It’s an ambitious project—attempting to explain psychopaths in global leadership positions, a possible cause of what looks like psychopathic behavior, and what to do about it all. This is the documentary film, I am <fishead(, produced and directed by Misha Votruba and Vaclav Dejcmar.
Here’s a clip, featuring Dr. Robert Hare, the guru of psychopathy:
[youtube_sc url=http://youtu.be/xiDhVdCjaok rel=0 fs=1 autohide=1 modestbranding=1]Corporate psychopaths
Fishead is divided into three parts. Part 1 is about psychopaths, specifically corporate psychopaths, who are blamed for the global financial meltdown that began in 2008. This is probably true, although the only individual named is Bernie Madoff.
The authors of Snakes in Suits, Dr. Robert Hare and Dr. Paul Babiak, explain psychopathy, and how psychopaths in business claw and backstab their way to the top of organizations. Hare and Babiak certainly know their stuff, and you’ll recognize their descriptions of psychopathic behavior.
But then Hare and Babiak start talking about the difference between psychopaths and sociopaths. This is a matter of debate and disagreement in the mental health field, so essentially they are expressing their opinions and preferences, not fact. Hare mentions that the film Reservoir Dogs highlights the difference between psychopaths and sociopaths—apparently one kills because he has to and another kills because he likes it. But Hare didn’t specify which was which, and I wasn’t sure. My contention, of course, is that from the point of view of the dead guy, it doesn’t matter.
Antidepressants
Part 2 of Fishead goes off in a different direction. It’s about “happy pills—”antidepressants. As you watch, you may wonder if the filmmakers are claiming that antidepressants cause psychopathy, but they don’t quite go that far. Here’s what they write:
The second part of the film touches on how, for a small number of people, overuse of antidepressants can result in behaviors that appear to mimic some psychopathic features. Although overuse of these medications will not produce psychopathy, they may stifle emotion and decrease the user’s ability to feel empathy.
Actually, I think the real problem with antidepressants may not be that it makes users behave in sociopathic ways, but rather, antidepressants enable victims to tolerate sociopathic behavior in others.
For example, in my upcoming book, Red Flags of Lovefraud, I have a chapter on protecting yourself from predators. In the Internet survey that Lovefraud conducted last year, we asked if people involved in romantic relationships with sociopaths had an intuition or gut feeling early on that something was wrong. A whopping 71 percent of respondents answered yes. And 40 percent ignored their intuition.
Why? One woman explained:
I ignored it because I loved him. After a time he convinced me there was something wrong with ME and convinced me to go on antidepressants. The drugs mellowed me and I lost that feeling.
I’ve heard stories like this one many times—sociopaths are causing distress and to cope with it, the victims go on drugs. This can be the problem with antidepressants. We are upset because something is WRONG! If we no longer feel upset, we don’t try to change what is WRONG!
Change
The third part of the documentary asks the question, “So what do we do about all of this?”
Fishead talks about the work of Dr. Stanley Milgram, who conducted numerous famous experiments showing that most people will administer electric shocks to others, even though they know the person is being hurt, if they are directed to do it by someone in authority. But it points out an interesting experiment that is not as well known. Dr. Milgram also found that if the experiment subjects first saw someone refuse to administer the shocks, they were much more likely to refuse as well.
The point is that when people stand up to authority, or evil, it gives others the courage to stand up as well. In fact, the filmmakers say it only takes 5 percent of the people in a group to behave differently for the entire group to be influenced.
Food for thought
I am <fishead( is a well-made film. Artistically, it has an art-house feel to it, with stark backdrops for the guest expert interviews and clever animation. And, the film is narrated by the actor Peter Coyote.
Although I don’t agree with all the points, the film does a good job of drawing attention to what is probably the biggest hidden problem facing our society: the outsized damage caused by psychopaths (sociopaths). And it challenges us: What are we going to do about it?
For more about the movie, visit the website: Fisheadmovie.com.
You can watch the movie on the Internet—the length is 1 hour, 17 minutes. Just click the “where to see” link, and email the producers to get your free password.
I will have to go to a Starbucks, but I want to see this movie.
As for Dr. Hare’s differences between a Psycho- and a socio-path (and I think the man is a genius, don’t get me wrong) is because one HAS to kill and the other ENJOYS killing….I think that is splitting hairs, just as not all “depressed” people are depressed exactly the same way it doesn’t mean we need to split hairs on calling the patients d-pressed and e-pressed LOL
There needs to be SOME KIND OF AGREEMENT between professionals on the NAME FOR THIS DISORDER….as it is right now, the public has NOT GOT A CLUE what a psycho- socio-path or ANTI-SOCIAL personality disorder. Frankly the last one sounds like a guy who is a HERMIT to me and I am somewhat “trained” in psychology. LOL
I WILL do what I have to to see this movie though. Thanks Donna.
I loved this movie! It is fantastic to get the names of the disorder “out there”. Most people have NO idea they have ever met a psychopath and prefer to not even think about the possibility.
I didn’t agree with everything in the movie, either, but I thought it was very good for “challenging our thinking” and something to get discussions going. The only problems is, it is hard to get people to watch something that long because they are used to watching “clips” instead of a movie over one hour long. One night , we had a “girls night out” with some friends and snacks and drinks and watched the movie on a friend’s TV. It was an idea I would like to share and see if you can get other people to watch it with you!
emailing to get the password is slow, a pain in the butt. so here it is: fhmovie -all lower case letters.
GREAT movie, makes ya think and more important, makes ya ADAMENT to be one of the 5%!
I saw the movie and enjoyed it. It was informative. Oxy, I hope you get to watch it soon.
Yes, the movie is excellent and gives us more validation and not just from one anothers experiences, but from a scientific perception. It helps a lot when you change your whole perception of the experience. When you see it for what it really is and recognize that the only sensible thing to do is to sever yourself from the environment for your own safety, psychologically or otherwise.
I think this movie should be shown in all high school health classes across the United States and that we owe it to our children and our children’s children to make this recognizable to those we love.
If we take our bad experience and grab a hold of it and pull it to a complete stop and redirect all this negative energy we have expended thus far on these cold people, just think of all the good we could achieve in the world with the positivity! Perhaps it would become so positive, these pathetic souls would not have room to flourish among us.
OX: YOU MUST SEE THIS MOVIE!
Dupey
Donna,
thank you for writing about our film on your blog. We appreciate it very much.
I want to invite all viewers of the film to become fans on facebook and stay connected.
I agree with KatyDid that emailing for the password is inconvenient. We have a standing agreement with some film festivals and global distributors. We agreed to limit the free spread of the film on the internet in exchange for the opportunity to be shown at their venues.
On the other hand we are glad that so many people have seen I am <fishead( "unofficially" and found the experience worthwhile.
Misha V.
Misha,
Thank you for your work spreading the news about psychopaths. Nothing could be more important.
I wish you would make this film available to the Occupy Wall street Movement. They seem unaware that they are fighting psychopaths, consequently, they don’t know how to go about winning. One of the most important things to know about winning against spaths, is that you CANNOT GIVE THEM DRAMA. Yet, that is exactly what the occupy movement brings to the table. A strategy for dealing with the spath has to include a coordinated effort AGAINST FEEDING THEM OUR EMOTIONS.
OH Wow. A msg from Misha.
I’d love to know what inspired them to make this particular movie.
And has it gone viral like I’d hope? Are they able to track geographic viewing, who/where it’s watched most?
Maybe this movie will make a difference in this indifferent world? … encouraging people to make the decision to BE one of the 5% b/c they Won’t be alone.
Dupey, I do intend to watch this movie, but I will have to go to a wi-fi spot in order to watch it.
Today was a REALLY DIFFICULT DAY for me today…my son D and I went to town and on the way out of town we stopped by this display of “yard art” which was cast aluminum animals (llife sized buffalos, elk, deer, horses, etc. and weren’t planning to buy, but just walk around and look….and I glanced up in time to see the man who was the pilot that killed my husband, and he is also the father of the psychopathic girl that my son D was engaged to, and is married to a “card carrying” psychopathic wife….who is the “county punch board” and every one including him knows it but he stays anyway. He is also unethical and very greedy and after his incompetence killed my husband, he tried to cheat me out of a few thousand dollars that he owed me, admitted he owed me, had plenty of money with which to pay me, but tried to cheat me out of it. Fortunately, he was not able to because even then, I wasn’t a complete fool.
Before running into this jerk and his jerket wife, I had been to the taxidermy store where the guy had ruined a long-haired Scottish Highland cow hide I had sent to be tanned (over two years ago and am just now getting back) and he tried to blame me for the hair slippage and the large bald spots on the hide….when you don’t want to take responsibility for the bad quality of your work, blame the customer. If that dog won’t hunt, you tell the customer that your mother had to pay for the hides being shipped and tanned and that she is now out all this money. That dog wouldn’t hunt either. I didn’t pay for the hide and told him to stick it. Unfortunately, I still have two hides in process and a steer head, so not sure what will happen with all that.
Dearest Oxy,
I can’t imagine your heart right now. Well, can a little b/c the mom in me makes me want to ROAR up on the MFr for messing with you. But I know it’s a lot more than that. I wish I were nearby so I could run over and be there for you face to face. It’s late so I hope you see this post and that you remember, you are not alone.
With all my best care and concern,
Katy