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Facebook, bigamy and kidnapping

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August 5, 2010 //  by Donna Andersen//  36 Comments

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Lynn France typed the name of the woman she suspected was having an affair with her husband into Facebook. Not only did she find her, but she found that the woman and her husband had gotten married at Walt Disney World—a wedding photo album was posted right there on Facebook.

John France—the husband—doesn’t deny that he is remarried. But he insists that he was never married to Lynn in the first place, even though they had a wedding ceremony in Italy, lived together and had two children.

Then three months ago, John France kidnapped the couple’s two children and took them to Florida, where he lives with his new wife.

Read On Facebook, wife learns of husband’s second wedding on Yahoo News.

Link supplied by a Lovefraud reader.

Watch Lynn France’s appearance on the Today Show.

Watch John France’s appearance on the Today Show.

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  1. Ox Drover

    August 5, 2010 at 11:49 pm

    Dear Purewater,

    That is what THEY DO, they tell enough lies that you know are LIES, and tell them with a straight face, and you are worried to death about your kids welfare and YOU come off looking like the NUTJOB and HE comes off looking okay.

    How many of you here have been accused of being “crazy”-=–okay, let me see, 100% of us….

    How many of you have thought you were becoming crazy—raise your hands, okay that’s 99% of us….

    How many of you thought that no one in the world would believe you but everyone believed him/her/it when they told the wildest lies about you? Okay, I see by a show of hands that is 98% of us…

    And I could go on down the line, and I think regardless of the question, about 90+ percent of us would have had the same things….they are so much alike in some ways that we have joked here for years that there is only ONE male p and one female P and they are dating all of us. LOL If that weren’t so true it would almost be funny. They do act like they get their moves out of a PLAYBOOK, or have the same life COACH.

    Hey, Dancing warrior, our resident bigamist’s wife, where are you when another victim needs you to hold her hand?

    Yea, this poor woman may feel like she is crazy, but you know what, her circumstances are so CRAZY that hopefully a judge will see the light and after the kidnapping incident that give the man no visitation rights to the kids. We know he isn’t going to pay any child support, but I think he took the kids because he wanted to hurt the previous victim in her most vulnerable spot.

    I shake my head and when I think I have “seen it all” I find another one that is “worse”—he may not have killed her and cut up her body into little pieces, or buried her in the desert, but bless her heart, he has stabbed her soul and raped it. I pray that God will hold her in the palm of his hand!

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  2. annmarie56

    August 6, 2010 at 1:16 am

    Hello all,

    I’ve been reading Lovefraud for about a year or so…I only wish I had known about spaths 15 years ago! I feel right at home here; my ex-husband just about did drive me crazy, and actually tried to get me committed. Lied to all about how crazy I was, that I was cheating (when he was the cheating one–even bringing women home to our bed). I ended up with PTSD and depression. My three kids lived this nightmare with me, and unfortunately, I lost one to suicide almost 4 years ago. I suspect he also had PTSD but it was undiagnosed. That loss will be with me for the rest of my life on this earth. I only wish I had left my ex sooner.

    Now I am seeing spath qualities with one of my sisters, and I realize now how I ended up marrying the guy I did. Thankfully, I am states away from my sister, and have gone NC with her. I just moved states away from my ex, too, and hope that he is too busy with the woman he’s with now to bother me.

    I didn’t know anything about spaths back when I was with him, but I learned the hard way. And yes, he has fooled lots of people. Thankfully, there are some who believed me. But his stories in our small town helped me to lose a job I had worked for over 5 years to get.

    Many have asked why I don’t sue him, but the emotional cost to me would be pretty high, I’m afraid. I do want to write my story so that the TRUTH can come out,and I also hope that my story will help some other woman to get out before it’s too late.

    Thanks for giving me a place to vent. So many people are ignorant of what we have lived through. It is a blessing to have Lovefraud here!

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  3. Ox Drover

    August 6, 2010 at 2:08 am

    Dear Annmarie56,

    I’m glad you are here and sooo so very sorry about your daughter and the hell you and your children have been through. There are others here who have lost sibs and others to suicide through the years so you are not alone in that aspect either. ((((Hugs)))))

    This is a wonderful place and I am glad that in spite of the PTSD you and doing well, have moved to a new place and starting over, also that you are NC with your sister as well. They do set us up to endure this kind of behavior as “normal” when it isn’t.

    I am so glad too that you had the wisdom and courage to forego the suing him, the cost so many times is way more than it is worth even if we win…we lose.

    God bless you and keep you safe and keep you in peace, and your children as well. LF is a blessing and success stories such as yours (and yes you ARE A SUCCESS STORY) will help and encourage others.

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  4. Frank Lee Speaking

    August 6, 2010 at 8:27 am

    Incredible! If this was in a movie people would laugh and call it unrealistic.

    There are days (and I do not mean this to belittle victims) when I think that most sociopaths are performance artists. Their stunts are so off the scale they are almost beyond absurdity.

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  5. Frank Lee Speaking

    August 6, 2010 at 8:30 am

    Getting married at Disney…

    Let me get this correct. Adults actually have their weddings performed by Mickey Mouse!

    Imagine telling your kids “My mom and me were so serious about our relationship that we wanted it validated in the eyes of Donald Duck.” LOL! I am sorry, not to make fun of the victims of this story. But jeez.

    I need to go lie down now. This is too much.

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  6. Frank Lee Speaking

    August 6, 2010 at 8:44 am

    Look at him. He is repulsive and he has a young pretty girl on his arm. I mean, I am no oil painting myself but he is just horrid to look at. Even the way he is dressed is tacky. No class, none.

    http://www.tampabay.com/news/courts/tampa-man-calls-assertions-he-led-double-life-completely-absurd/1113310

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  7. bulletproof

    August 6, 2010 at 9:20 am

    I’m laughing Frank Lee at the thought of my marriage being performed by Mickey Mouse…or Donald Duck..but some marriages …that were witnessed by the pope or fantabulous priests ARE mickey mouse marriages because of the people involved…so the mickey mouse marriages are a tad more honest…
    Laughing again…man he really is repulsive looking!! ha ha ha oh I’m so glad I’m not on his arm…or any arm…I have my own arms…hee hee..look at the big Hollywood head on him…oh no …too much! but when I look back on the P …he is now repulsive to me…he kind of changed from Adonis into A total creep!!! it’s the person inside which makes a person truly attractive…Facebook…is all about the FACE which is the front, the facade…thanks for the educational laugh!

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  8. Frank Lee Speaking

    August 6, 2010 at 9:25 am

    Oh I agree. But there is just something so absurd about a “serious” wedding at Disney!

    People are always “Grumpy” at weedings, but at Disney it is literal…LOL

    And as for Dear John’s photo…so mush for sociopaths all being attractive.

    I actually feel beautiful looking at his photo.

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  9. Donna Andersen

    August 6, 2010 at 9:25 am

    Both Lynn France and John France have appeared on the Today Show. Here are the links:

    Lynn France:

    http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/38535579/ns/18424824

    John France:

    http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/38572863/ns/38573588

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  10. Frank Lee Speaking

    August 6, 2010 at 9:33 am

    Watching the video the new young wife has that sociopath smile with the teeth and not the eyes…

    I love the line about “the wedding not being legal” – only a sociopath thinks like that. Can’t hold his hands up and say he got caught. Right out of the Psychopath Handbook.

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