It’s an ambitious project—attempting to explain psychopaths in global leadership positions, a possible cause of what looks like psychopathic behavior, and what to do about it all. This is the documentary film, I am <fishead(, produced and directed by Misha Votruba and Vaclav Dejcmar.
Here’s a clip, featuring Dr. Robert Hare, the guru of psychopathy:
[youtube_sc url=http://youtu.be/xiDhVdCjaok rel=0 fs=1 autohide=1 modestbranding=1]Corporate psychopaths
Fishead is divided into three parts. Part 1 is about psychopaths, specifically corporate psychopaths, who are blamed for the global financial meltdown that began in 2008. This is probably true, although the only individual named is Bernie Madoff.
The authors of Snakes in Suits, Dr. Robert Hare and Dr. Paul Babiak, explain psychopathy, and how psychopaths in business claw and backstab their way to the top of organizations. Hare and Babiak certainly know their stuff, and you’ll recognize their descriptions of psychopathic behavior.
But then Hare and Babiak start talking about the difference between psychopaths and sociopaths. This is a matter of debate and disagreement in the mental health field, so essentially they are expressing their opinions and preferences, not fact. Hare mentions that the film Reservoir Dogs highlights the difference between psychopaths and sociopaths—apparently one kills because he has to and another kills because he likes it. But Hare didn’t specify which was which, and I wasn’t sure. My contention, of course, is that from the point of view of the dead guy, it doesn’t matter.
Antidepressants
Part 2 of Fishead goes off in a different direction. It’s about “happy pills—”antidepressants. As you watch, you may wonder if the filmmakers are claiming that antidepressants cause psychopathy, but they don’t quite go that far. Here’s what they write:
The second part of the film touches on how, for a small number of people, overuse of antidepressants can result in behaviors that appear to mimic some psychopathic features. Although overuse of these medications will not produce psychopathy, they may stifle emotion and decrease the user’s ability to feel empathy.
Actually, I think the real problem with antidepressants may not be that it makes users behave in sociopathic ways, but rather, antidepressants enable victims to tolerate sociopathic behavior in others.
For example, in my upcoming book, Red Flags of Lovefraud, I have a chapter on protecting yourself from predators. In the Internet survey that Lovefraud conducted last year, we asked if people involved in romantic relationships with sociopaths had an intuition or gut feeling early on that something was wrong. A whopping 71 percent of respondents answered yes. And 40 percent ignored their intuition.
Why? One woman explained:
I ignored it because I loved him. After a time he convinced me there was something wrong with ME and convinced me to go on antidepressants. The drugs mellowed me and I lost that feeling.
I’ve heard stories like this one many times—sociopaths are causing distress and to cope with it, the victims go on drugs. This can be the problem with antidepressants. We are upset because something is WRONG! If we no longer feel upset, we don’t try to change what is WRONG!
Change
The third part of the documentary asks the question, “So what do we do about all of this?”
Fishead talks about the work of Dr. Stanley Milgram, who conducted numerous famous experiments showing that most people will administer electric shocks to others, even though they know the person is being hurt, if they are directed to do it by someone in authority. But it points out an interesting experiment that is not as well known. Dr. Milgram also found that if the experiment subjects first saw someone refuse to administer the shocks, they were much more likely to refuse as well.
The point is that when people stand up to authority, or evil, it gives others the courage to stand up as well. In fact, the filmmakers say it only takes 5 percent of the people in a group to behave differently for the entire group to be influenced.
Food for thought
I am <fishead( is a well-made film. Artistically, it has an art-house feel to it, with stark backdrops for the guest expert interviews and clever animation. And, the film is narrated by the actor Peter Coyote.
Although I don’t agree with all the points, the film does a good job of drawing attention to what is probably the biggest hidden problem facing our society: the outsized damage caused by psychopaths (sociopaths). And it challenges us: What are we going to do about it?
For more about the movie, visit the website: Fisheadmovie.com.
You can watch the movie on the Internet—the length is 1 hour, 17 minutes. Just click the “where to see” link, and email the producers to get your free password.
Stargazer
I was looking at a larger picture.
Beyond individual spaths doing their normal evil work, harming lots of people but no one knows them in the next town. I was thinking more in the way of the film, where spaths harm whole societies. HOW do we, the individuals who are AWAKE, tell a society that the emperor has no clothes? That is the quest that I seek.
Sounds fascinating, Sky. I think Ann Rule wrote the book about Diane Downs, didn’t she? That was another fascinating read. I got an education about sociopaths back in the 80’s when I read that. But unfortunately, it had no bearing on my falling for one 4 years ago. Getting the word out apparently is not enough.
I have so much else to say about your comment about being trained to feel pity but will save it for another time so I can go to bed soon.
Katy, I have not yet seen the film, so my response would be uninformed. But it’s an excellent question, and I will have to think on it when I’m not so sleepy. Thanks for the lively and intelligent debate.
Good night, everyone.
Stargazer
I am not a social activist. So I am not able to reason from that perspective. But I do believe in the power of the story and I think a good story changes peoples perspectives. So for me, any solution would come from that agent of change. Thanks for giving me food for thought. Sleep well.
Stargazer,
” I don’t think we’re evil because we’re not standing up to these people. We’re just in self-preservation mode.”
Totally agree. Fear is what prevents some people from standing up for what is right
Fear and love cannot coexist. Love conquers fear. We stand up for what is right when we have enough love to do so. That is why learning to love is such a critical part of conquering spaths. They cannot cow us into submission when we have enough love.
That said, I have watched too many of the spath’s minions enjoy the show immensely when he was conning me and trying to get me to commit suicide. Do not imagine that these were low lifes living under a bridge. One was a bank manager, one was retired and active in the community, another was a husband and wife who have/had their own construction business, another was a retired old woman who looks like the quintessential grandma. Several others were cops and include the county sheriff.
My spath is charismatic and can inspire the fencesitters to join in the game. They don’t have love in their hearts but they don’t have fear either. They have malice and envy.
You can recognize the fence sitters by their obsession with material possessions.
skylar: in my world fear and love DOES exist.
All at the same time. I care for “IT” and always have,
however, I DO know to ‘step away’ – I know when it’s time
to step away….
Love does not conquer fear.
Affections only ‘mask’ the fear and leaves us vulnerable.
We stand up for what is right when we are courageous enough to do so. Standing up for what you believe and that which is right does not take any love at all. It takes knowing ourselves and what we find acceptable and do not find acceptable.
You are right: they can NOT ‘cow’ us into submission when we value and know our worth.
Oh yes, they ARE all charismatic and charming…
It doesn’t work anymore.
Love and fear CAN and DOES coexist…
Happy day skylar…
Dupey
Well, I will agree that if I’m afraid of consequences to the lives of my animals (who are my kids), I will avoid a confrontation. I suppose it is cowardly, but I love them more than I love justice. I worry about their safety more than my own because they are helpless and cannot defend themselves. I agree that there is fear involved in survival and self-preservation. And I think when more people are willing to risk life and limb for what they believe in, there will be more change. Truly courageous people risk their lives for their beliefs. How many of us are doing that?
Dupey
I loved my mother with my whole heart. I feared her too. So also in my world, the two emotions coexisted.
Stargazer
I actually don’t believe in justice. My life experiences have taught me that justice is a false idol. My spath lived for revenge on those he decided did him wrong (justice). I think people who are harmed by evil RARELY get justice. I believe that people who are harmed are better off pursuing quality of life than pursuing justice.
But I DO believe in sacrifice, I have sacrificed for my daughter and that kind of sacrifice was NOT painful. There are all kinds of example that I think people can give to show that doing what’s best for their loved ones is NOT cowardly, but a show of emotional strength.
So while I LIKE justice, and wish for/prefer justice for those who have been truly harmed, I don’t think it’s a life path. I think IF it happens or can be made to happen, it’s healing or helpful. But not the only way a person can achieve a satisfying life. And obviously, the way my X! husband pursued justice (via revenge) is an example of dysfunctional justice.
Dupey,
I thought it was love also, but it was really a trauma bond, a type of addiction. Those of us who were raised by abusive parents, tend to fall into this trap.
http://dianestelling.com/nofear.html
For a great book about the perils of sacrificial love, read the true story by Ann Rule, “Everything She Ever Wanted.” The spath in the story had a mother who could never say no to her. So she never grew up. Instead she poisoned people. She’s over 70 years old now and was recently arrested again. (they keep letting her out)