A paper recently published in the Journal of Zoology says that great white sharks hunt in a highly focused fashion, just like serial killers.
According to a report on ScienceDaily.com, the researchers used geographic profiling—a criminal investigation tool used to find serial killers based on the locations of their crimes—to examine how the hunting patters of great white sharks off the coast of South Africa.
Sharks establish well-defined hunting bases in strategic locations. The researchers noticed that smaller sharks searched further, and had less success, than larger sharks. They surmised that great white sharks refined their search patterns with experience, and concentrated their hunting in locations with the highest probability of success.
For more information on the study, read Geographic profiling works: Great white sharks’ hunting skills as refined as Jack the Ripper’s.
Thank you, Kathleen.
The reason I am doing this is to protect my child and myself. As this man wants to have joint custody with me, I shudder to think of sharing anything with him, let alone a young child. And so you really nailed it there: I am going to be not fun and not easy and more trouble than he ever thought possible.
Dear PI,
Protecting your child and keeping him from getting joint (or any custody if you can) is a good objective.
If you have EVIDENCE that he VIOLATED THE LAW such as FORGED checks, or other criminal things, you very well could use them in a court hearing on custody…..I think, keep in mind that I am NOT an attorney.
Sometimes the P will try for custody etc for NO OTHER REASON THAN to just harass you. As far as child support goes, they of course will give you nothing but grief over ever dollar, so my suggestion is IF YOU CAN WORK IT, is to give them a complete pass on child support if they will give up visitation. Any money you do get, even if the court orders it, will have to be extracted like an impacted wisdom tooth.
I have to firmly agree with Kathy on her summary statement.
Turtles are not sexy to look at and that is a posture that works well against predators of all persuasions. Anything that that looks like flight or fight tends to elicit strong responses in aggressive predators. Do not open more channels than you can manage. The law of unintended consequences suggest that that one maintains a substantially lower number of games than you think you can manage. They will tend to operate in a parallel attack sequence while you will be responding in a serial mode. Exercise caution, lay future pitfalls, corral your enemy without their knowledge, and resist appearing reactive as much as at may seem like a solution to an immediate threat.
Dear DangerWR,
I think (on another thread) PI said that she IS going to go for criminal fraud prosedution….not sure if this is the CURRENT idea she has….
I AABSOLUTELY agree with your very WELL PUT statement about the turtle approach….keep in mind that some kinds of turtles can BITE LIKE hell even with their heads safely tucked inside their shells. Even given that though, the WAY, about the ONLY way to kill a snapping turtle is to get him to bite a stick and then pull his head out of his shell because he will NOT LET go, and then chop off his head because it is out of the shell.
I am still in favor of EXTREME CAUTION with anyone who is a psychopath. And God knows we can NOT depend on the law to protect us!
Oxy is right….we can never depend on the law to protect us……unfortunately, this is the case. It always scares me when I hear “this is a slam dunk case’…..run, if we ever hear that!
DangerWR is right on, as is Kathy.
Great advice folks.
Always exercise caution, control and patience as you deal with S’s.
Be clear on your ajenda and work in that direction only. Do not go after revenge, we do not need to. It comes back around. Revenge keeps us off balance.
And remember…..things ALWAYS work out the way they need to.
Do your due dilegence, point yourself in the right direction and document it ALL…..organize, present and stay in complete control of yourself. Your objective will be fulfilled…….
I have a live one of my own. Very dangerous, very cunning, I would describe them as a cross between a Venus Flytrap, a chameleon and a scorpion. As a word of caution to anyone who suspects or knows they have become involved with a P…
Do NOT under any circumstances confront them with your knowledge of their activities or intent. They will escalate into a much more dynamic state with the clear intent of doing you permanent and ongoing harm in whatever methodologies they have a strong suits. You will be providing them As much as you may feel a deep and profound sense of betrayal it is imperative that you resist any attempts at suddenly reconciling accounts emotionally, financially, or otherwise. I suggest a finding a secure location to gather your thoughts and begin formulating a strategy for decoupling them from your life. Do not assume that people that are your friends or relatives have not been compromised by their activities. Identify a social network beyond their influence to take refuge and establish a secure posture mentally, physically, and financially. You are in a battle for your life. Do not underestimate your enemy. At the same time do not frame your own status as a function of them. Develop a parallel vision of your life. As much as your discovery will present you with a harsh discontinuity in terms of your past, present and future, do not engage in trap door strategies without serious evaluation of their consequences.
Preview is your friend…
The missing sentence:
You will be providing them with a significant strategic advantages if you reveal your enlightened posture concerning their pernicious intent.
Danger WR:
WOW……you summarize it all in one paragraph…what an eloquent writer you are……straight to the point….all points!
Good going!!!
I spent six years tracking and analyzing global networks.
I’ll let your imagination fill in the blanks on what those networks were engaged in. Think, three numbers, two are the same, it ain’t directory services.
Love the “cross between a Venus Flytrap, a chameleon and a scorpion.” DEAD ON!
very wise advice