By Ox Drover
As an advanced practice nurse, one of the things I did here in the rural area where parasites are common was warn people about the many diseases, several of them potentially fatal, caused by a common parasite, the tick.
Here on LoveFraud we often refer to psychopaths as “parasites” because, like a common blood-sucking tick, they feed off of a host, without giving any benefit to the host, or giving any more thought to the damage they do to the host than a common tick does as he burrows into your flesh.
In the warmer months of the year, the tick searches for anything that is warm and moves and can actually leap small distances to latch on to the host. They like to burrow into the skin in a “tight spot,” like under your waistband or some other hidden area. Frequently, too, they will actually group up in one spot on the host, and when you detach the biggest tick on top, you will find several other smaller ones hidden beneath who are also sucking blood from the same spot.
Parasites, just like the psychopath, take without giving. Sometimes the parasites actually do give you something, but it is usually in the form of some noxious, toxic and potentially fatal or debilitating disease. In the case of ticks, one of the more common diseases they pass on is Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, which is a disease caused not by their bite, but by an infectious agent in their feces which can actually pass through intact skin. A few days after the tick has either dropped off voluntarily, sated with the host’s blood, or been pulled off, frequently leaving behind both feces and mouth parts imbedded in the skin, the host will start to feel ill and run a fever. People with RMSF usually break out in a rash that resembles measles. Frequently the host doesn’t even realize what has happened, and may not actually remember being bitten by a tick. With prompt treatment, 93 percent of the victims will live, but without treatment, as many as 20 percent of the victims will die of either the disease itself or complications induced by the illness.
My bout with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever
A couple of summers ago, I noticed that I wasn’t feeling well. It was during the worst of the fear and chaos of my experience with a multitude of psychopaths all at once, so I wasn’t thinking really clearly in any case. I attributed my “feeling bad” to the stress I was under for a couple of months until I became so weak I could not even climb a flight of stairs or stand up long enough to wash a small sink full of dishes by hand. I had noticed a tick bite, one that had been on me for at least 24, and probably 36 hours, before I noticed it and removed it.
When I became so ill that I literally was as “weak as a kitten” I finally decided to put a thermometer in my mouth and found I had a fever of 101 degrees, so I called my physician. He drew blood after I had reported to him the tick bite a couple of months before, and sure enough, I had Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, though I had not broken out in the usual rash. I was so ill however, that my physician scheduled a battery of other tests and an appointment is a blood specialist and an infectious disease specialist. It took me almost a year to regain my strength and to start to feel better, but fortunately I ended up not having any lasting effects from the disease.
Remove the parasite promptly
Like ticks, psychopaths usually take a little time to not only suck your blood, but to transmit disease. If ticks are removed promptly, even if they have bitten you, there is little likelihood that they will infect you with something fatal. If they have time to deeply burrow into your skin, the longer they are there, the greater the likelihood that they will leave something behind that will cause problems for you. It may only be a painful, red, itching lesion that seems to drive you crazy with wanting to scratch to the bone, or it may be a disease that will land you in the ICU or the morgue, or cripple you with arthritis later on, like Lymes.
Not all diseases passed on to humans or other mammals by ticks and other parasites are as easily identifiable as RMSF. Some diseases that are potentially fatal have no reliable blood test to indicate that they are present. The person feels bad, but there is no objective symptom that can be identified either by the victim or the medical practitioner until great damage has occurred. These occult (unidentified) diseases may go undetected for months or years, doing their damage to the victim that is irreversible.
The psychopath and the tick
There is so much similarity between the psychopath and the tick, as well as other parasites. They burrow into our flesh and almost, in some cases, become part of us, while they suck our blood, and infect us with their toxic waste. They may not even appear to be so evil. “It’s just a bug bite, get over it,” our friends and family may say. Though we may become very ill from our even short association with these creatures, the illness may not be apparent to the naked eye like, say, a broken leg would be. We may struggle with the itch, the fever, the weakness, and the general debility left behind and not even realize that we have been infected with pathogens that can ruin or end our lives.
In addition to ticks attaching to us as we walk through grass or brush, ticks may also latch on to our pets or other family members, and thus gain entrance into our homes and lives by hitching a ride on our friends and pets. The tick may not even attack the pet or family member, but instead jump off on to our skin for his blood meal, using the intermediary only for transportation to get to us.
Look out for parasites
As I told the patients in my clinic, you need to be on the look out for ticks. If you or any member of your family, or pets, go anywhere in the summer time where there is grass, you should do a complete daily check for ticks, and carefully remove any that you find. Immediately wash the area and mark the date on the calendar, so that you can be on the look out for any sign of disease from even a short association with these creatures. If the symptoms of any kind of disease show up, seek medical attention immediately.
I think that same advice is useful for people who don’t live on a desert island alone, but live in the real world in which they may encounter psychopaths. I suggest that we all do a daily check of our lives to see if anyone we are dealing with even looks or acts at all like a parasite. If we see a parasite, quickly remove that parasite from our life. Wash all traces of them off of us. Then keep our eyes open for any covert damage that they have done to our life so that we can seek proper treatment as soon as possible.
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Yep…eventually we dont even want to talk about our ex…its embarrassing…and I have said I was involved in an unhealthy relationship in that we didnt have good communication or compatibility with some of lifes most basic and fundamental things…. I never trash talk him…I never bring him up on my own…if I am asked about my past relationship I am honest in the above way…but say Ive learned and grown from my experiences with others and ready to go forward on my own making new friends and acquaintences. LESS IS BEST RE: EXTOX TALK!!!!
SoChic: I use my experience as a way to educate others about sociopathy and psychopathy. I am careful who I speak with, and I don’t talk as if it’s a normal break-up gone horribly wrong. I have had some amazing experiences in conversation with people who have shared their own stories — things they never could have explained to anyone else, until I opened the door by speaking my truth.
One person told me that his aunt was murdered by her husband — who was laughing and joking with the guards at the trial. Mr. Charisma, he was. Until we spoke, he had no understanding at all about the nature of a psychopath. And he was studying psychology as his major in school.
Yes learn they are like a STD – sexually transmitted dysfunction. It is necessary to talk about it when you know you are affected. Necessary to learn and educate yourself about the affliction. Necessary to see why we need to change so we can avoid a similar affection. And at some point necessary to put it in the past where it belongs and focus on tomorrow.
Well said Henry!!! Towando!
LTL & Rune: I agree with both of you! It’s a good way to educate people about S’s & P’s, of course you have to be careful who you talk to and who you tell your truth to. You guys are the only ones who really know my “truth”, I’ve only told my sister about 10%!! If she knew I loaned him money I’d never hear the end of it! LOL. If it was someone I was dating I think I would just say that I had been in a unhealthy relationship… yadda yadda yadda. I guess if you are seeing someone, or get serious with someone, and you were married and have kids with the S and the new person might see some of the craziness you go through, I guess one might have to explain something (like 10% of it, ha).
If you don’t believe that ticks exist, you won’t recognize them, and you won’t know the danger of leaving them in place. You’ll know you need to get rid of them as quickly as possible, because the longer they stay attached to you, the more damage they can do.
And it doesn’t matter that you got a tick in the past, you can get another one today, and the ticks are still waiting to drop on you tomorrow as well.
We can move past the experience of the last “tick,” but we have to keep checking ourselves, and checking each other!
Rune – LTL I just fell out my chair – do you recall that CW song ‘I would like to check you for Ticks?’ lmao Goodnite to all my tick bitten friends……
On another “tick” note…. I spent the weekend on the shores of Delaware…my son spent a greater part of it crabbing on the bay as well as practically camping out by the pond for frogging for hours…running through the woods and grass and having the time of his life…I caught up on sleep and enjoyed adult time with the fam… yesterday I go to visit LF and I see Oxys wonderful insightful post about TICKS…and I shot up from the desk and said Oh my goodness I forgot to check my son for ticks!!!!!!! Something I always do when in those type of environments and totally forgot to do…well when he got home we not only had to do head to toe…but he wanted to go online and see what they look like, what they eat, what eats them, where they live….I didnt know whether to pull up a photo of a prison or a nature website!!! I went for the nature website (he is 8) and he will be getting Oxy’s article when he turns 13!!!! Thanks Oxy in more ways than one!!! xoxo
YES HENRY OMG!!! LOL>>>>BRAD PAISLEY!!! I Couldnt believe it went to number one!!!! !LOL
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KvHB4zpNX4
wouldnt mind checking Brad for ticks – ok ok i am off to bed…..