Woman meets guy online. Woman decides guy is not for her. Guy doesn’t want to hear it. Guy wants wants to meet her RIGHT NOW to hug her neck. Woman doesn’t respond. Guy promises the greatest love ever. Woman tells guy to STOP. Guy ramps up the attention.
Read the entire audacious interaction, complete with the guy saying it was all a joke, at womenexplode.com.
dancingnancies
Please excuse me while i go VOMIT outside.
“Typical” wouldn’t even cut it. More like a defining trait of sociopaths : To them, “No” means “PUSH HARDER”
“B-B-But you would look so great on my dinner table with an apple in your mouth and spit bludgeoned through your delicate, soft warm body! Please reconsider my offer! I’ll give you CANDYYYY!”
Ox Drover
Can one say INTERNET DATING IS DANGEROUS?
I’m not sure if this guy was “for real” or just trying to be a clown, but either way it was disgusting! Maybe he was a guy who was into S&M (the M part at least!) Beat me! Beat me! But he was disgusting whatever his purpose was.
I’m learning now to support my boundaries 100% and NOT FEEL GUILTY about doing so.
one/joy_step_at_a_time
yes oxy, ‘one’ can definitely say internet dating is dangerous, and she just did.
mendingthebrokenpieces
Met my spath on match.com…I wonder how many people on here met these spaths online. I thought it was a great idea to try and meet someone online bc I thought..hey..if they are actually paying for it they must be pretty serious about finding someone too. Now that I know about psychopaths…and being that I met mine online..I don’t think I will try that again. Those sites should just be called stuff like meetapsycho.com. I suppose there are some real, genuine people on there..I was on there ya know..but now I am just scared. Thought it was the “now” way to meet someone. Ugh.
mendingthebrokenpieces
I guessi should not generalize like that but I guess I am just bitter from my awful experience and it all started there.
Ox Drover
Broken pieces,
You can “generalize” that sticking your hand in a blue flame will BURN too! LOL Doesn’t mean it isn’t so. Generalizing is how we learn.
dancingnancies
@brokenpieces *raises hand* I’m in your boat ( the internet is their playground )
“Those sites should just be called stuff like meetapsycho.com.”
Word.
” I suppose there are some real, genuine people on there.”
Yeah, and that would equate to looking for a needle in a haystack. Not worth it. Although before this ordeal if you will ( before the P ) one of my psych professors ( young, 30 ish ) mentioned she had gotten engaged to someone she met on Eharmony. So it seemed to me, innocuous. She got lucky I guess.. I’m glad for her because had she met an spath I think she’d have been a perfect target ( high empathy, extrovert type, super sweet ).. ( though I didn’t meet the psycho on E-harmony just as a disclaimer, not that it makes a difference )
I don’t consider you bitter for recognizing this. It’s called being educated, you’d have to knock me over unconscious and drag me by my toes before I would ever agree to date anyone I met online now.. ( and still, in my unconscious state I would still being kicking and screaming! ) If the last man in the world were on E-Harmony.com I would not oblige him! I’d rather be celibate for life for all i care.
seriously
I’m on eharmony and have met some really nice guys. I am very cautious but I have talked to a few weirdos. I don’t do much except work and I won’t go to bars bc I won’t drink and drive so ive been giving this internet stuff a try. I met my spath at work.:(
Hopeforjoy
I have heard a lot of bad things about match.com but my brother met an awesome woman on e-harmony. She was previously married to a spath (had the bigamy thing going on, he’s now in Mexico), and she is a sweet woman. I can tell she has a big heart and is a survivor. Once in a while the on-line dating thing works, but I would never take my chances. There are so many non verbal ways to communicate and I couldn’t pick up on red flags without watching their body language, etc.
Most of what we communicate is non-verbal.
I’m beginning to think that so many people have a chip missing. (I said men initially but it’s not gender based). I can’t figure out how their borish behavior is ever considered flattering. Women need to think more of ourselves and then we wouldn’t put up with so much disfunction. I need to take my own advice.
Maryjane
HI.. this is Ann..this guy was exactly as I presented him…
I had a couple of emails and one SHORT phone conversation.. and I felt his control, manipulation and pushiness so declined meeting him.. and days of emails followed.. I have blocked him off everything I could think of.. I didn’t realize that he was infiltrating everywhere that he could.. I am going to post his last couple of emails here.. he is still lurking around http://www.womenexplode.com.. I can block him from posting but not to be completely off the site…
This is a real learning experience.. he latched onto me in record time.. and I am pretty darned seasoned..