Back in May and June, the media blitz for The Psychopath Test, by Jon Ronson, was in full swing. I finally got around to reading the book.
Ronson is a British journalist who apparently specializes in writing about nut cases. He wrote The Men Who Stare at Goats, which was made into a movie starring George Clooney and Jeff Bridges. He has a BBC radio show that, according to the New York Times book review, is considered comedy. But he’s famous, and people like him. I guess I wish that he’d used his clout and notoriety to do some good with this book.
Its full title is The Psychopath Test—A journey through the madness industry. The title is accurate. The book is essentially a history of how the disorder was identified and how the study and treatment of psychopathy evolved, with the stories of a few psychopaths included, most of them killers.
Ronson makes the most important point of the book almost in passing. He describes several meeting with Bob Hare, the respected psychopathy researcher who created “the psychopath test” that gives the book its title (the Psychopathy Checklist-Revised, or PCL-R). Ronson includes a scene in which he is in the U.K., driving Hare to the airport.
Hare says that he wishes he hadn’t spent all his time studying psychopaths in prison—he should have also studied them at the stock exchanges. (I’ve heard Hare make similar statements.) Ronson writes:
“But surely stock-market psychopaths can’t be as bad as serial-killer psychopaths,” I said.
“Serial killers ruin families.” Bob shrugged. “Corporate and political and religious psychopaths ruin economies. They ruin societies.”
This—Bob was saying—was the straightforward solution to the greatest mystery of all: Why is the world so unfair? Why all that savage economic injustice, those brutal wars, the everyday corporate cruelty? The answer: psychopaths ”¦ We aren’t all good people just trying to do good. Some of us are psychopaths. And psychopaths are to blame for this brutal, misshapen society. They’re the jagged rocks thrown into the still pond.
I thoroughly believe that psychopaths are responsible for most of the human-caused pain in society. Ronson actually came out and said it. But unfortunately, he didn’t continue to make the case. After the statement on page 112 of the book, he never returned to the thought.
One other part of the book was enlightening. Ronson spends a few pages discussing the evolution of the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM), now in its fourth edition, with the fifth edition underway. On page 239, he explains why the mental health field has not agreed on what to call this disorder—psychopathy, sociopathy, antisocial personality disorder, whatever. He writes what he learned from Robert Spitzer, a psychiatrist who became editor of the third edition of the DSM:
I’d always wondered why there had been no mention of psychopaths in the DSM. It turned out, Spitzer told me, that there had indeed been a backstage schism—between Bob Hare and a sociologist named Lee Robins. She believed clinicians couldn’t reliably measure personality traits like empathy. She proposed dropping them from the DSM checklist and going only for overt symptoms. Bob vehemently disagreed, but the DSM committee sided with Lee Robins, and Psychopathy was abandoned for Antisocial Personality Disorder.
So there it is—the beginning of the dispute about naming the disorder and how to diagnose it, which has only kept the general public confused.
You might be entertained by this book—Ronson’s writing style is engaging, and the historical background is interesting. But if you’ve had a close encounter with your very own psychopath, you aren’t going to learn anything to help in your recovery.
“The spath is simply an emotionally arrested human being”
Skylar;
Interesting comment as it is 100% applicable to my x-spath, at least from what I learned online about. Conversely, his mask to me presented a normal adult image. His only hint at immaturity to me was his clothing style, which seemed very teen-age for a person in his mid-30s.
Only online did I see the full extent of his immaturity — very juvenile, sex and party focused profiles. And his FB profile picture that triggers me, one taken hours before we met — in it, he is sticking out his tongue.
BBE,
I know what you mean. My spath put on a cloak of adulthood in the world at large. At home, he would go thru phases of walking around the house with no clothes on except a tee-shirt and eating cheerios… who does that? a two-year old.
I think you are being very kind called them child-like. I think it’s more that because they are Narcissistic, they are unaware, of other people, society, and what is appropriate. Since, in their minds, they are the ONLY ones that exist, they don’t naturally censor their behavior.
In a crowd though (or to people they want to impress), they LEARN to censor their behavior somewhat, temporarily, in order to get what they want, and make a good impression.
Skylar;
In one online profile mine actually said something like “I have given up a grown-up job to travel the world working for an airline…”
Sarah999;
You point is well-taken too. For whatever reason, my x-spath’s Narcissistic view of himself appears to be that of an early 20s gay “boy.” Probably did him well for a while too in terms of filling his stated hobbies of “boys, beers and fooling around.”
Hard for him to do now at 38, given his crow’s feet and other pronounced facial lines. The beach, booze cigarettes and lord knows what else are catching up with him…
Justice and Sarah,
Good points both of you! Thanks for sharing!
Skylar, whatever “arrests” their development in learning to love, feeling remorse, empathy etc. it does appear that they are in some ways “stuck” at that egocentric emotional stage, which a two year old is “normal developmental behavior.” What they are NOT stuck in is the ability to MANIPULATE and FAKE the appropriate adult emotional responses. A two year old many wish to manipulate but they are not successful, like the young kid in the cookie jar, and the parent HEARS the kid moving the lid and says “Johnny are you in the cookie jar?” from the other room and the kid can’t comprehend that daddy could HEAR the jar lid clink and KNOW he was in the jar, so he LIES “Oh, no daddy” thinking he can get away with it because how could daddy possibly know he was lying? The thing is that in many ways the psychopath doesn’t realize that their lies are UN-believable, but other times they can be quite convincing.
Some are more successful at manipulation and lying and end up in the White House or the Governor’s mansion, or congress or the senate or as dictator….but it doesn’t make them any nicer people, only that they have evolved better camo to mask their true predatory selves.
Yep BBE,
and mine said, “I shouldn’t have to work, I should just play and people should give me money so I can just play.”
At the time, I thought he was saying that he enjoyed the creative aspect of work and that a job that required creativity was what he was looking for.
LOL! My spath could have shown up with a severed head and I would have made the excuse that he obviously was trying to return it to its rightful owner.
😛
Sarah,
I believe that the childish behavior is narcissism, as you say, but to me, narcissism is simply a childish attitude of seeing the world from an ego centric perspective, just as we all did when we were infants. When the spath walked around eating cheerios, he was simply regressing to his true nature.
Sarah and Justice,
Good points both of you! Thanks for sharing!
Skylar, whatever “arrests” their development in learning to love, feeling remorse, empathy etc. it does appear that they are in some ways “stuck” at that egocentric emotional stage, which a two year old is “normal developmental behavior.” What they are NOT stuck in is the ability to MANIPULATE and FAKE the appropriate adult emotional responses. A two year old many wish to manipulate but they are not successful, like the young kid in the cookie jar, and the parent HEARS the kid moving the lid and says “Johnny are you in the cookie jar?” from the other room and the kid can’t comprehend that daddy could HEAR the jar lid clink and KNOW he was in the jar, so he LIES “Oh, no daddy” thinking he can get away with it because how could daddy possibly know he was lying? The thing is that in many ways the psychopath doesn’t realize that their lies are UN-believable, but other times they can be quite convincing.
Some are more successful at manipulation and lying and end up in the White House or the Governor’s mansion, or congress or the senate or as dictator….but it doesn’t make them any nicer people, only that they have evolved better camo to mask their true predatory selves.
Yep Oxy,
nature did not intend for grown adults to continue with infantile emotions, because it makes them too dangerous to society to have so much power and no responsibility.
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