Last Tuesday night, I woke up at about 2 AM unable to sleep. I turned on CNN and there was Rodney Alcala, a man who lived down the street from the house I grew up in, in Monterey Park, California. I was not surprised to see a story about him since I knew of his arrests and convictions for murder.
When Anderson Cooper said the police just released hundreds of photographs found in a Seattle storage locker belonging to Alcala, I sat up to take a closer look. Sure enough, at least 4 pictures of me at age 17 were among those found by police and released out of worry that they depict victims.
My initial reaction was one of embarrassment, and I eagerly awaited the hours to pass so I could telephone the police and ask them to please take those pictures down. I also worried that my mother would see them and feel frightened. I finally got through to the police late that afternoon. As I told the detective about my interactions with Alcala, I realized that this was one of those “teachable moments.” So when he asked me if his department could pass along my name to the press, I agreed.
I have given detailed information to a number of inquiring journalists. I am very disappointed with them so far. Isn’t it rather ironic that one of the people Rodney Alcala photographed and “spared” is now devoted to raising awareness of and preventing the disorder he has? Instead of sensationalizing a sociopath, shouldn’t the press (out of respect for the victims) be educating the public about sociopaths and sociopathy?
Members of the press, please use this moment to teach people about the sociopaths who live in the neighborhoods of America!
In subsequent weeks, I will share more details of my encounters and conversations with Alcala. He did leave a lasting impression on me for several reasons aside from his arrest and convictions for murder.
First and foremost, it was Alcala who told me about the organization Mensa. He was very proud of his own “genius” and wore jewelry with the Mensa logo. Initially, I thought I remembered a neck medallion on a silver chain but having looked at pictures of Mensa items, I can’t say for sure if there wasn’t also a ring. Knowing what I know now, I believe it is entirely possible that Alcala was never a member of Mensa and that his claims were an example of pathologic lying.
But, assuming that Alcala is a genius, how rare is he? How common are genius sociopaths? The numbers are actually staggering. There are 219 million adults living in America. Anywhere from 1-4 percent are sociopaths. That gives us an estimate of 2-8 million adult sociopaths in America. That also means that 1-4 of every one hundred people you meet or who live near you is a sociopath.
Since psychologists love to administer IQ tests, there has been quite a bit of research examining intelligence in sociopaths. In all, the results show that sociopaths do not score any differently on these tests than anyone else. If you look at a group of sociopaths, there are dull, average and very intelligent scoring people in the same frequency as the general population. Researchers have argued about this data because many clinicians believe the average sociopath is “of superior intelligence.” But I can explain why one might get that impression.
If it is true that a group of sociopaths scores the same as a group of non-sociopaths on an IQ test, then roughly 2-4 percent of sociopaths are geniuses, depending on how you define genius. That means there are between 40,000-320,000 genius sociopaths living in America. In other words, perhaps 1 of every 1,000 adults you meet is a genius sociopath!
Now also consider by the definition of average looks, there are between 20,000 and 160,000, average to good looking, genius sociopaths in America. That is not very rare. About 300,000 people die every year from heart attacks and we think that is a big number. Why aren’t we more concerned about the problem of sociopathy?
Everyone keeps asking me, “which of the pictures is you?” I am #s 123, 186, 194 and 197.
Dear Liane,
Thank you for sharing about this very personal experience. Though this happened to you, when I read Donna’s “news flash” and then heard your audio interview and saw the photograph that accompanied it, my heart SANK and my throat choked as if that could have been ME instead of you!
I kept imagining how frighted, how “freaked out,” or how embarassed you might feel—actually I guess I projected how I would have felt if it HAD been me. I finally decided that if it had been me, I probably would never have called the cops, and would have prayed no one would have recognized me—but actually, I guess that would have been too much to hope for.
Actually, I freaked out about YOUR close brush with the monster, and you did the calm, rational thing and tried to use it as a TEACHING moment!
Though the media haven’t taken the opportunity they had to use your “teaching moment” to “spread the word” more broadly about psychopaths, actually, Liane, it did become a “LEARNING MOMENT” for me.
What happened to you, is one of those things that really COULD happen to ANY of us at ANY time with some other monster. Or has happened, and we never knew the man was a monster.
I have no idea how MANY women, living or dead, are represented by the photographs in that locker. You were only one of the women who brushed up against this particular monster and lived.
What I did learn by all of this though, was what I would have felt if it had been ME, INSTEAD OF YOU…
Thanks for sharing, Liane.
Yes, Liane, Thank-you.
I’m curious. I know that you were only 17 when this happened and weren’t as knowledgable as you are now, but did you get a creepy feeling from him….any red-flags?
I am so grateful that you are here today with us, on LF.
Someone brought up the article Donna wrote and published in January this year, about “why we don’t know about psychopaths” and how the media is soooooo VERY careful not to “label” someone with the “P-word” (or any variation of it) unless they are serial killer or worse and there is little or no likelyhood that even an UN-successful law suit for “ruining someone’s reputation” would be filed. Even defending against such a suit costs money!
Heck, even Joey Butaffuco threatened to sue MaryJo for calling him a sociopath, but didn’t of course, as you could call Joey just about ANY “not nice” name and it would not damage his “reputation,” which is already BELOW the gutter.
Maybe though, if “we” (the public and the media) can’t call ann individual the “P-word” maybe at least we can get some of the symptoms associated with it mentioned “in general.”
Dr. Leedom:
I am so very glad things turned out ‘differently’ for you! It’s almost like you were ‘lead’ into this path of learning and educating others by your past.
I believe all works out for a reason…..and it’s up to us to find that reason….
I also beleive all works out the way it should!
I’m glad your here!!!!!!
I say…….take this experience and use it to educate the media……they’ll listen to ya now…..find an outlet who won’t censor your views of educating peeps on Cluster B’s….and run with it!!!!
Get on the big news channels, the talk shows, the morning and evening shows…….and talk talk talk……do a media blitz and get the word out there……
You got the floor!
Wow! I sent a link to his dating game appearance, but I never realized you, Dr. Leedom, were his neighbor, and especially photographed by him. Did anyone see him on the dating game video? He was chosen, of course!
Where is the news flash/interview?
DearTB,
Look on the “Bachelor #1 is Serial killer”—SEVERAL comments down, there is apost by DONNA that says “NEWS FLASH” and inserted in it is a LINK that takes you to the news report about Liane being one of the photographed women.
Ok, Thanks, Oxy! I looked at it. Isn’t it strange what paths life takes us? Certainly makes one wonder, doesn’t it?
And why these people focus on certain people and not others. Why they kill some and with others behave graciously.
Dr. Leedom certainly is beautiful with an air of innocence. I would surmise this is what attracted him.
What’s that thing, “six degrees of separation?” Yea, most of the time we never know when we were standing in line behind some serial killer at the grocery store, or sitting next to them in a stadium, or chatting with them in the park as our dogs sniffed nose to nose…but we have probably done it.
It is sure creepy for sure….
What a remarkable coincidence Dr Leedom – you have been encountering these dangerous types since a very young age. Thankyou for using this opportunity to teach people about this disorder. That is quite terrifying to find out all these years later.
I met a man once with a friend many years ago who just plain creeped me out – I pulled her away from him and we went home early much to his annoyance. I found out that ten yrs later he committed a mass slaying of eight people including his family members and family friends – you just never know who you are interacting with!
On another note – what a beautiful picture!