By Ox Drover
As an advanced practice nurse, one of the things I did here in the rural area where parasites are common was warn people about the many diseases, several of them potentially fatal, caused by a common parasite, the tick.
Here on LoveFraud we often refer to psychopaths as “parasites” because, like a common blood-sucking tick, they feed off of a host, without giving any benefit to the host, or giving any more thought to the damage they do to the host than a common tick does as he burrows into your flesh.
In the warmer months of the year, the tick searches for anything that is warm and moves and can actually leap small distances to latch on to the host. They like to burrow into the skin in a “tight spot,” like under your waistband or some other hidden area. Frequently, too, they will actually group up in one spot on the host, and when you detach the biggest tick on top, you will find several other smaller ones hidden beneath who are also sucking blood from the same spot.
Parasites, just like the psychopath, take without giving. Sometimes the parasites actually do give you something, but it is usually in the form of some noxious, toxic and potentially fatal or debilitating disease. In the case of ticks, one of the more common diseases they pass on is Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, which is a disease caused not by their bite, but by an infectious agent in their feces which can actually pass through intact skin. A few days after the tick has either dropped off voluntarily, sated with the host’s blood, or been pulled off, frequently leaving behind both feces and mouth parts imbedded in the skin, the host will start to feel ill and run a fever. People with RMSF usually break out in a rash that resembles measles. Frequently the host doesn’t even realize what has happened, and may not actually remember being bitten by a tick. With prompt treatment, 93 percent of the victims will live, but without treatment, as many as 20 percent of the victims will die of either the disease itself or complications induced by the illness.
My bout with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever
A couple of summers ago, I noticed that I wasn’t feeling well. It was during the worst of the fear and chaos of my experience with a multitude of psychopaths all at once, so I wasn’t thinking really clearly in any case. I attributed my “feeling bad” to the stress I was under for a couple of months until I became so weak I could not even climb a flight of stairs or stand up long enough to wash a small sink full of dishes by hand. I had noticed a tick bite, one that had been on me for at least 24, and probably 36 hours, before I noticed it and removed it.
When I became so ill that I literally was as “weak as a kitten” I finally decided to put a thermometer in my mouth and found I had a fever of 101 degrees, so I called my physician. He drew blood after I had reported to him the tick bite a couple of months before, and sure enough, I had Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, though I had not broken out in the usual rash. I was so ill however, that my physician scheduled a battery of other tests and an appointment is a blood specialist and an infectious disease specialist. It took me almost a year to regain my strength and to start to feel better, but fortunately I ended up not having any lasting effects from the disease.
Remove the parasite promptly
Like ticks, psychopaths usually take a little time to not only suck your blood, but to transmit disease. If ticks are removed promptly, even if they have bitten you, there is little likelihood that they will infect you with something fatal. If they have time to deeply burrow into your skin, the longer they are there, the greater the likelihood that they will leave something behind that will cause problems for you. It may only be a painful, red, itching lesion that seems to drive you crazy with wanting to scratch to the bone, or it may be a disease that will land you in the ICU or the morgue, or cripple you with arthritis later on, like Lymes.
Not all diseases passed on to humans or other mammals by ticks and other parasites are as easily identifiable as RMSF. Some diseases that are potentially fatal have no reliable blood test to indicate that they are present. The person feels bad, but there is no objective symptom that can be identified either by the victim or the medical practitioner until great damage has occurred. These occult (unidentified) diseases may go undetected for months or years, doing their damage to the victim that is irreversible.
The psychopath and the tick
There is so much similarity between the psychopath and the tick, as well as other parasites. They burrow into our flesh and almost, in some cases, become part of us, while they suck our blood, and infect us with their toxic waste. They may not even appear to be so evil. “It’s just a bug bite, get over it,” our friends and family may say. Though we may become very ill from our even short association with these creatures, the illness may not be apparent to the naked eye like, say, a broken leg would be. We may struggle with the itch, the fever, the weakness, and the general debility left behind and not even realize that we have been infected with pathogens that can ruin or end our lives.
In addition to ticks attaching to us as we walk through grass or brush, ticks may also latch on to our pets or other family members, and thus gain entrance into our homes and lives by hitching a ride on our friends and pets. The tick may not even attack the pet or family member, but instead jump off on to our skin for his blood meal, using the intermediary only for transportation to get to us.
Look out for parasites
As I told the patients in my clinic, you need to be on the look out for ticks. If you or any member of your family, or pets, go anywhere in the summer time where there is grass, you should do a complete daily check for ticks, and carefully remove any that you find. Immediately wash the area and mark the date on the calendar, so that you can be on the look out for any sign of disease from even a short association with these creatures. If the symptoms of any kind of disease show up, seek medical attention immediately.
I think that same advice is useful for people who don’t live on a desert island alone, but live in the real world in which they may encounter psychopaths. I suggest that we all do a daily check of our lives to see if anyone we are dealing with even looks or acts at all like a parasite. If we see a parasite, quickly remove that parasite from our life. Wash all traces of them off of us. Then keep our eyes open for any covert damage that they have done to our life so that we can seek proper treatment as soon as possible.
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Dear Pilgrimage,
Ticks tend to crawl UP, so tuck your pants legs inside your socks, you can sprinkle flowers of sulfur (your local phramacy can get it for you) on the outside of your clothes.
Tuck your shirt tail into your pants top, and wear long sleeves that are very light colored so the ticks show up on your clothes. (take extra clothing along so if you get mobbed you can change) also a little bit of lamp oil, mineral oil, or even olive oil rubbed over your skin on top of the ticks will “smother” them (they breathe through their skin) when we get the teeny tiny ones that are like a tiny speck they get on you by the 1000s at a time, and I will wiped down my skin withh the oil and it smothers them, be liberal, have a “Massola party” with the oil! It won’t hurt you and will keep them from biting!
Make sure you get a friend or a mirror to checki ALL body surfaces WELL when you get back to the house. They ARE creepy things, and UGLY! Just like the heart of a psychopath!
I’ll keep that in mind ox, when i start dating again….
🙂
Dear ErinB,
You are too kinky for me. Using a single feather to tickle your lover is kinky, using the whole chicken is perverted! 😉
KINKY????
I suggested to myself I do your Mazola tick routine to keep tick/spathes off me….if I don’t spot em first I can smother them before they suck me dry…..(a spath date)
Put your chickens and feathers away darlen…..
Check yourself Oxy-moxy…..
🙂
lol @....... “I’ll keep that in mind ox, when i start dating again” And thank you ox for the extra tick protection/prevention advice…the advice on here has not failed me yet. What a life saving site this is…truly.
Yea, the blamed ticks are almost as bad as the Ps, esp around here. Back in the days when they used DDT there were no ticks here and they made every truck with cattle from texas stop at the border and ran them through the dipping vats. Personally I’m all for DDT now! and There are so many deer, the tick carrying rats with antlers! that the tick population just gets worse and worse.
That and the buffalo gnats! sheesh, bad as the “no see’ms” up north!!! Enough to smother cattle in the creek bottoms. Even up here in the hill country they are showing up now! Almost makes me want to move to town, but actually at least with the snakes you can chop their heads off, use deet for the ticks and Mazola oil, and wasp spray for the paper wasps, and at least there are no cock roaches the size of small dogs like in Florida! With the Ps, they have closed the season on them and if you try to “bag and tag one” you better be sure you are in a state and county where “he just needed killiin” is still a proper defense, fortunately as long as it isn’t one from our county it is open season on them. Unfortuately the season is closed on most of the local ones! There are plenty of local ones too! LOL
ps ErinB, there are only about 7,000 people in my county, and that means even if Ps are 4% that would only be 280 psychopaths in the county (most of them are actually in county government or work for the county road crew) and since I am kin to just about everyone too close to date them, yea, even in Arkansas where you go to family reunions to hunt a date! I guess that actually makes me “safe” from the Ps in this county!
I can relate to the cockroach bit as having lived in Tex I remember the roaches actually having meat that you could see when you killed them. Maybe it was my imagination? lol And just in case. I was meaning this was “a life saving site” as far as info. on sociopaths….and the tick info is great too:) I don’t post very much on here but I do read all the threads and thanks for all your wise words, ox.
Dear Pilgrimage,
I love your screen name, and really that is what we all are doing is going on a pilgrimage to a new way of living! P-FREE!!!!
I guess I am in a silly mood today, but gosh I do hate the ticks and even though I am soooo glad to see the green “curtain” of leaves close around my little hole in the woods and fence me in, I dooooooo dread the coming of the ticks. Have only had one or two so far but after the RMSF (X2) got it again last summer too, but jumped on it sooner! I sure am cautious.
Anyway, glad you are here and hope you are doing well in your recovery!
I love the name “pilgrimage” too, but for different reasons. I’m a huge REM fan.
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