Lovefraud has just posted a new True Lovefraud Story about Will Allen Jordan, a con man, bigamist and sex offender who, from our information, has returned to New Jersey and is trolling dating sites looking for his next victim.
I’ve heard a lot of stories about sociopaths, and this guy is one of the worst. He has the ability, often found in sociopathic cult leaders, to get into the minds of his victims and twist their thinking. He is frightening.
Will Allen Jordan had a criminal record in the United States, where he was born. In 1992, he seduced a British woman and left the country with her, moving to the UK. He was able to start a new life, but he didn’t change his ways.
In 2000, he met and seduced another woman, Mary Turner Thomson, convincing her that he worked for the CIA. Her story is truly harrowing, and she wrote a book about it called The Bigamist—The True Story of a Husband’s Ultimate Betrayal.
Jailed in the UK, free in the USA
In 1997, Jordan was convicted in the UK of sex offenses against a child and served time. In 2006, he was convicted of failing to register as a sex offender, bigamy and other offenses. He was released in May 2009, and deported back to the United States.
When he got here, he immediately signed up for Match.com and started trolling for new victims. He found them. I know, because I spoke to them.
Unfortunately, he’s still out there. And—get this—he doesn’t have to register as a sex offender in New Jersey. Apparently, the New Jersey Megan’s Law applies only to people who were convicted in the United States. His conviction in the United Kingdom doesn’t count.
Will Allen Jordan targets single mothers of young daughters. I hope if any of them have met him online, they Google his name and find Lovefraud.
Read the True Lovefraud Story:
Convicted sex offender and bigamist deported from the UK, returns to New Jersey
learnthelesson
Blueskies – One-step – Midlife — You rock!!!! You really rock this thread! VERY inspiring – Very a@@-kicking to motivate getting in gear!
EB – the “teenagers” would have a blast “learning” from you!!!! LOL
Really everyones thoughts here are so informative and inspirational — I really hope we get something in motion to begin changing the way the world operates – need to know basis 🙁
ErinBrock
LTL:
Sign me up!
Nicolaid
Hi everyone,
Here is a stunning story about an israeli polygamist, Goel Ratzon, who had 21 wifes (and dozens of children).
“Ratzon’s women speak of their love for ‘special’ man and caring husband”
http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/spages/1142878.html
Ox Drover
I watched the CBS evening news (half hour) and they had a story on about the REAL LIFE Erin Brockovitch and how she did “tough love” with her drug addicted daughter—cut off the money, cut off the enabling….at the end of the segment, they asked if the dtr thought her mom was being “mean” and she (dtr) said “Well, you can keep on giving them money and then ask yourself how “mean” you were, AT THEIR FUNERAL”
They also highlighted Nancy Kerogan’s brother killing her father in an “alcohol induced rage”—and the fact that her parents SUED him in 2008 for oveer $100,000 they had given him over the years.
Never once did they mention that it isn’t JUST THE ALCOHOL OR DRUGS, that there cann be some personality disorders in there being “self medicating.”
I still think too many people (public AND professionals) BLAME the drugs or alcohol for the ABUSE and so on, when being an addict does not mean you are NOT ALSO a psychopath. How many of us know the guys/gals in AA who are sober as a judge and STILL psychopaths, or as AA calls them, “Dry drunks”—-sorry for the rant. Maybe I need to quit watching the news again! Bury my head in the sand! LOL
Thanks for the linkk Nicolaid. ((hugs)))
onelukygurl
Oxy-
You’re right on with this…and again, I have a story 😛
My ex adamantly denied ever having a drug/drinking problem in the past, although when he and I met, he said he ‘didnt drink anymore.’ That was fine cause I dont drink much at all. Over the time spent together, he had slowly told me of this ‘past’ he had which involved drugs (psychadelics in particular) and drinking at least a beer or two a night-although, he ‘gave up’ drinking ‘a long time ago.’
His behavior problems began around the age of 14 or 15 when he ‘ran away’ to be with a woman who lived in Tennesssee whom he was going to marry. He had ALWAYS had problems with impulse control, judgement, seeking excitement, boredom, etc. He’s ADHD and has a dx of Antisocial Personality Disorder at the age of 17.
My point is this…I think the pressure to be ‘normal’ in society in order to keep a job and whatever degree of a ‘life’ he has is overbearing at times. HE IS NO VICTIM…let me get that out there. I think these people KNOW they are disgusting and sometimes the self medicating just numbs them to their disgustingness.
These people are ABUSERS first and foremost. Strip them of all their titles, and you STILL have a scary, sociopathic person who does what he does BECAUSE THATS WHO HE IS. The alcohol and drugs are symptoms of the disorder-the disorder is who they are…and who they are is disgusting and pathetic.
Ox Drover
DearR-BAbe,
Boy did you get a WINNER!!!! A “diagnosed” psychopath! Wow! I’ve only seen a couple of them “live” myself, the rest are “Me diagnosed”—but for a while mental health diagnosis and medication is what I did for a living–but you know—sometimes I think those of us that are “educated” and “should know better” are the most likely to become conned!
I felt TERRIBLE that I had been conned so badly and so many times, but you know, When I came here to LF I was in the company of REALLY SMART and REALLY WELL EDUCATED (better than me) Women and men who had been JUST as conned as I was— and “just as” means that They were TOTALLY conned, it doesn’t mean how MUCH money they were ripped off for or whatever they lost materially.
The con is TOTAL—but the getting out from under the FOG (fear, obligation and guilt) is up to each of us, and you know, your Ps Mother will never get out of the FOG and that is a shame, but she isn’t any worse deluded that I have been, she is just in it longer, but THAT COULD HAVE BEEN ME—God knows I did it for DECADES. It isn’t about being smart or not smart, or educated or not educated, they turn whatever we are or have into fuel for their own bonfire.
It is like being in a burning building, where the only way out is to run through the flames and we have the choice to stay and let it burn down on our heads or duck our heads and run for our lives. Better to be burned a bit on the way OUT than to stay there and roast alive.
I know there are people who have drug or alcohol problems who are NOT personality disordered but unfortunately sometimes it is not easy to sort the sheep from the goats.
My egg donor’s brother, that I lovingly refer to as UNCLE MONSTER was a Psychopath, delux version, and she has enabled him and trivalized his monsterous behavior for my entire life, or covered it up, and that was what eventually gave me so much grief over having holidays with him that I just about turned off to any holiday and finally rather than rujin my holidays with him at her house, I would go to the ends of the earth to celebrate my holidays so I didn’t have to listen to her caterwalling about how “unforgiving I was and how I was going to hell becdause I wouldn’t forgive him” (read TRUST) so I would pack up my kids and go to California for the holidays or with my living history group, ANYTHING but a holiday with Uncle Monster.
I remember her crying and guilting me about how I was RUINING HER HOLIDAY–I asked her once about HER ruining MY holiday and she didn’t have an answer for THAT. I can’t believe I allowed her to do that to me for YEARS–all that crap caused me to cry buckets of tears every holiday for years and you know, looking back on it, I can almost LAUGH about it now, and wish I had taken the iron skillet and BOINKED myself a good one for falling for that FOG! LOL
And you know, I’m getting smarter! LOL She is I am sure very very sad that she has to spend holidays with her maid’s family because she doesn’t have a living relative that will either invite her or come to her house. Holidays are “low key” for me now, just CALM and PEACEFUL! That’s enough! (((hugs)))
silvermoon
GRRRRR!!!!!!!!!
I married a bigamist and nobody cares. The DA’s say a man with two wives has been punished enough and the lawyers say that the best thing to do is let it go and the big guys are doing an eval….
I know he has a history of violence and revenge and they won’t
talk to me about protection but the attorneys.
Who is getting punished and for what?
Is it just mt State?
ErinBrock
Silver:
Don’t let any of those fools shut you down.
Keep plugging along…..you WILL find an open door.
You need perseverience and patience…..and DON”T EVER LET ANYONE DISCOURAGE your mission!!!!!
You know what you have to do!
Keep your head up.
XXOO
EB
Buttons
Silvermoon, I’m with EB on this: do not take that bullshit lying down!!! That one quote has been the perpetual slap in the face, and it is not allowed to continue. Take that quote, and pass it on to the State Atty General’s Office! TELL THAT OFFICE that you demand action and follow it up with media contacts!!! At this point, I’d be calling every news station, radio station, and network programs that I could think of! 20/20, ABC Good Morning America (they WANT bigamy stories), etc.
Donna took her experience with that jackass and turned it into one of the most incredible success stories I’ve ever heard about. YOU can do the same thing, Silvermoon – you can. You are better than the spath, stronger than the spath, and BRIGHTER than the spath could ever hope to be. Take this puppy and run with it.
Brightest blessings!!!!!!!!
Ox Drover
Dear Silvermoon,
I agree with Buttons on this, go to the state AGs office and if that doesn’t help to the governor’s office and the MEDIA. Get it in the lkocal paper and the state’s biggest one if you can and onm the local 6 p.m. news, or NANCY GRACE’S program or any kind of publicity that you can find! EMBARASS them if you can.
“HEADLINE:
A local Woman, Ms. S. Moon, is condemned to life “married to a bigamist” Ms. Moon says that because she married a bigamist who is in jail/prison somewhere in the Federal prison system and whom she can’t find, she is forever condemned to be “married” to him though the marriage was never legal in the first place.
She states that Our local DA, Joe Smoe, says that he doesn’t have time to procesecute her bigamous husband for this crime and that SHE will have to do so herself. Well, since she can’t find Her husband who is apparently being held incognito by the Feds, she has no way to legally unhook her name from this illegal marriage. Must Ms. Moon continue to be handcuffed to this criminal? Tune in tomorrow for more on this interesting story!”
ROTFLMAO ROTFLMAO LOL LOL