By Ox Drover
As an advanced practice nurse, one of the things I did here in the rural area where parasites are common was warn people about the many diseases, several of them potentially fatal, caused by a common parasite, the tick.
Here on LoveFraud we often refer to psychopaths as “parasites” because, like a common blood-sucking tick, they feed off of a host, without giving any benefit to the host, or giving any more thought to the damage they do to the host than a common tick does as he burrows into your flesh.
In the warmer months of the year, the tick searches for anything that is warm and moves and can actually leap small distances to latch on to the host. They like to burrow into the skin in a “tight spot,” like under your waistband or some other hidden area. Frequently, too, they will actually group up in one spot on the host, and when you detach the biggest tick on top, you will find several other smaller ones hidden beneath who are also sucking blood from the same spot.
Parasites, just like the psychopath, take without giving. Sometimes the parasites actually do give you something, but it is usually in the form of some noxious, toxic and potentially fatal or debilitating disease. In the case of ticks, one of the more common diseases they pass on is Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, which is a disease caused not by their bite, but by an infectious agent in their feces which can actually pass through intact skin. A few days after the tick has either dropped off voluntarily, sated with the host’s blood, or been pulled off, frequently leaving behind both feces and mouth parts imbedded in the skin, the host will start to feel ill and run a fever. People with RMSF usually break out in a rash that resembles measles. Frequently the host doesn’t even realize what has happened, and may not actually remember being bitten by a tick. With prompt treatment, 93 percent of the victims will live, but without treatment, as many as 20 percent of the victims will die of either the disease itself or complications induced by the illness.
My bout with Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever
A couple of summers ago, I noticed that I wasn’t feeling well. It was during the worst of the fear and chaos of my experience with a multitude of psychopaths all at once, so I wasn’t thinking really clearly in any case. I attributed my “feeling bad” to the stress I was under for a couple of months until I became so weak I could not even climb a flight of stairs or stand up long enough to wash a small sink full of dishes by hand. I had noticed a tick bite, one that had been on me for at least 24, and probably 36 hours, before I noticed it and removed it.
When I became so ill that I literally was as “weak as a kitten” I finally decided to put a thermometer in my mouth and found I had a fever of 101 degrees, so I called my physician. He drew blood after I had reported to him the tick bite a couple of months before, and sure enough, I had Rocky Mountain Spotted Fever, though I had not broken out in the usual rash. I was so ill however, that my physician scheduled a battery of other tests and an appointment is a blood specialist and an infectious disease specialist. It took me almost a year to regain my strength and to start to feel better, but fortunately I ended up not having any lasting effects from the disease.
Remove the parasite promptly
Like ticks, psychopaths usually take a little time to not only suck your blood, but to transmit disease. If ticks are removed promptly, even if they have bitten you, there is little likelihood that they will infect you with something fatal. If they have time to deeply burrow into your skin, the longer they are there, the greater the likelihood that they will leave something behind that will cause problems for you. It may only be a painful, red, itching lesion that seems to drive you crazy with wanting to scratch to the bone, or it may be a disease that will land you in the ICU or the morgue, or cripple you with arthritis later on, like Lymes.
Not all diseases passed on to humans or other mammals by ticks and other parasites are as easily identifiable as RMSF. Some diseases that are potentially fatal have no reliable blood test to indicate that they are present. The person feels bad, but there is no objective symptom that can be identified either by the victim or the medical practitioner until great damage has occurred. These occult (unidentified) diseases may go undetected for months or years, doing their damage to the victim that is irreversible.
The psychopath and the tick
There is so much similarity between the psychopath and the tick, as well as other parasites. They burrow into our flesh and almost, in some cases, become part of us, while they suck our blood, and infect us with their toxic waste. They may not even appear to be so evil. “It’s just a bug bite, get over it,” our friends and family may say. Though we may become very ill from our even short association with these creatures, the illness may not be apparent to the naked eye like, say, a broken leg would be. We may struggle with the itch, the fever, the weakness, and the general debility left behind and not even realize that we have been infected with pathogens that can ruin or end our lives.
In addition to ticks attaching to us as we walk through grass or brush, ticks may also latch on to our pets or other family members, and thus gain entrance into our homes and lives by hitching a ride on our friends and pets. The tick may not even attack the pet or family member, but instead jump off on to our skin for his blood meal, using the intermediary only for transportation to get to us.
Look out for parasites
As I told the patients in my clinic, you need to be on the look out for ticks. If you or any member of your family, or pets, go anywhere in the summer time where there is grass, you should do a complete daily check for ticks, and carefully remove any that you find. Immediately wash the area and mark the date on the calendar, so that you can be on the look out for any sign of disease from even a short association with these creatures. If the symptoms of any kind of disease show up, seek medical attention immediately.
I think that same advice is useful for people who don’t live on a desert island alone, but live in the real world in which they may encounter psychopaths. I suggest that we all do a daily check of our lives to see if anyone we are dealing with even looks or acts at all like a parasite. If we see a parasite, quickly remove that parasite from our life. Wash all traces of them off of us. Then keep our eyes open for any covert damage that they have done to our life so that we can seek proper treatment as soon as possible.
Read two articles of LoveFraud, and call me in the morning!
James: I don’t know how you found it! Last week I only saw the end of Dateline and they said for more info go to dateline/msnbc, so I went to the site and I couldn’t find anything about it, and here you find a show the same day it airs. I’m going to look for last weeks show from the link you posted! D’oh.
shabbychic2,
Yes finished reading that one and then the latest on Drew Peterson. Both of these are interesting and current. Interesting how they are about people who I believe suffer from some type of personality disorders but how it’s never brought up in these reports. Why is that?
Anyway, yes I very good at research on the web. Part of my computer training when I went back to school to learn about computers and the internet. It’s surprising what one can find on this internet highway and how quickly one can do it. Thanks again done and shabbychic2 for the infor…
Have a good night!
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James: I know, I was wondering the same thing the other night when I was watching Nancy Grace talk about Drew Peterson and Chris Coleman, not once did anyone say the word sociopath or psychopath, and I couldn’t understand why, and they never talk about personality disorders on any of the other shows either!!!! Good night!
Shabby and James:
The lawyers for these shows err on the side of ‘caution’ and unless diagnosed they will not allow the hosts to mention sociopath/psychopath in regards to a certain person…..don’t want to let these people have a lawsuit to file!!!
We all know, from our readings that S/P’s are hard to diagnose, due to the fact they do not seek help……so unless they are a ‘diagnosed’ s/p…….the words do not come up.
I too believe, these shows are doing a great disservice by not mentioning the words……s or p……or cluster types etc….
IF nothing at all……to raise public awareness to what’s out there ALL around us and the devastation wreaked on families….whether it’s murder or not reached that point YET!
We LF’s can feel free to write to these shows and ASK WHY it is they do not spend more time on raising the public awareness on these Cluster B type behaviors!!!! The more we YELL about it……maybe we can be heard?!
We don’t need to diagnose people……just raise awareness and educate the public on these behaviors and the stats that go along with them……if people knew how many were out there……I believe it would make an impact to some degree.
The media sure has the forum.
Just look at every ‘case’ Nancy Grace has had on in the past several weeks alone…..
Caley Anthony, the CL killer, Sunday school teacher rapist/child murderer (Ca.), The florida missing girls step mother, Drew Peterson, Oj Simpson, the PA father that was arrested for killing his wife/2 kids, the professor accused of killing wife and collegue, the mother that faked her daughters kidnapping,…….these are all accused (except oj)….not convicted…..but all exhibet obvious S/P traits….
But…..the attorney’s get in the way.
ErinBrockovich
Thanks and that makes perfect sense. I guess the only time they could refer to a person that had a personality disorder would be if that person was diagnosis by a trained professional psychologist but even then what about law protecting people about medical conditions and what the general public can know and not know. Guess this leave it up to us again. But if we do that then we can be label as people who label other people. Can’t win I guess… 🙁
EB: That thought crossed my mind this morning!!!! It’s like you were reading my mind. I just thought “maybe they haven’t been diagnosed so the people on TV can’t just use the words S/P. But I did not think about lawsuits… interesting.
It seems like they (the media) could at least mention the possibility. Or have a show about personality disorders and frame it as a question to avoid lawsuits, like “Could Scott Peterson be a psychopath?” I wish there was some more public awareness, maybe it would save a few victims from getting caught in the webs of these people.
And yes, James…that is the one I was watching.
Thanks for the confirmation Done. I missed the show sorry to say but it will be on line 6/1/09 which I will watch unless it’s show again on dateline before that. The husband did get 5 years and found guilty for manslaughter. One part of it explain how he would use the tears to sell products (vitamins) for his business but could walk off stage bone dry telling others “That’s how you work a crowd”. Oh Boy! How this one let the water works go when on trail for his life. Still a very interesting story more so because of the letter his ex wife wrote before she died and her visions she believed was from “Heavenly Father”.
OH Done, one other thing if you watch the video when he is on the stand watch how he will look up to the judge and says “who me?”. Many of us know how they will give us this line and look all so innocence like “what who me?” Anyway I wanted to yell and say “no dummy we asking the guy not sitting in the hot seat to process with your testimony” Give me a break!
(not sure if this will work but let’s try it)
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/31003759#31003759
ps: if it doesn’t work let me know but the short video is worth the watch.
Bleah it makes me sick to watch it. It is mysterious that his ex wife wrote that letter, but it wouldn’t surprise me if he somehow coerced her into writing it, or convinced her that was her destiny somehow.
I wonder if the family members have found any literature on Ps or if they are still struggling to try to understand it.