For all of you wishing for the permanent solution to the problem of a sociopathic tormenter an arrangement that will stop him or her from tormenting you heck, the predator won’t torment anyone —here it is!
InstantHitman.com
Solution courtesy of a Lovefraud reader.
shelby333
Hi Darwinsmom: I get what you are saying.. with technology, he will always know where I am. My job is very public and he can always get to me through that. I feel that he will not due to his fear of me calling the police and he is not that desperate.
Thank you for your time tonite. It means a lot to me that you have taken the time to write your thoughts.
I am going to go see my pastor tomorrow – actually his wife – for whatever reason she has taken a shine to me and I am going to try to talk to her tomorrow.
I wish you well and thank you again.
I will endeavor to stay closer to in touch with this site.
K
darwinsmom
Please do Shelby… I’ve xperienced it helps to return.
Sounds like you were able to find a little more peace and determination for yourself. And I hope you will find some support with your pastor’s wife.
Also, you can ask your company to not tell him where you are if he enquires.
darwinsmom
BTW 185$ for melting… that was a hilarious joke site
Ox Drover
Shelby,
The VALIDATION we need, truly need, is not from others, but from OURSELVES. We can validate our own truth. The problem is that we have looked for others to tell us “you are right.” But we need to tell ourselves we are right, and to believe IN OURSELVES and our own feelings and thoughts, and then DO WHAT IS RIGHT even if we are the only one in the world who realizes the truth.
He is disrespectful to your worth. To you. You do not need someone, anyone, who is disrespectful to you.
When someone shows you what they are, BELIEVE THEM. He is toxic! (((hugs)))) and God bless.
skylar
Shelby,
You are so lucky that he is going away. Don’t be sad, be happy and rejoice, he has only malicious intent toward you and he only pretends to care so that you will allow him close enough to strike like the snake he is. I understand that his acting is really good, but that’s because he’s been practicing his whole life. There isn’t anything REAL about him, so it’s easy for him to put on any facade. The only thing he won’t show you is his evil, sinister side because then you’ll run away.
skylar
Michael,
I understand what you mean. To the psychopath, who can maintain to contradicting thoughts in his head through the process of splitting, both would be genuine. Because he can believe his own lies while being aware that he is lying, he does actually see both as being real.
The reason this is possible for the spath is because of his shallow perception of the meaning of words and the consequent shallow perception of the world around him.
We empaths perceive, that all things encompass, not just the surface but the deeper significance of what is below the surface. For example when we see a body of water, we understand that it isn’t just the surface but a volume of water with things deep within it. That is how we perceive words, emotions, actions etc… everything.
By perceiving deeply, we understand that it isn’t possible to love and demean at the same time. The deeply held aspect of love precludes it. But for the psychpath, who feels only the surface of love without the deeper aspects of it – sure, why not? Love, abuse, kill, save, fix, hate.. whatever. It’s all the same… none of them have any depth so why not?
one/joy_step_at_a_time
sky – i had my tires rotated today, now going to go wash my dishes and then engage in a little stand up with EB –
MoonDancer
onestep – when did u get wheels?
one/joy_step_at_a_time
only the ones in the garden dear hens.
skylar
Hi One,
I poured a “topping” on my concrete slab because the first pour sucked. tired.
Michael,
There are people who help those such as you. We are not it.
Here is one that could help you:
http://www.reichandlowentherapy.org/index.html
The premise here is that you have, due to trauma, numbed your own feelings so you wouldn’t have to feel them. Because of that, you cannot feel anything, including empathy and love for others. You are working with the emotional repertoire of an infant. But many feelings are still occurring in your body, you just haven’t been able to interpret them for what they are. Instead you are feeling them as bodily functions. This therapist, will work with your body AND your mind to get you to release yourself and start growing again.
It has to do with will power. You use yours too much and it has suppressed who you naturally were meant to be. This was your choice, whether you recognize it or not, so you can choose differently.
It should take you a couple of days, at least, to read through that website and research further on Reich and Lowen. This is the best advice I can give you and if you are serious about wanting more out of your life, then you will go now and read it.
I won’t be responding any more to you because I know that if you are still here and not reading what I recommended, then you are only here to manipulate and not to really seek help.