Editor’s note: This is the story of the Lovefraud author Joyce Alexander, who comments as “Ox Drover.”
By Donna Andersen
William “Patrick” Alexander didn’t want to go back to prison. He was 19 years old, almost 20, and had already done two years for aggravated burglary. Patrick suspected that 17-year-old Jessica Witt, of Dallas, Texas, was going to rat him out. Or perhaps she already did.
Patrick had used a credit card stolen from Jessica’s grandfather to pay for a trip to California, in violation of his parole. He racked up $8,000 in charges.
On January 17, 1992, Patrick and one of his unsavory friends were at Jessica’s apartment. Patrick told the friend that he was going to kill Jessica—anything to avoid going back to prison. As he talked, Patrick played with a small silver handgun, jacking rounds into the chamber and taking the clip in and out. The friend was scared.
The next day, the friend heard Patrick ask another guy if he knew anyplace to kill someone and hide the body.
Murder in the countryside
Patrick and Jessica became friendly while working together at a telemarketing company. Jessica was a pretty girl with long, dark, wavy hair. Even though she was still in high school, she’d left her parents’ home and moved into an apartment with friends.
At 10:30 p.m. on January 20, 1992, Patrick and Jessica left her apartment. According to Jessica’s female roommate, Patrick told Jessica that a guy in Fort Worth, Texas, about 35 miles away, was going to give him money so he could pay off her grandfather’s credit card.
Four hours later, Patrick returned to the apartment alone.
“Where’s Jessica?” the roommate asked.
“I killed her,” Patrick replied.
He gave the roommate Jessica’s purse and jewelry. He said he did not bring back Jessica’s leather coat because it had too much blood on it.
Patrick told the roommate that he and Jessica had driven to an area out in the country where people ride four-wheelers. Patrick and Jessica left his pickup truck on the road and walked towards an old house.
Jessica was walking in front of Patrick. He called her name, and when Jessica turned around, Patrick shot her twice in the head.
Patrick dragged the girl’s body to a mud hole and covered it with dirt, grass and branches.
Back at the apartment, Patrick sat in the kitchen as he talked and wouldn’t let the roommate leave the room. He showed the girl his .25 caliber pistol, with two bullets missing. She was terrified, believing she was next to die.
At 6 a.m., Patrick left. He said he had to take someone to work, as if nothing had happened.
Search for the body
Jessica’s roommate went directly to the police. Patrick Alexander was arrested the next day. He was charged with credit card fraud, but not murder, at least not yet. There was no body.
Police and volunteers searched the countryside, finding nothing.
A week later, from the Tarrant County jail, Patrick called a prison buddy. Patrick told the man where he’d left Jessica’s body, and because the searchers were getting too close, asked him to move it. Instead, the man gave a tape recording of the conversation to the police.
On January 31, 1992, 11 days after Jessica Witt had gone missing, police searched a wooded area around Marine Creek Lake in northwest Fort Worth. An officer noticed a pair of black boots protruding from a grassy pile.
Moving grass and sticks, the police discovered a body.
Jessica’s uncle was assisting in the search. He identified his niece’s body. Jessica had been shot in front of her left ear, and in the back of her head.
Mother learns of the crime
Joyce Alexander, Patrick’s mother, lived in Arkansas. A Dallas police sergeant called and told her that Patrick had been arrested and charged with the murder of young Jessica Witt.
“He talked to me like I was the killer,” Joyce says.
Joyce was horrified by the actions of her son, and heartbroken for the young girl’s family.
“I went into such a depression that I should have been hospitalized,” Joyce says. “I didn’t sleep for seven days. I lost 35 pounds in 14 days. I cried continuously like a gut shot dog.”
In the meantime, Patrick was calling Joyce on the phone from jail, saying none of it was true.
“I knew it was true,” Joyce says. “But I wanted to believe him.”
Hey Oxy
God bless you and your generousity and support to so many LFers. I am 2 years sociopath-free and really hardly come to LF – but couldn’t pass this chance to express my admiration for one gutsy and inspirational woman.
Delta 1
Oxy,
There are a couple of things people never fully recover from in life. One is rape, and most of us here have either been emotionally raped or raped by fraud, or both. The other is losing a child. They both change us, and our challenge is to learn to cope with those changes.
Often onlookers see the needed steps that must be taken to protect ourselves from a disordered child without the recognition that we are experiencing the loss of that child in an ongoing way, day after painful day. Regardless that we can’t live with them, it’s heartbreaking to live without them as well.
Every day is another day of that child creating deliberate pain. While we long to embrace the child who bounced on our knee or suckled from our breast, they have been overcome by a mantle of harmful intent that is heartbreaking to witness and endure. And it is aimed at us, the source of unconditional love that we can’t absolve ourselves of because it is, after all, truly unconditional.
The best we can hope for is to achieve peace with what we can’t change. Oxy, your words of advice have meant so much healing to so many people. And I hope you can take heart from that in your efforts to cope with the heartbreak your son causes.
I’ve been fortunate. Mine hasn’t tried to kill me. He has Borderline Personality Disorder and splits. It’s been over 5 years. When he was in my life, his cycles of chaos and malcontent were unpredictable and painful. His loss is painful. I’ve found peace in awareness. It sounds like you have as well.
If you need any further letters to the parole board, please let all of us here know.
Wishing you strength and peace.
Sincerely,
JmS
Thank you guys, you do not know the extent of my gratitude for the support (and letters) that have been sent.
Yes, vision, I remember and also remember our LF chorus line with rubber rain boots, yellow Tu Tus and so on…lots of Saturday night laughs!
JM, I feel your pain at the loss of a child, and Delores, I also understand the pain that you feel because your P daughter uses your grandkids as pawns in her attack on you. Accepting those things as truths is the biggest hurdle we must cross…we can NOT change things. We must ACCEPT them as they are, grieve over the loss of our fantasy (because really that is all it was, a fantasy that they would change) and move on with our lives. God bless you all.
As you say, the emotional death of one’s beloved child(ren) is one of the most difficult things to endure. To accept this reality means that all our love and care was eventually in vain yet we can hold our heads up in that we always loved them as no other could or would. For me, the experts all warned of the genetic factor when I left my ex in 1982, but I felt that with my knowledge, love and care, my children would be the exception. Only after they left my care, did symptoms gradually increase and dash all my hopes for their futures. May they find some solace in their parallel world of superiority.And I hope and pray that you remain safe and strong!
Oh Oxy…how I worry about you and your safety! I don’t have any faith at all in the US legal system and even though they must know what’s going on, they cannot be counted on for protection. And even if that were possible, just you having to be constantly aware of Hamilton and other unknown accomplises must be a nightmare for you, your other sons and grandma! NO ONE can predict when, where or what may trigger a psychopath’s misdeeds and that is the scary part. I’ve seen my own children work up their own tempers to the point of law-breaking and lock my doors and windows in order to follow expert’s and my attorney’s advice of NC. Perhaps this way, their rage will not be directed at me. PLEASE put your own safety above all else! And don’t rely on your other sons too much; they could so easily become accessories. My motto? Plan for the worst and hope for the best. I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers!
On top of all these issues that have already been mentioned, I especially feel for you , Oxdrover, in what must be a deep loss of innocence. On top of everything else, your disordered child has forced you to have to think like him, for your own safety and the safety of others. I have so much respect for you, going out there to protest his parole. As his mother, as well as the family of the victim, you have much influence.
Flicka, fortunately, my adoptive son has been my ROCK, and without him I would not have survived the first attack from hamilton, fortunately there is nothing in it for Hamilton now so i no longer fear him at all. And believe me, I DO put my safety first and foremost. Thank you very much for your concern.
I hope you are right and that the parole board doesn’t dare release him with both his own mother AND the victim’s family protesting. From your mouth (fingers LOL) to God’s ears.
THE VERDICT’S IN! PATRICK IS NOT GETTING OUT ON PAROLE THIS TIME!!!!HERE’S THE E MAIL I RECEIVED TODAY FROM THE VICTIM’S NOTIFICATION (VINE) A great big thanks to all my LoveFraud friends, especially Donna, for the support you have given me and the letters you wrote to protest Patrick’s parole. My attorney was very impressed that “letters from alll over the world” came streaming in to his office. Of course with the parole protest being totally SECRET there is no way Patrick can know who wrote or what they said. I appreciate all the support and the caring! Thanks again everyone~!! WE WON!!! TOWANDA
1/10/2014
RE: Offender ALEXANDER, WILLIAM, State ID# 04213984, TDCJ# 00655687
VINE No. (877) 894-8463
Your PIN: 13022002
On 1/9/2014, the Texas Board of Pardons and Paroles denied parole for this
offender and set the next review for 1/1/2017. You will be notified when
the case is placed in the review process, approximately four months prior
to the next review date.
Occasionally, the Board receives additional information that may return a
case to the review process earlier than the next review date. Should this
occur, you will be notified that the case has been placed in special review.
For automated offender information 24 hours a day in both English and
Spanish, you can call the toll free Victim Information and Notification
Everyday (VINE) number and enter your Personal Identification Number (PIN).
If requested, the automated service can also call you when the offender is
being processed for release from the Texas Department of Criminal Justice
Correctional Institutions Division. Please contact us for further
information or to request this notification feature.
Please feel free to call us toll free at (800) 848-4284 or direct at (512)
406-5900 with any questions or concerns you may have. We are available
Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. central standard time and
are eager to help in any way possible. If your address, e-mail address, or
phone numbers change, please let us know so that we may continue to keep
you updated and informed. All of your information will remain confidential.
This notification is sponsored by the Texas VINE service. Please do not
respond to the sender of this e-mail. If you would like to reply, submit
information, or ask questions, please forward your response to the Texas
Department of Criminal Justice Victim Services Division at
victim.svc@tdcj.state.tx.us.
Sincerely,
Angela McCown, Director
Victim Services Division
8712 Shoal Creek Blvd., Ste. 265
Austin, TX 78757-6899
Fax: (512) 452-0825
E-Mail: victim.svc@tdcj.state.tx.us
Website: http://www.tdcj.state.tx.us
Wow!!! Thank god! This is the best news I’ve heard all year. Congratulations, Oxy. What a relief!
Oxy – What wonderful news! You must feel so relieved! Congratulations!
Love
Donna
Yea, since I THOUGHT that they were legally required to have a result in by Dec 31, I was getting antsy. I contacted James Randal smith, my attorney and he said they TRY to get it by that date but that since the documents (pro and con) for Patrick’s parole were a two feet thick stack that it would take them longer.
Since he had apparently been a “good boy” for the last 3 years not getting into any serious trouble I figured he might get a 1 year set off if he didn’t get parole, but appaprently the board isn’t giving him any slack and they very well may have been “impressed” with the protest letters from ALL OVER THE WORLD AND THE US…I know my attorney was impressed with them, so you lovefraud friends who wrote a protest letter for me may have helped more than you can know.
The weather here is miserable, cold and rainy after cold and ice and I haven’t been out of the house in days or off the farm, but I am no longer suffering from “cabin fever” but am on top of the MOON! Doesn’t mean that he won’t try another Trojan Horse manuver between now and 2017, but I think I’ve got security under control with the video system, the police trained dog, (her bad hips haven’t give out yet) and a gun on every flat surface.
My attorney says he thinks we can keep him in for quite a while yet so I’m on top of the world right now. Thanks to everyone who helped me with their letters and prayers. God is good!
OxD, I’m SO grateful that the Parole Board demonstrated some common sense! WHAT A RELIEF for you!!!!
Brightest and most sincere blessings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oxy,
Thank God for this good news! I am so happy for you and Jessica’s family. The offender, Patrick, stays in prison a while longer.