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Background checks for online daters

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December 22, 2010 //  by Donna Andersen//  132 Comments

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When looking for love, 20 million Americans look on Internet dating sites. Now, companies offer quick and easy background checks, although some experts worry about their effectiveness.

Read New online-date detectives can unmask Mr. or Ms. Wrong, on NYTimes.com.

Category: Explaining the sociopath

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  1. skylar

    December 22, 2010 at 9:55 pm

    Even ME?? onestep.
    LOL, surely you aren’t talking about MEEE???
    Me couldn’t possibly be narcissistic, ME is only good!

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  2. soimnotthecrazee1

    December 22, 2010 at 9:56 pm

    One,
    OK… OK…. we all are “N”‘s. What are you?

    I am not freaking crazee!!!! LOLOL

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  3. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    December 22, 2010 at 9:58 pm

    hahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaa….

    well, obviously you are all narcissitic, that’s clear by the fact that you responded in such a way.

    🙂

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  4. soimnotthecrazee1

    December 22, 2010 at 10:02 pm

    One,
    WOW! I just had a flashback!!!
    I was there with xspath and saw the sign for the blah blah county mental health center and actually said to him is that where I am going to wind up? I felt it coming before I saw it! This idiot said “maybe”.
    OMG…. I will never ignore red flags again!!! DENIAL is not in my vocabulary anymore!!!
    soimnotthecrazee1!

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  5. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    December 22, 2010 at 10:04 pm

    as much as they ‘tell’, it seems we do too!

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  6. soimnotthecrazee1

    December 22, 2010 at 10:40 pm

    Shabby Chic,
    I hope you are not in San Diego with all that flooding!

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  7. soimnotthecrazee1

    December 22, 2010 at 10:45 pm

    One,
    Yeppers! I told myself what and where I was headed! Before his mask fell off!! I knew it!
    I just wanted to believe “HIS” side of the fantasy story! I deserved him, he is a good guy, my prince, the love I had waited for…… YUKKKKK! Make me throw up!!!!
    Ok.. so i am crazee!! LOLOLOL
    I wonder how EB and bears are doing?

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  8. Ox Drover

    December 22, 2010 at 11:57 pm

    Maybe she got et! I still think she ought to shoot the critter! There is NO way she is going to get rid of him now that he has found FOOD there, and GREAT FOOD at that! Oh, for some egg nog! I would kill for a big glass of egg nog. I can drink a half gallon of it at one sitting, even without the booze in it. YUM!!!!! Heck if I could get through the ten feet of snow I’d go to her house and steal the egg nog myself! Egg nog and SALT!!!! YUM!!!!!

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  9. super chic

    December 23, 2010 at 12:11 am

    @notcrazee, hi sweetie, thanks for asking…
    I’m in Los Angeles, no flooding too close to me,
    plenty of rain though… more then we’re used to!
    No bears! :/

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  10. Hopeforjoy

    December 23, 2010 at 12:24 am

    Oxy,

    Sounds like withdrawls. Can you have half a glass of egg nog on Christmas? You’ve been so good!

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