By Ox Drover
As an advanced practice nurse, one of the things I did here in the rural area where parasites are common was warn people about the many diseases, several of them potentially fatal, caused by a common parasite, the tick.
Here on LoveFraud we often refer to psychopaths as “parasites” because, like a common blood-sucking tick, they feed off of a host, without giving any benefit to the host, or giving any more thought to the damage they do to the host than a common tick does as he burrows into your flesh.
In the warmer months of the year, the tick searches for anything that is warm and moves and can actually leap small distances to latch on to the host. They like to burrow into the skin in a “tight spot,” like under your waistband or some other hidden area. Frequently, too, they will actually group up in one spot on the host, and when you detach the biggest tick on top, you will find several other smaller ones hidden beneath who are also sucking blood from the same spot.
Parasites, just like the psychopath, take without giving. Sometimes the parasites actually do give you something, but it is usually in the form of some noxious, toxic and potentially fatal or debilitating disease. In the case of ticks, one of the more common diseases they pass on is Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, which is a disease caused not by their bite, but by an infectious agent in their feces which can actually pass through intact skin. A few days after the tick has either dropped off voluntarily, sated with the host’s blood, or been pulled off, frequently leaving behind both feces and mouth parts imbedded in the skin, the host will start to feel ill and run a fever. People with RMSF usually break out in a rash that resembles measles. Frequently the host doesn’t even realize what has happened, and may not actually remember being bitten by a tick. With prompt treatment, 93 percent of the victims will live, but without treatment, as many as 20 percent of the victims will die of either the disease itself or complications induced by the illness.
My bout with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever
A couple of summers ago, I noticed that I wasn’t feeling well. It was during the worst of the fear and chaos of my experience with a multitude of psychopaths all at once, so I wasn’t thinking really clearly in any case. I attributed my “feeling bad” to the stress I was under for a couple of months until I became so weak I could not even climb a flight of stairs or stand up long enough to wash a small sink full of dishes by hand. I had noticed a tick bite, one that had been on me for at least 24, and probably 36 hours, before I noticed it and removed it.
When I became so ill that I literally was as “weak as a kitten” I finally decided to put a thermometer in my mouth and found I had a fever of 101 degrees, so I called my physician. He drew blood after I had reported to him the tick bite a couple of months before, and sure enough, I had Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, though I had not broken out in the usual rash. I was so ill however, that my physician scheduled a battery of other tests and an appointment is a blood specialist and an infectious disease specialist. It took me almost a year to regain my strength and to start to feel better, but fortunately I ended up not having any lasting effects from the disease.
Remove the parasite promptly
Like ticks, psychopaths usually take a little time to not only suck your blood, but to transmit disease. If ticks are removed promptly, even if they have bitten you, there is little likelihood that they will infect you with something fatal. If they have time to deeply burrow into your skin, the longer they are there, the greater the likelihood that they will leave something behind that will cause problems for you. It may only be a painful, red, itching lesion that seems to drive you crazy with wanting to scratch to the bone, or it may be a disease that will land you in the ICU or the morgue, or cripple you with arthritis later on, like Lymes.
Not all diseases passed on to humans or other mammals by ticks and other parasites are as easily identifiable as RMSF. Some diseases that are potentially fatal have no reliable blood test to indicate that they are present. The person feels bad, but there is no objective symptom that can be identified either by the victim or the medical practitioner until great damage has occurred. These occult (unidentified) diseases may go undetected for months or years, doing their damage to the victim that is irreversible.
The psychopath and the tick
There is so much similarity between the psychopath and the tick, as well as other parasites. They burrow into our flesh and almost, in some cases, become part of us, while they suck our blood, and infect us with their toxic waste. They may not even appear to be so evil. “It’s just a bug bite, get over it,” our friends and family may say. Though we may become very ill from our even short association with these creatures, the illness may not be apparent to the naked eye like, say, a broken leg would be. We may struggle with the itch, the fever, the weakness, and the general debility left behind and not even realize that we have been infected with pathogens that can ruin or end our lives.
In addition to ticks attaching to us as we walk through grass or brush, ticks may also latch on to our pets or other family members, and thus gain entrance into our homes and lives by hitching a ride on our friends and pets. The tick may not even attack the pet or family member, but instead jump off on to our skin for his blood meal, using the intermediary only for transportation to get to us.
Look out for parasites
As I told the patients in my clinic, you need to be on the look out for ticks. If you or any member of your family, or pets, go anywhere in the summer time where there is grass, you should do a complete daily check for ticks, and carefully remove any that you find. Immediately wash the area and mark the date on the calendar, so that you can be on the look out for any sign of disease from even a short association with these creatures. If the symptoms of any kind of disease show up, seek medical attention immediately.
I think that same advice is useful for people who don’t live on a desert island alone, but live in the real world in which they may encounter psychopaths. I suggest that we all do a daily check of our lives to see if anyone we are dealing with even looks or acts at all like a parasite. If we see a parasite, quickly remove that parasite from our life. Wash all traces of them off of us. Then keep our eyes open for any covert damage that they have done to our life so that we can seek proper treatment as soon as possible.
Read two articles of LoveFraud, and call me in the morning!
Now, now, kids. Brad looks like a “bad boy” to me. Is that a red flag I see behind him? There in the stage dressing?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KvHB4zpNX4
Shabbychic…
You are something else! So funny and sweet and open and honest… esp when you said to James you think you are ready to take in that list now that you are coming out of the fog youve been in most of your life!!!! Words I can relate to….
Friendships and relationships need time to develop and grow and some just take on the most random unexpected topics and conversations that I find myself saying oh my goodness did we just have THAT conversation in a supermarket checkout line! LOL
Think we all just have to feel comfortable with whom we are sharing and opening up to and educating… all the while trusting ourselves and any red flags…its about exactly what you first said SOCHIC! We dont always have tell everyone exactly what we are thinking or all weve been through…we can choose the ones we are comfortable with always knowing the red flag system is there for us at any point along the way. stop. change direction before we are ever in over our head again!!!
How do you make your posts so short and to the point??? Teach me plz :)))
See Im posting away and missing all the funny comments….lmao!!! Henry! Tsk..Tsk… Rune – LOL about the Bad boy with the red flag. When this song came out I was flabbergasted anyone could enjoy singing these words. Id like to check you for ticks!!! Especially cuz its not very romantic doing a thorough full head of hair check and arm pits and ewwwwww..but it did grow on me a bit!!! The tune….not the TICKS!!! NEVER AGAIN WILL A TICK LAST ON ME LONGER THAN THE TIME IT TAKES TO LIGHT A MATCH AND BURN IT TO ASHES!!!!
Learn: I did some internet research. Forget about the matches. The heat causes them to poop and further contaminate you. (You know, like when you confront them about their bad behavior?) Forget about vaseline or oil — they can “hold their breath” longer than you can wait for them to drop off. And those older techniques may also get rid of the body, but they leave their mouth parts behind that can cause secondary infection. (You know, the way their toxic words keep running around in your head?)
You want to take tweezers and pull them straight away. That gives you the best shot at getting rid of them, body, head, and all their crap. You also should remember that if they stay on you longer than 24 hours you have an increasing chance of contracting a serious debilitating illness like Lymes disease or Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever or PTSD.
Wash your hands. They leave toxins behind, so you should make sure you clean every surface they have touched, including your body, your closet, your garage, your car, and your “Wedding Memories” scrapbook.
Remember, too, that if you’re keeping an eye out for the big ones, you can miss the little ones that look like a cute little freckle. They’re just as toxic, but harder to spot, since the red flags are that much smaller.
Rune …LMAO…That post of yours is a work of TICK ART!!!!!! ARCHIVE MATERIAL THERE!!!
So basically if I light a match around my extox long enough he will likely “Chit his pants”!!!!!!! Too bad I never plan on being near him ever again!
No comment about vaseline or oil re: my extox!!! LOL — Henry will def have a better comment with that one!
Stay on me longer than 24 hours??? Cmon Henry chime in here!!! Try not even 24 seconds was doable!!!!
If I saw him today I would be walking around him with those baby diaper wipeys…they are the best disinfectents around!
And yes Rune you are so right the little ones are extremely toxic if not worse !!!!!!
Too funny! Tweezers it is then!!!!
ROTFLMAO!!!
ltl: I guess that was my shortest post to date! Ha. I love your posts, don’t make them short! I don’t think they are too long, they are perfect!
Rune:
“Wash your hands. They leave toxins behind, so you should make sure you clean every surface they have touched, including your body, your closet, your garage, your car, and your “Wedding Memories” scrapbook.”
Did this all during the memorial weekend……I made this weekend a memorial weekend for my kids and I…..ridding our lives of the tick. The last of the ‘legs’ were plucked out by the salvation army this afternoon and hauled away!!!
Ya know…..they also attract mice too! So ironic how the wedding crap I saved through a million horrid years of marriage attracted the mice. Poop everywhere….in the guestbook, horseshoe, dress, bride and groom stuffed animal, cards……holes, poop and nests……at least someone was comfy in the remnants of the marriage.
I am now tick AND mice free!!!! But I will keep the traps out just in case they show up again!!! 🙂
Jim in Indiana USA:
No worries Jim, if your Aussie friends asks you:
how have you been?, just say
“flat out like like a lizard drinkin”,
which means “really really busy!”.
James:
That picture you posted is identical to MY ex P! (except my ex p had a smaller dick! lol).
It is soooo good to come home to LF…the only place in the world where I can say what I feel and say what I mean – safely. xoxxo
Learnthelesson…
we should unite and claim our % from car sellers/repair fees LOL.
And YEAH, u are so damn right, there was never Thank u, at contrary, on some wizzardous way, they make u feel bad u did not offer/give more, knowing how needy they are.
To payback? Well, they believe its granted and they DID pay back in advance, just by letting u and allowing u to support him 🙂