The kidnapping trial of “Clark Rockefeller” the psychopathic con artist who is charged with parental kidnapping is happening at the time of this writing. The defense is claiming “insanity” and attacking Sandra Boss for having fallen for his lies. A survey of internet blogs reveals public abuse of Sandra. Please add your comments in support of Sandra to the blogs, particularly this one http://www.boston.com/news/local/breaking_news/2009/06/rockefellers_2.html.
To watch the trial live visit:http://www.boston.com/news/local/massachusetts/specials/05_28_09_Rockefeller_live_video/
This is outrageous,Sandra was worked over by the defense. Someone (perhaps an attorney who reads this blog) explain to us why the judge and prosecution allowed this.
http://multimedia.boston.com/tn/1/featured_videos.htm?bctid=24902184001
Oxy, you are on here a lot. Is HealingHearts even on here anymore? I really liked her posts.
I just had one more thought about the book “Are you being hurt by the one you love? Freeing yourself from the Narcissist in your life”…..If narcissists and psychopaths COULD heal, this is the book for them. For they are truly being hurt by the one they love (THEMSELVES)….and the only path to happiness for them, away from all the envy, the emptiness, the depression…would be if they COULD free themself from the narcissist in their life…THEM.
It also shows what a pretty much hopeless task it is.
My husband once said “If I had a million dollars, then I would be happy”. I said no, because everywhere you go, there you are.
That is a famous quote from some place, not sure where! but it is really true. I mix with millionaires and even quite a few billionaires (despite how few there are in the world) because of the work I do, and it is absolutely true. They are as happy or sad as they are, due more to how they react to a bird singing than how they react to the $$.
those who inherited great wealth are almost always more happy than those who sought to become wealthy. One is focused on the wrong gods in life.
Dear JAH,
I have not seen healingheart in quite some time. During the about 2 years I have been here though, I have seen hundreds of posters come and go. There are very few of the same posters here that were here when I first came here. We have quite a few that have been here 1+ years though, and there are those that have “left’ that come back and check in once in a while or read here, but don’t post much.
Life goes on—because I am retired I most likely have more disposable “time” and check in several times most days between “projects.” Since I don’t watch much TV, I spend time in the evenings on LF some evenings.
There are many people who think/thought that money was the “salvation” of their happiness—and like you, I’ve been around some really really super rich (and/or famous) folks and you know, money doesn’t make them happy.
Look at many of the media stars who have had tremendous “success” and “money” and they ended up dead of an OD—Michael Jackson can’t be said to have led a “happy” life, and all the “stuff” and “fame” in the world didn’t seem to make him happy, ditto Anna Nichole Smith, Nichole Brown Simpson, OJ, and the list is endless….my observation about people who inherited money being more happy than those that tried to make it depends on a lot of variables.
What a person IS rather than what they HAVE is what makes people happy or not. Yet, so many people seem to think that money will ‘buy” happiness.
Thanks. I actually have drifted but keep coming back. Agree about the money. The richest person is the one who gives the most, not the one who has the most. YOU ARE LOADED! 🙂
I have been thinking about some other bloggers I haven’t seen in a while and I am wondering how they are doing… kindheart & akitameg… and others who were giving so much good advice… Rune, Wini, Stargazer… I miss them. I know Aloha Traveler posts once in a while and I look for those. Anyway, just wanted you ALL to know you are important you are to me.
Thank You all for missing me !
I have been healing by taking care of myself… working out, swimming and just hanging out with girlfriends..! I know my s is the lie…. and will always be the lie… just coming to terms with that… letting go of the anger… and the shame…. that comes with letting go of the dreams… he created..in my heart…. the complete acceptance.
I am so happy for finding all of you.. its here that I let it all out… and with my friends… I say nothing.
I have learned to not give him any more of my energy, and allow him to ruin my friendships… as I learned.. people say things that trigger me all over again…. because no one really know.. the love / hate that we suffer from.. but us who has experienced it….
thank you all… and I will always be here.
I haven’t had the time to peruse the entire blog yet but I will. I didn’t mean to offend anyone and I apologize if I did.
This story (Sandra Boss’s) has similarities with Enid Green Waldholtz’s and her sociopathic husband Joseph Waldholtz.
He pretended to be a multimillionaire akin to the Mellons and had a lavish lifestyle, until it turned out he conned everyone, fleecing his own grandmother and mother, and his stepfather.
She was an intelligent and educated woman though, being a lawyer and a promising politician. She was elected to the congress in 1995 thanks to the many cons of her husband who was her campaign manager.
When people came to report oddities to her, she turned a blind eye. They had a baby girl.
Nicolaid_ If you are interested in high achieving psychopaths and what attracts people to them, why they “turn a blind eye”. a great book is Freeing Yourself from the Naricissist in Your Life.