A sociopath is someone who has a pervasive and persistent disregard for the rights and feelings of others. This disregard is manifested in the antisocial behavior sociopaths show. While we usually think of antisocial behavior as criminal, not all antisocial acts are illegal. A person who slips up once is not a sociopath. Sociopathy is a lifestyle.
Since humans are designed to live in society, a healthy personality has prosocial inclinations. Therefore, people who are pervasively antisocial are disordered in the sense that they are not the norm (thank God). Although antisocial behaviors are observable actions like lying, stealing and assault, there are personality traits that cause antisocial behavior. It should come as no surprise that people who have a sense of entitlement, over-rate their own greatness and have poor self-control are more likely to hurt others and show pervasive antisocial behavior.
The American Psychiatric Association has defined a group of personality disorders it calls “cluster B”. According to a recent paper* by German psychiatrist, Christian Huchzermeier, M.D., “ The cluster includes disturbances of personality that go hand in hand with emotional dysregulation phenomena, a tendency towards aggressive—impulsive loss of control, egoistic exploitation of interpersonal relationships, and a tendency to overestimate one’s own importance.”
The disorders of “cluster B” go together because what underlies them is a disturbance in three developmentally acquired abilities I have called The Inner Triangle. These abilities are:
Ability to Love
Impulse Control
Moral Reasoning
These abilities that a child gains during development are a triangle because the development of each depends on the other two. A child begins to acquire ability to love in the first year of life, impulse control begins in the second year of life. At two years of age there is already a link between ability to love and impulse control. Children with the best impulse control also are the most loving/empathetic. Moral reasoning begins in the third year of life and its development depends on a loving nature and impulse control. Similarly the most moral kids are also the most loving and self-controlled.
I think of the cluster B disorders as different manifestations of damage to the inner triangle. I think of sociopaths as individuals who completely lack ability to love and have impaired impulse control and moral reasoning.
Given the Inner Triangle, it should come as no surprise that it can be difficult to find people who have only one cluster B personality disorder. For that reason individuals with antisocial personality, narcissistic personality, borderline personality and histrionic personality often have symptoms of the other disorders. If someone gets a diagnosis of only one of these, it doesn’t mean that the person doesn’t also have one or all of the others. The person making the diagnosis simply thought that the one chosen best described the person. You should know there is a gender bias in diagnosis such that women are often labeled “borderline.” These women can also be sociopaths who leave a trail of victimized friends, lovers and children in their wakes.
A recent study reported in Behavioral Science and the Law, “The Relationship Between DSM-IV Cluster B Personality Disorders and Psychopathy According to Hare’s Criteria: Clarification and Resolution of Previous Contradictions” examines the relationship between psychopathic personality traits as defined by the screening version of the PCL and Cluster B personality disorders. The authors of this study were careful to examine people who had only one cluster B disorder. They found psychopathy to be associated with all cluster B disorders.
The authors conclude:
“One clinical implication of our results, nevertheless, is that in cases where a cluster B personality disorder is diagnosed a high psychopathy value is to be expected, especially where antisocial, borderline or narcissistic personality disorder is involved. The PCL score is a better predictor of subsequent events, such as problems during (criminal) custody or a relapse into delinquency, than a diagnosis of a DSM-IV personality disorder, especially in forensic populations; therefore, an additional investigation with the PCL should be carried out, if a cluster B personality disorder has been diagnosed.”
It is important for Lovefraud readers to be aware of this study especially if there is a divorce/custody proceeding or a cluster B personality disorder has been diagnosed. Many people might think that if the partner has been “diagnosed borderline” or “diagnosed narcissistic” that means the partner is not a psychopath/sociopath. This study suggests otherwise. IF YOU ARE INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS THESE YOU HAVE TO CONSIDER THEIR HARMFUL BEHAVIOR AS AN INDICATION OF PSYCHOPATHY/SOCIOPATHY. There are some people with cluster B, histrionic, borderline and narcissistic disorders who are not highly antisocial. But if the person is lying, cheating and manipulating, that is antisocial behavior. This behavior in the context of any cluster B means the person is potentially very dangerous. As the authors state:
“Screening for PCL-based psychopathy can also be important for general psychiatric patients with a DSM-IV personality disorder, so that potential difficulties in the course of their treatment can be anticipated and this comorbidity can be targeted in the planning of therapy. Patients with both a DSM-IV personality disorder and PCL-based psychopathy can exhibit behavior that is particularly dangerous to therapy (Stafford & Cornell, 2003).”
If you have been diagnosed with borderline personality and reading this frightens you, I am sorry. You can improve by working on your inner triangle. Talk to your therapist about DBT a treatment that is very effective in improving the state of the Inner Triangle in people who are motivated to do it.
*The reference for the paper discussed is Behav. Sci. Law 25: 901—911 (2007).
Dear Elizabeth,
GOOD POST, and my only suggestion would be to AVOID CLUSTER Bs like the plague. NO ONE CAN HANDLE THEM AS LONG AS THEY ARE IN OUR LIVES….as more than a “far out” person we don’t see or do business with often. That’s why I have made some changes in who I “associate” with voluntarily. Keeps things simpler the fewer and further away they are to deal with. We will always come into contact with them in life—we can’t unfortunately move to a desert island to get away from them! Though I’ve got a close equivalent here at the farm—lock the gate! LOL
As for DJ assessing her assets and liabilities, RIGHT ON. If she can find and afford professional help, GREAT, she does need it. I GOT professional help and did assess my assets and liabilities—and decided my house wasn’t defensable with the Trojan Horse P living on the farm so I went and hid. Kept my mouth shut about even the fact I was GONE. I would appear at the local stores (country stores) once in a while so NO ONE even my neighbors knew I was “gone”—I hid “in plain sight”—knowing that would confuse the predators. It did too. When they did realize I was gone they turned on each other since there was no way they could find me. If they had had plenty of money and a PI they couldn’t have found me except by following me if I came into the community and returned back to my hole at the lake. Since the roads are curvy and hilly between the two points, and I always made a stop where I could check the traffic behind me, this too was “taken care of” and since I didn’t have a job or anything else to bind me, I managed to pull it off.
I am still taking caution to a high level, but no longer live in TERROR. Just a cautious outlook and good sense. `I am armed and prepared to defend myself, I do lock doors now, lock cars instead of leaving in the front yard with the keys in them, look when the dogs bark, lock the gate to the road, lock up outbuildings, and have an alarm system that notifies me if anyone is any where on the place, have motion detector lights all over the place, etc. The road I live on I can detect anyone within a half mile either direction on that road, no place for them to hide. Keep the grass cut short on the side of the road etc. Just using COMMON SENSE. “Look both ways before crossing the street.”
Oxy and Elizabeth Conley-So, if I’m in your neighborhood and thinking of dropping in for a visit…for my own safety…call first, right? LOL
Oxy: I just read this news feed — http://news.aol.com/article/woman-hits-thief-with-emeril-pan/361465
Rune…but it wasn’t cast iron, was it?
Lovefraud store new item…”OxDrover signature cookware”…all-purpose. Cooking, Home defense, Correction.
Jim: The store is developing quite an inventory!
Dear Jim,
Darling, you can drop in any time! I am “engaged” to Henry IF HE EVER DECIDES TO GO STRAIGHT INSTEAD OF GAY, but I’m about tired of holding my breath! LOL So except for that minor “attachment” I am FREE of entanglements–well, except for my 2 4-footed jack asses, 7 cows and heifers, 3 dogs, 2 goats, and 2 sons! Oh, and a preg cat! LOL I am not a “shoot first and ask questions later” person–USUALLY. LOL I’m more lethal with the skillet though! ha ha
I went out target shooting with my sons a while back (who are quite good with a pistol and rifle) and I shot as well as they did (and they practice frequently) and I haven’t shot an entire box of shells for my pistols in 20+ years unless I was putting something “down.” LOL
Nice thing for the old lady to impress the young squirts once in a while. Ha ha
Oxy…I’ll wave a white flag…not a red one, as I approach.
Dear Jim!
ROTFLMAO!!!! You are such a hoot! Love it! Sure you don’t want to marry an old crone! LOL I’ve decided if I ever get married again it will have to be a younger man, who is rich, good looking, loves jack asses, is a pilot, aviation mechanic, AND a physical therapist or massage therapist, and he also needs to be BLIND! LOL That way he will think I am beautiful, I’ll describe to him what I USETA LOOK LIKE! HA HA
I was fortunate that my late husband knew me “back when” and fortunate too that he still SAW me like I looked them. That’s the beauty of true love is that the beloved is beautiful BECAUSE they are loved, not loved because they are beautiful outside.
A friend of mine says “you should pick your lovers by their personality not looks, because in the end we all look like YODA anyway!” ROTFLMAO
Oxy, You are my idol. I’m going to try that line about the shooting range and see if that works for me !!!!
Maybe Matt will have me. He may be relocatable now. What do you say Matt? I shot a 9 MM last summer 🙂
Where’d my post go? Oxy, is any of this negotiable? If it’s a “blind (that one’s tough)date”, I’ll pay somebody to tell you: “He’s got a great personality, he’s kinda short and wrinkley, pointed ears. But, he’s got a GREEN light sabre!”
Do or do not. There is no try. (squeaky voice, too)
I can use the Force to levitate myself. Do I really need a valid pilot’s license?