Editor’s note: This is the story of the Lovefraud author Joyce Alexander, who comments as “Ox Drover.”
By Donna Andersen
William “Patrick” Alexander didn’t want to go back to prison. He was 19 years old, almost 20, and had already done two years for aggravated burglary. Patrick suspected that 17-year-old Jessica Witt, of Dallas, Texas, was going to rat him out. Or perhaps she already did.
Patrick had used a credit card stolen from Jessica’s grandfather to pay for a trip to California, in violation of his parole. He racked up $8,000 in charges.
On January 17, 1992, Patrick and one of his unsavory friends were at Jessica’s apartment. Patrick told the friend that he was going to kill Jessica—anything to avoid going back to prison. As he talked, Patrick played with a small silver handgun, jacking rounds into the chamber and taking the clip in and out. The friend was scared.
The next day, the friend heard Patrick ask another guy if he knew anyplace to kill someone and hide the body.
Murder in the countryside
Patrick and Jessica became friendly while working together at a telemarketing company. Jessica was a pretty girl with long, dark, wavy hair. Even though she was still in high school, she’d left her parents’ home and moved into an apartment with friends.
At 10:30 p.m. on January 20, 1992, Patrick and Jessica left her apartment. According to Jessica’s female roommate, Patrick told Jessica that a guy in Fort Worth, Texas, about 35 miles away, was going to give him money so he could pay off her grandfather’s credit card.
Four hours later, Patrick returned to the apartment alone.
“Where’s Jessica?” the roommate asked.
“I killed her,” Patrick replied.
He gave the roommate Jessica’s purse and jewelry. He said he did not bring back Jessica’s leather coat because it had too much blood on it.
Patrick told the roommate that he and Jessica had driven to an area out in the country where people ride four-wheelers. Patrick and Jessica left his pickup truck on the road and walked towards an old house.
Jessica was walking in front of Patrick. He called her name, and when Jessica turned around, Patrick shot her twice in the head.
Patrick dragged the girl’s body to a mud hole and covered it with dirt, grass and branches.
Back at the apartment, Patrick sat in the kitchen as he talked and wouldn’t let the roommate leave the room. He showed the girl his .25 caliber pistol, with two bullets missing. She was terrified, believing she was next to die.
At 6 a.m., Patrick left. He said he had to take someone to work, as if nothing had happened.
Search for the body
Jessica’s roommate went directly to the police. Patrick Alexander was arrested the next day. He was charged with credit card fraud, but not murder, at least not yet. There was no body.
Police and volunteers searched the countryside, finding nothing.
A week later, from the Tarrant County jail, Patrick called a prison buddy. Patrick told the man where he’d left Jessica’s body, and because the searchers were getting too close, asked him to move it. Instead, the man gave a tape recording of the conversation to the police.
On January 31, 1992, 11 days after Jessica Witt had gone missing, police searched a wooded area around Marine Creek Lake in northwest Fort Worth. An officer noticed a pair of black boots protruding from a grassy pile.
Moving grass and sticks, the police discovered a body.
Jessica’s uncle was assisting in the search. He identified his niece’s body. Jessica had been shot in front of her left ear, and in the back of her head.
Mother learns of the crime
Joyce Alexander, Patrick’s mother, lived in Arkansas. A Dallas police sergeant called and told her that Patrick had been arrested and charged with the murder of young Jessica Witt.
“He talked to me like I was the killer,” Joyce says.
Joyce was horrified by the actions of her son, and heartbroken for the young girl’s family.
“I went into such a depression that I should have been hospitalized,” Joyce says. “I didn’t sleep for seven days. I lost 35 pounds in 14 days. I cried continuously like a gut shot dog.”
In the meantime, Patrick was calling Joyce on the phone from jail, saying none of it was true.
“I knew it was true,” Joyce says. “But I wanted to believe him.”
Hi Oxy! It’s good to see you back again! I’m sorry you’ve had such a bad time with all the worry and strain. I noticed months ago that you’d been MIA from the site for some time, and to tell the truth I was getting a bit worried myself that something bad might have happened. So I dug around on the Web, and I was reassured to discover that you’d been active on another Web site more recently. So at least you were still alive and kicking, and I didn’t doubt you had your own reasons for taking a break from here. I’m just sorry to hear it’s because you’ve been so under the weather. Well, I sure hope the parole board’s decision goes the RIGHT way after all the protests they’ve received. Better still, I hope you get good news in the next week, in time for you to have a merry Christmas. All the best!
Redwald, good to “see” you too…I always enjoyed your posts and your wisdom.
I’m at a point now where I can accept whatever happens and just move on from there, not worrying 24/7 to the point I destroy my own sanity.
Healing is a journey and we can fall in a pit no matter how long we have been on the path to healing, if we are not careful and don’t put ourselves and our needs FIRST.
My therapist and I talked about the three things one needs to be healthy, Gratitude, Altruism and acceptance of things as they ARE not grieving over how we wish they were but are not.
It’s strange, last January I was freaking out, and now that December is here and I know the results are going to be in less than a month I am strangely much more calm so something I am doing must be working. Happy holidays.
Thank you to everyone who has posted messages of support for Ox Drover.
I am forever grateful to the support and wisdom that she has offered to me and to other Lovefraud readers.
Thank you Joyce!!!
Love and best wishes for a happy, peaceful Christmas,
Donna
Thanks Donna, I actually feel some “Christmas spirit” this year for the first time since my husband was killed in the accident in 2004….and my health is improving, emotionally and physically…my new mantra is GRATITUDE, ALTRUISM, AND ACCEPTANCE…and looking after myself in a caring way.
Lovefraud was a big part of my survival during the darkest days when I was in hiding from Hamilton.
Happy holidays to everyone! and God bless.
Dear Joyce, I will be saying some prayers for you. If you ever need extras to picket with you, just let it be known on the LF.
You’re a very stand-up kind of lady and I believe that God will send His help at this juncture of parole hearings again.
I understand your years of terror as my own father was a career criminal in and out of the Fed. “Pen” in Atlanta. He stole cars.
When he died at age 78, I paid for his cremation and said my farewell with a great deal of Peace surrounding me. No tears, just a peace came over me. He had assaulted me with a knife from his pocket when I was 17. This cost him one year of jail. However, he went on to terrorize all the family for the rest of his days.
Best Wishes for a nice Christmas and news which will help you.
Shelby
Oxy, honey – I know that it has been a gazillion years and I would be a whole lot more sorry for that if my prolonged absence from LF had not been due to a whole lot of (very, very, very busy) HEALING and MOVING ON and CHANGING MY CIRCUMSTANCES IN THE FACE OF PURE EVIL – and actually, (at the ever-present risk of speaking too soon…because such is the nature of the Superspath) appearing to be winning at all of that (so – take THAT you spaths & soul-sucking monsters!!!)- BUT – I want you to know that all/any previous offers of secret locations in far-away places are – as ever they will be – still open, still viable and still completely do-able. You have my email address. My home is now for sale (I am planning to move closer to my new job, from which I have just graduated my 6-month probationary period this very day – YAY!! no more workplace bullies to make my already sad lot even more difficult to deal with…) and I am hoping to purchase a slightly larger parcel of land which could DEFINITELY harbour a fugitive RV. Just saying babe….love always, as ever. Your Aussiegirl. xxxx
Aussie girl, my computer died and I lost your e mail contact…my e mail contact is here on LF Authors, so please contact me again…AU might be an option.
Shelby, having a psychopathic offender/criminal in the family hurts everyone. Many times society blames the family for the sins of the offender, or the parents for the sins of the children. I’m glad you are at peace with him gone. My biological father is also gone, and I’m at peace with that. I had been 40+ years NC with him…and still he haunted me until he died.
Victoriamin, I did leave for some time and lived in hiding but it’s more complicated than just “leaving”
Bulletproof, glad to hear from you…
Dear Joyce,
I think you should leave wherever you are, so he can’t find you.
To Oxy,
Humbling to hear the whole story from a mother’s heart wrenching perspective. What a complete nightmare. Stay strong and please God He will stay locked up forever. You were so right to sever contact and disinherit him. RIP Jessica Witt”.unsuspecting victim of a cold blooded psychopath
Oxy,
Bless you. I knew most of your story from the posts here. I changed my name so my family would not recognize me if they found this. My bugsie name was too telling. You wrote a brave and compelling account of the truth, your truth, here and I honor and admire you courage and honesty.
I hope you are safe and your son remains in prison. I sent a letter to the parole board in your defense. The picture of him with you shows to me what he is. Amazing how we can learn to see it in their faces after we have learned what they are. I suspect children can see it too but are taught not to see. Maybe that is why there are so many victims now. And more and more psychopaths breeding successfully. It is very frightening.
I still do not know if my daughter is just a minion of her psychopathic father or if she has the gene. I may choose not to ever know and just cut all ties but I have to walk a fine line to be allowed to see my grandchildren. Fact is she does not want to see me and I do not want to see her anymore either. It has gotten viscious with her setting me up with a psychological sucker punch and then blaming me for reacting. So I just have to say no more.
You have given me much strength and wisdom and I love you for it and wish you the best. I think our experiences showing us the worst also allowes us to see the best we can have. There must be a reason we have encountered this in our lives and some good to come from it; to learn to see clearly, grow spiritully and spread the word. So far no one hears me except my husband, people on these boards, my daugter-in-law and one close friend. I am blessed to have that.
Hi Oxy,
It sure is good to hear from you again. I have been off and on the site but have known you a long time here at LF. Remember our fried green tomatoes, fried chicken, and berry crisp virtual picnic?
Anyhow, God bless you and I will pray for you. I am behind you too. You have helped me through many times and I wish I could be there to give a good strong hug to you…so here it is: HUGGGGGGGGGGGG
Unless one has suffered through the loss of a child by way of what we can call psychopathy, one does not know how deeply the pain rips through the soul…..I am sorry….maybe those tears never dry but the heart heals…..I look up to you for your strength, virtue, and honor….and mostly your love, Oxy….
Love, Vision