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How the pain of abuse lasts a lifetime

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January 12, 2011 //  by Donna Andersen//  180 Comments

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A few days ago, Bill Zeller, a 27-year-old graduate student at Princeton University, died. The cause: suicide. The reason: He was tormented due to being repeatedly raped as a child.

Zeller left a 4,000-word suicide note that eloquently explained the effect that the devastation had on his life. There is a link to it in this article:

Princeton student kills self over rape as child, on CBSNews.com.

Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.

Category: For children of sociopaths, Sociopaths and family

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  1. Ox Drover

    January 15, 2011 at 5:28 pm

    Hens, do you know what a “stoooopid question” is? IT IS ONE YOU ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO. LOL You knew the answer there my friend, and I’m in agreement with One stepper, I think you are having denial fantasies here~ (((hugs))))

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  2. lesson learned

    January 15, 2011 at 5:42 pm

    Hens

    I have a weiner 🙂

    I love my long black weiner 🙂

    LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    LL

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  3. Ox Drover

    January 15, 2011 at 5:50 pm

    Hens, I called home and asked son D to put the phone up to the Dog’s ear, and son said that it freaked the dog out. As soon as the dog saw my suitcase he got really upset cause he knew I was going on a trip–bless his heart! “I’d a brung him vid me if I cud of.” But he will be glad to see me when I get home.

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  4. hens

    January 15, 2011 at 6:35 pm

    LL I go to bed every nite with 3 weiners ~! We saw 3 bobcat’s and found some really cool rock’s on our drive. Ox I think I told you before but when I am gone I call my dog’s and talk to them on the answering machine, I tell them when I will be home and there better not be no peein in the house.
    Onestepper’s no buns for the weiners. They hate dog clothes, one time I put a coat on Posey and she fell over like she was dead and refused to move…ok so gonna go fire up the charcoal gonna have me a ribeye tonite…

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  5. lesson learned

    January 15, 2011 at 7:08 pm

    Hens

    Someone has to be at home with the weiner all the time. He gets separation anxiety. He’s also a habitual bed hopper. One night with me then off to the next family member (is my dog a spathLOL, kiddin), and lately he’s been peein and poopin in the house (no matter how many times a day we take him out), cuz we recently took in my N daughter’s chee wow wow, and now there is a territorial issue. **sigh**.

    I love my weiner SO MUCH. He was paralyzed a couple of years ago. I used all of my rent money and then some going vet to vet to figure out what to do. ALL but one said either surgery or put him down (he has IVDD). But then an angel vet came along and told me to crate rest him for eight weeks, heavily medicated. It was like taking care of a sick infant. But I loved him so much, I just had to give everything a try before I would put him down and ya know what? As suddenly as this came on, is as suddenly as he walked out of his kennel one day walking. He has a gait now, and the vet said that if it happens again, given the spot on his back where the IVDD is, we would probably have to put him down next time. It was worth the risk.. a pet can be like family. I wouldn’t have put my kids down if they were that sick and another alternative could be found. That’s what it’s like for me with my weiner 🙂

    And you have THREE? God bless you Hens. They’re a handful, little heaters, but sooooo worth it!

    LL

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  6. lesson learned

    January 15, 2011 at 7:10 pm

    Ox<

    Now THAT is doggie luuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuv!!

    LL

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  7. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 7:11 pm

    LOL! snort….wheeze…ah, it’s the asthma season!

    the doxies in my family (one sadly departed recently) LOVE their rain jackets, go into spasms over their PFDs (that’s personal flotation devices, folks), and are bizarrely attached to their electronic fence collars – which must be horrible to waer. but as their yard is on hardrock it’s the only way for them tohave freedom to roam.

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  8. hens

    January 15, 2011 at 7:23 pm

    One of my clients had to get rid of their dog because the new baby is alergic to dog’s. it’s a good thing that wasn’t my baby cause I would of had to find it a new home…

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  9. lesson learned

    January 15, 2011 at 7:25 pm

    Ox,

    Skip above post. I claim TOTAL financial IRRESPONSIBILITY when it came to my weiner being sick 🙂

    LL

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  10. Ox Drover

    January 15, 2011 at 7:33 pm

    Dear LL, I spent $400 vet on a baby calf once! Should’a knocked it in the head wasn’t even attached to it! LOL TGhe darned thing grew up to be too tame, and was dangerous as a result. Ended up killing it after it tried to run me down. It violated the “bigger AND meaner” rule around here. Anything that is bigger AND mean’er than me dies! Smaller and meaner okay, bigger and noit so mean, okay, but bigger AND meaner, NOT okay. LOL But she tasted okay!

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