By Ox Drover
As an advanced practice nurse, one of the things I did here in the rural area where parasites are common was warn people about the many diseases, several of them potentially fatal, caused by a common parasite, the tick.
Here on LoveFraud we often refer to psychopaths as “parasites” because, like a common blood-sucking tick, they feed off of a host, without giving any benefit to the host, or giving any more thought to the damage they do to the host than a common tick does as he burrows into your flesh.
In the warmer months of the year, the tick searches for anything that is warm and moves and can actually leap small distances to latch on to the host. They like to burrow into the skin in a “tight spot,” like under your waistband or some other hidden area. Frequently, too, they will actually group up in one spot on the host, and when you detach the biggest tick on top, you will find several other smaller ones hidden beneath who are also sucking blood from the same spot.
Parasites, just like the psychopath, take without giving. Sometimes the parasites actually do give you something, but it is usually in the form of some noxious, toxic and potentially fatal or debilitating disease. In the case of ticks, one of the more common diseases they pass on is Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, which is a disease caused not by their bite, but by an infectious agent in their feces which can actually pass through intact skin. A few days after the tick has either dropped off voluntarily, sated with the host’s blood, or been pulled off, frequently leaving behind both feces and mouth parts imbedded in the skin, the host will start to feel ill and run a fever. People with RMSF usually break out in a rash that resembles measles. Frequently the host doesn’t even realize what has happened, and may not actually remember being bitten by a tick. With prompt treatment, 93 percent of the victims will live, but without treatment, as many as 20 percent of the victims will die of either the disease itself or complications induced by the illness.
My bout with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever
A couple of summers ago, I noticed that I wasn’t feeling well. It was during the worst of the fear and chaos of my experience with a multitude of psychopaths all at once, so I wasn’t thinking really clearly in any case. I attributed my “feeling bad” to the stress I was under for a couple of months until I became so weak I could not even climb a flight of stairs or stand up long enough to wash a small sink full of dishes by hand. I had noticed a tick bite, one that had been on me for at least 24, and probably 36 hours, before I noticed it and removed it.
When I became so ill that I literally was as “weak as a kitten” I finally decided to put a thermometer in my mouth and found I had a fever of 101 degrees, so I called my physician. He drew blood after I had reported to him the tick bite a couple of months before, and sure enough, I had Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, though I had not broken out in the usual rash. I was so ill however, that my physician scheduled a battery of other tests and an appointment is a blood specialist and an infectious disease specialist. It took me almost a year to regain my strength and to start to feel better, but fortunately I ended up not having any lasting effects from the disease.
Remove the parasite promptly
Like ticks, psychopaths usually take a little time to not only suck your blood, but to transmit disease. If ticks are removed promptly, even if they have bitten you, there is little likelihood that they will infect you with something fatal. If they have time to deeply burrow into your skin, the longer they are there, the greater the likelihood that they will leave something behind that will cause problems for you. It may only be a painful, red, itching lesion that seems to drive you crazy with wanting to scratch to the bone, or it may be a disease that will land you in the ICU or the morgue, or cripple you with arthritis later on, like Lymes.
Not all diseases passed on to humans or other mammals by ticks and other parasites are as easily identifiable as RMSF. Some diseases that are potentially fatal have no reliable blood test to indicate that they are present. The person feels bad, but there is no objective symptom that can be identified either by the victim or the medical practitioner until great damage has occurred. These occult (unidentified) diseases may go undetected for months or years, doing their damage to the victim that is irreversible.
The psychopath and the tick
There is so much similarity between the psychopath and the tick, as well as other parasites. They burrow into our flesh and almost, in some cases, become part of us, while they suck our blood, and infect us with their toxic waste. They may not even appear to be so evil. “It’s just a bug bite, get over it,” our friends and family may say. Though we may become very ill from our even short association with these creatures, the illness may not be apparent to the naked eye like, say, a broken leg would be. We may struggle with the itch, the fever, the weakness, and the general debility left behind and not even realize that we have been infected with pathogens that can ruin or end our lives.
In addition to ticks attaching to us as we walk through grass or brush, ticks may also latch on to our pets or other family members, and thus gain entrance into our homes and lives by hitching a ride on our friends and pets. The tick may not even attack the pet or family member, but instead jump off on to our skin for his blood meal, using the intermediary only for transportation to get to us.
Look out for parasites
As I told the patients in my clinic, you need to be on the look out for ticks. If you or any member of your family, or pets, go anywhere in the summer time where there is grass, you should do a complete daily check for ticks, and carefully remove any that you find. Immediately wash the area and mark the date on the calendar, so that you can be on the look out for any sign of disease from even a short association with these creatures. If the symptoms of any kind of disease show up, seek medical attention immediately.
I think that same advice is useful for people who don’t live on a desert island alone, but live in the real world in which they may encounter psychopaths. I suggest that we all do a daily check of our lives to see if anyone we are dealing with even looks or acts at all like a parasite. If we see a parasite, quickly remove that parasite from our life. Wash all traces of them off of us. Then keep our eyes open for any covert damage that they have done to our life so that we can seek proper treatment as soon as possible.
Read two articles of LoveFraud, and call me in the morning!
PS. My extox really made me reconsider my smartness. latelly i was wondering: how is it possible that one dumb bull reacts on red flag, and i did not even notice it 🙂
Thornbud…
I own half of a Yukon somewhere out there in Pennsylvania!!!!! Simply by insurance payments and inspections payments and new tires on board and parts I dont even know the names of I LOANED to him to be able to “get to work” and also the stripclub and gym and probably even other womens houses!!! O M G OM G !!!!!
Hey we need to add to the list of SIGNS YOU ARE DATING A LOSER..
Any type of request of loan money for Automobile CHIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LMAO!
And yes Thornbud, my ability to reason WENT OUT THE WINDOW… I think perhaps its the way they waved the red flag….ever so mind@.......@@.......@ingly!!!! Slowing and tainting it with hopes and dreams and sparkles and glitter — that we just didnt know what to make of it….
I think we noticed the flags, felt them in our gut…but we just didnt have the tools to react the right way and charge after them and scare them off !! LOL Instead we galavanted around with them and at times perhaps cautiously or dazed…but we put up with alot of BullCRAP! for sure!!!! Learning lessons, learning lessons….
Regaining my smarts and sense of self and seeing through the fog and fakeness and manipulative deceitful ways is what made him run away and hopefully stay away. When their mask falls, their cowardness and dysfunctional ways shine!!! We can see right through them and their red flags… So we STOP. CHANGE DIRECTION!!! I dare him to try to dance with this Taurean Bull everagain! OLE!! :)))
Tilly,
It certainly is good coming home to LF.
And as for ticks attracting mice, I think that’s true. As long as I’m ‘cleaning house’ I’m going to re-evaluate all of my relationships bc while I was busy attending to the tick I think some less disgusting, but equally harmful mice might have snuck in.
OxDrover,
Couldn’t help but chime in on this one. Many diverse and chronic health problems first began decades ago after I was covered with literally thousands of ticks. We were canoeing down the Illinois river in NE Oklahoma (maybe near your neck of the woods?) when I got into a nest of ticks during a bathroom break. Both legs to the knees were covered in ticks, with no skin visible. Several weeks later both legs to the hips were covered in multiple Bull’s eye rashes. Meningitis followed in the fall and from there my health deteriorated. Have NEVER been the same since!
Was finally tested for Lyme 7 years later and only briefly treated. Possibility of other tick borne diseases as well. The year of my experience (or year before) Oklahoma had the highest cases of RMSF. Of course in those days Lyme was not admitted to be found in that part of the country, though Lyme-like illness was acknowledged in Missouri. Could go on and on about this subject but too tired to do so right now, and maybe veering off the point. Hope you don’t mind that I added my experience.
I haven’t been on here much lately because all the work I have to do to get the house appraised so I can get this divorce going and be free of him, has about done my health in. Guess back to pacing myself which means I won’t be free any time soon. Miss reading and being on here.
Man is anyone else watching Dateline tonight? This guy is a total P! After reading a couple of books about them it is amazing and scary how I’ve learned to recognize them in different news stories.
I’ll have to watch it, it’s on in 5 minutes out here.
Is it this one?
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/31005549/
That looks like the script for the Dateline I just started watching!
Thanks Shabbychic2, reading it now…
By Josh Mankiewicz
Correspondent
Dateline NBC
updated 7:07 p.m. CT, Fri., May 29, 2009
This aired on Dateline NBC on Friday, May 29. The full video will be online by Monday, June 1
The full video won’t be on line until 6/1 so I will have to wait to see it then… But thanks again!