By | April 2, 2012 5 Comments

Red Flags of Love Fraud – 10 signs you’re dating a sociopath

I am so excited. I can finally start talking about my new book, Red Flags of Love Fraud—10 signs you’re dating a sociopath.

Who should read this book? Quite frankly, everyone.

If you’re wondering whether you’re in a relationship with a sociopath, this book tells you. If you know you are, or were, involved with a sociopath, this book tells you how you got sucked into the situation and why it’s so difficult to get out. If your friends and family can’t understand why you got trapped, give them this book. It explains everything. If you want to protect yourself, or someone you care about, from becoming involved with a sociopath, this book tells you how to stay safe.

Red Flags of Love Fraud explains, in concise, easy-to-understand language, what a sociopath is and how they go about targeting people for exploitation. It’s the book we all wish we had long ago, when we knew something was wrong with the person or the relationship, but couldn’t figure out what it was.

I asked an old friend, someone I hadn’t spoken to in many years, to proofread the book before publication. Well, it turned out that she had her own run-in with a sociopath. She said, “If I had read this book 10 years ago it would have changed my life. Literally.”

Contributions by you

Red Flags of Love Fraud includes the first and most comprehensive explanation ever published about how sociopaths behave in romantic relationships. How is this possible? Because thousands of Lovefraud readers—perhaps you—contributed their stories.

Lovefraud has conducted two surveys of our readers—one in 2010, and one last year. More than 1,300 people completed each survey. The data you provided is the foundation of the book. Your contributions made it possible for me to figure out the patterns of sociopathic behavior.

Plus, the surveys included narrative questions—opportunities for you to write whatever you wanted about your experience. I ended up with about 10,000 quotes—rich descriptions of exactly what you endured. I used hundreds of the quotes in the book to illustrate how sociopaths manipulate, deceive and exploit.

So thank you to everyone who participated in the Lovefraud surveys. Without you, this research could not have been done.

Now available in the Lovefraud Store

The official publication date in June 11, 2012. That’s when our major publicity efforts will begin. But you can buy the book now exclusively from

Please buy my book. It will help you understand the sociopathic relationship, so you can recover and move on. And your purchase will help me continue to provide the healing community that Lovefraud has become.

Red Flags of Love Fraud — 10 signs you’re dating a sociopath, is available now in the Lovefraud Store.

More information:

Chapter by chapter: What you’ll learn in Red Flags of Love Fraud

Excerpt Introduction

Excerpt Chapter 5: The Sociopathic Seduction


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Ox Drover

Yep!!!! GREAT BOOK! Buy two, one to give to a friend who is involved with someone who is waving red flags….she/he may not listen to YOU but they will listen to this book!



Is it available as an e-booK?


Can’t wait to read it! I think everyone should learn 2 things not taught in school, during the teen years: Law and civil law and how to spot and manage dealing with a con artist or manipulator. These books should be on every shelf in every high school!

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