Lovefraud has just posted a new True Lovefraud Story about Will Allen Jordan, a con man, bigamist and sex offender who, from our information, has returned to New Jersey and is trolling dating sites looking for his next victim.
I’ve heard a lot of stories about sociopaths, and this guy is one of the worst. He has the ability, often found in sociopathic cult leaders, to get into the minds of his victims and twist their thinking. He is frightening.
Will Allen Jordan had a criminal record in the United States, where he was born. In 1992, he seduced a British woman and left the country with her, moving to the UK. He was able to start a new life, but he didn’t change his ways.
In 2000, he met and seduced another woman, Mary Turner Thomson, convincing her that he worked for the CIA. Her story is truly harrowing, and she wrote a book about it called The Bigamist—The True Story of a Husband’s Ultimate Betrayal.
Jailed in the UK, free in the USA
In 1997, Jordan was convicted in the UK of sex offenses against a child and served time. In 2006, he was convicted of failing to register as a sex offender, bigamy and other offenses. He was released in May 2009, and deported back to the United States.
When he got here, he immediately signed up for Match.com and started trolling for new victims. He found them. I know, because I spoke to them.
Unfortunately, he’s still out there. And—get this—he doesn’t have to register as a sex offender in New Jersey. Apparently, the New Jersey Megan’s Law applies only to people who were convicted in the United States. His conviction in the United Kingdom doesn’t count.
Will Allen Jordan targets single mothers of young daughters. I hope if any of them have met him online, they Google his name and find Lovefraud.
Read the True Lovefraud Story:
Convicted sex offender and bigamist deported from the UK, returns to New Jersey
one/joy_step_at_a_time
oxy – i just heaved a sigh at the sober reality of what you deal with.
i am glad you have a plan of defense, and contingencies.
again, my very best wishes that you remain safe and that it never comes to having to drive it out into the country and drop it off on a lonely road.
hugs
one step
silvermoon
NO, not personal at all at this point.
Its a chess game.
Its a play to win game because the other side will.
I hear you OX.
one/joy_step_at_a_time
hey silver – how are you?
silvermoon
OK.
Frustrated that there is such a lackluster understanding of what is going to be unleashed when he gets out.
The big boys get it but the local folk are driving me bonkers.
Its all about cash inthe pocket to do nothing.
I am disgusted with it.
If his history is a clue, I have plenty to consider…..
Ox Drover
Dear One step,
I have never driven an animal out into the country or dropped it off to starve and personally I would do the same to a human who did such a thing. I have put down (sent to that great dog house or cat box in the sky) suffering animals who had no home—out here there is no pound even to take them–it is better I think to die quickly and painlessly than to starve to death or get shot and wounded by someone protecting their cattle. Or torn apart by packs of coyotes…starving is not a great way to go.
Also dropping off rabid dogs anywhere to let them prey on anything or anyone in the vacinity isn’t a good idea either. Best to just “put them down” under legal circumstances. I would never do anything illegal.
one/joy_step_at_a_time
silver – i just got up for a moment and was thinking about what oxy has been saying to me tonight; your post earlier about the affect of the frustration on your system; and my thinking about the ppath for the last couple of days….
and i realize that our healing paths and what we have to deal with with them are parallel paths. i have no doubt that YOU will be fine, no doubt that you are on a healing path.
then there is what has to be done to deal with them. impersonal, but literally utterly sickening. this is where our knees can get kicked out, because we are dealing with their severely disordered selves and not our ordered intelligence and quite capable of healing selves.
maybe this distinction doesn’t mean much – but tongiht it is the beginning of some understanding for me – not quite formed.
we get sick cause they are sickening and the systems are NOT protective – and what is it that we have to develop in ourselves to overcome being taken out by these realities?
one/joy_step_at_a_time
oxy – sorry if my allusion to dead things in bags touched your practical and realistic side.
remember – i grew up in the country and have seen all kinds of crap – most of it NOT perpetuated on our farm.
hugs
one step
Ox Drover
No problem, I just have a hard time with people taking “fluffy” out to the country and dropping him off to starve or with a belly full of pups to starve as well, instead of being humane and responsible. I’ve taken in my share of stray dogs picked up off the highway and two of my three dogs now are rescues (one literally off the highway). I despise “dog droppers” as bad as I do psychopaths! Neither one has any empathy for the suffering they cause!
tobehappy
OMG I live in NJ and so many people I know use online dating sites! I used them at one time….since I know a few women who met their husbands/boyfriends on them. I didn’t have luck …met one stalker and one who wrote me a very nasty email when I rejected a second date! That was years ago..so I stopped.
A woman I worked with met guys and got into their cars to go out!!! Looking for Mr. Goodbar. I always met in a neutral place.
Heard two horror stories tonite from two women in my town. One found the guy was cheating (8yr r/s) by cell phone bills. Another lived with a guy 4 yrs and he was cashing his dead grandmothers ss checks. The FBI called her in ..thought she was in on it. She didn’t even know the g/m was dead till she found the death certificate!
OMG…are there any normal men out there?
I’m going to be a buddist monk.
one/joy_step_at_a_time
2b – it would be ‘nun’. and a good career/ life choice. not much money in it tho’ 😉