A woman goes to the philharmonic in New York City alone. She meets a guy who is also alone. He asks her for a date, she goes once, doesn’t want to go again. She doesn’t return his calls. He sends an e-mail demanding to know why. Woman is so astounded she posts it on the Internet.
Read An investment banker’s cover letter for a second date, on Reddit.com.
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WOW! Absolute narcissistic no boundaries behavior! No contact! It made me sick to my stomach and hit very close to home for me. What a sicko…RUN, Lauren, RUN!
Hit too close to home for me. Shalom
You know it DOES “hit close to home” for a lot of us I think because this guy thinks he is SOOOOO ENTITLED, and though he knows she has set a “boundary” that she does not want to go out with him again, he does NOT respect that boundary and tries to “reason” with her, show who why she is WRONG to even expect to be able to resist him….I liked the part where he said he didn’t like her quite as much as he did because she hadn’t answered him. LOL ROTFLMAO
This is a perfect example I think of the narcissistic, entitled mind set of “some people”–what a CLOD!
And he signed it “Mike” ugh…Michael…
Yea, Ana, that was what I thought when I saw it! “Mike”—so much like our own troll’s narcissistic sense of entitlement–“you don’t want me here, but I will be here anyway, Donna can’t drive me away, I’ll just change my name and IP address and come back anyway” LOL
Actually I thought this guy’s sense of entitlement was rolling on the floor FUNNY and in a way so is “Michael’s” because he just does NOT get it, and isn’t going to respect anyone else’s boundaries.
This guy too, with his gonna give her another change for a date, when she had made it ABUNDANTLY CLEAR she does NOT want another date is sooooo narcissistic it is funny. Talk about “NOT getting it.” LOL His fascination with her twirling her hair, he thinks that is a “come on” when it is probably her signal that she is BORED beyond tears. Can’t you just see her sitting there twiddling her hair waiting impatiently for the “date” to be OVER, probably rolling her eyes even! And he thinks that is a COME ON!!!!!! LOL ROTFLMAO What an IDIOT THIS GUY IS!
ps the comments are the best part of it all!
Oxy and Ana: I am glad I wasn’t the only one. Michael came to mind immediately. Shalom
Forget the red flags, this guy came wrapped in a red banner.
Run, run like the wind…….
huh.
am I the only one who feels sorry for him?
He obviously is socially inept to the point where he has to look up what different body language means. He is trying really hard to create a life which appears normal by compensating for his lack of social skills with knowledge. I would say he’s on the autism spectrum.
His request for feedback is reasonable in a world of facts and logic – which is where he lives.
Having met a woman who meets his criteria as a perfect woman (she likes classical music and agreed to date him once) he idealized her and invested into a fantasy of a serious relationship. He’s confused and is trying to unravel the confusion. I agree that she should have responded to him, I think she was rude.
Sky ~ we posted over each other.
Sky, my mentor, don’t do this to me……. please