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How the pain of abuse lasts a lifetime

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January 12, 2011 //  by Donna Andersen//  180 Comments

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A few days ago, Bill Zeller, a 27-year-old graduate student at Princeton University, died. The cause: suicide. The reason: He was tormented due to being repeatedly raped as a child.

Zeller left a 4,000-word suicide note that eloquently explained the effect that the devastation had on his life. There is a link to it in this article:

Princeton student kills self over rape as child, on CBSNews.com.

Story suggested by a Lovefraud reader.

Category: For children of sociopaths, Sociopaths and family

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  1. CAmom

    January 15, 2011 at 10:42 pm

    Hey One, Good to ‘see’ you! Yes there was a comment about speaking English and something about offering classes on accents—that comment was removed. Not sure what that was about?

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  2. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 10:43 pm

    Hey Chica!

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  3. soimnotthecrazee1

    January 15, 2011 at 10:44 pm

    LOLOL…. I posted back to her in spanish and said I didn’t know LF had become bilingual. Then the grey pot showed up using horrible grammar and that is how I ran the grey pot off. Ripping apart their grammar ETC. Understand now one?
    SC1!

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  4. CAmom

    January 15, 2011 at 10:47 pm

    Hey Chica, just sitting here eating a huge salad. Computer is veryyyy slow tonight.

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  5. soimnotthecrazee1

    January 15, 2011 at 10:49 pm

    Well Hi CAmom and ONE!! I hope you are doing OK! One just explained your situation and I’m sure it is hard to handle at times. Best to you in your healing.
    SC1

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  6. Ox Drover

    January 15, 2011 at 10:51 pm

    Dear notcrazee,

    It is usually best I think to not try to “run off” the trolls, just report them to Donna with the report abusive comment button. Donna requested that we NOT ENGAGE THEM but to just report them to her, that keeps the flames down. That is why we don’t generally directly engage them, but just start talking about our gardening efforts.

    I think you will find that IGNORING THEM and reporting them to donna is the best way to get them gone.

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  7. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 10:55 pm

    well, i can post in a couple of other languages also.

    I don’t really understand your comment about LF becoming bilingual. Although Donna is American, this isn’t an american forum; rather, a forum for people who have been spathed.

    we have people here from all over the world – many of whom speak english as a second language, and i’d hate for any of them to feel unwelcome, or censured for speaking another language.

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  8. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 10:58 pm

    CAMom, that’s ’cause you are giving it ‘salad’. 🙂 protein would make it run faster!

    Did you sleep last night?

    It’s bloody cold here today, haven’t even made it out of the house Worked 8 hours, again. crap. I need to get a day off. 2 weeks and counting.

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  9. CAmom

    January 15, 2011 at 11:02 pm

    Slept last night–a record 4 nights in a row! Cold here too. You need a break, mujer!

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  10. soimnotthecrazee1

    January 15, 2011 at 11:07 pm

    Thanks Ox,
    As you know… I’m still a newbie here and still raw and I guess I felt threatened by it! It was so obvious that is was a grey pot. But you are correct about reporting it to Donna. And as far as any of this… why should I feel threatened by a computer screen. That’s all any of this is, a computer screen!!! It’s not “real” physical interaction. Power Off and it’s all gone!!!! The good and the BAD!!! We just had another 17 yrd old beaten to near death this time a few blocks away from me. NOW THAT IS A THREAT!!! Can’t power off that one!!!
    Thanks Ox,
    SC1!

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