Répondez, s’il vous plait. “Please reply”, goes the French phrase. I personally love receiving invitations and sending RSVPs, however, when somebody invites me to drama, there is no way I will RSVP! I am now inviting you to share this perspective and think before you sacrifice your class to get even with someone who has none. If you choose to call it “returning a favour” because the word “revenge” sounds so mean, I am afraid the outcome will be no different.
You have probably heard them say, before you go on a journey of revenge, dig two graves. Well, there is a lot of truth to it I believe. Some people go figure it out themselves the hard way, but some others, perhaps smarter ones, choose to learn from other people’s mistakes. There is beauty in responding unintelligent treatments intelligently. Sadly, there are times when ignorance is bliss, which is what this session aims to address – shifting the blame mindset and taking a responsibility for the sake of your recovery.
They also say revenge is for the weak, forgiveness is for the strong and ignorance is for intelligent people. Think about it, whoever is trying to bring you down is already below you, why bother! Choose to take the higher road, it is less crowded and the view is much better!
Here is the entire Self-Love and Healing video series – to start at the beginning, scroll to the bottom.