Woman meets guy online. Woman decides guy is not for her. Guy doesn’t want to hear it. Guy wants wants to meet her RIGHT NOW to hug her neck. Woman doesn’t respond. Guy promises the greatest love ever. Woman tells guy to STOP. Guy ramps up the attention.
Read the entire audacious interaction, complete with the guy saying it was all a joke, at womenexplode.com.
one/joy_step_at_a_time
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i hear ya. just went through a spate of having my email addys hacked – have a lot more security on my computer now. and i have taken myself offline to a great extent. ‘cept for coming here.
if you ignore him, don’t give him any more ink – he’ll be quicker to go away. i’d just stop talking about him. treat him like a potted plant in public and send the cops after him.
Maryjane
His initial email..
Gosh, you are a real knockout. I want to meet you and woo you and treat you like the lady you are. You have my insides churning.
one/joy_step_at_a_time
that’s intestinal parasites.
one/joy_step_at_a_time
and you responded to this email Style? I’m surprised. it’s so full of crap.
Maryjane
one step.. sure it’s full of BS… duh? But many men start out that way and they don’t turn into this..
And I responded back..
That’s a bit much since we have never met… LOL.
I just diffused it..
I have many men respond in this manner.. and they back it off and are ‘normal’, just nice guys..upon meeting… and if not interested, we both go our merry ways..this guy just escalated..
Here is another email.. I find interesting.. guys.. just look at this for your knowledge… and or entertainment…
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Ann,
I politely request you remove your insulting, slanderous webpage concerning me personally, immediately. I expect the webpage to be modified to contain a complete apology. I also expect your friend with no balls to contact me to apologize fully.
You slandered my name and you blocked my ability to defend myself through free speech. I want my name cleared completely and a full apology posted immediately. If this is completed by 10 PM tonight, I will drop all charges against you and any future lawsuits against your website in the future.
You are what you are and have no use for you and your poor followers. I lowered myself to respond to you knowing that was not what I wanted to do. I looked at you as a joke and I joked with you. That was my big mistake. I will pray for you to recover rom your mental sickness soon!
( his name was of course, never on the blog)
Ox Drover
There’s no way to deal with such a creep as this. After the FIRST “I do not want to hear from you” (and subsequent blocking) then after that, notifying the police of harassment by the creep, as Gavin DeBecker says “ANY response” to them just tells them how many times they have to bug you before you respond.”
Assuming the man is not trying to be a clown, the man is obviously either mentally ill, socially inept, narcissistic &/or psychopathic, but my guess is that he is more on the mentally ill and socially inept scale, however, meeting someone on line there isn’t any way to really tell whether they are simply some pitiful poor suffering soul or whether he is seriously sick and delusional and may end up physically stalking you like the guy in the Article in the NY Times Donna put up about the stuff the woman ordered from him that was a cheap knock off.
The guy was taking pictures of the front of her building and threatening her. Fortunately the judge and the cops took it seriously. The judge wouldn’t even give him bail.
I agree with One_step, the more cyber ink he gets the more it turns him on and makes him feel important.
Ox Drover
P-speak to English Translations services, Inc. Oxy, Owner
QUOTE: “I lowered myself to respond to you knowing that was not what I wanted to do. ”
TRANSLATION: “I didn’t want to respond to you, but I felt like I had to, it was your fault.”
QUOTE “I looked at you as a joke and I joked with you. That was my big mistake.”
TRANSLATION: “You are laughing at me, so now I have to pretend it was all a joke. I laughed at you FIRST.”
QUOTE: “I will pray for you to recover from your mental sickness soon!”
TRANSLATION: You are calling me a sicko, so I have to say that you are “mentally ill” and I will, nice guy that I am PRAY FOR YOU.”
Maryjane
Exactly Oxy…
One thing… As I think back.. a key to my psychology in it..
He sent me his number and I called and left a simple message and forgot all about him..
then I had an email where he called me a liar and a scammer.. and I couldn’t imagine why?
So I emailed what was this all about?
Apparently, he was expecting me to call him and he didn’t get the message so he called me a liar..
My sense of honor, and I was trying to make sure that he knew that I wasn’t a liar or a scammer.. but even in the very beginning.. I thought him weird.. and got off the phone and said .. something.. “No need for us to meet..”
Then comes the blasting of all these emails.. you all saw the sequence on http://www.womenexplode..com and I have share some here. but there are many many more.. and I sent him like 3..
he sent me like 50 or more…
and all are crazy..
I am posting this here.. he doesn’t know about here…
Just learn from it guys.. and how fast it can get bizarre.. and again I am seasoned.. like the police said thank God you didn’t meet for a burger.. he lives in close promixity to me.. and we live in a great area… so I felt a kind of trust.. in the beginning..
soooooo……TADA!
one/joy_step_at_a_time
P-speak to English Translations services, Inc. One Step, Owner
QUOTE: “I lowered myself to respond to you knowing that was not what I wanted to do. ”
i am a turd and YOU WILL RUE THE DAY you told others i was a steaming pile of crap! SPIT HISS…
QUOTE “I looked at you as a joke and I joked with you. That was my big mistake.”
you are a frigid feminist bitch. and probably a lesbian. and you f*** donkeys. and dogs.
QUOTE: “I will pray for you to recover from your mental sickness soon!”
denigrate and insert some shit about religion here.
super chic
… 😀