A few weeks ago, Lovefraud published a letter from “Kay” —This was all about him and all about what he needed. Kay has written again, with Part 2 of her story.
It’s Kay, I am back with more memories I uncovered which were hidden in my subconscious about this sociopath. I hope this helps Lovefraud readers once again. I have taken the time to re-read some of his emails, all of them actually, trying to piece together an otherwise really, really Long Lie which consumed one-and-a-half years of my life.
Here is one of his emails where he LIES about everything he feels… WARNING — There are TRIGGERS here. I am sure you some of you have heard some or all of this before….
Like I told you the other day I don’t know what it is about you that drives me crazy.. And I don’t want to know.. I just never want it to end.. I love the way you make me feel.. You bring happiness to my life and peace to my soul.. In you I have found my destiny.. My joy.. My love of my life… My bestfriend.. My lover.. My everything.. Your love makes me feel like I’m on top of the world… You are like a drug to me… I can’t get enough of you and your love… I now understand why you sometimes acted the way you did with me.. Baby I am sorry from the bottom of my heart.. That I did that to us.. I will never take you for granted ever again.. Your my world.. Your my everything… And I live you with all my heart… Your an amazing woman and mother… And you’ll be an amazing wife… And I want to be everything that you need and want and desire in your life for ever and ever… I wouldn’t change anything in my life because it has lead me to you…
I love you baby…
Please note ALL THE ABOVE IS A LIE. There was no veracity to anything said in the above e-mail to me. This was his way of “voicing” what he knew I wanted to hear. I was never his best friend, the love of his life, he apologizes only to do it again, he says he will never take me for granted, he left me three weeks after this email was written. He left me once his ex-wife started to suspect something was going on. He quickly flew the coop. He had no intentions of staying with me ever. I was a pawn in his chess game. Only I was smarter than he counted on. I called him on it.
It has come to surface that he was, in fact, leading his ex-wife and me on at the same time. One of my friends casually drove by his home only to see his former wife’s car there just one week after our relationship was over. She was warned. We took the time to warn her. Anonymously, but we did. She is well aware of this behavior and continues to return to this relationship. He is her problem now. I have moved on but continue to heal from this lie. It was a really long lie that I believed. The whole relationship was a lie. I have always taken great pride in my intelligence but I was fooled.
The longer you stay, the longer the lie lives. Delete yourself from the lie.
I share this with you because strength comes with knowledge of the damage these sociopaths can cause. We believe the lies. I believed everything he said to me. Everything.
Who is “Billie the Exterminator?” Is that like “Larry the cable guy?” or something, I’m not sure what you guys are laughing at.
Yea, I’m allergic to the darned wasps too, and we have a zillion of the farkers around here. In the spring when they are “drunk” or the fall when they are “drunk” with the cold is the worst time to find one hiding here or there and they sting you.
I use diesel fuel in an adjustable spray bottle or pump sprayer turned on stream instead of “poison spray” and it kills them just as dead, it just doesn’t cost as much—back to CHEAP again. Some things diesel messes up, and you wouldn’t want it on them, but most things it just evaporates and doesn’t hurt anything, but the oily fuel kills em dead on contact just like the poison spray does.
Henry, next time you get read to pull down some ivy, take a big long stick and bang on it first to see what flies out of it. I used to get nailed picking grapes as they would build on the underside of the grape leaves, so I learned to beat on the vines some before I started picking to see what flew out and from where.
My BBQ grill was full of nests this spring I toasted and BBQ’d them critters too….
Billie the exterminator is a tv show….it’s a family of Mulleted hillbillies who have an exterminator business.
They do snakes, racoons, gators and WASPS!
It’s just another crazy show on TV. Billie has a blond mullet and wears spikes and all black.
He’s funny.
Dang girl…..ya wear diesel as parfum too before ya sit down to the table to feast on those those bbq’d critters???
🙂
Nah, ErinB, I got some old Avon in an ELVIS bottle I found at the dump and that’s what I wear to cover up the BO since I quit taking baths to save money on soap.
Must be a cable TV show and I don’t have cable–really don’t watch much TV, I like Dateliine, 20/20 and occasionally something else. Mostly READ.
Sounds like a funny show—but you know most of these shows that are making fun of “hillbillies” or “red necks” wouldn’t know a real red neck if it bit em in the arse. The accents are wrong, and a lot of other stuff. I only ever knew ONE real red neck who wore a mullet and he was such trash I can understand why.
They need to let ME do the script for a real red neck show, Henry and I can do it and it will be about this mouthy old woman from Arkansas and a really nice gay guy in oklahoma! LOL
Elvis in a bottle!!!!! LOL 🙂
Your ahead of the financial game oxy……at least!
Damn….don’t go and drink that stuff…….might be worse than the diesle fuel. 🙁
I had a kid I mentored years ago…..he showed up on Christmas day…..and I asked him what Santa left under his tree…….he wasn’t very excited about life…..and it was cleaar why.
He said his dad got him some Polo…..but his mom drank it!!!
LOL ROTFLMAO LOL CHOKE SNORT are you for real? Is that TRUE? I can imagine some kids it would be true for. LOL
YEP! Unfortunately so…….
Billie the Exterminator – Larry the Cable Guy – Henry the Gay Guy – sheesh I am famous ~!
ROTFLMAO!!!!!
i just saw somethign about hi mt he other day. looks like a latter day ‘dog the bounty hunter’. people are sooo wonderfully weird.
and then their are the disordered…not wonderfully effing anything.
Who lets English Ivy grow all over their house anyway?
Is that normal?
I would have just said, “Sorry, I don’t do ivy.”
I’m glad you are starting to feel better, Henry.
Wasp stings are nasty, and can become very serious.
It’s good that you saw a doctor.
I think anybody who puts ivy all over their house should also take it down themselves.
Just a thought.
I don’t understand the ivy all over the house concept.