If he walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, he’s a quack

I recently met a man, or a boy as I should say, because he acted like a gigantic toddler. I met him, he swept me off my feet, told me all the right things that I wanted to hear, and seemed too good to be true. He told me I was different, and that I was someone he could see having something that would last. He told me that he never allows anyone to cuddle with him, and that I was special and it didn’t bother him when I did it. He told me he didn’t mind me being a virgin, but that we could do other things. He told me he personally knew the rapper, neyo and that they hung out on a regular basis. He told me that one of my good friends only wanted to get into my pants, and I believed him. He spun his little web of deception and I let him walk all over me. he told me that he had a disc in his back that was hurting and needed surgery. I lived an hour and a half away, and he told me that if i drove to see him, that he’d pay for it. He never showed me anything. I left feeling like the night had been perfect, here was a guy that hadn’t tried anything! He asked me out, and I said yes for the first time in two years. three days went by and we hardly talked, which was odd..because in a new relationship, you want to see/talk all the time, normally. He would make silly excuses of why he didnt call, my phone mustve been messed up, cos he tried to call three times and nothing, when a friend had called twice and got thru during this time. He told me to drive into town and spend the weekend with him, that itd be just us, hed take me out on a date, etc. I get here into town at 4:30, left school early to make it there to be with him early, and sat in a parking lot waiting for him to call me. Two hours went by, I went to starbucks took my laptop out and tried to see if he was on, or had been, nothing. checked my phone, nothing. I called three times, and by the third time (three hours later) his mother answered. She told me that she was sorry, that she had had his phone all day. That he went to get a haircut, and would be calling me from his friend’s phone soon. 9 o clock rolls around and I havent heard anything. I drove to his house, and knocked on the door, where he was visibly in his kitchen. his mother came to the door after five minutes, and told me to come in, that he had just gotten there. He told me that I couldn’t stay there because he was fixing to take some pills for his back and pass out. I had nowhere to stay.I was furious. he took me outside and acted as though I were just a friend stopping by to say hello and not his gf. he kissed me, held my hands until his friend stepped outside, and he then dropped my hands and went to get his pack of ciggs, that he told me in the beginning that ne didn’t smoke. I left, came back and cried, tried to break it off and he played a silly card, promising me we’d eat breakfast together and spend the day and the next together. I agreed, left and cried. I called my brother and told him what happened and an older friend told me that I had just gotten played. I tried to call him and got no answer, she dialed his number and he answered on the first ring. She pretended to be asking for another “hisname” and he fell for it, told her that he’d text her later, called her cutey (he didn’t know her from adam) and promised to club with her. He texted her in thirty minutes asking for a picture, she took my picture with her, and he asked her which one was she? he didn’t recognize me. She told him the one standing next to your girlfriend. to which he replied, what girlfriend? and then after I left him a message telling him he’d been caught, he blew up my phone trying to get me to talk to him. telling me he was sorry, that his friends made him go clubbing, that he was screwed up cos of drugs and alcohol. He sobbed, and whined, and begged me to come see him at 4 am. and when I told him no, he threw a tantrum. And when I asked him why he couldn’t just come see me, he changed the subject. I told him to leave me be, that I was going to bed, and he called me back thirty mins later to say “what’s up!?” and I told him really? and he said sorry sorry sorry baby, please. and I hung up. He called me the next day and said “what happened last night, I just looked at my phone and saw all this random crap” and he tried to blame it on me for trapping him in his own lie, claiming he didnt do anything wrong because It was my fault for trapping him. and then he said he didn’t need to apologize for his friends making him go out, and asked me to come over. I told him I would later, and when later came, I didn’t go. I didn’t call. I didn’t text. He hasn’t talked to me since. and I deleted him off of everything when I read about a sociopath and found that he matched perfectly with every single sign. He is 22, a pathological liar, told me that he was majoring in psych (he doesn’t go to school), told me he lived alone ( lives with his parents), told me that he recorded music and played guitar and all sorts of instruments all the time (didn’t own a single thing). It was all just a big lie. He tried to break me down, but he didn’t. and I think I proved to him that he couldn’t mess with me.