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Drew Peterson: Suspect, fiance, puppeteer

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February 9, 2009 //  by Donna Andersen//  86 Comments

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Lovefraud could have written about Drew Peterson at any time since he was declared a suspect in disappearance of his fourth wife, Stacy Peterson, who vanished on Oct. 28, 2007.

Drew Peterson, who at the time was a sergeant in the Bolingbrook, Illinois police department, didn’t seem to be at all concerned about his wife’s whereabouts, claiming that she probably left him for another man. He cheerfully talked to the media, despite sordid allegations about his past.

After Stacy disappeared, Peterson became a suspect in the death of his third wife, Kathleen Savio, who was found dead in a bathtub. While they were married, police were called to the home they shared 18 times for domestic disturbance calls. She was going after his pension as part of their contentious divorce when she died.

Peterson’s second wife, Vicki Connolly, alleged a history of abuse during her 10-year marriage to him.

So why am I writing about Drew Peterson now? Because recent events in the saga seem to reveal the role that he relishes the most: Puppeteer.

Engagement and interview

On December 17, 2008, news broke that, even though Peterson was a suspect in the disappearance of his fourth wife and the murder of his third, he was engaged again. The news was confirmed by Peterson’s lawyer, Joel Brodsky, and publicist, Glenn Selig.

Publicist? Why does a murder suspect need a publicist?

Well, probably to arrange interviews on national television. Peterson was interviewed by ABC’s Martin Bashir about his most recent engagement to Christina Raines, a 24-year-old unmarried mother of two. The interview ran on January 29, 2009 on Nightline, and on January 30, 2009 on Good Morning America.

If you want to see a grandiose, self-entitled, remorseless psychopath in action, watch how Peterson talks on the video.

  • He acknowledges that the friends and family of his young fiancé are right to be concerned.
  • He described his five years as an undercover cop as “working a con,” which was a lot of fun.
  • He admits being unfaithful to all his wives. “The big joke was that you had to lie to your girlfriend to go home and see your wife,” he said.
  • He described his reaction when he found his third wife dead in a bathtub: “It was kind of emotional. But what can you do? Life goes on.”
  • About getting involved with Christina Raines, Peterson said, “I don’t say I tricked her, but I sure romanced her real good.”
  • He admitted enjoying the early stages of romance, getting married, then losing interest in the relationship and looking elsewhere. He wants the excitement. “Why should I live without it?” he asks.

Both Peterson’s lawyer and publicist termed the portrayal of the former cop, now a suspect, as accurate.

Engagement a “stunt”

Good Morning America reported the latest twist in the story on Saturday, January 31. Because of the interview, Peterson’s fiancé, Christina Raines, had broken off the engagement. Peterson told the reporter, Martin Bashir, that “she called him a liar, packed her bags and left.”

Last week, the story got even more bizarre. On Monday, February 2, Christina Raines and her father, Ernie Raines, went on The Early Show. Although Christina dated Peterson and moved in with him for several weeks, she said it was never really an engagement—it was a stunt. “He told me that his lawyer had wanted him to be in the media and wanted to propose to someone at a restaurant,” Christina said.

Then, on Friday, February 6, Christina Raines testified before the grand jury that is investigating the disappearance of Peterson’s fourth wife and the death of his third.

Puppeteer Peterson

My guess is that Drew Peterson doesn’t really care what happens to him—if he gets indicted for murder, if he is found guilty, if he goes to prison. Right now, he’s having a great time as Puppeteer Peterson, pulling the strings and watching everyone else dance.

He convinces a naïve and vulnerable girl to date him, and watches her father go ballistic, calling the state police, who can do nothing. He’s spotted at a dance club with a woman who is not his new fiancé and it’s reported as news. He decides to do an interview, the reporter brags about an “exclusive,” and he sees himself on prime time TV and the morning talk shows.

Who cares about the future? Who cares about the truth? Right now, Drew Peterson is probably living his dream, manipulating people in front of a live national audience.

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  1. witsend

    March 30, 2010 at 10:14 pm

    One Step,
    we are just a tidy bunch over here….Tidying up all day. Smileys everywhere.

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  2. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    March 30, 2010 at 10:18 pm

    did it last long after i left?

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  3. witsend

    March 30, 2010 at 10:22 pm

    One,
    I didn’t see much more but I got off after a bit. It is to uncomfortable when they are around.

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  4. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    March 30, 2010 at 10:30 pm

    I go in to high gear in these acute situations. (i am less good with the chronic situaions when people come and hang around for weeks and cause trouble s-l-o-w-l-y).

    We need to start talking about what will happen when donna’s book comes out – cause we will have a lot more traffic, and the spath index will no doubt, go up.

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  5. witsend

    March 30, 2010 at 10:35 pm

    One,
    I think that we all are doing really well when they come trolling. No one engages with them. Post around them.

    But they do trigger. This one bothered me because there was no mask right from the get go. Just vulgar.
    But the biggest trigger for me personally was youth.

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  6. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    March 30, 2010 at 10:39 pm

    ahhhh, of course 🙁

    well, this has just been a peachy day all round, hasn’t it!?

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  7. witsend

    March 30, 2010 at 10:41 pm

    One,
    I have had worse! No comparison to last thursday 🙂
    I will take a day like this anytime.

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  8. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    March 30, 2010 at 10:47 pm

    gotcha!

    the slurry nasty words on here – i don’t even see them. i skim right over to the report abuse button. remember the last one on here ?- called me the c word because i was being protective.. alright!

    i reclaimed that word a loooong time ago (lesbians get called lots of horrid names) and it’s pretty hard to wound me with profanity ’cause i know it’s not personal. it would be different if it was someone i had cared for.

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  9. Donna Andersen

    September 7, 2012 at 9:47 am

    The puppeteer is no longer pulling the strings: Drew Peterson convicted.

    Drew Peterson verdict: Former cop convicted of murdering 3rd wife Kathleen Savio

    http://www.newsday.com/news/nation/drew-peterson-verdict-former-cop-convicted-of-murdering-3rd-wife-kathleen-savio-1.3959212

    Family of Stacy Peterson hopes for justice

    http://www.foxnews.com/us/2012/09/07/family-stacy-peterson-hopes-for-justice-after-drew-peterson-convicted-third/

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  10. cappuccinoqueen

    September 7, 2012 at 10:08 am

    Amen! I hope my ex is next to finally be brought to justice. I was happy to see how circumstantial evidence could still be used and still expose this man for who he really is.

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