten mad when I interrupted his television watching even during a commercial. I just cried and hurt and said goodbye to my Mom. He attended the funeral with me like a “good husband” for looks. After all, he couldn’t have people at my church thinking he was anything less than the perfect husband.

After the funeral, a girlfriend of mine was planning a trip to the beach. She said if I would to go that I would only have to pay for my meals. I jumped at the chance of a whole 7 days being out of the “bondage” of my lonely, loveless, sexless marriage. I noticed on the trip that the people who went with us were kind to me, they actually asked ME what I wanted to do and where I wanted to eat, etc. I didn’t even know how to answer. I hadn’t been asked in so long. One afternoon I was walking down the beach and it “hit” me. If I lived to be 90 like my mother had, wait if I lived 6 more MONTHS I did not want to live like I was. I made the decision right then and there. I was getting out.

Getting out

When I returned home I figured out a plan to get my things when he was at work and I told him I was going to spend the night with my sister. I sent him an email that he read at work saying I would not be back and more. I was honest and said I had realized I couldn’t live like that any longer but not unkind with my words.

That’s when the real battle began. The first site he sent me was a “quickie divorce” site. Then next one was an email on the church prayer chain asking people to pray for him, that his wife of eleven years had left him—Anonymous.

I couldn’t believe he was so uncaring that he never even asked if I could reconsider or get counseling. I would get an email one time and it would be full of CRAZY talk, accusations and put-downs and then the next one would be how he wanted to work things out fairly. He quoted a lot of scripture to make me feel guilty. It was messy but good friends of mine helped me stand my ground.

He didn’t have the money to pay a lawyer so we finally agreed on a settlement after some months of pain and threats and insults. I couldn’t do the “no contact” thing until it was all settled. But I did set limits.

He actually asked me once to meet him for a “Last Supper” at his house the night before the divorce. HUH? That’s SICK. Of course I didn’t go. He insisted on showing up at the hearing even though he didn’t really need to just to make everything uncomfortable.

Order of protection

The emails, calls and texts kept coming, likes on social media, told to my church friends and BIG displays of “brokenness” in church services were thankfully seen through by most people including my pastor. He followed me after work one day and I got up the nerve to go and seek an order of protection against him. I was afraid everywhere I went.

One time I went out to eat with a friend after church and he was sitting in a lawn chair next to my car when I returned. He said he wanted to walk our dog and that we could do it the “easy way or the hard way.” I got in my car and left, heart pounding. STILL I doubted myself. Was he the one in the right here? Had I been exaggerating how bad things were in my mind? Back and forth I went STILL trying to figure everything out.

I obtained a six-month restraining order because I had all the emails and he admitted following me that day. It runs out at the end of this month. He feared going to jail so he quit going to our church and I have not heard from him since the hearing for the order of protection. I think he fooled the judge some. He is GOOD just like other sociopaths are, at sounding truthful and getting sympathy.

Recovering

I am trying hard to recover. My Dad passed away at the first of April, a little over a year after my Mom. I feel some days as if I can’t go on. I am on an anti-depressant but for the first time in my “Christian life,” I have been doubting God, myself and almost everyone else I meet.

I know I have come a long way but I think I expect too much. Although I have friends who have been great, they don’t REALLY understand how it is to have been deceived by someone who is nothing like they seem to be, to find out their whole marriage is a lie, that that person never really existed.

Thank you Donna for all you have taught me even though you don’t know me. I was a counselor and thought I had a really healthy outlook on life and was discerning, but he TOTALLY fooled me. I am embarrassed and have a LOT of self-doubt problems now. BUT I will make it. I know that too. And I don’t regret getting away or the “no-contact” order. I urge others to follow your steps to healing, forgive themselves and GOD and move on.

 


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Thank you Linette for sharing your story. So many sociopaths play the “religion” card. In my survey for “Red Flags of Love Fraud,” 20% of respondents said the sociopath they were with falsely claimed to be religious, Christian, born-again or spiritual. It’s really disgusting.

anothervictim

That is extremely disgusting. My sociopath avoided church like the plague. I think it’s because she knew she would probably burst into flames when she walked in the door. 🙂

learnedmylesson

When I left my s/path “girlfriend”the first time…I assumed I d never see her again.I didn t know she was a s/path then—it took another couple years of “education”to get it through my head.So after catching her lying repeatedly about money,men and anything else she could think of,I dumped her.A year went by and I ran into her.She ran up to me and hugged me and said she was sorry for everything she did.Could we meet?Unfortunately I said yes.
When we met she claimed to be baptized and was now religious….could I forgive her and give her a second chance.Unfortunately I said yes.After two years of lies about everything—including that she had hep c from being raped one day,cancer…holes in her lungs—no health insurance (all lies)and the sexual lies which culminated in my getting rid of her again a year ago.She was about as religious as Linda Blair in “the Exorcist”and sometimes it seemed like she needed one of those too when her temper exploded.No contact for a year though she tried to call me from jail to bail her out.Not a chance.

2nd_chance

WOW :O! Linette, thank you for opening up and sharing your painful experience. You are not alone in this situation. My story shares a lot of similarities. It is gut-wrenching and beyond belief when someone claims to be a God fearing Christian and turns out to be so deceiving and continually breaks many commandments (lie, steal, covet, cheat, etc). And they really fail with this one–“…Love your neighbor as yourself. There is no greater commandment than these.” (Mark 12:31)

I met him in church, was married within months, reproduced, he was not who he said he was, stories about what he did/accomplished, stories about his family growing up were all lies. Since I grew up in church, I knew that God hates divorce (but He never said he hates divorced people). I held on for a long time, I went from being healthy and fit to obese and depressed, put myself in counseling, (I was almost ashamed–shouldn’t I just rely on Jesus, isn’t He the Great Counselor?) All while we still maintained our church presence and remained very involved in church activities. Although being abused, I was always smiling, but inside I was dying and afraid. I can’t get in to many details that would identify who I am :/ Just trust you are not alone and you have come to the right place for support & validation. Many people don’t “get” our experiences, but here is a place were we all “get it.”

In Proverbs 6, we learn what things God hates:

16 There are six things the Lord hates,
seven that are detestable to him:
17 haughty eyes,
a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood,
18 a heart that devises wicked schemes,
feet that are quick to rush into evil,
19 a false witness who pours out lies
and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.

God hates what sociopaths do to us. It hurts! It’s hell on earth! I’m in a terrible situation as I type, and there is a lot at stake, but I can’t let it shake my faith. At times, I have felt like those whiny Israelites in Malachi…”God this is not what you promised us….we deserve better than this…*shakes fist to the sky*” God still showed love and mercy to them after. Why are we allowed to go through this, when we are honest and caring people ourselves? I felt I did everything right growing up and going into adulthood. Why did I get punished? So many questions and no obvious answers. I have to trust, even when I feel like throwing in the towel some days, that there is a purpose, there is a plan. Donna writes about how her experiences fulfilled her spiritual plan in her book, Love Fraud. Sometimes it seems like the light at the end of the tunnel are just lights from an oncoming freight train! It truly is exhausting and draining.

There are some wonderful people in my life that I probably wouldn’t have met if my past were any different. The people I love are my heaven on earth. I only use my past as a reference, not as a residence. Linette–the best is yet to come and I’m saying that to myself too!

Beautiful song (I tried to post link but it it didn’t link) can be found on Youtube and search Nichole Nordeman “Sunrise”

God bless and live well! Living well = best revenge 😉

Hopeinhealing

Both my ex husband and I were pastors. We met in seminary. He has now had his standing pulled in our denomination. But managed to be hired by another church. He has fooled the senior pastor there into believing that he was somehow the victim in being fired and losing his standing. He was hired despite at least 4 people giving him a bad reference, because each has told me as much. So even pastors can be sociopaths!

He was fired from his last church for announcing at a church meeting that he was smoking pot and he thought a woman present who had epilepsy ought to give it a try. (Her 10 year old heard the comment and asked questions about it on the way home about what pot was and rev. — thought mommy ought to try it). Such a statement is simply not something a minister ought to be making. I heard the comment and tried to down play it, saying that he had only done it once and that was years ago and he had promised not to do it again. He leaned forward looked at me and stated: “Once that you know of!” Every member there that day instantly resigned from the church.

A few days later I finally had the nerve to leave and I had 2 of our three children with me at a domestic violence shelter. I lost the protective order in huge part, because the only police report I ever filed was the one the day I left. And he ‘fired’ his lawyer when it came to the protective order and represented himself for this hearing. Which meant he was the one who cross examined me about the abuse he had committed on me. I was too scared to be a good witnes.

I knew that leaving him with accusations of abuse would harm his career immensely when the story came out about him, so it was a very difficult decision to make to leave him. I loved him (and still do) and he was our primary breadwinner. We were married for more than 18 years. I was in the search and call process at the time I left and I was told that I needed to pull my papers for 6 months to allow for healing. Which I understood at one level, but it placed me in a very bad financial position. I did not get a new call until 13 months after I left.

Because I lost the protective order my husband was granted custody of all of the children. And I was told that I had kidnapped them by taking them to the shelter with me and I would never have custody. He convinced the courts that I was mentally unstable and I had left him because I had a mental breakdown. During the same time frame the investigation our denomination had led to my standing being upheld and a lot of support being offered to me and my husband being censored. He has not cooperated with the requirements of the censor and now his standing is pulled all together.

13 months into the whole mess I had custody of all three children returned, because he became temporarily homeless. The divorce was finalized in February and I still have custody. Just this week his motion to have custody returned because he has a better paying job was denied. (Even as he filed the motion my ex was in arrears with child support). I have no illusion that our court battles are over with.

Through the whole ordeal my faith has been tested to the limit. Especially during the time that I did not have custody of the children and I did not have a job. I had to learn to let go of everything that I thought was important to me aside from my faith. I did not get my clothes until 4 months after I left, I had left with only the clothes on my back. I did not get any other personal affects until 10 months after I left. I was fired from one of my jobs during the time I had the kids with me at the shelter, because I missed too many shifts. I quit the other job, when I found a good full time job, only to be let go 3 months later when the agency had its budget cut by 43% by the governor. I was basically jobless for 8 months (I preached at a nursing home twice a month). And I was only allowed visitation with my children every other weekend and one evening a week, while he had custody.

What saw me through was an educational program that I was involved in and have just graduated from. It allowed me to see that I was still attempting to grow and transform and I was still a smart woman and a pastor. All of my friends and area clergy were also so loving and supportive. While I have had to learn to live a much more frugal lifestyle my friends have ensured I have wanted for nothing financially or materially,and I was showered love and hugs. Even now, 15 months into my calling with the parish, money is very tight. Because it is a small parish with a small budget, but I am loving what I am doing and feel it is a true calling from God. They know about what i am dealing with. For one thing my ex even had the financial records subpeaned for the last hearing. A unheard of thing and something a church could have quashed, but the parish does not have the resources to hire a lawyer and they just wanted it over with quickly, because it made them mad that the parish had been drawn into my divorce. This anger on their part is personally what I think the goal was. The pertinent information had been given to my lawyer weeks before and was ready to be presented at the hearing.

What I can say without a doubt is that my ex had managed to place himself in many ways in a role that made him my “god”. I even had to regularly kneel and kiss a ring on his finger… He isolated me from friends and family and did everything in his power to demean me. I was repeatedly told that “I was not earning my keep financially (event though when I left I was working two jobs), spiritually (Even though I think I was doing most of the work for his church. He had convinced the church they did not need to have worship services. It had had 5 services in more than a years time. And I and another woman, who is now being trained as clergy, had planned most of the “other” activities), as a mother (my jobs had me working many evenings and weekends) or sexually (He wanted sex at least once a day and I was exhausted from all I was doing).” He would quote Scripture to me about not denying sex to your spouse if I dared say no.

When we married I considered myself a feminist and still over a period of years my ex had me turned into a zombie servant. He was very persuasive and very smart, always able to immediately counter any argument I made in my own defense to him. I would be left second guessing myself and what I believed in, until I was buying whatever he told me.

During this whole process of healing I have found a lot of power in a dream I had a couple of weeks before I left him. In the dream I found a body and knew the family would want to have closure, so without emotion I picked it up and carried it. When I got to where i was headed I laid the body down and realized it was in a cocoon. I pulled back the part around the face and realized the person was not dead but being transformed inside the cocoon. And the person was ME!
The butterfly has become my new metaphor. And I have loved exploring who the new me is, as I continue to heal. I am also learning patience, because I wish the healing process was not taking so long. Christ continues to give me a new life everyday!

Heartbroken Mom of 1

Linette: I may have not married a sociopath but have one for a son. Everything you are saying is believable because I have gone through it with him for over 13 years. My ex-daughter-in-law was deceived by him, like you were, on the claim that he was also a “Christian” and God brought them together, etc. They don’t realize that they will have to stand before God someday for all they have done. Using God to lie and deceive and get what they want? Scary. They have no fear or reverence for the Almighty. Like my son, they will do and use whatever means they have to “hook” someone. I am in the process of God healing my heart.It has been very painful to deal with since I raised him and have to face the fact that I never really knew him. I can not begin to describe the pain and hurt and tears I have gone through. I can write a book of all I know about him, but most people wouldn’t believe it. My advice: Let it all go and turn to Him,second by second,minute by minute. The Bible is filled with hope and life in Him. When I lay my head down on the pillow at night, that is when my mind starts to “think” on the whole thing, I then focus on Isaiah 26:3-4: “THOU wilt keep him in PERFECT PEACE whose mind is stayed on THEE because he trusts in HIM. Trust in the LORD forever. For in the LORD JEHOVAH is EVERLASTING STRENGTH! I thank God for Love Fraud because we can know that we are not alone in all of this and that others are going through the same pain. No one would ever believe it unless they have experienced a sociopath in their life themself.

still reeling

I totally tune into your story, Linette, and the comments following. Thankfully, the path in my life was not in it long as it was an office thing and he got fired. I have no idea why. There was no romance, just him being flirty and provactive, sometimes speaking in Biblical terms and always wanting to talk about religion and G-d. I asked him if he had been in the seminary, only half-joking. It was a constant study in contradictory, confounding, bizarre behavior. One day he was on, the next dismissive. I acutally had to ask him several months in if he was being flirtatious. At first, he said “NOOOOOO”, and to be honest, I was kind of relieved. Then he said, “Yes, I’m flirting w/you.” Linette, your path’s engagement ring “joke” reminded me of that.
It was a horror story and a mess for me, but nothing like what you or commentors experienced, of course. However, the pain of being smitten and overtaken by him may never completely fade. I just have to keep remembering that he is 3 yrs old emotionally and you can’t expect much from that.
All the references to G-d just confused me more, of course. All very sick.
I wish you love, healing and peace.

Tea Light

Linette, very best wishes to you as you move forward from this nightmare of a ‘marriage’.

Like the other posters the man I left 7 months ago and who continues to stalk me online presented himself as a believer in God. Nothing could be further from the truth. We visited a beautiful chapel together on holiday in the alps and he made the sign of the cross on me with the water although I am protestant not catholic. He prayed for a student of mine who I told him had been diagnosed with cancer. That night he sexually assaulted me leaving bruises and scratch marks on me. Belief in others is just a potential entry point for these abusers. Like burglars they assess the best points of entry. May God bless all of us harmed by these abusers and give us courage as we move forward in our recovery.

Linette,
As I first starting reading your story,I thought you might have been married to my ex-brother-in-law!He had a facebook page devoted to religion,he wrote a book(cannot give the title;it would identify him!)and is a youth counselor.He got my sister fired from her job and then had her put into a substance abuse center(under false charges).Fortunately she is a strong person and decided to have fun while ‘interned’ and get to know ‘her peoples’!At first she rarely got to see her children,but that’s better now.

As for my own situation,my husband claims belief in God too.That’s how he ‘hooked’ me.He knows about accountability to God;the only thing I can figure out is that he is in denial or that he intends to “cause as much damage” as he can before “going down”!

Linette,that LAST SUPPER that your husband invited you to,could very well have been your LAST SUPPER!I’m so glad you didn’t go!

Tea Light

The ‘last supper’ offer really creeped me out too Blossom. Thank God you were wise to him and said no Linette! It’s so clearly offensive andiibappropriate a thing to say to a person of faith, a mask slip definately

missymooz

Hi Linette,

My ex did the same thing to me, 17 years ago! Told me god had kept us for each other, blah, blah. Now he reminds me constantly that God hates a divorcing, but as someone posted earlier, he does not hate the divorced person. Amazing they use God when he is sometimes the only one who knows what we have been through and will help us against them! Now he continues to target other younger women from our church, with the same lines that worked on me so many years ago, and these women don’t want to be warned, so will go through the same heartache I have been through.

I no longer go to my church, as I found that it was also very controlling in what I could and could not do.

Cheers missymooz

Linette

Thanks all of you for commenting, encouraging and understanding. I am so glad I have hopefully helped someone to escape before they get into it so deeply or help someone get out or heal. SO thankful again for Donna and for this site.

The ‘religion mask’ is a particularly difficult one to overcome for a spiritual person.To have your faith in God used against you to get you to do the will of another human,is truly being violated!The person doing such a thing will be held accountable,to be sure.

It helped me,not only knowing I had done more than enough to make the marriage work;but also realizing that by abusing me,my husband actually broke his marriage vows.So I no longer feel that I should ‘try to make it work’.The fault isn’t mine.

Thankfully,I have found the needed support at my congregation.They know me well enough to know that I gave the marriage “my all” and that I left so I could heal and serve God with my “whole heart,soul and mind.”

fightforwhatsright

People have been using religion as a ruse forever. It will never end. I have to say I was surprised by the statement about someone finally not being “ashamed” to boldly discuss Jesus. I live in the bible belt and I have only experienced people who won’t shut up about him and demand to know if you are a christian and what church you go to and on and on. My 2nd ex was an evilgelical. He forgot to tell me thought he spoke in tongues until AFTER we were married. I have two uncles who call themselves preachers and have panhandled to make tax free money for years. One sings like Elvis. Seriously. I believe after the discussions about love, the 2nd most important discussion is about praying quietly in the “closet” instead of proclaiming “what” you are as a religion. I have lived in this part of the country for over 35 years and I learned within a couple of years to run from anyone who was involved in certain religions and especially the ones who wanted a wife, girlfriend, job, rental, etc., and made sure to mention their religion. I have never once talked to a person and had them tell me they are of no religion. In my part of the country, I have only had one person tell me she was jewish and she talked about how persecuted she was here. People show you who they are….usually after they have gotten what they wanted from you. I never believe a single world anyone tells me anymore. I only believe what they show me. And I don’t care if they are religious or not. They just need to be nice.

Linette

Fight, I also live in the “Bible Belt” and have all my life. I am in a “non-charismatic” faith and most of the people I have known are sincere, maybe not perfect, but mostly genuine. Of course I have met people who are a little “over the top” or used religion as a way to “get ahead” but not to this degree and not this brilliantly and coldly. If he had been who he had SEEMED to be at the first, he would have been the kind of man I would have admired for NOT being ashamed to stand up for Christ. That is what I meant. As it was, he ended up not anywhere near what he seemed to be as is the consistent theme with sociopaths. But he came across as totally genuine and loving and not transparently abusive like you described. This man was brilliant in what he did and extremely manipulative. I am not some gullible sheltered person. I have met many people from all walks of life and worked with them closely in all types of jobs. ANYONE can get sucked in to a relationship like mine. These people are experts.

fightforwhatsright

I agree. All of us have been sucked into these people. People who are in the church with the other people in the church sometimes see a different story than those of us outside the church. I look at statistics for this part of the country and see higher rates of child abuse and murders, higher teen pregnancies, sex at earlier ages, marriage at earlier ages, shorter life spans for women and children, etc. The largest city closest to me has two of the most famous Christian oriented “colleges” and I read an article recently that it is the 24th most violent city in the country. Not a single city in New York or California were in the top 25. We can agree to disagree on religion or the conversation will never end. I am sharing that my experience moving from a nice city in CA to a place in the very religious and gun friendly South (and not even the deep South) was traumatic and filled with sociopaths and false prophets and phonies. However, they all think they are wonderful…together…while being ugly and mean to people who aren’t sitting there with them. We all have our experiences. I was moved from a good place with good kids who didn’t do drugs and weren’t doing things as if they were already married at 14 to a place that was rampant with that type of behavior and all of them asking me if I went to church and if I would go to their church. The bible itself tells its followers that there will be many “wolves in sheepscloth.” I have found that to be so.

Linette

I was “OUT” of the church for 30 years and have been “IN” for 23. Not here to argue about religion. I am just telling of my own experience with a sociopath. We all have our perspectives and experiences. I am saying not ALL churches are the same, nor all Christians or people who call themselves Christians.

Today for some reason I am pondering some different things and I wanted to share. Thinking through healing from things in life..trying to make sense of it all. Okay, so the big thing on my mind today is: “My life and the expectations I had for it, no matter how those expectations developed, has not and will not most likely turn out to be what I thought it would be. How do I accept that reality and start to heal from it, and more than that go on to live a productive and positive life, pleasing to God and beneficial to others”?
THAT is a huge question. But I believe today somehow I have started to see MAYBE a glimpse of what I need to do, at least a start of what I need to do.
1) FEEL my pain, the pain of loss of what I thought my life would be..a fairy tale..a picture perfect book complete with a perfect home, husband, kids, job, and looks.
2) ACCEPT that even though those expectations were not based on reality and the real world that it’s OKAY to mourn the loss of them. How could I have known?
3) REALIZE those things will never be. WHOA BIG ONE!!!! Not sure how to do that yet and be comfortable with it.
4) LET GOD make what He will with what is left of me. I am broken. I am tired. I am hurt. I have been used. I don’t FEEL like life is fair. I don’t FEEL hopeful at all right now, well not true, starting to get a glimmer back. I MISS MY MOM AND MY DAD BUT I WILL NOT SEE THEM AGAIN THIS SIDE OF HEAVEN. Whew another big one. But how can I move on without accepting all of these realities. If I don’t, then I am still living in a fantasy world of expectations where I am going to be disappointed. Right?
5) FORGIVE GOD AND MYSELF. I used to tell people they didn’t need to forgive themselves but in a sense we do. We have to forgive ourselves for our decisions that led to the brokenness in our lives in order to move on. We have to forgive God for the things done to us and not caused by anything we did intentionally (circumstances and others actions) or we can’t trust HIM to take us on to the next place He has for us.
6) That is all for now. I need to pray about the above 5 things and LISTEN to God. But I have to admit I am a little excited and feel like this is a new place for me and that maybe there IS a future for me somewhere here on earth as well as heaven.

fightforwhatsright

Some people aren’t comforted by religion. I am one of those people. I have been terrorized by religious cultists both in my family and outside of it.

I don’t believe there is only one God and I am not sure there is any God at all if I could choose the “right” one. I am a Humanist and have been abused by religious people…some spaths and some not. I find it more reprehensible when they are religious. That’s just my feeling about it. It doesn’t have anything to do with you personally. It is just what happened to me and religious spaths.

I am glad that believing in a God works for you. I am just saying that it doesn’t work for everyone. It doesn’t work for me and I have learned in my region that religion does not mean good person any more than atheist means bad person. But, I have never had an atheist tell me they are an atheist and they know the one truth and I must come to an atheist meeting with them. My beliefs are rather eclectic and I don’t feel a need to share them all here. But, I was sharing my experiences where I live. I was not talking about you. I was talking about what I have experienced in the bible belt.

Linette,
What is truly sinful is how sociopaths USE religion to manipulate individuals or groups of people.That’s the one thing they shouldn’t do!They will be held accountable for their actions!But it certainly can affect how a person feels about religion after experiencing such manipulation.Like you said in your post,it’s a gradual process of taking small steps,and gradually you begin to feel whole again.

fight,
When I lived in the south,the town I lived in had a big sign on each end of the town that said “Jesus Is Lord” but I felt like I lived in Peyton Place!That’s not to say there weren’t good people there!And they are religious people.But they live by the Bible instead of church doctrine.They’re not perfect,but they strive to live honest and morally clean lives.They’ll never tell anyone that they’ll burn in hell.The Bible is a comfort.

innerpeace322

I can relate and agree with ur insight. My ex knew the bible back and forth, yet was as demonic as satan himself. Its so hard to accept that they never gave a damn abt you, or the kids. Others will never understand the depth of pain that these losers leave us with. Then they go on with a new victim and ur broke, depressed, confused, and lonely cause no one else gets it. We do!! Mine i realize basically flipped the truth of life. I.e., black is white, up is down, etc. Nothing makes sense cause they mimic others and treat you like a queen at first, then the flip comes out. What you thought, is now gone forever and yourre trying to find that good guy sgain who never existed. Then they gossip lies about us basically telling everyone that you did what they actually did to you. I think i began to heal when i fully accepted that he cares nothing about our kids, tneyre well being, and the worst, he played a game the whole time. In my case, thats 20 yrs and nothing to show but lies and deceit. Thank God I survived.

lost everything

I am a Catholic and my spath was brought up Catholic. Since I knew him since childhood, I knew he went to Catholic grammar school, was an altar boy, went to a private Catholic boys high school. I also knew that after high school, he made the choice to stop going to church; why, I never found out. He was so removed from religion that he would not even attend Baptism classes when my son was born and sat on a couch by himself when some relatives came over after the Christening.

His mother is a practicing Catholic, not in your face religious, but goes to church, etc..

He could not use religion as weapon with me. But that did not stop him from using religion with one of his escorts. This ‘lady’ was a in her late 40s and Jewish. She was not Jewish in name only, she would post about Jewish holidays and write in Hebrew. She was even written about in an Orthodox Jewish blog.

The spath caused a family rift, because one of my relatives married a Jew, spewing all sorts of hatred.

However he turned himself into a Jew to gel in her life. Not converted, but became totally sympathetic toward Jewish beliefs and way of life. As he wrote: “I worked in an office, the majority of the employees of which were from a predominately Jewish area- in its glory days! I have a much greater understanding and appreciation of Jewish life and culture than does your average product of the Catholic school system”.

He even enmeshed himself into her family, including her very Orthodox Jewish parents; they welcomed him into their home, even after their daughter died. He was given a ‘place of honor’ at this escort’s funeral. His words:” I have been totally accepted by her family. Her mother hugs me and tells me how happy I made her daughter. At the funeral yesterday, I rode in the limo from the service to the cemetery in the front seat of the limo, with her husband and oldest daughter right behind me and her youngest girl and two boys in he back seat.” Without the Jewish religion hook, I doubt he could have reeled in this ‘lady’, let alone her family.

After her death, which he announced on these ‘sub-world’ sites, I was shocked to find how many of these ‘other world’ inhabitants, sent him Jewish prayers and wishes, some of which were written in Hebrew or used Hebrew words anglicized.

As an spath, he used information he gathered in one place (office), and used it, many years later, to his advantage, namely to target and hook this escort.

By the way, he really did live a double life; 9 to 5 in the world of escorting, then coming here at night, to make sure I never found out what he was doing.

JimmyRustles

There is no need to be upset..

fightforwhatsright

True. A sociopath is a sociopath.

Hopeinhealing

I commented earlier, my ex and I were both clergy. He no longer is. And he was horrific in how he incorporated religion in the abuse. By the time I left he had me literally bowing down to him and kissing his ring with other acts to follow. I was no longer serving a church and the week I finally left I had gone through 5 days of hell, because I actually stopped off and attended a worship service after a work shift without his permission. He was no longer allowing the children and I to attend worship. I cried through the whole service, because I knew what my act of defiance was going to mean once I got home.

Having said all of that. My faith and my ministry have blossomed since I left.

There is a healthy side to the faith as well. Many faith institutions are the ones that run homeless shelters and food pantries that those who are brave enough to leave rely on until they can get back on their feet. I know I did. The list of churches and individuals who helped me is quite long.

My personal faith and knowing I was surrounded by people who loved and cared for me (literally financially and materially) was all I had for a period of time. I did not even get my clothing until 3 months after I left or any other personal affects until 10 months after I left. But once I had an apartment (a religious organization helped pay the deposit and signed off on the lease) it was filled with all I needed within two weeks (down to linens and food, a washer and dryer, computer, etc). When the governor downsized all state budgets and I lost the job I had only started 3 months before, I some how managed to keep all my bills paid for the next 8 months. When I moved 100 miles away I had all the help I needed to move without paying for a moving company. I have known through this whole ordeal that I was not doing this alone.

Having said that I did give up at one point. The same day that I was turned down for unemployment benefits, because I had been a contract employee I was told point blank that I “Had kidnapped my children by taking them to the shelter with me. Due to this I would never have custody or more than visitation.” It was too much to bare for a short period of time. Thank God the lawyer who told me that was wrong, because my ex ended up being homeless for a short period of time and I got custody of the kids and some how the tide of court rulings turned after that. The divorce was only finalized completely last week and I still have custody. (Despite no longer being a minister, my ex still managed to be hired by a church. However, when he has the kids he still seldom takes them to church, I do not understand how that is?)

As painful as that point of my life was. I think it taught me a deeply spiritual lesson. To not grasp too tightly to anything. Not my job, my belongings, or even my children. When we hold lightly to things we can hold tighter to who we are and to the Spirit of God within us.

Now that I serve a church again the message I preach over and over again is that we are all broken individuals, yet God loves us anyway, in spite of it all. And out of our brokenness and the healing we receive from our faith, we are called to go out and share that message to help God’s hurting world.

To me spirituality and religion while separate entities are still very much united. Religion can often be misused, but with a deep spirituality one can help the church (temple, synagogue, mosque, shrine, etc) to accomplish marvelous ministries that heal and empower people.

Linette

Revjanice- Your statement here says it all and where I am heading finally:

“Now that I serve a church again the message I preach over and over again is that we are all broken individuals, yet God loves us anyway, in spite of it all. And out of our brokenness and the healing we receive from our faith, we are called to go out and share that message to help God’s hurting world”.

SO true and I am sure that’s what God wants me to do. I am healing one day at a time. It was really healing just to get this letter “out there”.

Rev Janice – thank you so much for your eloquent post. My experience with the sociopath was deeply spiritual, and I’ve heard the same from many other people.

Hopeinhealing

Thanks for your kind words. When I read the Bible that is sincerely what I get from it. Jesus, Paul and the Old Testament both have much more to say about caring for the “widow, orphan, and outcast” than it does about the divisive things that make the news.

fightforwhatsright

As a Humanist, I like the idea that all human beings deserve the right to love, dignity, and respect. That makes it easy to realize that I am an equal human being to all others and I do not deserve abuse from a sociopath or otherwise abusive person (whether secular or non-secular.). As a group of humans supporting each other with dignity, love, and respect, we can help each other cope and heal.

Linette

My ex is still coming to my church. I have not left because I don’t want him to “win”. Most everyone KNOWS by now who he truly is and have been supportive to me. He is now taking a 20 year old out to lunch almost every Sunday. He is 58 years old and telling her he is “mentoring her”. I hope that she doesn’t fall for him but I am afraid she is. She is the perfect kind of person to “target” for him. I know this girl but am afraid if I try to warn her that she’ll just go and tell him and it won’t do any good anyway. Should I warn her? Opinions?

Linette,
I think you already know the answer.You just feel the need for affirmation that it’s the correct one.

If he’s “mentoring” her,he’s been working on gaining her full trust.
If you try to warn her,it’s just going to start the bells ringing in her head and you’re right…the first thing she’ll do is tell him what you said!Unfortunately she’ll just have to learn on her own.Since you know her,be there for her when she comes to her senses.

BTW,I’ve found that one of the best programs that help one understand sociopaths is “Criminal Minds”.Another is “Flashpoint”.
another favorite of mine,which is a bit older,is “Law and Order, Criminal Intent”.All of these shows come on the ION channel.

Linette

I have never watched any of those! Thanks! While I was married, my ex wouldn’t let me watch anything I wanted to. We never watched anything but awful stuff or Lifetime movies (weird I know but he liked them, probably helped him learn more). BTW, he now has another one, a young girl he met online who was just getting out of an abusive relationship. He bragged to his family that he “rescued her”. She is very young also and my (ex) step-daughter says she looks very conservatively dressed (like Menonite) and pregnant. I just shudder that the thought of what she may have to go through. But you are right. I did know the answer and it won’t help to warn anyone. Sigh. I will definitely be looking for those shows. It’s like a whole new world of TV for me now that I have input on what I want to watch! 🙂

Stargazer

The few sociopaths I’ve come across in my life, including the one I dated, all used the religious mask in some way or other. I don’t fall for it, as I’m not a religious person (I am deeply spiritual but not religious). Also, when I was on the dating site, a few guys would contact me claiming I was an angel sent to them by God. This was an immediate red flag, and I suspected they were sociopaths. I’d delete those messages right away. (I do believe if you can spot the signs, you can internet date successfully).

If you want to know if a person is truly spiritual, you need to watch how they communicate and how they conduct their lives. A truly spiritual person will take responsibility for their behaviors. They will not blame God, Satan, society, or another person, and they will not have a lot of drama following them around. Anyone can cause chaos and then say “God will forgive me” or “God told me to do it.” Or “That’s what the Bible says.” This is the ultimate cop out.

We all as human beings need to learn to take responsibility for our lives. Most people are in varying stages of this. But for a sociopath, they simply do not take responsibility for anything. Their absolute confidence in their blame-shifting policies can be very alluring to a weak-minded follower.

Linette

Yes Stargazer. Unfortunately I was VERY naive at the time I met him and very vulnerable like a lot of victims of sociopaths. Even though I had been in 2 other relationships like that they all presented themselves in different ways and until I found this site I had no idea there were people who simply put forth the image they want you to see. See? Very naive. He SEEMED to interact very well with other people in his church. We switched to mine almost immediately and those people were fooled too. The biggest thing I remember that I could have done differently is wait longer to get married and get out more quickly. He SEEMED to have a great relationship with his kids and SEEMED to be very healthy in a lot of ways but he was simply a master manipulator that had done this time and time again. I AM taking charge of my life now. I am through playing the victim. I hope others learn before they have to go through it!

I agree that sociopaths often use the religious mask,because it is easy to find targets…they are very helpful and unsuspecting of the person who “acts” nice.

There are sincere and hypocritical people in every area of life.It simply takes time and effort to find out who’s who;just as we’ve had to be educated in learning the red flags of sociopaths.

Stargazer,I’m sorry,I’m not following your explanation very well
about the difference in a “religious” person and a “spiritual” person.To me they are the same.Anyone who reads the Bible knows that you will read about God,Satan,&the world(society).I agree with you that we should all take responsibility for the things we do;the decisions we make.

Stargazer

Blossom, I am not a Christian, and I have never read the Bible. I do believe it is possible to be deeply spiritual without being a Christian. My beliefs tend to be more Buddhist, but I don’t consider Buddhism a religion. Therefore, I would not call myself religious in the sense that others think of it.

stargazer,
I think I understand now what you’re saying.Buddhism isn’t considered a mainstream religion in that you don’t find it listed among the religions that the majority belong to (such as a Christian religion).But,sure,it’s a religion.Buddhism is something you believe in and are devoted to;that defines it as a religion.Though you may not worship in Buddhist temples,they have their temples just as mainstream religions have churches.A spiritual person considers certain things to be sacred whereas a person who claims to be religious might be hypocritical and not consider sacred things sacred at all.Do I understand correctly?

Stargazer

Blossom, I think Zumba and salsa dancing are more like my religion. 🙂 I don’t really know how to make a comparison between Buddhism and other organized “religions”. It has nothing to do with worship of any kind of higher being or deity. In fact, there really is no discussion about anything or anyone being separate – no discussion of good and evil, heaven and hell, for instance. Buddhism is more concerned with direct experience of life without the labels, the ego, and the mental chatter, judgments, etc. – the beliefs about who we think we are. The main technique to arrive at direct experience is a meditation practice that focuses on the breath in the present moment. The breath becomes the object of focus and is the vehicle for coming into the present moment. The Buddha was not someone to be worshiped or deified. He is just a person who discovered a path to enlightenment and wanted to teach others how he did it – through cultivating mindfulness. His teachings can be condensed into two simple words: Pay attention. This refers to mindfulness that is cultivated in meditation practice. It’s not possible to talk the talk here without walking the walk. If a person has never done any kind of meditation practice but they call themselves a Buddhist, this would not mean anything at all to me – it is just a label. On the other hand, if someone has done a lot of meditation practice, it is usually apparent in their demeanor and how they live their lives. It doesn’t matter what they call themselves. Words like “Buddhist” and “religion” wouldn’t have much meaning to someone like this. They are just living in a way that is very present. They are not trying to emulate anyone, worship anyone, or avoid hell and damnation. They are simply living in the present moment.

There are several teachers who come to mind who embody these qualities, apparent by their teachings. One is Eckhart Tolle. Another is Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche, deceased. Both of their writings are very powerful to me.

We all have an ego, but we also have the capacity to step back and be something bigger than the ego, something that actually observes the ego but doesn’t identify with it. That is what I would call spiritual consciousness for lack of a more descriptive word.

I don’t really know what kind of practices they have going on in other countries or what their concept of Buddhism is over there. But the real teachings don’t have anything to do with higher beings or fancy temples. The heart of the philosophy is the meditation practice itself.

I have probably just confused you even more. 🙂

Linette

“I agree that sociopaths often use the religious mask, because it is easy to find targets”they are very helpful and unsuspecting of the person who “acts” nice”.

Blossom, for me this is it in a nutshell! He used to say I was angel sent to him from heaven and even elaborated to the point of telling the whole story of how I arrived on earth etc. Now I KNOW this doesn’t happen but I was so touched by his words. I thought he REALLY felt that way about me. Like someone also said, it’s all about ACTION and not the words. That took me longer to find out, after the “honeymoon phase”, that’s when the reality set in of what I had done. They have their hooks in you by then and you make all sort of excuses to yourself about them and in my case I believed it myself. I KNEW inside but at the same time, I am a trusting person and had no idea people could be so uncaring and consciousless.

Stargazer

Linette, I didn’t mean to come off as if I wasn’t naive too. I was duped, too. And I was a Masters student in Psychology at one time! I just meant that I don’t have the “hook” for someone talking about God or the Bible, because I’m not a Christian. So I can notice these things as red flags. However, a lot of people are Christians, and sociopaths use this as a tool for manipulation, claiming to be messengers of God or some such.

I also hope you didn’t take it that I was implying that you were not taking responsibility for your life. If you are like me, you were not only taking responsibility for your life, but you were also making excuses for the spath who wasn’t taking responsibility for HIS life. My meaning was that sociopaths are the exact opposite of normal people. They take NO responsibility. They make everyone else responsible. They do not ever learn in this regard, and they do not ever change. This in itself is a huge red flag.

I think the two together – talking about how religious they are and making everyone else wrong – should be a screaming banner SOCIOPATH. And in some pathological lying and that should remove all the doubt.

Linette

Thanks for explaining Stargazer. It’s hard sometimes to get across in writing exactly how you mean something and the other person understand sometimes exactly what was meant! Yes I completely agree. I wish I had known this before. Sigh. Well it’s ON with my life!!!

Linette

Did I mention I am getting married to a REAL NON-SPATH guy on Friday? 🙂 Just wondered. SO happy!

In continuation of what stargazer is saying…when it’s ALL TALK and NO ACTION-INSTANT FLAG!

Linette,
Oh yes!Spaths are so good at lovebombing!Once that honeymoon phase is over and you start getting your senses back-it’s like you can SEE CLEARLY but like a startled animal,you’re paralyzed from doing anything about it!

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