Lovefraud has just posted a new True Lovefraud Story about Will Allen Jordan, a con man, bigamist and sex offender who, from our information, has returned to New Jersey and is trolling dating sites looking for his next victim.
I’ve heard a lot of stories about sociopaths, and this guy is one of the worst. He has the ability, often found in sociopathic cult leaders, to get into the minds of his victims and twist their thinking. He is frightening.
Will Allen Jordan had a criminal record in the United States, where he was born. In 1992, he seduced a British woman and left the country with her, moving to the UK. He was able to start a new life, but he didn’t change his ways.
In 2000, he met and seduced another woman, Mary Turner Thomson, convincing her that he worked for the CIA. Her story is truly harrowing, and she wrote a book about it called The Bigamist—The True Story of a Husband’s Ultimate Betrayal.
Jailed in the UK, free in the USA
In 1997, Jordan was convicted in the UK of sex offenses against a child and served time. In 2006, he was convicted of failing to register as a sex offender, bigamy and other offenses. He was released in May 2009, and deported back to the United States.
When he got here, he immediately signed up for Match.com and started trolling for new victims. He found them. I know, because I spoke to them.
Unfortunately, he’s still out there. And—get this—he doesn’t have to register as a sex offender in New Jersey. Apparently, the New Jersey Megan’s Law applies only to people who were convicted in the United States. His conviction in the United Kingdom doesn’t count.
Will Allen Jordan targets single mothers of young daughters. I hope if any of them have met him online, they Google his name and find Lovefraud.
Read the True Lovefraud Story:
Convicted sex offender and bigamist deported from the UK, returns to New Jersey
I guess no one can do anything unless it’s seen as ‘REAL’.
hello i’ve been reading articles in this site for awhile now and first it was just the articles that related to me. then all of them. and then the comments too, which was when i got to know you all. there is so much not known that needs to be. so many figure that somehow, -she must have known-. but i’ve learned alot from the articles and the posts written and i really had no idea. and although i have very different issues, i feel like i’ve gotten to know you all by your posts and it has made me re-think everything i thought i knew about things.
here is something of what is happening in our very corrupt state and while before i may have at one time have had a negative view of Kim Rothstein, which people are attacking her right now for, because of the enlightening experience here i realize what she really must be going through now and how she could have been with him and really not have known. like the rest of us she was taken for a ride but it’s so much worse for her.
coming here to LF for different issues, i got more than i came for because i have had to change my assumptions on people and situations based on all that i’ve learned from you all. thank you for educatating me. Right now i would hope that Kim Rothstein finds her way here and realize she is not alone.
http://www.nbcmiami.com/news/local-beat/Rothstein-to-Plead-Guilty-Today-82779517.html
i am very honored to meet you all.
Dear Skol,
Welcome to LF, I’m glad you have found your way here and I hope that others who need the knowledge and support find their way here as well.
Learning about psychopaths is only part of the process but knowledge does = power, but also learning about ourselves, helps us heal and regain our power.
God bless, and again, WELCOME!
Thanks for sharing that story Skolslave.
Wouldnt it be wonderful if in Kims prepared speech (or any of the many who have stood before a camera or have been interviewed about a love-murder or business scheme/fraud or political drama ) she could say – many of you may not know about the term snakes in suits – or Sociopaths in the business world — or what its like to unknowingly be in a personal relationship with someone like the man I married. There needs to be more awareness about these toxic people in the world as well as the people they target…and why… and how to avoid it. Imagine if she said… how many more news stories .. scandalous news conferences…like this one of the man I married will it take until the world wakes up to the reality this is going on all around us and what “this” is, attaching a name to it – a definition of it – and the truth about it- instead of focusing on the types of clothing and jewelry Im wearing or judging me. Because next its going to be a friend, a relative, your child or even you yourself who unknowingly comes across the wrath and destruction of a Sociopath.
blueskies says:
“If mental health and education professionals recoginzed sociopathy ( which I assume they dont or they would do something)”
that’s the problem in a nutshell!
I’m sick of watching programs like Dr Phil, Oprah, and a whole raft of current affairs programs or whatever regarding these predators. I’m sick of the “limp wristed attitude that exists!..does anyone have any balls??….. It’s an exercise in sheer frustration as I scream at the TV…’the guy is a friggin psychopath you idiots!…don’t you get it!!??”
What is it?..am I missing something?
Joe Public needs to be informed NOW!!….enough of dancing around the topic and not calling it for what it is…..informed professionals gestimate it’s about 1 to 3% of the population….well I reckon it’s in plague proportions from my experiences.
….and how do I inform my children without scaring the crap out of them?….there really needs to be a book catering to teenagers….because when I think of my children and wonder who they may come across in their lives, it does my head in.
Jake B.
I’ve had “required reading” for my teenagers right here at Lovefraud.
Just some of the articles.
Also, I came to the conclusion I may risk scaring the crap out of them, but its worth the risk to have them educated and informed by me – rather than find them at the mercy of psychopath. WE NEED TO INFORM OUR TEENAGERS, schools arent, doctors arent…we need to call it for what it is with them in the best age-appropriate way possible.
There are books you can also give them to read. With what they are exposed to out there, and in the movie theatres and through peers – its never too late to teach them how to protect themselves, look for red flags – and practice self-awareness..
Just think if our parents took that leap with us we may have been better prepared /had the tools to deal with removing ourselves from the situation/relationship much sooner.
Hi learnthelessoon,
thank you for your reply……
As most of us here are abundantly clear that children even at this early age are dealing with this already….the precursor to this condition is bullying….I wouldn’t say all bullies, but it’s a good indicator.
Maybe there should be a link on LF regarding books and topics suitable from children.
Jake – Thats a great idea! Also for now, if you type the word bullying in the upper left search box you may find some helpful articles.
Some of you are again throwing this responsibility at teachers … I just want to remind you that teachers are already expected to save the world and realistically can’t take any more on their shoulders. Teachers are expected to instill moral values, to guide in spirituality, to focus on child protection and advocate for child rights as well as be counsellors to families in crisis, assisting with accessing community resources and supports etc etc etc
Enough already!
This is EVERYONE’S responsibility – not just teachers. You may not know, but teachers are highly controlled by central sources in what they can and cannot teach about – if you would have teachers include material on sociopaths in their curriculum then perhaps you best lobby the educational authorities in your area – teachers could get into a lot of trouble professionally in going outwith recommended and mandated curriculum topics.
Why are they expected to be the saviors of society? So many responsibilities that were once the domain of family to fulfil have been put on the shoulders of teachers – it isn’t fair. No wonder droves of them are leaving the profession. No other profession is expected to give so much for free.
Why don’t we expect doctors to extend their appointments for free by five minutes to investigate and educate on sociopaths? Or counsellors and therapists? Or social workers? Teachers cannot do it all – I think society has a really unrealistic view of what is possible for one human to do in a teaching role.
Some of my best friends are teachers and they are exhausted every week in trying to sort out problems for students that really aren’t their responsibility. Of course they do it because teachers are ethical, but why don’t we hold other professions to those ridiculous standards????
I agree that education needs to start early so people don’t get into these harmful relationships, but education needs to be backed with resources. Just imagine a child at age nine recognising ‘hey that’s how my mom or dad acts’ when they find out about sociopaths. Are Child Protective Services ready to step in and support that child when they make that disclosure and reach out for help? Are they even aware of such things as sociopaths?
As far as I can see in most countries the agencies protecting children are struggling to cope, and in reports in the media I have never ever seen them mention a personality disorder – maybe that’s where education needs to start – so our protective agencies start to realise that people who abuse their kids might just have a personality disorder. There are some researchers out there who think PDs are the root of ALL domestic abuse and violence – I am starting to agree with that idea. If the frontline agencies picking up the pieces at the bottom of the hill have no idea about personality disorders then what hope is there???
Midlife,
I havent read many comments about putting ALL the responsibility on the teachers. And I certainly would only advocate any type of material on the subject matter be recommended and mandated curriculum topics. And backed with resources as well..Im not even certain the approach was to single out “PD Parents” as much as it was to give the teenagers knowledge and information about the possibility of toxic relationships going forward in their lives. I dont even know how where to begin to address the dysfunctional situations at home… I was just starting somewhere/anywhere and recollected the time in my life I wish had known about Sociopaths…as I was entering the real world…
I think we are all troubleshooting – tossing around ideas — included in that were discussions of Doctors, Teachers, Parents, Nurses, and I even thought about Guidance Counsellors taking on the responsibility of entering the classroom to “bring awareness/educate” —
It is definitely NOT the sole responsibility of the teachers and certainly not without going through the proper channels and red tape to even begin to broach how to bring awareness to these young adults.
I think everyone agrees with you – this is EVERYONES responsibility. We are just troubleshooting..