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How the pain of abuse lasts a lifetime

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January 12, 2011 //  by Donna Andersen//  180 Comments

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A few days ago, Bill Zeller, a 27-year-old graduate student at Princeton University, died. The cause: suicide. The reason: He was tormented due to being repeatedly raped as a child.

Zeller left a 4,000-word suicide note that eloquently explained the effect that the devastation had on his life. There is a link to it in this article:

Princeton student kills self over rape as child, on CBSNews.com.

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Category: For children of sociopaths, Sociopaths and family

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  1. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 11:09 pm

    CAMom

    Yay! Sanity returns!

    si, si estás en lo correcto.I really thought i would have most of today off. didn’t happen. and tomorrow i have about 5 hours to put in. I want to take wednesday off, so I will work toward that.

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  2. CAmom

    January 15, 2011 at 11:14 pm

    Vale, que descansas el miercoles! Babe fell again today, with a rider on her back. Horse and rider ok, thank God!

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  3. Ox Drover

    January 15, 2011 at 11:17 pm

    I can translate from P-speak to English, does that count!

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  4. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 11:21 pm

    OH SO, OXY!

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  5. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 11:22 pm

    Chica – no! Was it M?

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  6. CAmom

    January 15, 2011 at 11:26 pm

    Yep. She stumbled, fell, rolled on M. 1,300lbs! Just bruised ribs. Both shook up, very much a WTF thing. That happened to me a few times with the late great S. Kind of a rite of passage tho. Nothing worse than that, IMHO.

    Translating P speak is a great talent, Oxy!

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  7. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 11:31 pm

    Bruised ribs – Babe or M? 😉

    I don’t know if i was ever rolled on – I had a talent for jumping off as they went down. and landing on rocks. with my neck.

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  8. CAmom

    January 15, 2011 at 11:34 pm

    M with bruised ribs. Babe has small scrape on her head. Oh yeah, jumping off and landing on the neck–owww 🙂

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  9. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 15, 2011 at 11:46 pm

    M’s bones are a little old for this rite of passage. I can’t imagine going of a horse at this point in my life. eeek.

    cleaned off another bookshelf today, and set up my altar. the buddhas have a nice clean space now, and a beautiful beeswax candle offering in a red cavalier glass. Threw out some papers pertaining to S, not the horse, and to the ‘lying sack of cap evil c spath’. (truer words were never typed!)

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  10. one/joy_step_at_a_time

    January 16, 2011 at 12:05 am

    Oky kids, I changed my screen name as promised, but not so much as to completely throw EB when she returns. so here I is, one step at a time has some ‘joy’ in her now (and a little CA Chardonnay)

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