For all of you wishing for the permanent solution to the problem of a sociopathic tormenter an arrangement that will stop him or her from tormenting you heck, the predator won’t torment anyone —here it is!
InstantHitman.com
Solution courtesy of a Lovefraud reader.
Im new here…but felt compelled to comment on katys blog. I was with a spath for 7 years…he put me thru pretty much everything….and I felt uneasy about it every second I gave him…it went against all of my better judgement. I even felt my grandmother was with me in spirit guiding me to the evidence that I was just being fooled and made to look foolish…when I found condoms in the trash can….evidence of him fooling around on his phone…random texts…woman, men…sex chat lines…oh the promise to put a ring on my finger was every month for years….till just this past summer forms from home land security arrived at his house for him and some girl from jamaica sporting his last name on the forms…This is how I found out he had married someone he hardly knew…for money….but I really think it may all just blow up in his face…because he’s sloppy! He’s so distracted…Im surprised he can keep it all straight. You said he was with a good woman now…and that she was getting the life he promised you. I have felt this way for so long…because the contenders have come and gone….they change like the weather….from man to woman….agenda to drama….Ive dealt with broken windshields and court dates…only to be swooned and fooled by his charms so he could wiggle out of the charges that he deserved to be charged with. Its been difficult to cut ties with mine because he’s so troubled….now his family and friends have a differant take on me..of course so he can make room for the fake life he’s rollin with now. It makes sense out of all the times he never made sense with the outbursts….and the insults….Id loan him my car,….he’d go visit friends and come back hours later….and unleash his bullshit wrath on me…while I was the one waiting for my car…and him where I belonged for the evening…..his breath smelled pretty fowel and I went thru his phone. wouldnt you know it….he had pics of some hobag black chick a full body shot…and a head shot….unattractive….and once confronted…there was always a reason….wrong number etc…..how is it the world is wrong….your not married but immigration says you are….the courst localy say you are…..and I believe you have to give several forms of identity for marraige to happen….he’s intending to give this jamaican chick…the life he promised me….but he’s getting paid for it,….and I feel like reporting him…but you know….he doesnt deserve one more second of my intentions…or attention. He’s not worth it and neither is your spath. Its difficult to move ahead knowing you have history with this asshole….and the way he worked you over.,..but they work everyone over,…they lie when they dont need to lie…they do things out of desperation….a nervous type of fix…..then lie, lie lie…mislead…make it your fault…and try to make you believe the sky is red…when clearly its blue. charmed and played. is what your left with. “he will get his and so will your spath!” Time always reveals it. just let it happen. There is no happiness for a spath! Thats why they need victims….and thats why they move person to person. Its pathetic…and I believe mine cheated with dozens….of females..men…and also trans genders…..at least you got away…im working on getting away
The most obvious red flag is that several made clear yesterday and with previous visits to leave us alone… and then they attempt to push for an explanation or “discuss” it.
Duh? We expressed our wishes, they ignore it, hence they are crossing our boundaries, hence we owe them nada, zilch, nothing.
Good points! We are obviously here to heal… They just want to have a little fun and run away. So many in such a short period of time..IDE ask why but I already know the answer. I need to start catching up on some good jokes. Well baby poop can also sound very boring… Lol… Be prepared… I’m slowly becoming an expert on that subject.
And coping…..today may be no differnt….it’s already started!
Yes….knotch up on the poop stories darlen…..i’m sure some people may love to hear about the colors and textures of your day! đŸ™‚
BEWARE!!!!
I’m off to garden…..
Me too. Jr. Needs a diaper change..
Superkid,
thanks for the complements on my reply to the troll.
I have studied him on the site that he posts on. He does this at that site and the other posters believe that he is the “spath with the heart of gold”. He gets off on their sympathy.
So the response to him was a test and a rope. If he actually wanted to “get better” he would have left immediately and gone to research the advice I gave him. But he proved that he didn’t by sticking around and posting, “I’m still here.”
So, now I know that he has a schtick: post about how hard it is for him to be a spath and never know true love…. puke. It’s what he does at psychcentral and the empaths there just eat it up. Not as wise as we are.
His posts are meant to be disinformation to confuse people about what spaths really want. He said it himself at the psychcentral site: he is angry about the way the media portrays the spaths. His agenda is to change public opinion, one empath at a time. My spath called it “planting a seed”.
Well my opinion is that spaths CAN change. But their hubris is so great that they see no need for it. The rest of the world should change so that they can keep wearing the same old soiled diaper the rest of their lives. The rest of us should just wear clothes pins on our noses and pretend it doesn’t stink.
It was a great post, sky. And I agree with your assessment on the psychcentral schtick. I think he comes here to try to the same because it would be a better win. The empaths there are too easy. They have no idea what a psychopath really is, they still live in the dream that a character like ‘Dexter’ exists, and if they just support him enough, he’ll be able to deny his ‘bad’ part.
We do know what a spath is, and we don’t believe in the golden heart story anymore. So he tries to reason with us, calmly… but since his motives are not the ones he claim to have, his actions do not agree with his words.
Sky….I do ‘seed planting’ as part of my gardening technique…..in a ‘Backspath’.
I learned the valuable teqnique from my spath.
Although he never had ‘words’ for it…..I eventually…..and let that be WAY eventually….figured this out.
darwinsmom,
this troll and the other trolls think that they are so smart to come here and mess with our heads. Little do they realize that this is a perfect opportunity for us to study them and perfect our methods of discarding them.
We get to practice spotting them, giving rope, testing, gray rock, potted plant, talking around them and boring them away.
All without any real risk to ourselves.
I’m always amazed at how easy it is to get rid of a spath by being boring. I didn’t come up with this, a guy I met told me about it and by golly it REALLY REALLY works! Boring is the spaths’ kryptonite.